Jacob
Appearances
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Awkward Tuesday: He Saw What He Saw
Oh, my God. I'm sorry. She said that she can't believe this. No, I'm sorry. I can't believe that you're actually engaged and you hid all of this from me.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Awkward Tuesday: He Saw What He Saw
My schedule next year is figuring out when she's on her honeymoon and burning up her apartment.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Awkward Tuesday: He Saw What He Saw
I think all nine innings are over.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Awkward Tuesday: He Saw What He Saw
Well, hey, you know what? Since we're friends legitimately, let's go out, spend the rest of the week drinking. I'm up for it.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Awkward Tuesday: He Saw What He Saw
Okay, so I've been seeing this woman. Her name is Shannon. for about half a year now. We didn't live together or anything, but I'd say it's been going pretty good for the most part.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Awkward Tuesday: He Saw What He Saw
Yeah, yeah. This one's about me.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Awkward Tuesday: He Saw What He Saw
Shannon and I will have nights where we hang out, we do stuff together, but then other nights we're apart, do things where we hang out with our friends, and I mean, it's healthy, you know?
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Awkward Tuesday: He Saw What He Saw
I mean, like I said, we're not living together. Schedules are not framed around one another.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Awkward Tuesday: He Saw What He Saw
One night she was out with her friends, whatever. I got a weird call around, like, 11 from a friend of mine, my friend Omar. And Omar was like, hey, are you home? Because I got to come over and tell you something. And he was, like, really kind of on edge about it.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Awkward Tuesday: He Saw What He Saw
that must be pretty serious if he's like demanding to go see you yeah no i knew it was important so i was like all right come over whatever he stops by he tells me that he saw shannon out at this place called crystal lounge sounds like a shady place she was with a guy and she was wearing an engagement ring
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Awkward Tuesday: He Saw What He Saw
And that's the thing. I was trying to defend Shannon. I was like, nah, you know, you're wrong. But he was pretty adamant. And that's why he had to tell me face to face. He saw what he saw.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Awkward Tuesday: He Saw What He Saw
So Omar said they were like physically close to each other, but he didn't see any overly romantic gestures happen. So I'm like, all right, it's probably just a friend and she's wearing some kind of fake engagement ring.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Awkward Tuesday: He Saw What He Saw
And I totally get that. And don't get me wrong, you guys, like I feel like I'm dating up. She is very attractive. So I see her the next day. And I bring it up thinking it's going to be, you know, like 30-second conversation. She's going to laugh. She's going to, you know. But she was like, I don't want to talk about that.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Awkward Tuesday: He Saw What He Saw
I try to bring it up a few more times. And then Shannon got upset and she stormed out.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Awkward Tuesday: He Saw What He Saw
But that's the thing. I wanted to give her like the medicine of the doubt and I wasn't trying to be aggressive about it or like accusing her, right? And now she's not answering my calls. This was just the other night, just this week. And so I need advice. I need advice on how to handle it.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Awkward Tuesday: He Saw What He Saw
Well, yeah. I really am still holding out hope for it to just be something that she's, like, embarrassed about, doesn't know how to bring it up.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Awkward Tuesday: He Saw What He Saw
All right, Brooke, can I get advice on how to handle this?
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Awkward Tuesday: He Saw What He Saw
This has been pretty hopeless so far.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Awkward Tuesday: He Saw What He Saw
Don't get me wrong, you guys. If this doesn't go my way, I am fully welcome to judge.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Awkward Tuesday: He Saw What He Saw
No, we need to talk right now. What do you mean not feel like talking right now? That's not fair.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Awkward Tuesday: He Saw What He Saw
Well, I don't. How do you think I should feel about it? Like, I want to get this over with. I want to hash this out and move on.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Awkward Tuesday: He Saw What He Saw
No, okay, sorry. Am I not supposed to be upset when my buddy comes to me saying that you have an engagement ring on and you're hanging with some other guy? Like, what is that?
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Awkward Tuesday: He Saw What He Saw
No, I'm sorry. I'm serious. All right. I deserve an explanation here. Like, it's my understanding. We've been together for six months now. Like, we're boyfriend and girlfriend. And my understanding, we're not seeing other people. So am I wrong here?
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Awkward Tuesday: He Saw What He Saw
Yeah, it's a little late for that. You just need to tell me whatever the truth is, okay? I can handle it.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Awkward Tuesday: He Saw What He Saw
Well, can you try? Can you try for me here? Please, Shannon.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Awkward Tuesday: He Saw What He Saw
What does this have to do with us?
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Awkward Tuesday: He Saw What He Saw
So, what? What does that even mean?
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Awkward Tuesday: He Saw What He Saw
Oh, my God. So, so, so, wait, sorry. You're actually, you're really engaged? I thought, I really thought there'd be some other reason to it.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Awkward Tuesday: He Saw What He Saw
Okay. Yeah. You weren't answering my calls, and I didn't know how to address this with you. I've been trying, and so I called the radio station to help me get a hold of you.
The Matt Walsh Show
Ep. 1529 - Democrats PANIC After Their Horrifying Money Laundering Scheme Was Revealed
I want to speak directly to people who are undocumented. We love you. We care about you. In the city of Minneapolis, we will stand up for you, and we will do anything in our power to help. Because you're not an alien in our city, you're a neighbor. Now, in Minneapolis, we have what is called a separation ordinance.
The Matt Walsh Show
Ep. 1529 - Democrats PANIC After Their Horrifying Money Laundering Scheme Was Revealed
And that separation ordinance states clearly that our city officials, our police officers and beyond will not be gathering information showing who is and who is not documented. We do not ask the question with regard to immigration status and because we haven't asked the question, we don't have any data to show documentation status in our city.
The Matt Walsh Show
Ep. 1529 - Democrats PANIC After Their Horrifying Money Laundering Scheme Was Revealed
Our police officers will not be cooperating with federal law enforcement around federal immigration law. We enforce state and local laws here in Minneapolis, and we will do so to the best of our ability. But as for cooperation with ICE, the answer is no.
The Matt Walsh Show
Matt Walsh's "Am I Racist?" THE GAME! (Uncut Edition)
Well, Matt, when I went and visited Princeton, there were a lot of Asian Americans, and Princeton is highly renowned for being a good school, so I'm gonna say that is also right.
The Matt Walsh Show
Matt Walsh's "Am I Racist?" THE GAME! (Uncut Edition)
It just feels... Turns out you're right.
The Matt Walsh Show
Matt Walsh's "Am I Racist?" THE GAME! (Uncut Edition)
I'm going to go with that is right.
The Matt Walsh Show
Matt Walsh's "Am I Racist?" THE GAME! (Uncut Edition)
I'm going to say sure, yeah. Let's go with right.
The Matt Walsh Show
Matt Walsh's "Am I Racist?" THE GAME! (Uncut Edition)
I want to say that's racist.
The Matt Walsh Show
Matt Walsh's "Am I Racist?" THE GAME! (Uncut Edition)
Hate to say it. Sorry, Mom. I think that's right.
The Matt Walsh Show
Matt Walsh's "Am I Racist?" THE GAME! (Uncut Edition)
It's not just a drinking holiday.
The Matt Walsh Show
Matt Walsh's "Am I Racist?" THE GAME! (Uncut Edition)
What was the number again, please?
The Matt Walsh Show
Matt Walsh's "Am I Racist?" THE GAME! (Uncut Edition)
They just consume the most?
The Matt Walsh Show
Matt Walsh's "Am I Racist?" THE GAME! (Uncut Edition)
That's bad. I kind of want to say right, just because stereotypes are generally rooted in some type of truth. Of course you want to say right.
The Matt Walsh Show
Matt Walsh's "Am I Racist?" THE GAME! (Uncut Edition)
Matt, I'm going to have to say that is right. And I watched the show Narcos, and that was... We don't need the whole story.
The Matt Walsh Show
Matt Walsh's "Am I Racist?" THE GAME! (Uncut Edition)
I might say that's right, just culturally.
The Matt Walsh Show
Matt Walsh's "Am I Racist?" THE GAME! (Uncut Edition)
Well, Matt, I am also Irish, and I want to proudly say that's right.
The Matt Walsh Show
Matt Walsh's "Am I Racist?" THE GAME! (Uncut Edition)
Good try, guys. Good try. Okay.
The Ramsey Show
The Hardest Decisions Are Often About Money & Relationships
She got a job in marketing and I'm in the end stages of my background investigation with a local police department in the area. Um, we are on track with the baby steps, doing all this stuff, and she's having a really hard time at her job and her boss is being a real jerk. And I don't know my place as her husband, where, where it crosses the line.
The Ramsey Show
The Hardest Decisions Are Often About Money & Relationships
Uh, for me to step in and speak to him, um, a little bit of background. So you guys know what I'm talking about? Um, he is a very stubborn guy. Um, she's running a business for him where he's trying to market this new product and essentially start up a business. And he put a lot of trust in her from the beginning to hire a team and be that person for his business. And he put it in her hands.
The Ramsey Show
The Hardest Decisions Are Often About Money & Relationships
And he's been super indecisive this whole time and shortening the deadline of launch to now six weeks where it's supposed to take nine months. And she's got her hands up in the air like, what do I do? Do you trust your wife, Jacob? I trust my wife so much.
The Ramsey Show
The Hardest Decisions Are Often About Money & Relationships
That's what I'm thinking.
The Ramsey Show
The Hardest Decisions Are Often About Money & Relationships
Right. That's what I think. That's what I just don't know the boundary because when he starts speaking to my wife in a way that is extremely dishonoring in front of her. She gets up and walks out the door. Exactly. Okay. That's what I was thinking.
The Ramsey Show
The Hardest Decisions Are Often About Money & Relationships
Well, we're in a little bit of a place where we need the money right now, so we're in a position where we hate it, where it's like, babe, I can't just have you walk out right now, which is what I want to be able to do.
The Ramsey Show
The Hardest Decisions Are Often About Money & Relationships
I think the smart choice is finding another job before she leaves because we've had little to no income since we've been in Dallas.
The Ramsey Show
The Hardest Decisions Are Often About Money & Relationships
I want to in the fact that that's my wife, but I know that's not the smart choice. I'm not going to do that.
The Ramsey Show
The Hardest Decisions Are Often About Money & Relationships
Around, she takes around $4,000 a month. Okay.
The Ramsey Show
The Hardest Decisions Are Often About Money & Relationships
Sure. We've had a long journey trying to find a job, though. She's had a lot of interviews, and people just don't want to hire for some reason. So this is the first job that she's actually gotten hired since she's been looking.
The Ramsey Show
The Hardest Decisions Are Often About Money & Relationships
Understood. That's the thing you've got to— Right. The other kicker is in a month I'm going to be on the police department's payroll. So it's like, okay, we only have one month to, to pledge this, you know? So what's the, I don't know. Cause I keep telling her, I don't want to overstep. You have your thing to do with your boss, but also this award.
The Ramsey Show
The Hardest Decisions Are Often About Money & Relationships
And is she not talking about quitting? She loves her job and the team that she works with. She just can't get anything done when she's at work because her boss is a jerk. He doesn't trust her to do the job that he hired her to do.
The Ramsey Show
The Hardest Decisions Are Often About Money & Relationships
Yeah, but I'm just sitting here listening to her talk and I'm like. Okay, so maybe that's the boundary, right?
The Ramsey Show
The Hardest Decisions Are Often About Money & Relationships
Hey, can you guys hear me?
The Ramsey Show
The Hardest Decisions Are Often About Money & Relationships
Awesome. Love your guys' show. John, absolutely love your show. Been a long-time listener.
The Ramsey Show
The Hardest Decisions Are Often About Money & Relationships
What's up? Yeah, so got a two-part question for you. This might not be as much of a money question as it is a relational question, so do with it what you will. My wife and I moved to Dallas around five months ago, and it's been super rough since we got here. We're finally getting our feet underneath us. Uh, we both got jobs.
The Ramsey Show
You Need To “Happen” to Your Life Instead if It Happening to You
and kind of doing odd jobs while I finished kind of building out the land. Okay, when was the last time?
The Ramsey Show
You Need To “Happen” to Your Life Instead if It Happening to You
Hey, how are you guys doing? Good. How are you, Jacob? I'm doing okay, I guess.
The Ramsey Show
You Need To “Happen” to Your Life Instead if It Happening to You
Oh, no, $1,200 is just survival.
The Ramsey Show
You Need To “Happen” to Your Life Instead if It Happening to You
So I owe $29 on a truck. which has been attacked by a peacock. So a resale would be difficult. For real? What does that look like? For real, I'm not kidding.
The Ramsey Show
You Need To “Happen” to Your Life Instead if It Happening to You
Yeah, peacocks can really, really take down the resale value of a truck. It's incredible. They got a strong beak, I guess.
The Ramsey Show
You Need To “Happen” to Your Life Instead if It Happening to You
And then when it's shiny, they see the reflection in the truck and they attack their reflection.