Dylan
Appearances
The Dr. John Delony Show
Our Nanny’s Husband Hit on My Wife
So my question for you is, how do I work on myself without jeopardizing my wife and my kids?
The Dr. John Delony Show
Our Nanny’s Husband Hit on My Wife
So I am currently going to therapy and trying to work on some issues. And I've recently quit drinking and trying to work on being more present and being a better husband and father. But I just worry that going through this and all the anxiety with that, I still find myself not being the nicest version of myself. And I don't know how to work on that without...
The Dr. John Delony Show
Our Nanny’s Husband Hit on My Wife
It helped with something that early. Turn down the volume on everything. Just kind of making everything a little more manageable. Okay.
The Dr. John Delony Show
Our Nanny’s Husband Hit on My Wife
Um, my childhood, I had kind of a, a silent, uh, hell.
The Dr. John Delony Show
Our Nanny’s Husband Hit on My Wife
I went to work in the oil field, uh, pretty much right out of high school. I did a little bit of college, but didn't, uh, didn't really get anywhere with that. And, uh, I've had a steady job at the same place for most of my life, actually. About 16 years of those 20, I've been at the same place. Been riding the roller coaster?
The Dr. John Delony Show
Our Nanny’s Husband Hit on My Wife
We've been married 10 years. She truly is the love of my life. We are in it for the long haul. She is my ride or die. That's awesome. And vice versa. Very cool. Why did you decide to quit drinking? I just... I didn't want to model that life for my boys. I didn't want them to, to grow up drinking and thinking that that's the way to, to solve your problems.
The Dr. John Delony Show
Our Nanny’s Husband Hit on My Wife
Um, it got to the point where in the past I've kind of like self detonated everything and I've got too much now to, to just, um, blow everything up and walk away. Paint me a picture of self detonating. Um, in the past I've quit my job, um, just folded into myself and just kind of disappeared. Okay. Do you disappear in a bottle? Um, not all the time.
The Dr. John Delony Show
Our Nanny’s Husband Hit on My Wife
I just would isolate and just kind of really just go inward. Okay. So what's a, what's a counselor doing for you? Not a whole lot at the moment, just a whole lot of sitting and talking and not really a whole lot practical. What do you hope to get from seeing a counselor? To be able to go through life without just feeling like I'm holding on to an electric fence all the time. Okay.
The Dr. John Delony Show
Our Nanny’s Husband Hit on My Wife
That sounds like you want peace inside your chest.
The Dr. John Delony Show
Our Nanny’s Husband Hit on My Wife
I was sexually abused for about seven years.
The Dr. John Delony Show
Our Nanny’s Husband Hit on My Wife
He went off to the military, and he finally left me alone. Okay.
The Dr. John Delony Show
Our Nanny’s Husband Hit on My Wife
Oh, yeah. The crazy busy and the Absolute nothing.
The Dr. John Delony Show
Our Nanny’s Husband Hit on My Wife
I've asked for that because I've been listening. Okay. And it was blown off. I said, I want to know where we're at, where we're going, and I want to be doing something. And it just fell by the wayside.
The Dr. John Delony Show
Our Nanny’s Husband Hit on My Wife
One of my questions is, how do I handle sobriety on a trip? I'm trying to reconnect and trying to be a better husband. And so I'm, I'm, we, I booked a trip for us to go out of town for Valentine's. Yes. Okay. And I don't know how to fit sobriety into that because so much of our, of my life was getting to that point. I wasn't a day drinker.
The Dr. John Delony Show
Our Nanny’s Husband Hit on My Wife
I would wait till the evenings, but it was still a problem. I was, I mean, I'm not any better than anybody else, but I, on vacation, used to tend to let go a little more to have fun, and I don't know how to balance that. And I don't know if there are good meetings in Nashville because that's where we're headed. So I don't know what to do.
The Ramsey Show
The Hardest Decisions Are Often About Money & Relationships
Hey, I just had a quick question for you both. I'm assuming, John, you'll be able to answer this a little better, but you might. Hey, I'm just kidding. Way smarter than me. Well, see how it goes. So it would seem that my mom is boycotting my rehearsal and my rehearsal dinner because I changed a small plan.
The Ramsey Show
The Hardest Decisions Are Often About Money & Relationships
So I'll run it quick. So, you know, back months ago when we gave them the opportunity to kind of plan the dinner, It's not what we wanted originally. We told them, you know, we just wanted to have pizza and go back to the Airbnb and just have a good time with the bridal party.
The Ramsey Show
The Hardest Decisions Are Often About Money & Relationships
Well, my mom absolutely insisted on paying for this and making, you know, a big dinner and we go out and all this and that. And obviously, you know, listening to you guys, I try to save as much money as possible. But she wasn't on board with that. And, you know, I gave her the opportunity for months and months and months. And a few days ago, I talked to her.
The Ramsey Show
The Hardest Decisions Are Often About Money & Relationships
and told her i'm like hey we're really thinking about switching back to our original plan and i was like i'll give you a few days to uh figure it out well i just waited one day and i was like you know what i should do what i really want to do it's my special day you know and my yeah of course my fiance's too but um and i decided i'm like hey this is what we're going to do instead um so you know i didn't see this coming but i didn't see this coming but
The Ramsey Show
The Hardest Decisions Are Often About Money & Relationships
Well, just because it's originally not what we wanted. I should add to this, too. She started inviting a bunch of people that we didn't want there. There it is. Lead with that, brother. Lead with that. That wasn't the biggest issue, I don't think. It's that she didn't really respect that we originally wanted to do something else. That's how I took it.
The Ramsey Show
The Hardest Decisions Are Often About Money & Relationships
You know, I'm not going to go as far as that, but it's not a possibility.
The Ramsey Show
The Hardest Decisions Are Often About Money & Relationships
Oh, I've said it a few times.
The Ramsey Show
The Hardest Decisions Are Often About Money & Relationships
Yeah, I actually spoke to him today, and he just initially, you know, it's the first time. Also, keep in mind, my mother won't talk to me at all. She will not talk to me. Of course.
The Ramsey Show
The Hardest Decisions Are Often About Money & Relationships
Oh, you know. Yeah, absolutely. You're ripping her heart out. But I did speak to my dad this morning, and he was saying that she just feels hurt and that it doesn't have anything to do with the dinner, which I don't believe because this kind of stuff has happened before, which she doesn't get her way in this, which I don't believe.
The Ramsey Show
The Hardest Decisions Are Often About Money & Relationships
Oh, of course, yeah. I mean, obviously, he has to take her side in most cases, and I don't blame him. But, yeah, no, I mean, yeah, no, I spoke to him.
The Ramsey Show
The Hardest Decisions Are Often About Money & Relationships
I was at her house yesterday.
The Ramsey Show
The Hardest Decisions Are Often About Money & Relationships
Oh, I told him that. I told him that this morning when I spoke to him. I'm like, if the worst-case scenario happens, I'm like, please, Dad, be at my wedding. Yes. Like, at the very least. I'm like, yeah, so. Yeah, no, it's pretty crazy. I hate it for you. I hate it for you. I appreciate it. Thank you, though. But, yeah, that was pretty much it. I appreciate you guys.
The Ramsey Show
Make Decisions Based on Guidelines, Not Headlines
Yeah, so I have fallen into the personal loan trap.
The Ramsey Show
Make Decisions Based on Guidelines, Not Headlines
Man, it's so easy, it seems like. Oh.
The Ramsey Show
Make Decisions Based on Guidelines, Not Headlines
No, to fall for the predatory stuff like interest rates and stuff.
The Ramsey Show
Make Decisions Based on Guidelines, Not Headlines
So I got a trip, like actually last year in July with my mom to Boston. It was a 4th of July trip, and I took out a loan for that.
The Ramsey Show
Make Decisions Based on Guidelines, Not Headlines
I am actually 40. I turned 40 in February.
The Ramsey Show
Make Decisions Based on Guidelines, Not Headlines
So I used it for other stuff. There we go.
The Ramsey Show
Make Decisions Based on Guidelines, Not Headlines
I make 85,000 was what I made last year.
The Ramsey Show
Make Decisions Based on Guidelines, Not Headlines
No, I don't have credit cards at all.
The Ramsey Show
Make Decisions Based on Guidelines, Not Headlines
It's quite a bit, actually. I looked. It was like one was like 300%.
The Ramsey Show
Make Decisions Based on Guidelines, Not Headlines
I have $100 in, so I have a credit union as well with the company.
The Severance Podcast with Ben Stiller & Adam Scott
S2E9: The After Hours (with Sydney Cole Alexander)
Wait, Gretchen, my life started when you came here.
The Severance Podcast with Ben Stiller & Adam Scott
S2E9: The After Hours (with Sydney Cole Alexander)
No, I have nothing else. I have this and I have fucking pencil erasers.
The Severance Podcast with Ben Stiller & Adam Scott
S2E9: The After Hours (with Sydney Cole Alexander)
Oh, wait, wait.
The Severance Podcast with Ben Stiller & Adam Scott
S2E9: The After Hours (with Sydney Cole Alexander)
Hi, Adam. Hi, Ben. You know, what I always say, A, B are the first two letters of the alphabet, and you're the first two people I think of when I think about doing this podcast. Anyway, here we are back to talk about my predictions for the next episode of Severance.
The Severance Podcast with Ben Stiller & Adam Scott
S2E9: The After Hours (with Sydney Cole Alexander)
Now, my predictions so far, I've been trying to base them off of what's happening in the episode, and I haven't really been nailing it. But this show is so detailed. It's so complex. There are so many things going on. I have a feeling I need to be looking behind that. So... Next time on Severance. Here we have Episode 9, which is the penultimate episode of the season.
The Severance Podcast with Ben Stiller & Adam Scott
S2E9: The After Hours (with Sydney Cole Alexander)
And I think you're trying to tell us something, which is the next episode of the season is going to be all about pens. I think the innies are going to pause what they're doing... Everyone's going to go to the supply closet and they're going to test out every pen in there until they find the best one. That's right. We got ourselves a pen episode. I hope you all like it. I know you will.
The Severance Podcast with Ben Stiller & Adam Scott
S2E9: The After Hours (with Sydney Cole Alexander)
And make sure to contact Ben, contact Adam. Let them know what's your favorite brand of pen and what would you write with it if you had to write something but only had 10 seconds.