Harvey

So my question is, how do I manage and balance my life with a well-paying job and then my personal life and being a husband?

So my question is, how do I manage and balance my life with a well-paying job and then my personal life and being a husband?

So my question is, how do I manage and balance my life with a well-paying job and then my personal life and being a husband?

So I've been working in the construction industry for a long time. Here in Nashville? Yeah. Yeah.

So I've been working in the construction industry for a long time. Here in Nashville? Yeah. Yeah.

So I've been working in the construction industry for a long time. Here in Nashville? Yeah. Yeah.

Oh, tell me about it. It's been insane. Okay. And so I've kind of climbed the ladder and I've gotten to a position where I feel financially sound, but I'm starting to feel like I'm spending too much time, too much energy where I'm missing out on the rest of life. I recently got married. She moved in. We're trying to do the whole thing.

Oh, tell me about it. It's been insane. Okay. And so I've kind of climbed the ladder and I've gotten to a position where I feel financially sound, but I'm starting to feel like I'm spending too much time, too much energy where I'm missing out on the rest of life. I recently got married. She moved in. We're trying to do the whole thing.

Oh, tell me about it. It's been insane. Okay. And so I've kind of climbed the ladder and I've gotten to a position where I feel financially sound, but I'm starting to feel like I'm spending too much time, too much energy where I'm missing out on the rest of life. I recently got married. She moved in. We're trying to do the whole thing.

And then like from a Christian standpoint, I'm trying to understand like, when do I keep staying in the battle? And then when do I start looking for something new?

And then like from a Christian standpoint, I'm trying to understand like, when do I keep staying in the battle? And then when do I start looking for something new?

And then like from a Christian standpoint, I'm trying to understand like, when do I keep staying in the battle? And then when do I start looking for something new?

No, so I work more on the front end now. So I work with developers and building deals and writing contracts. So I feel like

No, so I work more on the front end now. So I work with developers and building deals and writing contracts. So I feel like

No, so I work more on the front end now. So I work with developers and building deals and writing contracts. So I feel like

overwhelmed at times where I'm you know helping manage hundreds of millions of dollars and I go home and I'm thinking about it and I on the weekend I can't decompress because I'm imagining what's going to happen during the rest of the week and the amount of money that like my signature holds right now like it just it feels like I am suffocating myself when have you screwed something up bad Harvey

overwhelmed at times where I'm you know helping manage hundreds of millions of dollars and I go home and I'm thinking about it and I on the weekend I can't decompress because I'm imagining what's going to happen during the rest of the week and the amount of money that like my signature holds right now like it just it feels like I am suffocating myself when have you screwed something up bad Harvey

overwhelmed at times where I'm you know helping manage hundreds of millions of dollars and I go home and I'm thinking about it and I on the weekend I can't decompress because I'm imagining what's going to happen during the rest of the week and the amount of money that like my signature holds right now like it just it feels like I am suffocating myself when have you screwed something up bad Harvey

I haven't yet.

I haven't yet.

I haven't yet.

Not that I can think of.

Not that I can think of.

Not that I can think of.

Partially, yeah. I'm the oldest of four, so I was responsible for being the leader to my brothers and sister.

Partially, yeah. I'm the oldest of four, so I was responsible for being the leader to my brothers and sister.

Partially, yeah. I'm the oldest of four, so I was responsible for being the leader to my brothers and sister.

Yeah.

Yeah.

Yeah.

Uh, yeah, probably.

Uh, yeah, probably.

Uh, yeah, probably.

Yes.

Yes.

Yes.

Oh, yeah. If I have that conversation with my wife, I'm like, man, I am sleeping like five hours a day, maybe. And I am understanding what this is going to be for the rest of my life.

Oh, yeah. If I have that conversation with my wife, I'm like, man, I am sleeping like five hours a day, maybe. And I am understanding what this is going to be for the rest of my life.

Oh, yeah. If I have that conversation with my wife, I'm like, man, I am sleeping like five hours a day, maybe. And I am understanding what this is going to be for the rest of my life.

Um, I would say, you know, with the work thing, yes. I've really tried to dive into church groups and like, I have a group tonight and a group Wednesday with just men that get together and we do talk about it. But hold on.

Um, I would say, you know, with the work thing, yes. I've really tried to dive into church groups and like, I have a group tonight and a group Wednesday with just men that get together and we do talk about it. But hold on.

Um, I would say, you know, with the work thing, yes. I've really tried to dive into church groups and like, I have a group tonight and a group Wednesday with just men that get together and we do talk about it. But hold on.

Yeah. I think, so I would, I would say that I do have the opportunity to meet with men that were pretty honest and we, we dropped some pretty heavy stuff together. Good. Um, I think what I struggle with now too is like, man, I'm, trying to talk to these people about, or laying it all on the table. Like I'm scared. I don't know if this is something that I can handle.

Yeah. I think, so I would, I would say that I do have the opportunity to meet with men that were pretty honest and we, we dropped some pretty heavy stuff together. Good. Um, I think what I struggle with now too is like, man, I'm, trying to talk to these people about, or laying it all on the table. Like I'm scared. I don't know if this is something that I can handle.

Yeah. I think, so I would, I would say that I do have the opportunity to meet with men that were pretty honest and we, we dropped some pretty heavy stuff together. Good. Um, I think what I struggle with now too is like, man, I'm, trying to talk to these people about, or laying it all on the table. Like I'm scared. I don't know if this is something that I can handle.

I don't know if this is something that I can do forever. And I'm hoping that the feeling goes away, but it hasn't.

I don't know if this is something that I can do forever. And I'm hoping that the feeling goes away, but it hasn't.

I don't know if this is something that I can do forever. And I'm hoping that the feeling goes away, but it hasn't.

That's probably definitely part of it.

That's probably definitely part of it.

That's probably definitely part of it.

I think that's definitely where I'm struggling right now. I haven't even thought of it that way, but up until this point in my career, I haven't had one of those detrimental things happen yet. And so I'm trying to be a good steward to a company that trusts me, and I don't want to screw up. So I think that is part of what's burying me.

I think that's definitely where I'm struggling right now. I haven't even thought of it that way, but up until this point in my career, I haven't had one of those detrimental things happen yet. And so I'm trying to be a good steward to a company that trusts me, and I don't want to screw up. So I think that is part of what's burying me.

I think that's definitely where I'm struggling right now. I haven't even thought of it that way, but up until this point in my career, I haven't had one of those detrimental things happen yet. And so I'm trying to be a good steward to a company that trusts me, and I don't want to screw up. So I think that is part of what's burying me.

Um, I can't afford to do it today.

Um, I can't afford to do it today.

Um, I can't afford to do it today.

Yeah. That's definitely, that's definitely what keeps me up.

Yeah. That's definitely, that's definitely what keeps me up.

Yeah. That's definitely, that's definitely what keeps me up.