Dorothy (Alyssa's Mom)
Appearances
Dropouts
He Gave Up the Love of His Life... | Dropouts #255
Well, of course not. In disclaimer, in state of California, that's not, whatever. Okay, anyways.
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He Gave Up the Love of His Life... | Dropouts #255
Lord have mercy. You were the cutest baby ever. You weighed five pounds.
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He Gave Up the Love of His Life... | Dropouts #255
No, you were a sack of potatoes, girlfriend. You lost weight by the time you left, but you were five.
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He Gave Up the Love of His Life... | Dropouts #255
Were you talking about when you were younger? Yes.
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He Gave Up the Love of His Life... | Dropouts #255
No, you weren't overreacting. It was better for you, and I admit that I was wrong.
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He Gave Up the Love of His Life... | Dropouts #255
Because it was a better fit for you. That education experience there, just like the college you went to, was a better fit for you than a typical- Oh, so it wasn't bullying.
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He Gave Up the Love of His Life... | Dropouts #255
Oh, yes. The people there, yeah. Your experience, it was a better fit for you all the way around. What did they do to you?
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He Gave Up the Love of His Life... | Dropouts #255
Because you know what? If I would have known, their mamas would have been here for me.
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He Gave Up the Love of His Life... | Dropouts #255
I said, whether it's serious or not, you should tell me about anybody. I'm your mother.
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He Gave Up the Love of His Life... | Dropouts #255
Like Jared. No. I don't know. He could be. She's seen it. No. How do you know that? I want to talk to him.
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He Gave Up the Love of His Life... | Dropouts #255
No, no. Oh, we will talk tonight. You will be on the carpet tonight. I'll have your grandmother on the phone, too.
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He Gave Up the Love of His Life... | Dropouts #255
Hey, I'm working here too, sister. We're both working here.
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He Gave Up the Love of His Life... | Dropouts #255
You know what? I love you, sweet pea, but you better be smart and not stupid.
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He Gave Up the Love of His Life... | Dropouts #255
Huh? Love you. Hopefully the guys will protect you. I hope. I hope. Don't be making fun of her no more.
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He Gave Up the Love of His Life... | Dropouts #255
Don't be picking on her. Where's Skylar? Because I got to kick his butt.
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He Gave Up the Love of His Life... | Dropouts #255
Well, better be. Better send me some information on this dude. I can check him out. I gotta check him out on the side.
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He Gave Up the Love of His Life... | Dropouts #255
I swear to God. What are they whispering to you, Skylar? I didn't say anything.
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He Gave Up the Love of His Life... | Dropouts #255
Why? Because I'm a mother. I could do whatever I want, right, son?
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He Gave Up the Love of His Life... | Dropouts #255
Oh, my God. She don't know I call you on the side. Now she knows.
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He Gave Up the Love of His Life... | Dropouts #255
I know. We love you, too. Hey, I thought about you this morning, though.
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He Gave Up the Love of His Life... | Dropouts #255
So I was with the attorney. Oh, eviction. So I was with the attorney, and I was like, dude, you just got to show some confidence up here. Like, he was my attorney. And then he looked at me for the answers. I'm like, dude, come on.
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He Gave Up the Love of His Life... | Dropouts #255
Yeah, yeah. We won, but I wasn't worried about that. He looked at me for the answer, and I was like, yeah, yeah.
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He Gave Up the Love of His Life... | Dropouts #255
You didn't want me to say neighborhood, did you? No.
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He Gave Up the Love of His Life... | Dropouts #255
I'm trying to listen to this and you're not here.
The Binge Cases: Baby Broker
Scary Terri | 5. The White Pill
Hello? Hello, Terry. Yes, hi, Dorothy. Can you hold on a minute? Sure.
The Binge Cases: Baby Broker
Scary Terri | 5. The White Pill
Dorothy asked if there was any way she could help. uh we should still send you some energy or yeah we still need energy to see if they'll back out he says he doesn't think they'll back out because they think that i have a lot of money and they think that um that they can get some that they can get some
The Binge Cases: Baby Broker
Scary Terri | 5. The White Pill
Drag it out as long as he can, because the longer he drags it out, the more it's going to cost them personally. That's going to be our tactic.
The Binge Cases: Baby Broker
Scary Terri | 5. The White Pill
Okay, send them pale blue and then visualize or imagine money coming to them.
The Binge Cases: Baby Broker
Scary Terri | 5. The White Pill
Okay. Well, you can do that for me too. My attorney is going to cost over $100,000. Oh, my goodness. Yes. All right. We'll do that. Thanks. Now, is this kind of experience, the hard, hard things like this, is this part of your evolution as well? No, it's BL stuff. It's what stuff? BL stuff. Black Lord stuff. Oh, okay.
The Binge Cases: Baby Broker
Scary Terri | 5. The White Pill
And you can't control somebody that's out of the cycle like his children are out of the cycle, but they're very, very greedy. They're totally greedy people. Yes.
The Ramsey Show
Stop Letting Money Conflicts Tear Your Relationships Apart
Hi, David. Hi, Rachel. Thank you for taking my call. And I'm in Naples, just so you know.
The Ramsey Show
Stop Letting Money Conflicts Tear Your Relationships Apart
Well, I unfortunately am a widow. My husband committed suicide last year. Oh, my gosh. Sorry. And I would really appreciate it if you'd let me borrow your Magoo glasses to see my way through my mess.
The Ramsey Show
Stop Letting Money Conflicts Tear Your Relationships Apart
Me too. Me too. It was certainly something that we weren't expecting. And now I'm, you know, I have a lot of debt and I want to get rid of it. And I have some very specific questions for you. One of them is I have an IRA and, that has some money in it that was part of his, you know what the drop is?
The Ramsey Show
Stop Letting Money Conflicts Tear Your Relationships Apart
It's not a lot. It's about 40 grand.
The Ramsey Show
Stop Letting Money Conflicts Tear Your Relationships Apart
And it's not invested in anything that's earning us and earning me anything.
The Ramsey Show
Stop Letting Money Conflicts Tear Your Relationships Apart
I don't have one. My husband wanted me to be his playmate when he retired. And we had a granddaughter who was born with some complications. And so I stopped working to help, you know, get her through that. And he just didn't want me to go back to work. So I didn't. And so we played and we accumulated a lot of stuff. And I know I can sell that stuff to get into a much better financial situation and
The Ramsey Show
Stop Letting Money Conflicts Tear Your Relationships Apart
it's just taken some time to kind of sort through, sorry, to kind of sort through everything. And I wasn't expecting to get emotional, um, sort through everything and get some clarity in all of it, you know? Um, so I know I need to get a job. I do know that.
The Ramsey Show
Stop Letting Money Conflicts Tear Your Relationships Apart
And I, I want one and I, I've, I've already started looking for one and it's kind of hard not knowing what to do because I have no technical skills whatsoever because I've been out of work for so long. I'm a personal person, so I know, you know, like customer service and things of that nature, I should do pretty well at.
The Ramsey Show
Stop Letting Money Conflicts Tear Your Relationships Apart
So I plan on doing that right away, and I plan on selling several assets right away. It's just taking me some time to get there. I already downloaded your EveryDollar app, and so I'm, you know, working with that right now.
The Ramsey Show
Stop Letting Money Conflicts Tear Your Relationships Apart
Well, you know, I still have our two trucks that I have payments on, and I have some credit card debt. And that was one of the questions I wanted to ask.
The Ramsey Show
Stop Letting Money Conflicts Tear Your Relationships Apart
His pension. Oh. I get it. Yeah. And that's supposed to die out.
The Ramsey Show
Stop Letting Money Conflicts Tear Your Relationships Apart
A year or monthly. Monthly it's just under $5,500 and for annual it's like $6,500.
The Ramsey Show
Stop Letting Money Conflicts Tear Your Relationships Apart
My house payment is $1,900.
The Ramsey Show
Stop Letting Money Conflicts Tear Your Relationships Apart
The pension is going to end in less than five years.
The Ramsey Show
Stop Letting Money Conflicts Tear Your Relationships Apart
I have about, it's actually $18,306.38. Okay. And what other debt is there? I have, the house is just a little over $100,000. That'll be under $100,000 after September's payment. I have two trucks totaling $21,000. And an RV, that's at 15.
The Ramsey Show
Stop Letting Money Conflicts Tear Your Relationships Apart
But that's it, right? Okay.
The Ramsey Show
Stop Letting Money Conflicts Tear Your Relationships Apart
The credit card? No. I mean, just monthly payments, of course. Yeah.
The Ramsey Show
Stop Letting Money Conflicts Tear Your Relationships Apart
Can I ask you one more quick question?
The Ramsey Show
Stop Letting Money Conflicts Tear Your Relationships Apart
I'll wait until you're done, and then maybe I'll ask.
The Ramsey Show
Stop Letting Money Conflicts Tear Your Relationships Apart
Well, I had already taken one of the credit cards and put it on a 0% for 18 months, and I'm plugging away at that one. The other one has an interest rate. It's the one that's only at $6,000. Would it behoove me to transfer that to a 0% for 18 months? It doesn't matter.