Elise
Appearances
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
But wasn't this event, like, dressy and classy, too? Well, we had wigs on at the event. But how did y'all, like, get on the ground?
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
They were so drunk, y'all. And I was standing on the side of the stage. And my arms were crossed. She was. And I was shaking my head, like... A disappointed mother.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
I was like, remember, I was like, oh. She was like, we're not doing this. I was like, moving forward. I was like, remember, I was like, two shots, that's it. Like, give me the bottom. Yeah. Give me the bottom. No, because watching the footage, it was just so cringy.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
The bed. Oh, my God. And y'all was just, like, all over the place. I was like, what is going on? They was in, like, the... It was bad.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
Dre was like, Taz, come up here, friend. Taz played that game. And I'm like, why are y'all choosing y'all friends to play the game? Like, what is... We got in trouble. Yeah, I was there.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
No, no, I agree. Like, for my house, when you come in. Yeah, your house is very tidy.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
And you know what I mean? Like, I can't go to sleep with dishes in my sink.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
So, like... Oh, you want to... Okay, so this is my thing.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
How y'all feel? I can't. I actually... I'm going to say... I can't. I'm not going to judge because, again, you don't know people's situation. They might have lost their job and they need to go back home. Or they might be living at home because they're stacking their money to buy a house.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
Like, oh, why pay this rent for an apartment for this long, you know, for a year when I can stay at home and stack my money and get a house. So I'm not going to judge, you know. But, again, like Lynn said, I probably can't take you. Again, I don't know.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
Yes, period. Okay, Elyse, give us a little background. I'm Elyse, and funny enough, I used to produce for the girls. So, actually, Ryan, which we all know y'all love Ryan. I do love Ryan. Me and Ryan worked together. We both were working and producing the... What was it? Hip Hop Awards that 85 South hosted.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
Um, it's a no for me. I know what you like. She said no.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
I knew she was going to say no. The crazy part is last night I literally was having this conversation with my homeboy. It was him and another friend. And he had went and got a manicure. He always goes and he had clear gel on it. And me and her both was like, why do you have clear gel? Like, I'm like, you just get a buff. Yeah. That buff shiny. But like, I don't even want you to have clear gel.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
I like it. Yours can't be shinier than mine. You do? Nah, I like the clear gel. Yours can't look better than mine. Like, you know, what if I need like.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
And then to be growing out, like, you know. We both got to go to nail salons together. Exactly, because you can't, like, now you got this girl.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
Especially a pedicure. There's nothing wrong with a manicure or a pedicure. You be in bed and your feet be all hard.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
Then now we getting yeast infections, you know, like, and all that because of your dirty nails. I'm telling you. I don't like that.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
And so he hit me up one night and was like... It was random too, though, because he texted me at like 2 in the morning. And I was just like, hey. And he was just like... can we talk tomorrow? I'm like, sure. Did you think he was trying to take you on a date? I didn't know what he was trying to do because we didn't talk like that. I just knew him from doing 85 and some BET shows together.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
So he was like, we talked the next day. He was like, so I have these girls, two dope girls. I would love for you to meet them. They're looking... For a female producer. So he was like, come on down. So I came down. We all went to Super Rica after watching you guys. Because we just wanted to see, like, did we vibe? Like, what was it? And we just, like, hit it off. And history says this.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
I wouldn't even say nothing. I'm saying something.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
If you want to be the facial? I mean, if you want to get a facial, that's fine. But...
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
No, for real. No, I do not. But, I mean, like, I just... I'm going to look at you a little. She don't like when a nigga wake up and brush his teeth. Oh, my God. Did you just floss? Do you have a water peak? Disgusting. Absolutely not. No, but I don't know, like... Yeah, I don't know. You can't have more routines than me. Okay. And so I am judging if you have more routines. Yeah.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
Or doing it more frequent than I'm doing and stuff, then yeah, I'm... That's interesting. I'm judging.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
And then people be like, so y'all had a conversation no we don't need to no Alicia needs some words of affirmation bitch and I've had like several situationships too like you know god damn but you know what's crazy I get it though because I've been in that situation before because honestly I feel like the last guy you've been dealing with that was your boyfriend
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
Yeah, I agree with Lauren. I like both of them. You know, like, you know, I could do something the day before with my girls and then Valentine's with my man or daytime with the girls, nighttime with my man. Ooh, that's a good one. Yeah. You know, like, we could do me and the girls go to brunch and then me and my man... Dinner. Mm-hmm. Dessert. Mm. I know that's right. Why she said dessert? Right.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
All y'all just remember this so she don't have no one Valentine's Day. Is she trying to call us? Don't answer y'all.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
I'm about that life 365 days. I know. I know that's right. So, that day, like, what? Me wear something red. Yeah. Lingerie. But no, that's... That's regular? I'll be butt naked. I don't got to. Y'all do. Okay, but I think it just really depends because I learned that, that like some men want lingerie. They like to take it off. Yeah, and I was like, but you're just going to take it off.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
And they were like, but still, just to see you in it and then me take it off. So like... You can get some... Lingerie has become... I'll put a muumuu on. A muumuu?
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
Because there's some girls who freaky all the time. Maybe, like, something, like, that might be on, like, his fantasy list. Okay, that's a good idea.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
Wait, so I have a question. Talking about the sex store. Have any of y'all got that, like, vibrator that, like, goes in you and then, like, he controls it on his phone? Oh, yeah. Oh, I had that. Have y'all ever tried that? Yeah. I would like to.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
All right, at least what you been listening to? So, my bop of the week is Sailor, Will You Lie. Ooh. That's a good one. That is, like, on replay. Okay. On replay.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
We just be singing it and we don't even know what it means.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
That's what I was about to say with me. I feel like I give good advice, but it's like, damn, why can't I give myself that advice? Why can't I listen to what I'm saying? And sometimes when I tell my friends, I'll be like, I know I'm telling you this and I know I don't do it. Right.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
Well, of course, that's why I came on, because I really believed in you guys. And you know me, like, I'm not going to do any job that I don't believe or have passion in. So I knew, like, from when I first met y'all, like. Oh, yeah, they have something.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
And I just think, like... You're on vacation. So you have, like, we all go on vacation even together, and, like, we still going to FaceTime our man, you know, like, hey, like, you know. We still going to, like, talk. So, like, it's not like he's gone for a month for work. Right.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
And he's, like, so busy that he, you know, and the time difference, and he might not be able to call you, but he's on vacation. Yeah. And you ain't hit me up not one time? Hmm. And then you're not answering. Why is it taking you so long to respond?
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
They're going places, like, you know. And so I would love to, like, see, be part of your guys' journey, you know. But whoever thought we would be friends, you know. But also just when I first came on and, you know, y'all was in that little space with the red and black. With the roaches? Oh, my. Oh, my God. It's a record. Don't bring that up no more.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
And when, what did she say? Should she cut it off while he's on vacation? I would just... I mean, there's no point in... There's nothing to cut off.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
There's nothing to cut off. I'm not talking to you, really, so I would just... I would leave him on read the next time he hits you.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
And I'm just that, though, too. Like you said, like both of y'all said, basically, like... If he really likes you, he would be concerned of what you're doing back at home. Like, since he ain't seeing you, like, oh, let me make sure she ain't dibbling and dabbling. Right.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
Then when? to the regular, I said, oh, she is. Did you really post it?
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
And, like, I came in there, and I was like, where am I supposed to set my stuff? Oh, I was so embarrassed.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
He was highly upset about it. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Even though it was in my close friends. And I'm like... you're in here I know you're in here to see it and it wasn't even it wasn't anything bad it was something that someone else said to me in my DMs yeah and I reposted it like he's corny like corny like yeah yeah and he just didn't like what was he didn't like the vlog yeah and like after that
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
I took him out of my close friends, but he also muted my stories. So he don't even look at my stories no more after that. You know how bad that pisses me off?
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
Oh, my God. So just even then from there, you know, the set changed there, and it was the white. You had a sheet.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
They be looking. They want to see. But some niggas don't care. They ain't hiding. They looking. But I feel like right now he's standing on business by really keeping me mute and not letting me see that he's looking from his page. I'm like, hmm. So now... I'll just say, but now I try not to look at his. Y'all try out these. Yeah, because I'm looking. Oh, I'm looking. I'm looking. I'm looking.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
You all see me. And then I get mad that I'll, like, get it. I'll get it. And I'll be like, fuck. Like, let me.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
Woo-hoo, it got real classy. Yeah, you know. A little upgrade. And then now to see the set here. But even just y'all, too, like, just, like, just, it's grown in so many different ways. Just even there, just think, like, when y'all first came on, y'all was wearing, like, T-shirts. We were. Like, and sweatsuits.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
Run away, love. She go through it. I feel like, yeah, you're married. Like, why do you care about any other man besides your husband? That's first. Yeah. You know? So are you really happy? But also, on the other hand, guys, I don't think there's nothing wrong with the friend going and talking to him. I didn't either, bitch. I was waiting for somebody to say it. I didn't either. I'm like, so what?
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
Like, and again, if they are happy now, like, they're grown now. They're in their 30s. People change and everything, you know? So if they were able to find love with each other, you should be happy for your friend and be like, you know what? I'm happily married. If this makes you happy, like, Go for it.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
But didn't the friend fuck with them first? Yes. They dated first. That's what she said.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
But they never had sex. That was her boyfriend first. So that's why I feel like the friend also felt like it's okay.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
You shouldn't have threw her paper, bitch. And that's why I feel like the friend also felt like it was okay to tell her because it was like, I didn't trip. No, no, I didn't trip. What kind of small-ass town is this?
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
She wasn't necessarily... Hey, I had him first.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
The first one, they were in a relationship. She... They weren't. They were fucking, but were never in a relationship. They were fucking and were never in a relationship.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
It doesn't matter. We have title. And now they're back in a relationship. So I'm dating my ex. Again. I'm dating my ex.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
Now he gonna write in and be like... Right out, right out. Lex P, I'm that man. I wanna see what he looks like too. Right. Okay, so... Y'all need to ask Can she send us a picture?
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
Find the face. Yeah, search their face. Yeah, you can search somebody's face. She said no. Why is she over there flicking her lips?
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
I mean, called up, y'all. Everybody was like... You ain't going to share none with me? I didn't want nothing to eat because there was none left to eat.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
We had fun. That's why we're saying this is... Lauren has been very conservative today. Because the first time I met Lauren was the Houston show and she was drunk. Yeah.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
Yeah, no, I'm about to. I have NAACP Image Awards. It's live February 22nd. And so, like, yeah, that's all I'm really working on. Oh, what about your show? Oh, yeah. I just did a home renovation show that's going to be on BET Her. And that dropped February 26th. So it's acute home renovation. You know, we went to four homes and, you know, changed a room, you know.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
But they all have stories that go along with why we chose them. Okay.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
That's me, I'm always going to go hard for my friends. Like I'm always like going to look out for my friends and make sure like if you my friend, we rolling. Yeah.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
I mean, I always say this. I thought when I first met Dre, I was like, oh, she's bougie and we are not going to get along. Not that I'm not bougie either, but I just felt like me and her are going to bump heads. And then Lex, I'm like, okay, she likes to have a good time. So I felt like Dre was more the quiet one and Lex was more of the outspoken one.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
Absolutely. And that's what I learned. Like, after we started, we would, like, tape and then we'd be like, oh, okay, let's go get, we used to have a weekly me and Dre dinner. Yeah. We'd be like, look, you come and she'd be like, no, I'm going home.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
I'm like, what? I'm going home. I'm like, okay. So it's total, actually, the opposite.