Dr. Lori Santos
Appearances
Passion Struck with John R. Miles
The Hidden Crisis of Family Mattering—And How to Fix It
What we're trying to go for is convenience. If you're grabbing something off chat GPT and pasting it into a dating app. It's because you want to like reduce friction. You just want to make stuff easy, right? Real life is frictiony. Like social connection is frictiony. Mattering is frictiony. It takes work. It takes time, right?
Passion Struck with John R. Miles
The Hidden Crisis of Family Mattering—And How to Fix It
And so I think as we go towards an all too convenient society, we wind up losing some of the psychological benefits that can come from connection and mattering because we're trying to just bang things out and do it as easily as possible. Well, sometimes you have to put in some work to feel like things matter.