Fletcher
Appearances
The Dr. John Delony Show
I’m Tired of Supporting My Husband and His Daughter
So from the time I was maybe 13 to 18 or 19, I struggled with porn about like most guys do, I guess, and was able to get on top of that. And fast forward till now, I'm 23. And my girlfriend and I, of three years, I'm wanting to get engaged to her by the end of the year and get married next year. Awesome. And I've had a couple times of struggling with that again in the relationship.
The Dr. John Delony Show
I’m Tired of Supporting My Husband and His Daughter
And I've been super transparent and honest with her about all that. And we talk about everything. And she tends to be more of the,
The Dr. John Delony Show
I’m Tired of Supporting My Husband and His Daughter
insecure person anyway and that's not made her feel super safe and uh you know i just want to make sure that everything is as it should be as we go into a marriage and we're not gonna i don't want to bring any issues into the marriage does that make sense oh you're gonna bring plenty dude you'll bring tons of issues most of which you don't even know about yet and she will too
The Dr. John Delony Show
I’m Tired of Supporting My Husband and His Daughter
I just, I just don't want to bring that particular issue. I mean, I know we're gonna keep growing up and everything, but I just, I can't afford to make her feel like that. I don't want her to settle for, for, uh, for someone who would still deal with that, you know, which I don't feel like I do, but, um, I just want her to feel safe and heal that trust that's been damaged before.
The Dr. John Delony Show
I’m Tired of Supporting My Husband and His Daughter
No, she's all on board. We're both on the same page. But just looking back on those times, I don't know really. Really hurt her, you know. And I just don't want to do that again.
The Dr. John Delony Show
I’m Tired of Supporting My Husband and His Daughter
Yeah, she's been nothing but what she should be. She's been nothing but loving and supportive. Okay, so why do you hate Fletcher? I think when I was younger, like you're saying, there wasn't a lot of talking about all that with parents and everything, and definitely didn't feel like guys were dealing with that anyway. Here's the thing.