David Ghiyam
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The School of Greatness
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So if there's 20% of you that does not want to be wealthier, if there's 20% of you that does not want to be in a relationship because you're afraid it's going to control you or you're afraid they're going to hurt you or you're afraid that you're going to lose your freedom because you want to be with more people,
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that 20% is going to clash with the 80% of you that does want love, the 80% of you that does want success. So your worst enemy becomes yourself.
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There's either a limited belief or a competing belief. A limited belief would be, I don't deserve this money. A competing belief would be, you know, I want this success and prosperity. I feel my soul is meant for it. You know, we feel on a soul level. I'm meant to be successful.
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and then there's another belief that says uh if i am wealthy i will uh be sad because i saw other wealthy people become sad one of the beliefs i had in the first 10 years from the age of 20 to actually 32 where i had no money whatsoever and my life was dedicated to just helping other people which i thought was a noble thing and it was and it helped a lot of people but Why didn't I receive wealth?
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Why didn't the creator give me wealth? Because I saw in the first five years dealing with celebrities and very successful people.
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That wealth broke them. Yes. That wealth, especially generational wealth, especially wealth that was not fully earned, caused a level of shame, drug use, depression, suicide. And I saw these families literally fall apart. And so you're like, you're like, I don't want that subconsciously.
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I didn't really realize it at the time, but later on I saw that I was always living kind of like this immigrant consciousness. And usually people who are immigrants like my generation before me was, there is a mentality of scarcity. There's a mentality of you have to protect everything.
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I was the guy that kept turning off the air conditioning all day long even after I had money because I was so afraid always of going broke. It's funny. So there's all of these complicated either generational or things you saw, experienced, or felt or you brought from past life that is causing you to have limited beliefs or competing beliefs around what you can receive.
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Once I realized that having money doesn't mean having a broken family, Having money actually is a blessing and you can have it all. I kept telling myself that. You can have it all. You can have amazing children, healthy children, and have success and prosperity. And I started to reprogram my belief system about that. Then the gates opened immediately and the energy came, comes in.
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So I would tell everybody listening, hey, if there's an area you're stuck, it always starts with one thing, your belief about what would happen if it wasn't stuck. So there is some part of you that actually likes, enjoys, appreciates, or feels comfortable with the current situation.
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Uh-huh. It has to be painful. It has to be a struggle. I have to suffer to make money. If you believe that to be true, then your soul is going to make a different calculus, which is, do I want to suffer or not? Your soul is going to say, no, I don't want to suffer. So what you're going to do that day is not manifest the reality of wealth. So this is probably the biggest belief system I see.
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You must suffer to be successful. That's number one. Another one would be, I am not deserving of it for whatever reason. I'm not deserving of it. Why? Because maybe something shameful I did in my past. Maybe because I don't want to make the people around me feel uncomfortable. For example, there's one woman who told me she realized after studying Kabbalah that she's not married.
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at the age of like 35 because her 37-year-old sister is not married. So she was subconsciously sabotaging, meaning men, because she didn't want to embarrass her sister.
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And it was such a subconscious thing. But that little bit of a subconscious desire will sabotage the process. And men will feel that when they approach her.
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So in business, it's very much the same thing. We have these subconscious desires and feelings and relationship with money. We might think money is bad. We might think money is evil. We might look at the 1% and say, look at what they're doing. We might look at people who don't pay their taxes or have such a complicated view of money. But it's shaping and forming our belief system.
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And it's causing all these blockages. Because the creator wants you to receive endlessly. Because the creator is endless, created a vessel to receive endlessly. we are the only ones that are limiting it. This energy of abundance has already been given since the time of creation and it has your name on it. There's an amount of wealth that belongs to you.
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It might be held right now by somebody else, holding it for you until your vessel is ready. What happens if people make money before they're ready for the money to come? What happens if someone makes money before they're ready for the money to come? Let's say, for example, a good example of that would be theft. Why does the Bible say someone should not steal? Is it wrong? Is it moral?
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Is it religiously an issue? Kabbalists say no. A person should not steal for one reason. When you steal something, you are taking the energy of it without the vessel. You did not earn that money, so you don't have a spiritual vessel for it. So this money that you took is basically like bringing 1,000 watts of energy to a 60-watt bulb. It will cause chaos for you. That's the only reason.
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Not because society would shame me or I could go to jail. That's how a lot of people think. Because if there were no laws and nobody knew, and you could just take whatever you want, how many people would do it? A lot of people would do it.
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But if I knew I could steal and nobody would know about it, I know energetically I'm taking energy, but I don't have the vessel to hold it, and it's going to cause me chaos. So actually, I don't want to ever bring energy that does not belong to me. And here's something else that's really powerful. One of the things I always ask the creator is, I only want the wealth that is meant for me this year.
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I do not want a penny more. I don't want a penny less because both will cause chaos. If I try to take wealth from someone else or someplace else that does not belong to me or is not part of my vessel, then I have an overflow of energy and I'll have chaos. If I do not take what is mine, I take less, then I'm going against the thought of creation, which is the creator wants me to be fulfilled.
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In both cases, this is a short circuit. So we have to all align and stop trying to just make things happen or make business happen or make wealth happen and connect to, wait a minute, what is actually meant for me? Dating, same thing. Just because you're attracted to a woman doesn't mean she's yours. Just because you feel something doesn't mean it's part of your vessel.
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So Kabbalah says you pause and you ask. You ask the universe and say, hey, is this person meant for me? If you still feel after the asking that there is an energy there that you can pursue, but making that first pause actually involves creation as opposed to me coming from my own lack, my own issues, and my own fears to try to engage.
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The greatest way to break a limited belief around receiving abundance is to spend time with people who have already broken it. And the person that I married 13 years ago, Mary Ruth. I learned she did not have this belief. And the first time I saw it- Which belief? That- Scarcity belief? Scarcity belief. She didn't have it. She did not have it. And I'll tell you the first example of it.
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When we were in debt, and I shared this in the last podcast, we were in debt and we had no money, six months behind in rent. And like literally like sleeping on the floor, no income, debt, all these things. She came to me and said, I want to start nutrition. And I said, what do you mean you want to start nutrition? She's like, I love health and wellness.
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I'm going to leave being a real estate agent, which she was doing well. She'll make $30,000, $40,000 a month in just enough to pay off the debt payments that we had that she inherited from her family after the debts of her brother and father and her mom getting sick. So she's like, I'm going to leave my career making $34,000 a month. I'm going to do nutrition consulting.
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I said, I get that's your passion, but this is absurd. She's like, no, don't worry. I have complete certainty it's going to work out. So she's created a program for $3,000, and then she just basically told everybody, I'm going to give you one free session for an hour, and if you like it, sign up for my program. She had 11 sessions a day. She always signed up one person and boom, boom, boom.
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And that was the genesis of Mary Ruth Organics because it actually started as a health and wellness coaching program. Then when she became fully booked, it became a video program. And then when that was kind of like realizing there's a limit there, we created a product. And then we changed the name of the company from Million Dollar Lunchbox to Married with Organics.
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That was the original name of the... She called it Million Dollar Lunchbox because she had this belief that if you want to be very successful in life, you should always carry a lunchbox around so you always have the food that you need then you'll have the energy you need and you'll have the consciousness you need so you can manifest something. That's interesting. Cute name.
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Right. So then the second thing she did a year later, she's like, when we still had no money, she's like, I'm going to go get an office. We worked back then. It was Regis. I said, you're going to get an office? She's like, yeah, it's $5,000 a month. And I'm just going to go get it because once we get the office, the energy will open up and the business will go to its next level.
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I said, that's ridiculous. And she said, I'm going to go do it. And she went and did that. And then the next thing she said is, we're going to move to L.A. because that's closer to our factory. I said, we don't have the money for that. She's like, don't worry. I got a loan. I'm like, you got a loan? She's like, yeah, I got a loan for 22%. I said, you got a high interest loan to move us to L.A.?
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She's like, we got to think that way. We just got to go. She took the loan. She moved the family. And then that was one of the best things that happened. And then she kept... doing things over and over. She's like, we're going to get you a nice car. I said, we can't afford a nice car. She's like, I need you to be comfortable. I need you to be focused.
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I need you to not have something that's going to break down because I need you to be that way. So you're the scarcity mindset. I was completely the scarcity mindset. She was abundant mindset. Always. So she always, and the lesson here is, obviously spend time with people who don't have it. You know, who your romantic partner is, who your friends are. You are inheriting
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their belief systems at every moment. Every moment you spend with them, you're inheriting it. I have become, and I know you're the same way, I have become so sensitive to, if I spend 20 minutes with somebody, I am learning that I am taking on their vessel. And so we have to be extra cautious of who we're spending time with and who we depend on for energy because
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The energy transfer happens on a soul level when you depend on someone. Because I was coaching all day long, meeting people who had challenges and problems, and people were like, well, aren't you inheriting their belief systems and vessels? Only when you depend on them, meaning a friend, a romantic partner, a client that you absolutely need for your wealth or your... That's a... Livelihood, yeah.
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Yeah, livelihood. You never want to be in a position where you need someone because then you begin to inherit their negativity and inherit their belief systems. So I've learned like when I spend time with you or when I spend time with other people who are successful financially or even a successful father or a successful... Like someone who's really good at fathering.
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I'll spend time with them and my vessel will expand. My empathy for my children will expand. My belief system of love will improve. And it's so interesting because we are now, science is showing us that when you kiss someone, you inherit their microbiome.
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So people don't understand spiritually, the moment you kiss someone, because Kabbalah explains that the breath is a platform for the soul. So the breath and the soul are intertwined.
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And so when you kiss someone and the breath has exchanged, the souls begin to intermingle, which means the belief systems begin to intermingle, which means the desires begin to intermingle, and you begin to inherit the essence of who they are. So you could kiss a random person and then all of a sudden be angry for the next two hours and not know why. Interesting.
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You've kind of taken upon a little bit of their generational trauma. They're what we call tikkun, their soul's correction. And it stays and it goes and there's ways to remove it. But every sexual partner we've ever had, we are inheriting a piece of who they are and they're inheriting a piece of ours. which is very fascinating. Wow.
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So yeah, so on a physical level, we're interchanging belief systems and desires, but we're also doing it on a spiritual level. So that's the number one thing. Spend time with people.
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Only at 35 did I finally realize this is, despite 15 years of Kabbalah, despite thousands and thousands of teaching, when it's your issue, it's never that easy. When it's your ego, your soul's correction, it takes time. And we have to be empathetic to that. Because I think a lot of times people judge, you know, Can a doctor get sick? Sure. Can a comedian be depressed? Absolutely.
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Can a spiritual leader or a thought leader or a speaker go through a tough time and not know how to break free for a long time? Absolutely, yes. Because when it's you, It's very different. When it's somebody else, we're channels. But for ourselves, we have to actually earn that gateway to be open.
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So it was about five years ago, when I was 35, I realized I just decided to take the plunge and stop doing everything I did that was limiting me.
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I remember the day when one of my friends called me and said, there's a seminar down in San Diego. I want you to come with me. I said, all right, well, that's a three-hour drive. What's it cost? And he's like, it's $10,000 for the day. I said, $10,000? I'm like, why would I pay $10,000 for a one-day seminar? It sounds like it's too much money. What was the seminar? I'm curious.
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It was something around e-com. It was like an e-com Amazon thing because we had just started the company and we're big on Amazons.
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Yeah, it was a seminar on how to master Amazon, right? And he said to me, come on. I said to him, I said, look. It's too much money. It's three hours away. It's a whole day. After that whole calculation, he looked at me and he said, look, you know this better than I do. If you learn one thing that inspires you, that's worth to your company hundreds of thousands of dollars.
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Do you know that you're going to learn one thing? I said, absolutely. I'm going to learn probably 40 things. He's like, so what's the calculus here? signed up right away and I went. And what's interesting is within the first hour, I got an idea that was so amazing, I left the seminar. I actually didn't stay for the rest of the seven hours. I need to go do this now. I need to go do this now.
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Because we can talk about this either in this episode or the next. One of the things I have learned over time is when that idea comes, I have to manifest it in 24 hours. Otherwise, it's gone. It's gone. Energetically, the negative side comes in. Momentum is gone. And so if I can push it
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Like without any space, without any laziness, without any doubt, just invest as much time and energy in those first 24 hours. That's the seed level. You create a spiritual flywheel energetically that just breaks open the doors and things manifest. When you take time. Once the creator gives you an idea and you take time and you put it off and all of a sudden space comes in, time comes in.
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These are all qualities not of the light of the creator but of this physical world. And now you have left the world of miracles. You have left the world of manifestation. You're entered into the world of what we call the tree of knowledge and logic, which is just up and down, chaos, darkness, pain, and suffering. Wow. So five years ago, it started to switch.
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It started to switch, and then once that switched, every decision I made was, this as a function of my time, is it going to be, is this worth my time to manifest more or not? So that was the first calculus I used. So that was the question you would ask yourself. All the time. Say it again. Is this going to be worth it as a function of my time? Because what is- How do you know?
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Well, what is the biggest mistake all founders make? I want to say mistake, but limitation that all founders have once they build a company that's doing well. The ability to delegate. Because all of us, myself included, the first thought we have, which is a limited belief, who's going to do this better than me? I don't trust someone else to give it the love, the care.
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This belief system will make you attract employees. who sabotage as well. But I met a guy. He had 20 employees when I had only two. And he said to me, I have 20. And ever since I hired these right people, the best things happen. And they're doing it better than I am. I said, they're doing it better than you are. I can't imagine hiring somebody that's going to do something better than I am.
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So I'm like, look how much care and love. No one's going to do it better than the founder. So David, it's a little bit of belief. He said, you need to believe from this moment that there are people who can do it better than you. I said, done. He gave me his spiritual microbiome at that moment. It's a belief system. I said, I'm going to believe this. Wow. I used the mantra over and over again.
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I prayed to the creator to instill in me this consciousness. So there's like a little Kabbalah meditation that I do over and over again. And then I told myself, there is somebody out there who is going to be better at this than I am. And I kid you not, if you want to know what happened... Right after that, we started to need help because we had a kid and we needed somebody to help.
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So we called a company and they said, look, there's people who can come part-time and wash your dishes. It was like – it's called Runaround Betty or something. So this girl comes. She's like 26 years old. She comes to our house. She's just cleaning dishes. And just hopping around the house. And then I walk in, you know, Meredith, everybody's there. And I'm like, what's your name?
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She said, her name. I said, what did you do before this? Like, you're doing dishes now. She said, oh, I was a project manager at a big company. I said, you're a project manager at a big company and you're washing dishes now? She's like, yeah. I got so burned out. I said, you know what? I just want to relax and just do things that are fun. And I said, okay.
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So we watched her for a couple weeks just come in. She did obviously the best job you can imagine, cleaning the house, organizing things. I said to Meredith, I said, she's unbelievable. Like, she became our first employee in the company. Wow. And... three years later, she became the COO of our company. No way. Yeah. That's cool. She pretty much ran the whole company. Wow. Crazy.
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And she did it phenomenally for those years, right? And it was all after just changing the belief system. How do we manifest this? She came through a dishwashing service who then ended up becoming a C-level executive at a unicorn brand. And to see that, to watch that, realizing that all the limitations we have in our company always come from the consciousness of the founder.
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If I look at any company and I look at your org chart and I sit and I interview your executives, your vice presidents, your managers. I will learn everything about you even if I never met you. Each person will be a fraction of who you are. The part of you that is anxious will be one C-level. The part of you that is excited and thinks unlimited, there'll be another department executive.
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You can see the amalgamation of a person's consciousness spread out amongst their executives, their directors, their managers, so on and so forth. So how powerful this is that as founders, we need to spiritually work on ourselves, expand our consciousness, remove our limited beliefs, work on our fears, go in a deep soul level, clean it all out. And it's amazing.
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Either the employees will elevate to that or the employees will leave. Like they'll just quit.
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What a pleasure. I say this mantra all the time. I pause. What do I pause? I pause the part of me. that wants to fix the problem and look for some form of instant gratification to numb my pain or I need certainty about something, right? So your question was, what do I say to myself or what is my mantra or my affirmation when something goes wrong?
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That's different than when everything's going right. So when something goes wrong, I feel pain on a soul level, on a body level. Where do you feel it? Throat, chest, stomach? I usually feel it in my stomach. Head? I feel it in my stomach. I feel it in my neck, in my shoulders. And the famous example, I've shared this before, is when my CFO called me one day.
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And I remember where I was because when there's some traumatic thing that happens, you always remember where you are. I was in my basement of my home. He calls in the morning and said, we have a problem. I said, what's the problem? And he said, we have been a victim of wire fraud. I said, okay, what does that mean? He said, well, we just lost one point. I said, what happened?
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He's like, well, somebody hacked our system, spoofed an email, pretended to be one of our manufacturers, requested an invoice to be paid, and changed the bank account. I said, well, we have protocols. You always call to confirm when a bank change has been made. He said, I know. I did not do that. I said, okay. Now, every emotion you can imagine. 1.1 million taken from you. Stolen.
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Disappeared into the ether. Oh, my God. What were the feelings I felt? Anger. Frustration. Rage. Fear. Like, are we going to make our months? Like, how is this going to affect our valuation? Like, there was a thousand things running through my mind. If I didn't know Kabbalah and I didn't know spirituality, at that moment, what would I have done? I would have screamed at him.
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I would say, call the FBI. Call our lawyers. We need to fix this problem immediately. Like, I would go off. I would go off on my kids. I would go off on Mary Ruth. I would go off, and the whole day I would be in a bad mood. Now, I felt all those emotions, and I was in a horrible mood at that moment. And then I remembered, this test has come from the Creator. And I know something.
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One thing Kabbalah has taught me. Every time you desire to go to your next level, and the month before, the business was doing well, but it wasn't doing as well as I wanted. And I started to walk in the streets of Los Angeles and pray to the creator and to the universe and say, show me how to expand my vessel. See, prayer is not, God, you need to change. You need to...
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Stop doing what you're doing and change everything about my situation to make me comfortable. A lot of times that's what prayer is. It's bribing God. Give me something. Please help me. Give me more energy because I'm lacking. The Creator said, why are you yelling at me? I've already given all the energy. You need to expand the vessel to receive it.
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So the prayer needs to be, give me the strength to expand my vessel. So I made a prayer that said, what do I need to expand my vessel? What do I need to clean out about my limited beliefs? What limiting beliefs do I even have? Show them to me, reveal them to me, because I want to get to the next level of the company. And as a co-founder, I am the sole person that is limiting this company.
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Okay, if there's a problem with an employer, if there's a problem with the economy, or there's a problem with inflation, or there's a problem with a product, that is all a function of my consciousness. Nothing else. What, inflation is my fault? Inflation is an illusion from the point of view.
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If I believe that I can have everything and I've cleared myself of my negativity and my selfishness and my fears and my soul's correction, inflation can't touch me. The wrong economy or the bad economy can't touch you. No negativity can touch you. You will manifest what your soul is meant to have. Even if 8 billion people try to stop you from it, you will get there.
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How To Manifest ABUNDANCE With The Universal Laws For WEALTH | David Ghiyam
There's this famous meme that showed Elon Musk, I don't know if it was 2019, he was on the verge of bankruptcy. And then five years later, he's the wealthiest man in the world. It's like, how did he go? Everybody was against him that time. I don't know if you remember, like, Everybody was like – they were like selling his stocks. It was the Ponzi scheme. They were shorting him.
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How To Manifest ABUNDANCE With The Universal Laws For WEALTH | David Ghiyam
And it was like the pressure and he needed the money. I forgot exactly what the details were. But I remember whatever he did, whatever consciousness belief system he had, he transcended time and he was able to manifest that reality because most people would buckle under the pressure. So going back to that moment in time, Kabbalah taught me. This is an illusion. This is a test to expand my vessel.
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And it's connected and correlated with the prayer I made 30 days ago. I asked the creator for my next level. I asked for 1,000 watts of energy. The creator said, okay, but I see 60 watt bulb. Are you going to be with me here? Because we're about to expand you to 1,000. How do I expand to 1,000? I need to see the parts of me that are limited. Well, how can I see that? I need something to test me.
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How To Manifest ABUNDANCE With The Universal Laws For WEALTH | David Ghiyam
Nothing would test me. I need a breakdown. I need to be broken down. Temporarily.
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How To Manifest ABUNDANCE With The Universal Laws For WEALTH | David Ghiyam
Not forever. It's not going to be forever. The Creator only wants good. So the illusion of a breakdown is happening so that I see the parts of me that are dormant, that I've stuffed down, that I never wanted to look at, so I can cleanse it out and expand my spiritual vessel to bring the wealth in.
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How To Manifest ABUNDANCE With The Universal Laws For WEALTH | David Ghiyam
Dirty that you need to clean out. Let's see what came out. Blame, anger, my control issues came up. My scarcity mindset, oh, my God, what's going to happen? I remember at Conor Merrill's, I'm like, this happened. She's like, that sounds horrible. She's like, when I made a sandwich or something. She's like, I got to go. We can talk about this later. And I said, what are you talking about?
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How To Manifest ABUNDANCE With The Universal Laws For WEALTH | David Ghiyam
And it was another level of my scarcity mindset. And it was so powerful because I went to your— Summit of Greatness? Summit of Greatness. It was my first time I ever met you. And somebody invited me and said, you're going to come to this. And Joe Dispenza was talking. It was the first three hours. And I always wanted to see him too. And I sat there. And you know what I did?
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How To Manifest ABUNDANCE With The Universal Laws For WEALTH | David Ghiyam
It's the same thing I did. Once I heard the one thing you and he said— Then I left. I got it. I got the one thing that opened my mind. And he gave the example. I might butcher it a little bit. He gave the example when he was in New York and he was meeting with some very wealthy person and he had gone to his office and it was like the worst day of his life. He lost all his money or something.
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How To Manifest ABUNDANCE With The Universal Laws For WEALTH | David Ghiyam
And he was just sitting there like having... Like a hamburger or a sandwich. I don't remember.
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How To Manifest ABUNDANCE With The Universal Laws For WEALTH | David Ghiyam
And the guy was just like, oh, let's go have lunch and have a sandwich. Yeah. And he's like, I'm always wealthy. Like there's no, it was a total illusion that I lost a billion dollars. Like I am wealth. He said, I am wealth. I am wealth. And he's eating a hamburger with ketchup all over his face. Cool as a cucumber.
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How To Manifest ABUNDANCE With The Universal Laws For WEALTH | David Ghiyam
And I have seen people who, when something happens, they just already know their essence, their energy, right? The money comes and the money goes in a moment. And it reminded me of an example. When I was in the Hamptons, I was visiting, somebody invited me to their beautiful home in the Hamptons, like gorgeous. And he was a young guy, like 38. And he had manifested all this wealth.
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How To Manifest ABUNDANCE With The Universal Laws For WEALTH | David Ghiyam
And he was sitting there and he was having like a soda. And I said to him, I said, you know, I have a question for you. You know, you made all of this money so quickly. Like, Do you ever get worried? Like, what if you lost it all? What if something happened to the company just kind of like, maybe you bought this beautiful home, but what if the company didn't do well?
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How To Manifest ABUNDANCE With The Universal Laws For WEALTH | David Ghiyam
You're sitting there just like, I was making back. Wow. And I said, this guy, because he's already there. There's certainty. Because of that certainty, and he's already like, whether I have the physical money or I don't, I know I'm wealthy. And I know this is my essence. And I know that I am wealth. he will not be tested in this department.
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You're only tested where you have a weaker limited belief system. So because I had still to cleanse out the scarcity mindset, I needed the money to be stolen. You needed the money to be stolen. Stolen to awaken my scarcity fear so I could cleanse it.
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How To Manifest ABUNDANCE With The Universal Laws For WEALTH | David Ghiyam
And this is the first session I teach in my master class. The first thing you need to do in those first few minutes, even seconds, is the most powerful time to transform your soul. It's the reason why your soul came to this world. And it is how you expand your spiritual vessel to let the next level in. What I did is I put the phone down. I said, I'm going to call you right back.
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How To Manifest ABUNDANCE With The Universal Laws For WEALTH | David Ghiyam
Put the phone down. I'm feeling every negative emotion you can imagine. It's come up to the surface. I'd be screaming at that point. I wanted to. I wanted to. But my Kabbalah mindset, my spiritual mindset, started to kick in a little bit and said, OK, you've been waiting for this moment. We've been waiting for this moment. Wow. We've been waiting.
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And do you remember you prayed for this 30 years ago? Oh, my gosh. And do you remember that really all there is is your consciousness and the way you react to everything? And do you know that this is all an illusion, that if you expand your vessel right now, all that money will come back plus more? And my consciousness was telling me that, but my body was...
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How To Manifest ABUNDANCE With The Universal Laws For WEALTH | David Ghiyam
my body was like telling my consciousness you know shut the f up yeah yeah of course this is screw you screw you and there's this war this is the real world this is not a consciousness world this is money my money is taken exactly because it's all nice and spiritual yeah yeah yeah i love the creator i love him mindset well yes i am well that's all great until you're tested and you're tested until you're tested and and oh my gosh and and
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This war was happening. I was watching it happen. And I said, OK, body, we need to get you under control. So the way I do it is I just come up with the mantra that will break the body's limited belief. And I will say it over and over again. And if that doesn't work, I will jog around the room to get my body moving.
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And eventually what I did is I started to sing out loud the mantra and dance all around the room like a crazy person. That's what I did. Because I needed to get mind, body, and soul into this. And I was like, I love this. I kept saying, what a pleasure. I love this. This is amazing. I love that I lost a million dollars. This is the most amazing thing that's ever happened. Creator, I love you.
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I love, this is perfect. That's the best thing. I love this. I wish it was more. I said I wish it was more. You are supposed to. By the way, people think this is not the right thing to do. Spiritually, when you are in pain, you should say, give me more pain. Why? Because you are now energetically... completely instilling the certainty that pain is good.
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When you say, give me more pain, if you have a headache and you say, my teacher taught me this. His name is Rob Burke. He said, when you have a headache, you ask for more headache. That's how the headache goes away. When you have a toothache, you ask for more toothache. You don't ask for it when things aren't good because then you're actually drawing in that reality.
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You don't say, man, I'm in a great place. Give me pain right now. No. No, no, no.
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How To Manifest ABUNDANCE With The Universal Laws For WEALTH | David Ghiyam
No, you don't want to call in pain. No, because then that is feeding your belief system that you don't deserve happiness. Yeah, or peace or all these things. Or love. Correct. But when the money's been stolen, you say, my money's been stolen. I wish all my money was stolen. Oh, yeah. When you do that, you're basically feeding the belief system that you have certainty.
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It doesn't matter because I'm going to get it back anyways. Correct. I am wealth. I am wealth. And if this pain needs to happen for my spiritual process, allow it to happen. I trust the creator. So if it's a million, if it's five million, if it's 20 million, I wish for it all to happen the way it needs to.
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I would be okay with it. And I would tell the creator, I'd say, look, you took a million, but maybe you wanted to take two, but you didn't think I could handle it. I'm telling you I can handle it. If I need it to be taken, I can handle it.
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How To Manifest ABUNDANCE With The Universal Laws For WEALTH | David Ghiyam
So a person says, I want money. Okay. I want wealth. Okay. You will be given the exact specific dynamic you need to expand and build your vessel to get wealth. The only reason you haven't manifested it is because when those opportunities came, you did not transform.
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How To Manifest ABUNDANCE With The Universal Laws For WEALTH | David Ghiyam
That instead of running away from the pain, running away from the fear, you need to do two things. You need to, at that moment, act like God. You need to pause your reactive behavior. Reactive behavior, by definition... is any thought, word or action which comes from lack or fear in order to connect to instant gratification.
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You are now opposite the vibration of the creator and you are now disconnecting from the realm of light and miracles. When you pause and you do not need that part of you, you starve it essentially. This is what transforms it. And then you become in the vibration of the creator. Instant gratification would have been screaming at my CFO. Running around like a maniac trying to fix the problem.
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For most people, instant gratification is trying to fix the problem right away.
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How To Manifest ABUNDANCE With The Universal Laws For WEALTH | David Ghiyam
It took me about 15 to 20 minutes. These types of things used to take me days. It took me 15 to 20 minutes to get to a place where I'm like, all right, this is great. I don't care about the million. I had to let go of my attachment of the small vessel to the big vessel. You often have to sacrifice the small-minded thinking, the small conscious, the small vessel.
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How To Manifest ABUNDANCE With The Universal Laws For WEALTH | David Ghiyam
The universe will always take something away from you in order to break open to give you the bigger thing. And so... Once I felt that, then I called my CFO back. I said, hey, call the FBI. Call my lawyer. Mobilize the team. We're going to have a discussion about how to fix the problem. You should try to go to fix the problem.
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How To Manifest ABUNDANCE With The Universal Laws For WEALTH | David Ghiyam
Well, yeah, just to have the background for people and the transition I went through, because I think it could be helpful to know. When I was 14, I made my first million dollars simply by having a lot of passion and energy. School was boring for me, and I started to look into the stock market, learn about it, got a little bit of money, and it worked out great.
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How To Manifest ABUNDANCE With The Universal Laws For WEALTH | David Ghiyam
And those words that I said would have been the exact same words I would have said 20 minutes prior when I was acting later. But what's the difference? The first scenario, I would have come from the world that disconnected from miracles. In the second scenario, I am now God, like God. At that moment, I'm on the vibration of God. So now God is part of the meeting. God will be there.
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The Creator will be there with the FBI. The Creator will be there because I've created a vessel for the Creator. The Creator is everywhere but only where there's a vessel to reveal him because if he was revealed, it would be the bread of shame. It would be not earned. So we asked the Creator to conceal his energy so that we could create a vessel to reveal it.
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Because if something is revealed without my free will, this is the worst pain that there is. This is why children who are just born to wealthy families have shame and go to drugs because there's all this energy but they didn't create it and choose it. And so it overwhelms them and then it creates more darkness. Wow. And so – It's the same words, but it's a different consciousness.
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How To Manifest ABUNDANCE With The Universal Laws For WEALTH | David Ghiyam
And now, you want to know how the story ends? Yes. So I'm now thinking. I'm in the world of miracles. This is it. We're going to get the money back. Seven days later, the CFO calls me and says, okay. I talk with the bank. They tracked where the money was. This is amazing news. He said, yeah, but it's gone. You can't get it back. Yeah, you can't get it back. That was the second test.
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How To Manifest ABUNDANCE With The Universal Laws For WEALTH | David Ghiyam
Because when a lot of people are going to hear this podcast, they're going to be, like, so jazzed up. And they're going to be like, I can't wait to go love the pain, certainty, pleasure. Like, what a pleasure. This is great. And they're going to go out there and try what we're talking about. And if the prize is really big, there's going to be actually several levels to this test.
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How To Manifest ABUNDANCE With The Universal Laws For WEALTH | David Ghiyam
So then what's going to happen is you're going to do all this and then something's going to go completely the opposite of what you wanted. And you're going to be like, this stuff that David Lewis was talking about is complete shit. This doesn't work. This doesn't work. There is no creator. That's the second test. So then when the money didn't hit... Another level of doubt.
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How To Manifest ABUNDANCE With The Universal Laws For WEALTH | David Ghiyam
Another layer of doubt and scarcity came up. I'm like... Oh, my God, what a pleasure. I didn't know that this layer was in there, too. Let's go. So it came up again, and I said, by the way, just bring it all out. Like, who lost? So it was another dance. You're like, I've been broke before. Who cares? Exactly.
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I'm like, everything is in the hands of the creator anyways, and I just want to expand my vessel. Money, no money. Like, if this is expanding me, I want it. Because once I'm expanded, once the vessel has become the proper vessel, it's a guarantee that the energy comes in. Do not ask how. Do not ask from where. Do not manipulate. Do not look over your shoulder to see if it's coming.
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How To Manifest ABUNDANCE With The Universal Laws For WEALTH | David Ghiyam
Another test is you also have to have certainty to let go of how it's going to come. And when. And when. Because these are all spiritual lessons that Kabbalah explains. I'm giving them piece by piece. Having the certainty of letting go of when and how and from whom and acknowledging the negativity that comes up and getting excited about it.
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All of this is the part of building this incredible vessel that you want. You've asked for since your birth. So then that happens. Did we get the money? No, we didn't. But I let it go. I said, you know what? I built the vessel. The energy is going to come. I'm not worried about when. I think it was a month later. we had some miraculous thing happen.
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How To Manifest ABUNDANCE With The Universal Laws For WEALTH | David Ghiyam
In those six months, it took six months to make that million. That's crazy. Yeah, it was a crazy time. Because you're paranoid.
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How To Manifest ABUNDANCE With The Universal Laws For WEALTH | David Ghiyam
Something went viral, like a piece of content, something happened that like lifted sales to a level that we just, we never had broken through before. And a new momentum was created. This is about five years ago, or is this about? Oh, this was like two years ago. When the money was stolen. When the money was stolen. Wow. This was... Yeah. Then I remember we slaughtered the budget at that point.
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How To Manifest ABUNDANCE With The Universal Laws For WEALTH | David Ghiyam
It was like every year our company has grown an average of 50-60 percent. Wow. After we broke the 100 million revenue mark, I think four years ago, everyone said, hey, Companies don't grow at 50% a year. You should look at 20. These are all the Harvard grads, all the mathematicians, all my friends. They're like 20% of what you should aim for.
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How To Manifest ABUNDANCE With The Universal Laws For WEALTH | David Ghiyam
your parents gave you the money dad parents always believed in me because they knew i was a smart kid they knew that i i had certain desires and it was plain play money it was like probably twenty thirty thousand dollars like here you go um but it manifested into a million dollars twenty thousand dollars into a A million in six months?
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Investors, a lot of PE firms, like this is the gold standard, right? Grow 20% revenue and have 20% EBITDA. It's kind of the gold standard for the highest valuation. So they're like, that should be your goal. And I'm like, that should be my goal. Let me consult with my boss. So I went to the creator and I said, I said, you know, these very brilliant people are very smart.
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They keep saying that our budget should be and our goal should be 20%. But what is my soul? What is our soul meant to do? What is my soul meant to do? Like we're the founders. Like, what do you feel? And I would go for a walk and I would just keep asking this question. So this question, when I ask it vibrationally, it changes my spiritual vessel, and then the answer can come in.
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Because the universal GPS, the creator already knows past, present, and future, knows every possible destiny, that is the greatest consultants to have. And I believe religion has done so many beautiful things, but I think religion has also made us lose the appreciation for this energy. And even Kabbalah, a lot of people are like, well, what is Kabbalah? Kabbalah, and I'm not sure what it is.
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Kabbalah is just your relationship with this infinite energy, and it's just teaching you how to build a vessel. Forget about religion. Moses, Abraham, Jesus, none of them even know what religion is. You go to Moses and say, are you Jewish? He'd be like, what's Jewish? You go to Jesus and say, are you Christian? He'd be like, what's Christian?
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How To Manifest ABUNDANCE With The Universal Laws For WEALTH | David Ghiyam
You go to Abraham and say, he'd be like, what are you talking about? These were spiritual people who understood the laws and secrets of our universe. They were Kabbalists. They knew how to create a vessel. So they created, they brought down the wisdom of spirituality to the whole world and exists until today. The best selling book of all time is right after Make Money Easy is the Bible.
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How To Manifest ABUNDANCE With The Universal Laws For WEALTH | David Ghiyam
because they encapsulated the spiritual wisdom in the Bible, but it's very coded. If you read the Bible literally, it makes no sense. So the decodification of this book actually reveals all of the spiritualism. So going now back To what I was talking about, so I went for a one or two-hour walk. I do this all the time, and I've always learned this is the best two hours. Do not fill your schedule.
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How To Manifest ABUNDANCE With The Universal Laws For WEALTH | David Ghiyam
Walk and talk and ask. Connect to the universal GPS. The wisdom will come down, and you'll be shown what to do. And I've had three... I've had a couple of major ideas come in those walks that then manifested into $100 million revenue streams, which we can talk about also later. But on that walk, the number kept coming. It's 50% to 60% growth. You should push the team on that.
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How To Manifest ABUNDANCE With The Universal Laws For WEALTH | David Ghiyam
it was such a fight i went to the board and i was like you know i went to the investors i'm a touring executives i'm like guys we can do 50 to 60 percent and everyone's hoeing and hawing and saying no it's not possible where is it going to come from how is it going to happen like there's no pipeline here and i said i like i don't know you guys are all smarter than me but
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I, you know, what do I know? I didn't go to business school. You're on with the business school. You have 30, 40 years experience. I'm just a guy teaching some classes here. But I spoke with the big man. And he said. And he said it's 50, 60%. So call me a crazy founder. I went to Mary Ruth. Mary Ruth is like, listen. If you believe it, I believe it too. In fact, she's like, why can't it be 200%?
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It was also a time when the market was doing well, so I give credit to the market also. But yes, it exploded. And I also think spiritually my soul went through that process because Kabbalah explains this, that your soul goes through a process to ultimately help you become the most perfect version of yourself so that you can build the vessel to receive everything that's meant for you.
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I said, I agree. So I said, but let's not, let's not, let's not, you know, I don't think the team's ready to hear that. So I went back and eventually we kept pushing it. I think we agreed to something in the middle. And what happened was. As a goal to reaching for the next year.
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Because we always make the budget a few months before the next calendar year. Next quarter, next year, yeah. That's right. So I think we set on like maybe 35% or something. Yeah. So we just closed the year and it came out to like 56% growth. Like literally right in the middle of what the creator had said. And I was at the board meeting. This was two weeks ago.
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And I looked at all the executives and I said, all right, guys, what's the budget for next year?
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How To Manifest ABUNDANCE With The Universal Laws For WEALTH | David Ghiyam
Present time. Yeah, because we just had 56%. They're like, all right, it's 20% growth. I'm like, guys, are we doing this again? I said, we just had 56%. And so one guy's like, well, we got lucky. I said, what do you mean we got lucky? I said, well, we didn't anticipate TikTok was going to do so well, and TikTok came. And we became one of the number one brands on TikTok.
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And then I said, well, last year... what happened when we had 60% growth? It was something else. So we got lucky then too. I said, what happened? He said, something happened with Whole Foods. One of the competitors like ran out of stock. And then all of a sudden I said- The shelf space opened up. Yeah, the shelf space opened up. I said, okay, so what happened the year before?
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I said, guys, for 10 years in a row, We're getting lucky.
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How To Manifest ABUNDANCE With The Universal Laws For WEALTH | David Ghiyam
We're getting lucky. And it's not easy for me to try to bring a spiritual concepts to a board meeting of like 15 really smart people. But I said, and this is kind of like where Marowith and I are just always laughing because together we're such a team and we have so much respect and love and appreciation. Like anything Marowith has ever said
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Even if I think it's like totally a bad idea and everybody challenges her, investors. And she's, I have learned in 10 years, if she comes up with it, it is always true. It is always worked out. And so I've learned to trust her and she's learned to trust me. And that's why we make a great team.
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And that is why this year we actually bought back our company because we realized that three years ago we sold the minority stake. And then we said, wait a minute, And they were the best partners. They were such good partners.
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But we realized if we could take back full control and just put fully our consciousness on the cap table, because whoever's on your cap table, you are dealing with their soul correction as well. Every investor karmically is now tied to your company, and their energy is affecting it. Wow. So clean up your cap table. And basically, we told the board this that week, let's go for more.
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And we're actually currently talking about it.
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And I, looking back, realized that I needed – to go through a process of having that kind of money at a young age in order for me to see the things that I needed to change about myself, the limited beliefs I had to work on, which also set me up for the next part of the story of what I'm gonna say. So I made that money and I realized, that was the first point I realized,
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But I agree. Because by agreeing, I go on your vibration, and that's how I understand it. People want to understand, then agree.
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And third step is asking, why is this in my movie? What do I need to cleanse? So then later on after I have to see my anger, my control, all these fears came up. And then I literally write that down and I make it a point to work through those issues because it's one thing not being reactive.
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If you ask that out loud, you will then, the universe will rearrange itself to show you immediately. It might come through your children. It might come through... You know what's interesting? Before I came here, the last time for our podcast, I was like, okay, I was in my car praying. I said, help me be a messenger for our audience. Help me not speak from my brain.
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And I really wanted to be a channel... Because you've seen, we go all over the place. We have all these questions. We often don't even get to them. And I think I got like 500 questions from my Instagram stories when I asked them, what should I talk to Lewis about? So I was like thinking about what should I talk about? And I said, no, no, no, no.
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I need that the creator will come and help the channel. As soon as I asked for that, I got a text. I got a text without getting into the details of what this text was. It was from someone I had spoken to a long time. And it was a text that got me so angry, so upset. Today? No, this was the first podcast.
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First talk on the relationship side. Yes. So I was, I looked at it as I was driving and I said, oh my God. It all came up. And the first thing I wanted to do was respond. be defensive and try to solve the problem. I'm like, wow, after 25 years of this wisdom, after 10 minutes ago, I asked the creator to expand my vessel to help bring as much energy as we can into this.
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The creator sent this person, like awakened this person, text me at that moment. What are the odds? I haven't spoke to this person forever. And they send something and they're like this and that. I'm upset about this and all these things. And I'm like, wait, this is a misunderstanding. This is not right. This person is now going to go create a whole problem. Yeah, they don't understand me.
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this isn't making me actually happy. And if anything, it was causing me to have more addictive behavior, which got me into gambling, poker. Fun fact that I've probably told nobody that I'm going to tell you now, I'm actually banned from 16 different casinos in Nevada. What? Because at a young age, I used to just walk into these casinos and start playing.
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They don't understand me, which is a big soul correction for people. When you feel not understood. This is actually something your soul brought into this world to cleanse and change because you were looking for validation. We all want to be understood, but when you need it to be happy, it's a whole different ball. So I looked at this person's text and I said, okay, wait one second.
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Here it is again. This is a test to expand who I am. I did not respond. I put it down. And the rest of the drive, it was about 10 minutes to get this entry. I said, creator, these things are coming up. Thank you. I love this. I will work on this. I will go through the process. I love that this happens. I want to be on your vibration. I agree that it happens.
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And I will take responsibility for the feelings that are coming up. after the podcast, because right now we need to be focused. That shifted me to a whole other level in order to kind of be what we need to be. So every time something important is about to happen, you most likely will have something that will come in to mess you up and to bring it up.
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So if you are asking the creator to see your limited beliefs, might come from your children, might come from your relationship, might come from your business, something will trigger you to show you the parts of you and the vibrations of you that are unlike the Creator.
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The creator is powerful.
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Because every time we're upset, the small vessel will emerge and try to take control. And then you'll be in the same destiny in the same movie.
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And then at one point, they're like, hey, you're underage. It was a whole thing. This was like my life as a teenager. However, I did really well in school. I was always a straight-A kid, perfect scores on my testing, and I took a lot of college credits because I just wanted to run through it. I found Kabbalah 15. I'm like, wow, this spiritual wisdom is explaining the secrets of the world.
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And if I learn Kabbalah, I will learn to have everything. Because you weren't happy at the time. You're making money, but you weren't happy. Right. And my uncle, who did study Kabbalah, recognized this in me and said, hey, come learn some spirituality. I thought it was religion at first. I was like, I don't want to touch that. But he's like, no, it's spiritual wisdom and you're going to love it.
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So I went to one seminar. I was 15 and everyone else in the room was like 30, 40, 50. But I saw it like I saw and felt spirituality. the truth of what was being said, I asked a thousand annoying questions, everything was answered and I said, well, I want to learn more about this. My mentality is also anything I'm passionate about,
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go all in to an extreme, which is also another business lesson that we can talk about because I've also learned if you don't manifest something fully till its end, even if it's the wrong thing, you will have never finished that process, learned its wisdom, and achieved the level of certainty. So certainty is so powerful. So I'm going to save this lesson in a tangent.
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Certainty is so powerful that you should do everything in your power to achieve this consciousness. And the Greatest way to achieve certainty is to finish something. So when you finish something, you either see it makes you happy, blessed, and successful, or you see that it was the wrong thing. But you have certainty.
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Correct. Because they're listening to everyone else's certainty. Your mom tells you, hey, this isn't going to be good for you. So you're living off of her certainty. It's not yours. In the Kabbalah, we call that actually the bread of shame, meaning when I'm not the cause of my life, I have not earned spiritually a vessel to receive abundance. I'm borrowing everyone else's vessel.
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I'm borrowing other people's opinions. I'm living vicariously through everyone else's life. This is actually the greatest cause of sadness and and shame and sorrow. And people usually wake up 10, 20, 30, 40 years later realizing, I live somebody else's life. And I listen to people because I'm a people pleaser, I have my own self-worth issues, so on and so forth.
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So I would say right now, you should know that the greatest thing you can do for yourself is to try things and to go all the way with them. Someone asked me, how do I know this relationship is the right one? I said, the only way you're going to know is to go all in at that stage that you're in. Because everyone's thinking, I only want to go all in if I'm meant to marry that person.
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I'm not saying when you're just dating someone and you don't know. I'm saying when you're kind of like, you invest a lot of time and you're wondering, what do I do here? You're kind of in a limbo. Whenever you're stuck, just go all the way because you'll either realize it was meant to be or not and you'll get certainty.
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And once you have certainty, your vessel now expands and more light can come in. More of the universal energy of creation comes in and it opens a new door for you. However, a lot of people are trying to always anticipate what the future is going to look like. And so they're like, well, what's going to happen when I go all in? How am I going to know? These questions we cannot ask.
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We must go all in. The door will open. The wisdom will be revealed and the clarity will come. So then going back to my life, I started studying Kabbalah. It was unbelievable. I went all in, graduated college, and at 20, I said, I'm going to do this for no money for a nonprofit.
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Traveled the world, gave thousands of seminars, did coaching, met the most amazing people in the world, learned how they were living their lives, learned how Fortune 500 CEOs lived their life. I learned founders, learned celebrities. There was a big celebrity period early 2000s that I was part of, and I got to witness their lives. I got to witness the pain. I got to witness what fame did to them.
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I got to witness what their children were going through, which was really painful. I got to witness almost there was this one very wealthy family, a very wealthy family, and they called it the curse of the last name of the family. There's like a curse almost every year because there was so much money and wealth passed down. It's really interesting.
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And they asked me, he asked me, he was probably 40 years old at the time, a billionaire, but wealth that was passed down generationally. Many movies meet about that. Passed down from his parents to him. His parents, his grandparents, his grandparents. It's a very well-known, generationally wealthy family.
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And he said, you know, I feel like my family has a curse because in every generation, this problem, it's a problem. Children who go through difficulties and sickness and Mental illness and all these things. And drug overdose or whatever. Drugs was a big one too. So he said, what's going on spiritually? When he learned Kabbalah, he learned that light and vessel have to match up.
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Meaning we all want a lot of energy, but we're not being conscious of the vessel that holds that energy. For example, if I have a 60-watt bulb, I can only hold 60 watts of energy. If I try to funnel in 1,000 watts of energy, I'm going to have a short circuit. I'm going to have an explosion. Interestingly, this explosion will be a flash of light that's beautiful
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But then there's darkness right after. And you can't use it again. And you can't use it again. So this is how most people live their lives. No one taught us how to expand the vessel. No one taught us how do I get from a 60-watt bulb to a 1,000-watt bulb. Everyone out there, including the best marketers, they're trying to tell you, hey, here's 1,000 watts of energy.
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You should take this into your vessel. You're going to love this product. You're going to love this food. You're going to love this relationship. Look at all these beautiful models. There's pornography. There's all of these unrealistic energies. And when you bring it into your vessel, you short circuit it. Someone asked me once, is there a problem if I do cocaine? If I do drugs?
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This is a question I get all the time. Really? Yeah. And they say a drug's bad. And come out and we learn there's no such thing as good or bad. It's light and vessel, energy and the capacity to hold that energy. Is it serving your vessels should be the question. That is the question. Because if you go good, bad, you're going to destroy this planet. You're going to destroy each other.
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Because we're all like, you're good, you're bad.
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Is this in service to my vessel so that I can receive and manifest and harness the light that is already there waiting to come in?
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Every vessel has components that make up that vessel. So the most important part of you that makes your vessel Is your belief system about receiving? I gave this example once before. I had someone who I knew who I coached, and every time he would build a company, very easily he could scale it to about $10 million of revenue.
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And every time he hit that 10 million mark, there would be problems and there would be chaos. Either employees, there would be issues with employees. There would be issues legally. There would be issues with the technology. There would be issues that kind of cause everything to be stuck. Several companies he built, each time the ability to scale to 10 million was effortless.
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But that moment of 10 million, something would happen. When he started to study Kabbalah, he asked me, what's going on spiritually? It's a great question to always ask.
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And what we discovered is he has a belief system that anything over 10 million, for whatever reason, is something that he does not deserve or it's something that will be too much responsibility, will be something that will cause too much chaos. And so what he does subconsciously is sabotage his company at that mark. Now, let's expand upon that.
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How any part of any one of us who is experiencing chaos in any part of our lives relationships, in health, and in business, especially about manifesting money. The chaos comes at the moment my belief system about receiving is limited at that moment. Because we are such powerful manifestors. All of us are manifesting all day long.
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Whatever you're experiencing in your life, whatever you see, is what you are manifesting at that moment through your thoughts, your words, your actions, your desires. This is the world you're manifesting. So it's not about complaining, why isn't this happening or why isn't this person doing something for me? You are creating this reality at this moment.
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So let's get there in three hours. This would be akin to the path of miracles in our lives, which is the most direct path. If I decide to have doubts, literally I'm reprogramming the GPS to take a very long route and to go through a lot of windy streets. And eventually I get to San Diego in 19 hours. I will get to that destination.
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So even people who don't operate on the vibration of the Creator, who don't do spiritual work, who always have doubts or who do negative things in this world, there is another circuit breaker, some backstop that will make sure that even those people transform at some point. But they will transform through pain and suffering, the roundabout way.
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So a lot of things will happen to eventually break them down. to become a spiritual being, either in this lifetime or the next. Some people are very stubborn and they still choose not to transform and they still choose to blame everybody else or blame their circumstances. These are the people that it's painful, but unfortunately, they will always attract
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chaos and drama because more is required to break them down. Because if we can't get rid of that cancer, the doctors are going to try, the spiritual doctors are going to inject more chemo, more radiation, break it down, break it down until the cancer disappears. So it behooves all of us to surrender the negativity as soon as possible or it will be forcibly taken away from us. Yes.
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So this is the spiritual quadrant to start with. This is the spiritual quadrant. And the last thing I'll say is there's two ways for a person to stop smoking. One, if they want to stop smoking, one is we know and I'm sure everybody can agree that Smoking is not good for your health. Okay, I'm not saying it's bad if a person smokes, but I'm sure even a smoker knows this is probably not the best.
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No one's thinking smoking is making you live longer. So you can either choose proactively to break it, and it's very hard, and it's a very difficult addiction, but there's ways you can proactively push yourself to do it. Or there's a second way, which is lung cancer could come up. And then you go to the doctor and the doctor says, you have lung cancer and I need to stop smoking.
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So what happened was you have two different scenarios lead to the same outcome. One was you're forcing the universe to push you to change. The other one was proactively changing. We are often shown and told mercifully through the people around us and through just inspiration, the things that we need to change.
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And if you are sensitive to that, you will take heed and you will learn and you will grow. Oftentimes the people closest to us, especially immediate family, the creator is telling them to tell you or to awaken in you what you need to change. Yes.
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If we ignore them or we say it's their problem or we say, I don't like the way you're telling me, I don't like your tone, you got trauma, this is your issue. Even if all that's true, you're still missing the fact that the creed is trying to tell you in a very merciful way. Even if the messenger is not a good person, it's still a messenger.
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If your ex tells you something really bad about you that you don't agree with, but it feels painful, it means there's truth there. So take maybe 5% of you is like that. If your ex says you're a horrible person or a narcissist, you're like, I'm not a narcissist. But it bothers you. And as long as it bothers you, it means there's a piece of you that's in it.
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So I would say, okay, so maybe there's 5% of me that is, and let me explore that. Only so that I can release it and not have to have another relationship show it to me or have another chaotic situation come up.
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The second one we already talked about, which is certainty. Certainty is a whole bucket in and of itself because... None of the other quadrants become activated without certainty.
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Certainty is everything. It is the consciousness that removes all the dark forces, all the negativity. It is the consciousness that creates happiness. It is the consciousness that creates joy. It is the consciousness that vibrates infinite universes. Every moment of certainty creates positive forces in this world that go out into this world and fight for you.
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They're blocking, yes, they're blocking the ability to create the vessel that can hold all of those things. Now, someone's saying right now, Well, I know a lot of people who are wealthy who don't have certainty. They have doubts and anxiety all day long. So what's going on there? These people have a different process.
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Oftentimes, the creator will give somebody wealth and that's the beginning of their spiritual process. And it's not that this wealth was something they earned through their spiritual work that they can enjoy. In fact, that was their starting point of their spiritual path. And the fact is, until they do that spiritual work with the wealth, they're not even enjoying it.
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Yes. So that is true. You would shift from one form of temporary pain, and then you will be shifting into another form of temporary pain, and that's what will come. Because you won't be ready for it. You won't be ready for it. You won't have the vessel for it. But here's what's interesting. Whoever's listening, you have the free will to do that.
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You could actually tell the universe, hey, look, I'd rather be... Have money. Rich and miserable. Yeah, and poor and miserable. And poor and miserable. And that may shift in that direction. And you'll stay miserable. And the miserable, you'll still be lacking the fulfillment. And in fact, they're actually... And it might be more painful.
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Because you have so much more energy around you, i.e. more money, you must have a bigger vessel to hold that so you actually 100 extra challenges as well. So maybe you're miserable and broke now, but your kids are good, your marriage is good, but you're just kind of miserable because you can't make ends meet.
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In this other scenario, if you are the same exact person, but you have more money, all of a sudden you'll see not just problems in the business, but problems with the kids and problems in the relationship.
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Because this is such a beautiful, true statement, and I think it's very powerful when people hear the why behind it, because now you understand how we're making this, not just how it is. The reason why money amplifies problems is because money is this infusion of energy that
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that then comes towards you, and this energy wants to be revealed in its full potential, but it sees that your vessel can't hold it. So this energy starts to press upon you, and Kabbalah is called the surrounding light. It's a light that surrounds you, and says, hey, I want to be revealed. And in order for me to be revealed, I'm going to put pressure on you to change who you are and expand.
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And so that is when people feel stress. Stress is when you have energy that's trying to be revealed, but you're not changing fast enough to let it in. You're not overcoming old belief systems, limited belief systems, this thing that your spouse told you that you're being very selfish, or you're not being focused, or you're being very angry, like you're just not dealing with it.
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So then, but what are you doing? You're making more money. So the money's coming in saying, I'm energy and your wife, I sent your wife to you two weeks ago to tell you about something you need to change because I'm coming and you haven't made space for me. So now I'm gonna become chaos. When energy comes to a vessel that can't hold it, we have chaos.
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If a waiter came right now and poured a gallon of water, which is, water's a great thing, into my cup, We have chaos. Yes. I need a bigger cup. I need a bigger vessel to hold all of that. And so it's the same reason why we don't just, I remember when we had to do our trusts and like, what are we going to give our children when they grow up or when we pass on?
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Like, is there a big danger to passing wealth on to children who haven't worked for it? So, you know, we created a beautiful structure where it basically said for every dollar they make, maybe they get 50 cents of what we make. But until then, it is not given to them.
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So energetically, because I understand vessels, like if I give my, I don't know, if one of my kids is 25 and God forbid I'm no longer here, if I give him an infusion of cash, I destroy him. It's a lightning bolt of energy and we all know this is what happens. There's no child, no kid, no 19-year-old, 20-year-old, 25-year-old, 30-year-old, where you can hand them
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$1 million, $5 million, $10 million, $100 million, who says, you know what? All right, this is good. I'm not going to let this affect me in any way whatsoever. I'm going to be more responsible.
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No. You're going to buy a house. You're going to buy a car. It's gone. You're going to go spend it on your friends. It's gone. Spend it on women. And the chaos begins.
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So you say that out loud. That prayer will draw the energy of $5 million to you. And by the way, that's a great thing. Every year I say to the creator, I would love to have, here's my new goal, which is much more than I have today. So then that energy comes towards me. The pressure builds. It detoxes my soul's negativity. And I begin the process of seeing that.
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When you ask for $5 million, you're going to get 5 million problems. But that's a good thing. because these problems are showing you what you need to change. So I'm with you. Nobody wants to be broke. Nobody wants to be alone. Nobody wants to be sad. We should have all these things.
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But I've learned, and I really just want to share, that there is a process that goes from where you're at to where you want to be. And that process is a very spiritual process. You're just going to see your limitations.
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We all have certainty when things are okay.
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You see the money in the bank. I have certainty. It feels good. Yeah. Because when it goes wrong, you have doubt. You realize you never had certainty. You borrowed the certainty that the money gave you.
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In my prosperity seminars, I talk about five different concepts of how to manifest prosperity. The first one is the limited beliefs about building your vessel. Another one is simply the power of oneness and focus. One of the things that the negative side does as you aim to be successful, are successful, is to dilute your focus and work on many things.
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I have learned that there are only two things I ever want to focus on. One is my brand, as long as I have it, and one is my spiritual platform. These are two things. Now, how many opportunities come to me? Someone comes to me and says, oh, you should invest in Bitcoin or crypto. I said, look, maybe, but I'm not. Here's a huge opportunity to invest in something.
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Here's a board of a company you should be on. Here's a this and here's a that. And by the way, they're all very lucrative potentially. And some of them are guaranteed wins. In fact. It's the guaranteed wins that are the most dangerous because you're like, well, I'll do that too. And what the negative side does is divide and conquer.
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Once your attention is divided, everything becomes less of the vibration and state of manifestation. So I have learned to find one, maybe two things. And there are some people who can handle more. But for the majority of us, we need one or two things. And to go very deep, deep, deep, deep, deep and pull our energy into it because...
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Someone asked me, if you had to build a vitamin company today, how would you do it? One is I have seen why other people can't do it is because 100% of their attention and focus is not on that. I said, you want to compete with me? Right. Good luck. My attention is 100% on this. Obsessed. And I'm obsessed. Now, if you're doing six other things...
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it's going to be very hard to energetically shift and move and open those gates. So the person who is the most focused wins. So if you're trying to break into a new industry, the focus is the only way that's really going to work, right? Starting point.
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Now, the question I think your audience is asking or that you said you think they're asking is, well, how do I know of these 10 different options I have, which one to do? And this is true. This is a good question. I have all these passions. I have all these things that excite me. Yeah. And I want to do all of them. And I don't know which one's the right one. How would I deal with that?
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One, I would acknowledge this is not bad. The creator is showing me 10 options. That alone is good. Because when you say something is bad, you will never understand it. When you say this relationship is bad or the situation is bad or the fact that I don't know what to do is bad, you already aren't on the vibration to understand what needs to be done. So you have to first say it's good.
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Just even if you don't mean it, say it over and over again. This is good that I don't know what to do. Now that you said it's good, you've established a connection to the miraculous realm of the light of the creator. Now this light will illuminate what you should do. If I didn't know what I should do, I'd do nothing. And I continue with prayer. I will walk all around Los Angeles like I always do.
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And I will say, show me. Show me what is the right thing for my soul. And... Here is my spiritual peace offering. I'm also going to work on my negativity, that spiritual quadrant, because that will then expand my vessel to get the answer. If you don't know what to do, it means you haven't merited the answer. You haven't earned the answer from the universe. Well, how do I earn an answer?
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4 Steps To Manifest Miracles & Abundance | David Ghiyam
You have to build your vessel for the answer. So certainty, spiritual work, and these other two quadrants, which I'm going to say, which is the third one is prayer, which I just mentioned. Prayer is the third quadrant. is all building the vessel even to get an answer. These four quadrants can be used to manifest anything, even an answer.
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4 Steps To Manifest Miracles & Abundance | David Ghiyam
You need an answer about something and you're not getting it? Well, the answer is there because the answer comes before the question. What came first? God? Or the vessel? God. So what came first, the light or the vessel? The answer. The answer comes before the question. Not the knowledge, the wisdom. Correct. The only reason there is a question is because there was an answer before that.
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If you have a question, it means the answer is already there. Well, why isn't it revealed to me? Because your vessel hasn't been built for it. So let's build it. Is that prayer? The third quadrant is prayer.
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4 Steps To Manifest Miracles & Abundance | David Ghiyam
Spirituality is the concept that I have a soul, and my soul has a purpose, and I am now going to learn about that purpose in order for my soul to receive everything that it is meant to receive. This is the definition of spirituality. This is why everybody says they're spiritual. I ask someone, are you religious? They say, no, no, we're spiritual.
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It's like a great, people love saying it because they resonate with this idea. Yeah, I'm a soul and I'm meant to receive everything. So I'm spiritual. Now, certainty is a concept, is a vibration, is a quality of the creator that I must inhabit in order to be on a spiritual path. So a spiritual person is also a certain person. Prayer. Prayer. Oh, was it prayer that you said? Yeah, yeah.
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So, prayer. Okay, I'm sorry. I thought it was certainty. So, prayer, same thing. Prayer is another technology by which I can best transform my vessel. Because every time I pray... My vessel vibrationally changes and everything becomes clear and expands and the energy can come in. What does prayer look like for you? Depends on what I'm asking for. So let's say I don't feel enough certainty.
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I'll just keep asking for certainty in my own language over and over again.
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4 Steps To Manifest Miracles & Abundance | David Ghiyam
Give me certainty. That's it. Give me certainty. I am certain. I want certainty. I have certainty in this. I have certainty in my happiness. I have certainty that this thing is good. And I'll actually go through every problem in my life and say, I have certainty that this is good. And I have certainty that this is good. And I have certainty that this is good.
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So I'll start to inject the light force of certainty in everything that is currently not working. Because if I don't proactively do that, subconsciously, your mind thinks it's a bad thing. So you're blocking the energy. If you don't pray, the default is that you think something is bad. That doesn't go your way. That's just how we're built.
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4 Steps To Manifest Miracles & Abundance | David Ghiyam
So you actually have to reprogram your body and mind every morning and point to everything that's not working and say, I have certainty. I have certainty this is working or this will work or... All of them work. I have certainty that this is good. I have certainty that it will work. It's actually more powerful to say, I have certainty that it is already done.
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I've already reached the level of manifestation. It's actually a higher vibration. Okay. Wow. But I let people kind of comfortably find what works for them. Gotcha. Because sometimes just saying one thing may not be appealing to someone and you need some baby steps along the way.
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4 Steps To Manifest Miracles & Abundance | David Ghiyam
99% of my day needs to be prayer. And even now... 99% of your day is prayer. Is prayer. So even now, we're praying. This is prayer for you. Well, what maybe the audience doesn't see is that every pause I'm taking or when you're talking, in my mind, I'm like, Creator... Please make sure that the next word that comes out is the right word. So I'll be praying for that.
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Or when I'm drinking the water, I'm saying, I want that the light in this water is what I connect to, not the physicality of the water. Because everything also has light in vessel. And if your intention when you drink or eat is, I'm just hungry. So you're feeding... Yeah. You're feeding... The pain. Yeah, yeah.
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4 Steps To Manifest Miracles & Abundance | David Ghiyam
Yeah, you're feeding the body consciousness, which is the doubts, the fears, and negativity. So Kabbalists have this whole thing about how to eat food, how to chew food. Say if you chew food until it's liquid... Actually, science says the same thing. Chew food until it's liquid, what you're doing, the mastication of food, is separating the physical from the spiritual.
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And so by doing that, you're elevating... the negative coarser part of the food out and you're elevating the light that's in it. So what will happen is your consciousness will be elevated. But if you just kind of eat and just shove it in your mouth and you're like, I'm hungry, your intention here is to feed and empower your body consciousness
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which is the selfishness, the insecurity, the neediness, the lust of the body, the need for power of the body. So even food is a technology, if used in the right way, to elevate your consciousness of certainty.
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4 Steps To Manifest Miracles & Abundance | David Ghiyam
Yes. Now, if I did all of this and I just sat on my couch, there's a problem. Because while we spiritually need to earn everything, the body also needs to move. The body needs to earn itself. This is why the gym is important. This is why exercise is important. Exercise is actually very spiritual. Kabbalists say that when you sweat... the sweat is actually the breaking of negativity as well.
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And that's why almost every time you sweat, you feel good because you're cleansing negativity. I sweat all the time, so I must have negativity that needs to come out of me. You sweat very well, right? So it's a great feeling when you sweat when you're pushing, when you're proactively pushing yourself. Yeah. So the body's cleansing itself when it sweats. And that's what sweat is.
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4 Steps To Manifest Miracles & Abundance | David Ghiyam
It's the cleansing of the body, consciousness. So, and sleep, by the way, what sleep does is, spiritually is the soul is so pure that when it's inundated with all the negativity of this world and the limited consciousness and the fears and not just of you, but everybody around you, the soul needs to recharge and cleanse itself.
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Science even says our body rejuvenates itself, so why do we need to sleep? Sleep is actually a spiritual process that the body benefits from. The soul leaves at night And the body experiences actually a little bit of death. And that's why it starts to cleanse itself. And, you know, a person wakes up in the morning, they have bad breath, they have this, they have that.
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They need to like kind of clean themselves. They need to use the restroom. It's because when the soul leaves, it's kind of pushing. The soul leaves, it recharges, comes back, and it pushes out of the body like the negativity. So there's a cleansing happening every time we sleep. That's why when we sleep well... We have higher consciousness. We have more certainty. We have more happiness.
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We have more joy. So sleep is also a spiritual process that enhances these four quadrants. So the physical work is so important in terms of the way you eat, the way you sleep, the way you exercise, all for the sake of uniting yourself with the Creator, not to impress someone or because you're insecure, shift it to, I want to be like the Creator. And...
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4 Steps To Manifest Miracles & Abundance | David Ghiyam
Actually working in your company, in your business, you actually have to put the time in. Elon Musk didn't just say, I have certainty and did everything. He actually was sitting in his factories working really hard as well. So when hard work, when a person is just physically working hard, the reason why it's not working is because they're missing the other three quadrants.
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And that is why it feels like nothing's moving.
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4 Steps To Manifest Miracles & Abundance | David Ghiyam
Correct. And the truth is, each quadrant, I could probably give 10 to 20 classes and seminars on like how to go deeper and what it really means. And all of this is in my master class as well. But this is kind of like the headline of it. Sure. But there's depths of it. And if you go deeper into each one, you will be a manifestation powerhouse. Wow.
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4 Steps To Manifest Miracles & Abundance | David Ghiyam
Everywhere you go, you can open any gate and then you collapse time as well. You do it much quicker.
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4 Steps To Manifest Miracles & Abundance | David Ghiyam
I would say in the spiritual category, at this stage, things have moved so quickly for me lately. I mean... so much has come in that it's kind of the negative side is using it as a way to distract me.
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4 Steps To Manifest Miracles & Abundance | David Ghiyam
I think that I got to a place I was so methodical about my spiritual work and step by step and how do I break through and then things open. So as long as things go methodically for me, I'm good. And they go slowly and patiently. Like I'm very structured. But now it's like abundantly flowing to you. So the creator and the negative side got together and said, okay, how do we really test them?
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4 Steps To Manifest Miracles & Abundance | David Ghiyam
Let's give him so much momentum that it actually distracts him. Really? Yeah. So what I've kind of learned now is to not fall into that. I'm trying to anyways. I'm trying not to fall into that and constantly rebalance because there's so many shiny objects. There's so many ways and opportunities and like, what do we do and how do we do it? That very easily I could lose myself.
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And I have, by the way. I'm not sitting here saying, guys, I got this. I am in the same seat as everybody else. Not a perfect man. Just a different level. Yeah, yeah. Just different levels. I hate to even say that because it's kind of like we're all so different in so many different ways. But I can just tell you the same mistakes you make, I make. The same fears you have, I have.
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The same problems you have, I deal with on a daily basis. The same pain, it's all the same. And in my case, I am just learning that I can very easily get lost in the momentum of things. And I need to always remember what's important. What is important for me that I'm reminding myself is my family, is the spiritual work that got me here.
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Because now he's like, oh, look, I got all this manifestation. Whatever this happened, that happened. And you forget because my teacher, one of my teachers, Karen Berg, said whatever miracle you're having today is because of seeds you planted six months ago.
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Six years ago. So if you want to have miracles again in six months or in six years or in six days, plant the same seeds now that you did before. The greatest seed you can plant for miracles is when you are so broken, so at the bottom, so confused, so like hopeless, but you inject happiness, certainty, and you do those four quadrants.
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4 Steps To Manifest Miracles & Abundance | David Ghiyam
When you're at the bottom, it's the greatest light that can be revealed. So I know that a lot of the great things that are happening in my life today, are from, let me think about it. It was probably from one of the most painful times of my life. I mean, a lot of painful things happened last year, the transition of obviously, you know, family and relationship.
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A very painful thing happened four years ago, which was like one of the worst things. Like every four years, something crazy happens. And then I know that either a year or two or three years later, there's a huge blessing that comes as well. So I'll tell people if you're going through that now, That darkness, that broken, that like, I don't even know what to do. And it's, I'm so scared.
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4 Steps To Manifest Miracles & Abundance | David Ghiyam
If you apply these four quadrants right now, it's the greatest soil to plant this seed.
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And you can ask for it.
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4 Steps To Manifest Miracles & Abundance | David Ghiyam
Well, here's what's amazing. When you do these four things, you are connected on such a vibration where you start to have divine inspiration. So the divine ideas and thoughts become to a person who's doing these four things. We know that when a person is happy, they receive messages. When a person is sad, they don't receive messages. And why? Because it's a vibration of energy.
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4 Steps To Manifest Miracles & Abundance | David Ghiyam
Happiness is in line with the light of the creator. So you're receiving divine inspiration. You're receiving visions of the future. You're receiving the right words at the right time. You're actually finding yourself in the right place at the right time. And it's all working out when you're on that vibration. When you're not on that vibration and you have sadness or there's laziness or
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4 Steps To Manifest Miracles & Abundance | David Ghiyam
or there's this being stubborn and not listening, then it's like the thoughts are blocked, the ideas are blocked. You could be saying the right things, but people don't feel you. I've heard this so many times. They'll be like, I hear you saying all the right things, but it's like... The energy's off. The energy's off. Or they hear something totally different because everybody feels our energy.
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4 Steps To Manifest Miracles & Abundance | David Ghiyam
They're not listening to our words. This is a very powerful thing that I've also learned because when I started to, like, want to put content out there, one of the mistakes I knew I could have made was, how do I make really the content unique? And I was talking to somebody else recently, and she's like, I haven't found my niche to put out new, unique content.
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4 Steps To Manifest Miracles & Abundance | David Ghiyam
I don't want to be like every other influencer. And I said, look, if you're trying to solve this in the physical realm... This is a niche. This is my niche. You'll get far. But the world is looking for something very different. And I actually think content... for our next generation, what the audience will really appreciate. I call it content 2.0.
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4 Steps To Manifest Miracles & Abundance | David Ghiyam
It's less about the hacks of life and, you know, hey, like, like we said before, like if you're in a breakup, block them for 30 days and like respect yourself. Like all of these things are like really great, but we've heard it a lot. The 2.0 is amazing. The energy you transmit through the content. The certainty you transmit through the content.
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4 Steps To Manifest Miracles & Abundance | David Ghiyam
The spirituality through the work you've done on yourself that you transmit through the content. This will be the new era of influencers. Because people are now... People see through the BS. People see through the... I'm telling you what I think is... great to hear. But they don't believe it or they don't have certainty around it or something.
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Or they're turning off the camera and going back and screaming at their kids or cheating on their wife or whatever it is that's going on. So they're saying one thing but doing another, right? And by the way, we're all... We're all like inauthentic in some way. Whatever I say to you, am I living it perfectly? Absolutely not. The question becomes, what is your desire?
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4 Steps To Manifest Miracles & Abundance | David Ghiyam
If your desire is to always reach that level, it is as if you have reached that level. But if you're really just living two different lives and you're like, I know this is what the world wants to hear and this is actually what I want to do. that polarity is going to be shut down and not rewarded, I believe, in the next five to 10 years.
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4 Steps To Manifest Miracles & Abundance | David Ghiyam
So you do not have to be perfect, but you have to have a desire to want to grow these four quadrants. The desire itself is the immunity and the protection, and your audience will feel it. And I really want to emphasize that. Don't try to be perfect. I've tried this and it has backfired tremendously. I've tried to look perfect.
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4 Steps To Manifest Miracles & Abundance | David Ghiyam
I've tried to say, oh my God, if I'm on a spiritual platform, I can't make any mistakes. I used to not leave my house for fear that I would make a mistake and ruin my reputation. It was that bad. That was why I said in the last podcast, I didn't even date a woman.
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From the age of 20 to 29 until the day I got married because I was so afraid... Of making a mistake or... Hurting somebody, having a bad reputation, somebody calling me an asshole, somebody calling me a creep, somebody calling me whatever. And then I realized I was actually avoiding very much what my probably spiritual work was at the time, which was, you know, need for approval, let's say.
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I feel like I would be... If I had to get on a stage and say something and feel that when I got off of it I did the exact opposite intentionally, it I would die inside. Like, I would feel like I could not. And I think most people cannot do that. Like, you cannot get on and talk when you know you're doing something else. Yeah, it's not authentic.
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4 Steps To Manifest Miracles & Abundance | David Ghiyam
I think in some of my most recent walks and meditations and prayer, and I ask like, what is my soul meant to do? And I see, I see like a future. I see a vision of something I know I would love to do and a desire to do and believe I'm meant to do. Let's say, for example, it's an audience. Cause again, I only started this like half a year ago, eight months ago. I, if I want to reach people,
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if I want to be of service to, let's say, 100 million people, that they learn this wisdom of the Creator. Not my wisdom, like, totally be clear about that. This is not my wisdom. This is not my content. This is all stuff I've learned from my teachers, I've learned it from their teachers, thousands of years, and I love that we can have access to it.
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And I would love to be part of that process of bringing it to the world. But how would I ask my question? How would I sabotage that? Because if I'm a vessel for that, the question's going to be, what do I need to do to expand the vessel to fit that energy through to 100 million people? I don't know.
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4 Steps To Manifest Miracles & Abundance | David Ghiyam
If my audience is a couple million now, I would have to become a completely different person to service 100 million people or a billion people and not fall. There's a lot of times we can get to those numbers and then there's a crash that happens. I'm always asking myself, what do I need to do to the best of my ability to expand my vessel to service those souls if I feel that's my purpose?
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4 Steps To Manifest Miracles & Abundance | David Ghiyam
One of the things that's come up, and I'll just be vulnerable about it, is that I think the most dangerous thing we all face, and I have it real big, is the need for validation. We all love being validated. We love when people message us and say, You're amazing. You're awesome. Every time somebody says, that was the best podcast with you and Lewis, I'm like sending it to you right away.
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Did you see that? And the truth is, it's great to receive thank yous and compliments and validation. But I ask myself, what's going to happen when... You give a seminar for 1,000 people. I came to your seminar. You have 4,000 or 5,000 people there. And I asked myself, if I was on the stage, I would be like, wow, look at me.
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And the fact that that would affect me and change me means I'm not ready for it.
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4 Steps To Manifest Miracles & Abundance | David Ghiyam
So I remember when I was 24 years old, I started at 20 teaching seminars. At 24, I went on tour and I went to four different cities a week for a year. Wow. So I don't know what it was. I did like 200 something seminars. And so I would go to Phoenix, there'd be like 300 people there. I would go to San Francisco, there was 700 people there. I went. And I went.
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I went with like a group of five people. I was staying at the great hotels. I was eating great food. I'm like, this is like rock star. I felt so great. People come up to you after the speech and you're amazing and you're changing my life and thank you. So new for me. I'm like, this is amazing. You feel like you're changing the world. You feel like you're doing something spiritual. And
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I think after the 30th one, and it's the same seminar over and over again, I was exhausted. I'm like, I don't want to do this anymore. I don't want to see people anymore. I remember vomiting in the airport, sleeping enough, flight after flight after flight. And I'm like, I didn't want it at all. And I didn't want to go to another city.
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And at some point, people coming up to you and saying that was great becomes the opposite. It's more like you feel like they're taking energy from you.
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Before it was like, wow, look, they want my energy. Now it's like, oh my God, they want my energy. Right, right, right. So I remember calling my mentor at the time and I said to him, so why? Like probably one of the wisest spiritual teachers ever. his name is Michael Berg. And I said to him, I said, I said, I don't want to do this anymore. Like I'm exhausted. I want to come back to LA.
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I want to sleep in my bed. I want to like just teach there. And he said to me something I'll never forget. One of the most profound things he ever said. He said, you need to know everything you've done up to this point actually was no revelation of light because you were the taker. You went to San Francisco and you took validation from them. I know it looked like you gave them.
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But you took from them. But you did it because you were excited about the validation. You were good. And so, yes, they look like they were inspired. But to the extent of the taking is they're not going to be left with the blessing and the miracle. They're not going to remember the wisdom. The reason why we still, there's the major religions of Christianity and Buddhism and Islam and Judaism.
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The reason why these words, these great sages still continue until today It's because they perfected their need for approval. They perfected their vessel to truly be pure channels. And so their words became immortal. Wow.
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And the reason why most people just forget about us after a certain point is because our words are not immortal because we are really like we're mixing some purity with a lot of selfishness as well.
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And I thought to myself, to the extent of my need for validation is to the extent that not only will my words not carry, not only will the message not carry, but I will not be able to reach that group of people. So he said to me, he said, from this moment on, everything you do will actually be giving because you don't want to do it anymore. You're not even enjoying it.
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You look at someone approaching you, you're like, oh God. And then when you look them in the eye and you talk to them, this is, you are now God. Because you don't have any desire to receive for yourself.
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4 Steps To Manifest Miracles & Abundance | David Ghiyam
You are now asking the most powerful question, and... From this moment on, if I answer it, we're actually now studying Kabbalah. Because everything before this was like pre-Kabbalah. It was like scrimmage. Because I didn't... It was JV. I rarely... Yeah, it was JV. Now we're on the varsity. If you want to hear the answer to this, because...
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And for the audience that's going to hear it, it's going to sound contradictory and it's going to bend your mind a little bit, but you're going to feel the energy of it. Because Kabbalah is so powerful and advanced and I almost never on a podcast format would go into it. I'll do it in my master classes because we have time. But here's the thing. There are two vessels inside of you to receive.
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One is called a linear vessel and one is called a circular vessel. What do we know about a linear vessel? It has a beginning and an end. Meaning, if you feed that vessel, you're always going to feel good and then it's going to be gone. And this is how most people feel. I got validation. I feel amazing. And then tomorrow, I need it again. Okay? Most people are operating in a linear vessel.
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When you get to that point where you no longer enjoy the giving... And you still push through with the intention of, I'm doing this to become one with the Creator. Because I just want to fit into your form. You now shift to a circular vessel. The circular vessel is endless. And no chaos can come in this. And now you can receive endlessly.
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Because what happens when you don't care anymore, but you still give? I can give you a million dollars. I can give you a hundred million dollars. I can have a million people say you're amazing. It won't affect you because you're serving now. You're looking for validation from the creator. And you can only get to that second phase when you no longer are in the mood to give.
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And then you shift through that darkness.
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99% of this spiritual work is just wanting it. So what I hope from this podcast is, Everyone hearing is, hey, we're all in the same boat. We all want validation. We want everyone to love us. Like, we want to be the man or the woman. We want to be it. Let's admit that that's our problem. Yes.
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And then let's pray, ask, and desire and say, I want to get to this circular place where I don't need it at all and I can truly serve and be a giver and I receive only the validation of the Creator. I invoice the Creator. I don't invoice the people. Right. I have learned that when I do a favor for someone, immediately I write an invoice to the creator.
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I do not, otherwise I will look for something from the person. I did something for them, why aren't they doing something for me? There is nothing more powerful than invoicing the Creator.
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When it's coming to you, you have to pause constantly and say, okay, one second. What is this doing to me? Is this inflating my ego? Is this making me feel a certain way? How do I recalibrate myself back to becoming the vessel that creates miracles? How do I get back to being the cause? Because as soon as somebody validates you, you become the effect. Now they are controlling my mood.
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I am no longer in the vibration of God and the creator. And I am now actually not planting any more seeds. Now, that doesn't mean we shouldn't compliment people.
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4 Steps To Manifest Miracles & Abundance | David Ghiyam
Never say that to them. You always say thank you to them. You never say, oh, no, no, it's not me. Because you're also now rejecting their ability to shine their light. You're blocking their gift. Exactly. So it's the constant calibration of... This is why slow and steady wins the race. And if you get too successful too fast. So true. Yeah. You get too famous too fast.
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4 Steps To Manifest Miracles & Abundance | David Ghiyam
It's almost impossible to recalibrate your consciousness. You almost have to fall. And then the recalibration happens, which by the way, it happened to me many times. I've fallen. And then I had to recalibrate. I'm learning now, if I want to go at this momentum, I need to like pray more. I need to like ground myself more. I need to spend time with people who have achieved this. I went to dinner.
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4 Steps To Manifest Miracles & Abundance | David Ghiyam
I was in Miami. I went to dinner with someone. I had two options. To go somewhere really fun or go to this dinner. And I went to the dinner. It was three people. And I'm trying to see if I am allowed to... You know what? I'm going to say his name because I think that he would appreciate it. And it would be context of the story. Do you remember Adam Newman from... Yeah, we were. We were, right?
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4 Steps To Manifest Miracles & Abundance | David Ghiyam
Well, first, very flattered by everything you said. And thank you for having me back. And yes, I think our connection, our chemistry, and every time I'm with you, the gates open. There's so much that comes. So I just love the time that we have together. If I was broke today, if I had nothing... What would I do? Yeah. What's the step-by-step process? And what is hard work?
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4 Steps To Manifest Miracles & Abundance | David Ghiyam
Yeah. So he's got a great story, right? So Adam...
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4 Steps To Manifest Miracles & Abundance | David Ghiyam
I love that. We had dinner with him. So I met Adam for the first time before he had work. And I was teaching privately in someone's home. And he... Before he had WeWork, you met him. Before he had WeWork. Wow. He had his other company. Before he was at it. Like, there was no... And he was learning Kabbalah in this home. Interesting. Yeah. It was a private thing. So, I've known him all these years.
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4 Steps To Manifest Miracles & Abundance | David Ghiyam
And he has been an incredible... He and Rebecca have been incredible friends, mentors, guides in so many different ways. Like, when you get to know who they are and the love they have and what they want to give, like...
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4 Steps To Manifest Miracles & Abundance | David Ghiyam
I just heard about the school in Miami. She was just telling me about it. I'm like, oh my God, I want this in LA. I would love for my kids to be in LA. So I went to this dinner and he said to me, he said, look, I see what's happening to you. I see what's happening to your platform. I see what's happening to your business. Yeah. And it was a four-hour conversation. And what I got from that was...
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4 Steps To Manifest Miracles & Abundance | David Ghiyam
Basically the energy of we hope we never want you to crash. Here are the things you should do.
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4 Steps To Manifest Miracles & Abundance | David Ghiyam
So that it doesn't happen. What do you say? Okay. So the biggest thing was the validation. You have to be, from a validation point of view, you have to make sure that you do not allow this to take you from the core of who you are and from everything you did to get to this point. Reconnect with your spirituality deeper and deeper than ever.
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4 Steps To Manifest Miracles & Abundance | David Ghiyam
Reconnect with your mentors and teachers and the ones who were there for you more deeper and deeper than ever before. He also has something very interesting. They have a great relationship together. And he said, you know, being in a relationship, being in a healthy relationship, a romantic relationship, whatever, like this is also a very important thing. It makes you choose wisely.
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4 Steps To Manifest Miracles & Abundance | David Ghiyam
The greatest thing that ever happened to me in my life is my relationship, partnership with Mary Ruth, a female figure in my life who undoubtedly without her, I would not be anywhere that I am today. Like I owe everything to her. And so whoever that partner is in your life, The way Mary Ruth took me from who I was to where I am today and whatever that next chapter of my life is.
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This, they said, was so valuable because that is who you're spending the most time with. That is who is affecting your consciousness. That's who is affecting your belief systems. And so this is a very important thing as well. And the third thing they said, remember the intention of why you are teaching this wisdom.
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4 Steps To Manifest Miracles & Abundance | David Ghiyam
And it is only about the light of the creator and helping people connect with the light of the creator, know the creator and not know you. Because one of the things I struggled with is as a marketer by trade, What's the smartest way to bring this wisdom out? Personal brand.
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4 Steps To Manifest Miracles & Abundance | David Ghiyam
I think those are two beautiful questions. One, hard work is essential. But let's define what hard work is. A lot of people think... A lot of people are investing their energy in hard work and in the physical world. So it's the amount of hours I spend doing something. It's the amount of effort I exert in doing something. And one of the ways of looking at it is...
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4 Steps To Manifest Miracles & Abundance | David Ghiyam
What? I don't know yet because I'm just going to be honest. I don't fully know because I'm going through it. And I also believe I'm failing, by the way. I remind myself every day, most likely you're failing this. Because that will actually position me better to not be delusional. So most likely I'm failing. I've got it all figured out. I'm doing perfect. Yeah.
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4 Steps To Manifest Miracles & Abundance | David Ghiyam
It is so scary to me because it's happened to me and I've seen it happen to people very close to me. So I almost always assume that I'm not doing it right. So do I know how to do that? I'm struggling with it. I am praying every day. And I think this is probably the answer. I know my heart's in the right, I believe my heart's in the right place. I know my intention is I want to be pure.
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I don't want to be corrupted. I don't want to fall to this. I do see my negativity come up regularly. And this is new negativity, right? Because I've never been in this position before. So, like, I'm so human. Like, I always want to, like, let the world know, like, I am human. Like, know that I'm going to disappoint you.
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4 Steps To Manifest Miracles & Abundance | David Ghiyam
And I am doing right now the best I can do is just pray and ask and just be around good people who I know will call me out. Yes. So, and they called me out for, like, four hours.
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4 Steps To Manifest Miracles & Abundance | David Ghiyam
Yeah. And the first thing, and I felt, I felt, I felt my soul. Yeah. And I left, and then I texted him the next day. I said, I need to hear that more often, and I want to have that. Because it's not the words they said. Remember, they've gone through it.
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4 Steps To Manifest Miracles & Abundance | David Ghiyam
And one of the things I asked, I said, what's the one thing that really did it? It's those covers of the magazines they said. I mean, can you imagine being on the cover of Forbes, cover of Times? I can't, I, I know if I, if that happened to me, you mean it got his validation too big or it's just like how all the energy happened, right? Like once all of that happens, right.
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4 Steps To Manifest Miracles & Abundance | David Ghiyam
And I, and I, I really hope it's okay. I shared this. I believe that they would want this message to be out there. Um, I know if I was on the cover of Forbes, my pride be demolished. My soul would probably rot at that point. Really? Level of ego that would really, and, and, and, But if someone is, so how then? Me, I'm not saying other people. I'm saying for me.
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4 Steps To Manifest Miracles & Abundance | David Ghiyam
The Kabbalists kind of explain, and I've simplified it in four quadrants. There are four things that we need to do and do very well in order to manifest A miracle. What is that? In order to manifest the miracle of abundance, wealth, love, whatever it is you're looking for.
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4 Steps To Manifest Miracles & Abundance | David Ghiyam
That is the question.
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4 Steps To Manifest Miracles & Abundance | David Ghiyam
And that is, I think, the only solution. I need to ask myself that question every day.
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4 Steps To Manifest Miracles & Abundance | David Ghiyam
Yes. The momentum is there. Yeah. There are things that I see and that I feel, which means it's destined to happen either in this lifetime or next. Yeah. That's my free will. When? Time will be the free will of when it happens.
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4 Steps To Manifest Miracles & Abundance | David Ghiyam
This is why I love spending time with you because you ask me these questions all the time. So I'm trying to take myself out of my body and ask if the creator was asking me. Or what is the creator telling you? You know, there's a, It's harder for me to describe in words, but I can describe in feelings. There's a feeling I have.
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4 Steps To Manifest Miracles & Abundance | David Ghiyam
I know when I've been broken and like what that broken feeling is and I still go out there. That feeling is a very powerful place to be. That it's like you're broken, but you're appreciative. You're broken, but you're happy. That's the only protection. And I have to always try to connect to that energy and duplicate that so that crashing doesn't do that.
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4 Steps To Manifest Miracles & Abundance | David Ghiyam
And just as you're saying it, I think I would need to take even more time out of my day instead of manifesting things, instead of working, instead of trying to make more money. I need to work on building that feeling and that consciousness because that vessel is what's going to be able to hold that future that you just talked about.
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4 Steps To Manifest Miracles & Abundance | David Ghiyam
And I think what I'm actually realizing as I'm talking to you is the negative side, this dark force that we all have an opponent, this opponent could very well be giving me so much good things so that I don't spend any time or I just don't have the time to reconnect to that consciousness of a broken vessel.
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4 Steps To Manifest Miracles & Abundance | David Ghiyam
And often the reason why people are working so hard but not seeing the miracle is they might only be focused on one of those four quadrants and investing all their energy in that one but ignoring the other three. or maybe just three out of the four. It's when you hit all four that the gates open.
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4 Steps To Manifest Miracles & Abundance | David Ghiyam
All of this is coming, it's coming. Right. So all these things I'm doing will draw in the energy, but I'm actually not taking the time To build the vessel that will hold it when it comes, that's the danger.
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4 Steps To Manifest Miracles & Abundance | David Ghiyam
That is the scariest thing here. When you get so busy and the day is stacked because the good things are happening, you then forget the spiritual things. and the spiritual things you did to get there.
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4 Steps To Manifest Miracles & Abundance | David Ghiyam
Wow, what a discipline.
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4 Steps To Manifest Miracles & Abundance | David Ghiyam
I think what you just said is so many people talk about how to make it. Very few people talk about how to hold it.
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4 Steps To Manifest Miracles & Abundance | David Ghiyam
And every time I've given this seminar, I ask everybody in the room, how many people are four out of four? Nobody ever, including myself. When you're four out of four, the gates open immediately. When you're not four out of four, things take time. They become a struggle. They become harder. And then the universe has to compensate for the quadrant you're not working on.
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4 Steps To Manifest Miracles & Abundance | David Ghiyam
We don't talk about it enough.
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4 Steps To Manifest Miracles & Abundance | David Ghiyam
I, after you said it and that's what I, that's what came up for you. That's what came up for me to make the time. Yeah. or even take the time off to always recalibrate and get to that one feeling I had before that I knew that was the perfect vessel. That was the circular vessel.
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4 Steps To Manifest Miracles & Abundance | David Ghiyam
When you're broken and you're crushed and you feel rejected and you feel like humiliated, you don't even want to walk outside, but you still show up, then you're just a giver.
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4 Steps To Manifest Miracles & Abundance | David Ghiyam
it's not about you anymore but then everybody loves you again and then it's a problem right and the kawasaki say that because when you do when you're broken you go out there and you give then the miracles come and then everybody loves you so you keep you keep there's manifestation and then you need to recreate the vessel the question is do you recreate it proactively which is very hard or do you wait for the universe to crush you to build it yeah
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4 Steps To Manifest Miracles & Abundance | David Ghiyam
Only looking for validation from the creator. Only looking for validation from the creator.
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4 Steps To Manifest Miracles & Abundance | David Ghiyam
Invoicing the creator.
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4 Steps To Manifest Miracles & Abundance | David Ghiyam
So when you do a service for someone, then you send them an invoice and say, here's what you have to pay for my services, right? And one of the ways I've learned to kind of let go of resentment
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4 Steps To Manifest Miracles & Abundance | David Ghiyam
is i will do something for someone i'll give them time maybe money maybe energy and maybe they don't appreciate maybe they do nothing with it but i know that that energy is not lost so i go to the creator and i say creator i'm now invoicing you you have to pay this bill wow that's cool yeah so you pay the bill through any way you want and then i'm i'm not resenting the person anymore
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4 Steps To Manifest Miracles & Abundance | David Ghiyam
You trust and you also basically say, hey, look, this is my services. This is how much energy I use. This is my vessel I created. And this is a bond. Pay me for my service. Pay me for my services. Well, you obviously have to let go about when and how it happens.
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4 Steps To Manifest Miracles & Abundance | David Ghiyam
You should never look to take from the people. You should only look to receive from the Creator. Now, the Creator may send the people to give to you, but your intention should never be, because otherwise that's when we get upset with people.
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4 Steps To Manifest Miracles & Abundance | David Ghiyam
So I'm going to get into those four quadrants in a moment. But what does it mean the universe has to compensate? The universe then has to push us or cause some form of pain and suffering to awaken us in that quadrant.
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4 Steps To Manifest Miracles & Abundance | David Ghiyam
Oh, my gosh. That's so powerful.
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4 Steps To Manifest Miracles & Abundance | David Ghiyam
People are programmed not to give you something that you are looking for from them. That's what's interesting. People like to give to people who don't feel entitled to it in any way, or not even expecting it.
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4 Steps To Manifest Miracles & Abundance | David Ghiyam
And so when you talk to the creator, and you still feel you deserve, but from the creator, you say, creator, I trust the way you will manifest it with people, then your energy is very whole and complete, and the people actually want to give to you more, and that's when they actually come to you. It's very fascinating.
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4 Steps To Manifest Miracles & Abundance | David Ghiyam
He'll send the people and the people will have no choice, but they'll come to you like, I don't even know why, but I got to do this for you.
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4 Steps To Manifest Miracles & Abundance | David Ghiyam
Correct, because our attention often only flows to where there's pain. Now, if you can proactively put your attention somewhere, then the universe does not need to get involved. then there is no signal sent to send somebody toxic to you, to make you fall in love with them, to then break your heart, to learn a lesson.
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4 Steps To Manifest Miracles & Abundance | David Ghiyam
There is no need for someone to come in to steal from you or to sue you or to sabotage your business in some way. There's just no need. There's no need for your family to be destructive all of a sudden and cause problems and drama. All of these things happen because a signal is being sent to pay attention to something. So what are the four quadrants? Spiritual work, which I'll define.
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4 Steps To Manifest Miracles & Abundance | David Ghiyam
There's physical work. Certainty. And prayer. This is all technology. And when people hear this, I want to make sure you know, I am not a religious person. I do not... ascribed to, let's say, a dogma or a specific path.
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4 Steps To Manifest Miracles & Abundance | David Ghiyam
Everything I'm sharing is what the great sages and Kabbalists who understand the energy of our world, understand light and vessel, have explained how you can build the vessel to hold this energy and light of creation. Some people call it God. Some people call it the Creator. that exists and is waiting to come into your life.
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4 Steps To Manifest Miracles & Abundance | David Ghiyam
Because our birthright is to be happy, to be fulfilled, and to have everything. This is what we are meant to receive, every soul in this world. And all of creation is actually pushing us towards this point where we can receive all that. So what is this technology? What is max spiritual work? We talk a lot about this in Kabbalah, and there is a whole step-by-step process to it.
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4 Steps To Manifest Miracles & Abundance | David Ghiyam
But in essence, spiritual work is my soul came to this world, with certain spiritual baggage, fears, limitations, and I am meant to transform them to get to a place of wholeness, which is the vibration of the Creator. That means that if I have a fear of abandonment, I'm transforming this. That means if I have anger issues, I'm transforming it.
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4 Steps To Manifest Miracles & Abundance | David Ghiyam
That means that if I'm a judgmental, sarcastic person, or a person who's always seeing the bad, or a person who... is feeling that they don't deserve. These are all qualities that don't exist in the Creator. The Creator does not have weakness. The Creator does not have fear. The Creator does not have jealousy. The Creator does not have these limitations.
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4 Steps To Manifest Miracles & Abundance | David Ghiyam
And so... Why do we have these things if the Creator doesn't? Because... This is a very deep question. I'll try to answer it as simply as I can. We were created with this darkness in order to have the free will to choose to remove it. For example, if I got my five-year-old a puzzle for his birthday and I said to him, I said, Elliot, can you wait right here?
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4 Steps To Manifest Miracles & Abundance | David Ghiyam
I'm going to show you something really amazing. And I go and I make this 1,000-piece puzzle for him. And then I bring it to him. I said, okay, I brought you a gift. And I made the puzzle for you. Is he going to be like, dad, wow, you know, thank... Not only did you buy me a puzzle, but you also made it. Like, I love you so much. This is why you're my dad. Like, no, he's going to look at it.
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4 Steps To Manifest Miracles & Abundance | David Ghiyam
He's going to be angry. He's going to be upset. He's going to be like, I don't care for this. He's not going to feel fulfilled. He needs a broken puzzle so that he can make it. Now, I will help him make it. And that feeling, and when he puts that last piece himself, the joy he has that he completed something is like no other.
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4 Steps To Manifest Miracles & Abundance | David Ghiyam
There's a difference between if you built a company or you took over your dad's company or your mom's company. There's a whole different level of feeling. So we asked to have this level of darkness so that we could transform it and then finish the creation this way. The creator didn't need that. We asked for it so that we could have the feeling of wholeness.
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4 Steps To Manifest Miracles & Abundance | David Ghiyam
So that's the first quadrant, spiritual work. And every single person right now, no matter what your spiritual beliefs are, no matter where you are in your life, something has been revealed to you, at least one quality that you can transform, that you need to transform in order to create the miracle. So at every given moment, we are being shown one negative quality, at least. How?
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4 Steps To Manifest Miracles & Abundance | David Ghiyam
There are people who are literally triggering you and bringing stuff out. You may feel like a victim in certain things. You may feel that something is unfair. You may feel bitter. You may feel resentful. These are all feelings and emotions that are indicative of something that we need to transform. Yeah, but he did that to me. Yeah, but they took something from me.
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4 Steps To Manifest Miracles & Abundance | David Ghiyam
Yeah, but I gave them two years of my life and they cheated on me. All of this is a test. since the time of creation that your soul asked for. This person that gave you two years of his life and your life and then left, your soul asked for this in order to have all these emotions and feelings come up so you can transform them. And there was no other way to do it.
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4 Steps To Manifest Miracles & Abundance | David Ghiyam
There was no other way for you to see what needs to be transformed without this person coming. And so every single person right now is feeling something and going through some kind of fear or emotion or darkness that Kabbalah explains. And that is highly correlated in this place of trying to make a miracle. Okay.
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4 Steps To Manifest Miracles & Abundance | David Ghiyam
So if someone says, I'm trying to make more money, the first question I'm asking them is, what fear are you feeling right now? And it could be in a totally unrelated part of life. but it is correlated to the miracle. Really? That's the first quadrant.
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4 Steps To Manifest Miracles & Abundance | David Ghiyam
I would say the most common fear and or quality that comes up for people when they're trying to manifest a miracle is doubt. They doubt themselves. They doubt themselves. They doubt that they will be happy. They doubt that their current situation is good. They doubt that there's a creator or universal force that is looking out for them.
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4 Steps To Manifest Miracles & Abundance | David Ghiyam
And doubt is a quality that does not exist in the vibration of the creator. So as long as you have doubts, you cannot enter the miracle zone. Like imagine there's a gate and there's a guard at the gate. And only people who have certainty can walk in. So they look at you and they see, but you have doubts. You are not allowed to enter the room of miracles. So you could be an amazing person.
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4 Steps To Manifest Miracles & Abundance | David Ghiyam
You could be a sharing person. You could be a kind person, a spiritual person. You could be a person who only does good for people. But if you have doubts, you cannot enter the world of miracles. So doubt is the key card. It's the VIP access to miracles. Okay. So what does it mean to have certainty?
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4 Steps To Manifest Miracles & Abundance | David Ghiyam
It's not certainty that this will work out or certainty that this person's my soulmate or certainty that it's certainty that everything is good. Everything is from the creator and I feel whole and complete right now. despite what I see, feel, and hear, I know it's an illusion and everything is whole.
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4 Steps To Manifest Miracles & Abundance | David Ghiyam
Like we said before, I am wealth, I am love, I am all of these amazing things, and I trust in the light of the Creator. All the variations of what I just said is certainty.
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4 Steps To Manifest Miracles & Abundance | David Ghiyam
They enter a different destiny. So imagine you need to travel to San Diego from Los Angeles. You put it in Waze. Waze will give you the fastest path there, also understanding the traffic. Let's say it takes about two hours. This is the path of miracles. The most direct.
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At that moment, if you act like God, if you act like the creator, and Kabbalah teaches how you do that, if you transform your nature at that moment, and I can give a tool practically for people how to do that, you shift to a new destiny, which is already pre-programmed, but better than the first. So for example.
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You elevate to a new destiny, which is already, it's better, but it's also pre-programmed as well.
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The #1 Cause of Breakups & The Spiritual Secret To Attracting Healthy Love | David Ghiyam
There's infinite parallels.
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The #1 Cause of Breakups & The Spiritual Secret To Attracting Healthy Love | David Ghiyam
And just talk about all the narcissists in that destiny all day long. By the way, I agree. In this life you have, there's probably five or six toxic and narcissistic men and women that are going to approach you.
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Right. And what happens, you know, I saw this beautiful thing. I think you did it with Mel Robbins. It's like she was talking about should you block or not block? someone after a relationship. And somebody asked me the same question. I said, whether you block or don't block is not even a question that I desire to answer. You may need to, you may not need to.
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The #1 Cause of Breakups & The Spiritual Secret To Attracting Healthy Love | David Ghiyam
But if you block narcissist number one, indestiny number one, You will be forced to meet narcissist number two within destiny number one. It's not a matter of blocking or not blocking. I want to know why your soul from the beginning of time requested him or her to come. Attracted them. You attracted them for a reason.
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The #1 Cause of Breakups & The Spiritual Secret To Attracting Healthy Love | David Ghiyam
Often narcissists are attracted to the part of you that doesn't feel you deserve to receive love. We all have shame around receiving. I've seen this. I know we'll do a whole business thing. We'll do a whole prosperity thing. People
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The #1 Cause of Breakups & The Spiritual Secret To Attracting Healthy Love | David Ghiyam
are many of the most brilliant people aren't manifesting the wealth that is meant for them because they are subconsciously pushing it away because they feel they don't deserve. So when you feel you don't deserve something, you will attract people who will point that out and they will tell you and they will gaslight you and they will make you feel up and then down. And if all you do is blame them,
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If all you do is commiserate about them to your friends. Gossip about them. Or gossip about them.
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Can you believe that they did this? Correct. You stay in that same destiny. But there's a good backup plan. The creator and the universe has a good backup plan. They knew that you might just blame them. So they had a backup number two, three, four, five, and six. Until you learn the lesson. Until you learn the lesson. Now, some people say, you know what? I'm done with men. I'm done with women.
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I've heard women say that now they're dating only women because all men are this way or all women are that way. I've heard it all. I've done 25, 30,000 hours of coaching meeting every single kind of personality.
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The #1 Cause of Breakups & The Spiritual Secret To Attracting Healthy Love | David Ghiyam
So the creator has created a backup plan for that as well to make sure that you reach your perfection. So either you will find, let's say you actually find a woman who is actually great and you decided now to date women. And this woman is actually great and beautiful and nurturing all these things. And then you decide to have a child with this woman. Your child will be the narcissist.
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Somehow, and here's what's interesting.
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You've got to face it. The creator's backup plan is children and health. So eventually, your children will be the ones who will, because you can't disown them. Now, there are some wealthy people who also. Who disown them or send them away. Exactly. But the one thing you can't disown is your body.
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The #1 Cause of Breakups & The Spiritual Secret To Attracting Healthy Love | David Ghiyam
So I know many, many very, you know, people who are in very powerful positions and situations with all the money in the world and all the doctors in the world. It's very painful because now there's something that's developing inside their body and then they can't ignore it. And many times I meet those people after some form of sickness or loss, right? Some kind of death or something happened.
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It breaks their ego. They realize they have a soul. They realize there's a bigger picture. They realize everything they've done in their life hasn't actually gotten them the feeling that they're looking for. And so they start to ask questions. And these questions are, what is the purpose of why I'm here? Why is my soul here? Why did this happen to me?
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Not from a victim point of view, but because they want to know. They don't want to repeat that pain again. So I always tell people, here is a spiritual law. If you think your ex or your last relationship was toxic, and you believe it, and you begin to tell people about it, you must repeat it. If you say your ex is toxic, you're saying the creator is toxic.
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Because nothing happens without the creator's infinite supervision.
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If your ex is toxic and you believe it and you're telling everyone, then you're saying that the creator is toxic. And when you say that, you're basically disconnecting from all of creation, obviously. So then energetically, it plunges you into a whole new process of having to actually go through more and more challenges to course correct you back into your most miraculous path.
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Now, what's really powerful is, and this is how I'm really trying to focus on this in my own life every day. I just want to be on the highest vibration possible. And that includes what? That includes certainty. Always be in a place of certainty. Certainty that everything is good. Certainty that everything will be good. Certainty that everything's coming from the creator and is good.
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And your phone falls on the floor and cracks, you say this is good. And if someone is speaking poorly about you, you say this is good. If all of a sudden you have a headache, you say this is good. If you find out someone's cheating on you or taking your money or giving you a hard time, or a court case is not going your way. You say this is good.
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I'm not saying you just say this is good and you do nothing else, but in the beginning, you must accept. Because when you accept,
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and to the degree of your happiness in your acceptance, which also takes work, you vibrate on the level of godliness, because the Creator is a vibration of acceptance, which means you reveal the light of the Creator, then the darkness goes away, and then the most miraculous path is created for you. If you don't vibrate on this level, then you enter into a different pathway,
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That includes many more challenges to force you to the path of certainty again. So why not save the time and the trouble and just go straight to the certainty? Straight to the appreciation? And the third one is you always want to be giving more value than you receive because that's the Creator. The Creator is giving.
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As soon as you become a taker, you disconnect from the vibration of the Creator, which means you disconnect from the realm of miracles. And part of our spiritual work also is it looks like we're giving, But if we have an agenda, we're actually still taking.
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Yeah. So if I, I don't know, if I do you a favor, but in my mind, my consciousness.
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I have an ask later on or whatever. At that moment, the energy actually shifts to the vibration of taking. And there's a lot of people out there. They're like, I'm giving so much. I'm doing so much. Why am I not seeing miracles? There's one or two reasons. You're expecting something in return. Well, exactly. There's one or two reasons.
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The first is you're expecting something in return that you're not aware of. It could even be validation. If somebody asks me, how are you going to get to your dream of reaching, let's say, 100 million people to bring Kabbalah in? There's really only one way I can get there.
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it's not the best marketing or the best content, it's I have to get to a place, which I'm not there, I'll be honest, I'm not there, that I don't need the validation of my audience in any way whatsoever. Meaning, if they told me I am the worst human being, or if they told me I'm the greatest human being, it would be the same. Then, I'm not taking from my audience anymore.
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Yeah, it's one thing that I don't monetize my content, I'm not asking people to do this and do that for me, that's one level of not taking.
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But the highest level for all of us, content creators, or if we're on a stage, when you have thousands of people saying, rah, rah, rah, you're the best, and you feel good, and if you went home and a thousand people said you're the worst and you feel bad, it means you're still taking from the audience.
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Ah, okay.
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If I need you to be happy, I'm taking. Yeah. If I'm receiving from you, it's actually very powerful because one of the greatest forms of giving is to receive without needing.
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Yeah, what does that look like? How many times has someone come up to you and wanted to do you a favor, but you didn't need the favor? And you actually, it's actually kind of a waste of time.
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I don't need this. Right. That's part of it. So imagine you say, you know what? I will receive this gift. I receive whatever in order to give pleasure to the giver.
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So now you're actually hurting the person. And you're blocking your abundance, probably. Correct. There's a lot of people, and I've learned this early on, someone's going to come to you and give you a compliment. If you say, no, no, no, no, no, no, please, that's not me, or you block it, you're actually hurting the person.
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The greatest thing you can do when someone gives you a compliment is just say, thank you very much. Like, I really appreciate it. And after the compliment is made, don't let that feed that part of you that has the abandonment issue. The ego in you. The ego in you, or the lack in you, or the pain in you, or the thing that your mom didn't give you, your dad didn't give you.
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So Kabbalah kind of goes into those murky places of the soul to clean it up, because then you can go around town, you can do everything without taking from the people, without using the people. You can just show up as a giver. But as long as you need the approval for whatever you haven't healed or corrected, there's always going to be an element of taking in your giving.
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Because from the age of 15 when I learned Kabbalah, so I'm 40 now, from the age of 15 I learned Kabbalah. At the age of 19, I... I left school, I graduated school, and I went to full-time volunteering teaching. So from 7 a.m. to 7 p.m., I met people one-on-one. And from 7 p.m. to 10 p.m., I would give one or two seminars. And I was in a position of how do I just add value to the world?
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And it was the most powerful thing I did, and I do that till today, except the last 10 years also I have a business. I was put in a mode of how do I just take care of every single person. You call me until I am, I'm picking up the phone. Anywhere I went, there was an opportunity to take care of somebody. Give, give, give, give.
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Just give, and by the give in a way that you really help them, like care for them, whatever. However, and I know, you know, and I feel like one of the things I learned, especially when I got married, and you know, my marriage, we separated two years ago, We are best friends today. And we are like, there's no one in the world I love more than her. No one in the world.
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And we have an incredible relationship now. And you have four kids. And we have four kids. And you have a business. And we have a business together. We co-parent together. We own a business fully together. We are best friends. We talk about everything. There's no one I respect more in the world than her.
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One of the things I've learned in relationships and in dating is I totally shut down the part of me that needed to learn what I wanted and what makes me happy. I found happiness in vicariously living through everyone else's success. It's part of why I was broke from 20 to 32. I didn't have a penny. I couldn't afford a wedding ring.
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I had to buy a $100 plastic piece of wedding ring from Mary Ruth because we had no money. We were in debt. But part of it was my own belief system that I don't deserve to receive anything. I'm here for the public. I'm here for humanity. I'm here for whatever. And I was trained to think in Kabbalah. Here's the thing. Kabbalah taught me how to stop focusing on myself. I shouldn't be a giver.
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But there's something else Kabbalah teaches which I totally ignored. Which is, I also need to... Receive, right? The word Kabbalah means to receive. Really? It comes from the Hebrew word l'kabel, which means to receive.
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Because there are two parts to the spiritual path. One is to become like the Creator, you need to become the giver. However, there's a second part. And the second part I ignored for whatever reason. I ignored the, okay, now... When you're in that vibration of giving, you need to create a vessel, a desire. You need to know what you are. You need to know who you are.
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You need to know what you stand for. You need to know what makes you happy. You need to know what boundaries to put and what boundaries not to put in order to receive from the world. Because the Creator can't be revealed unless we receive. The creator created the creation to reveal the creator. But if we don't receive, we are literally shutting down creation.
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So this has been one of the hardest things for me to deprogram. And I have my Kabbalah colleagues I talk to regularly. I have coaches. I have mentors. I talk to you. I'm learning how to develop that part of me even as I date or as I kind of move on.
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From the age of 20 until the day I got married, I didn't date. I didn't even look at one. Nothing. I didn't even kiss a woman. Come on. I'm telling you. Come on. You kissed someone. I didn't kiss one. For 10 years? Not until the night of my wedding. No, come on, dude. No way. That's it. 10 years. 10 years. Why? You didn't kiss one woman. Not one. Not even like a peck on the lips? No. Come on, man.
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Really? Not even a peck. Why? Now, that's extreme. I don't say, I don't think anybody else. You were monk mode. You were like, I'm in service, I'm a monk. Part of it, because I have an extreme personality, and I really wanted to be the best at whatever I do. Not until your wedding night? Not until my wedding night. Come on, dude. I never said this publicly, so let's see how this is going to go.
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I mean, it's powerful. I don't know what kind of backlash I'm going to get after this, but what was my mindset? My mindset was, I have a spiritual platform. I've seen many people in my position fall. Abuse it or. Abuse it. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Obviously I was surrounded by, you know, you're surrounded by.
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Correct. And then there's transfer, because you're there for them. There's transference. There's all these things that happen. And I just said the simplest thing for me to do, and I told the creator, I said, creator, when I'm ready for my soulmate, She will live here. And I do not want to think about dating. I don't want to even turn on that part of me. And look, did it work for me?
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It did work for me because I met the most incredible woman in the world and we're born on the same day, same year. I'm two hours older. February 11th, 1984. Our moms were in labor at the same time, two different parts of the world. And we attracted each other vibrationally because we were meant to come together and to create everything we've created.
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And I knew on day one when I met her, she's the one, end of story. I didn't care about anything else. And that was it. We got married.
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In a romantic way, yes. However, she... Here's the thing about soulmates. There are many versions of soulmates. There are many aspects to soulmates. There are many parts of our soul that must match up with other souls. I think everyone's focused on the one, or the this, or the that. I like to shift my focus to I am the one.
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I have to focus on I am the one because the only reason I'm here is to transform myself and to create a vessel for the light of the Creator which manifests as prosperity and love and all the beautiful things of this world. And we will meet people for whatever karmic reason and whatever past life reason and whatever this life reason to help us become the best version of ourselves.
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For whatever reason, You know, and obviously I want to be careful because we're talking about other souls and I want to also respect their privacy, but for whatever reason, it was, we felt, it was deemed that our souls, in order to elevate to its next level, had to elevate in this way.
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And this is why our relationship today is, I mean, it's almost like strange for a lot of people because the love that we have, like if she needed a kidney, I would be first in line. Wow. Right?
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Absolutely. And by the way, when I date, I make that clear on day one. Not that... What do you say? I say, look, the most important person in my life is the mother of my children. Right. Because I've seen this. If you look at the mother of your children as your children, this is the highest vibration, I believe. Because all the reasons why we don't
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And I don't want to put a, like, this is how it is for everyone. I want to be very sensitive because everyone has very different situations. There's so many difficult, painful situations. And I'm really sensitive to that and I've seen it and felt it. But the goal should be, the desire should be, if I had no ego and I had no fears and I had no personal issues,
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How would I treat the mother of my children and the father of my children? It goes both ways. So many separations and divorces I see because maybe one person's hurt or one person got rejected. Then there's a power play. Then they want to hurt back.
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You know, there's a situation I know where like they're prolonging the divorce and making sure that they don't get the money because she stopped loving him and she loved somebody else. So he wants to teach her a lesson. Like all of these things, it's all. And I get it. By the way, when you're in it, it's very painful because now what's happening?
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but your soul came to this world to correct and cleanse and heal betrayal. Your soul saw that at the age of 25, you were asked for this woman to come in, and at the age of 38, she had to be taken away from you just so you could finally experience betrayal and transform it. But in a past life when this happened, what you did was you prolonged the divorce, You hurt her.
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You told the children that she's not a good person. You played games. So when your soul left this world, in the upper world, they made the calculation. They said, hey, listen, you only came to this world to heal betrayal and to love this other person unconditionally, even after she hurt you. When your soul leaves your body, it sees everything. There's no ego.
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So the soul says, oh my God, I can't believe I spent the last 80 years. I totally didn't get it. All I did is hurt her, all I did is run after other forms of instant gratification, I ran after another relationship just to numb the pain, and I didn't work on my soul's correction. That's considered hell. Hell is the soul seeing All the missed opportunity. What does the soul do?
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The soul says, please, put me back into this world. So I can correct it. I can correct it. I want to be back with her again. Oh, man. I want to be back with her again. I want this whole situation. I want it to be exactly the way it was. Oh, by the way, that guy that she cheated on with, make sure he's there exactly the way he is. Oh, no. So I can correct it. So I can correct it. Oh, my gosh.
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Oh, my God. Because the soul also sees that if he were to correct it, this world that's waiting for him, this new soulmate, this new wealth, this new everything, the wisdom. He saw all of it. He's like, oh my God, like if any part of the challenge was diminished, so would the reward be diminished. And he would not want that. And the soul begs to come back in, and then the process starts over.
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And then there's an astrological date where the soul comes in, and then based on that time and that place and that unique, exactly spiritual vortex, the soul is attracted to exactly the astrological influences that match its soul's correction. That's why that soul came at that moment, and then there's certain parents involved, and the whole thing starts over. Wow.
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This also, I don't know why I feel called to say this, but I'm just going to say it because maybe somebody needs to hear it. Say it. And every time I've shared this, for the last 20 years, there's always been at least one person that came up to me and said, because they heard this, they transformed their way of thinking about committing suicide.
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I don't know why I'm sharing it, but I'm sharing it now. Suicide. is the complete shutdown of the desire to receive. It's basically saying, I do not want to receive anything, which we have now learned the whole purpose of creation is to receive. So when a person takes their life, it creates such a soul correction that the soul has to come back.
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So what's happening here is when a really great soul, an elevated soul, has a lot of karmic debt, as a result of being a great soul. They will go through certain periods of darkness, it could be mental illness, it could be many things, circumstances that will make them feel there's no escape, there's no way out, there's no hope.
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Correct. And it gets to a place where they start to contemplate suicide. Those thoughts, those feelings, those desires, there's nothing to be ashamed of. We have to know that your soul is so powerful, it's meant to do so many great things, but you're not allowed to see it. Because if you could see it, you wouldn't pass the test.
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What is the biggest mistake people make when they try to manifest healthy love? Well, first off, When I'm sharing these spiritual concepts, which is based on the wisdom of Kabbalah, Kabbalah is explaining what's happening on a soul level. Why our soul comes to this world. What is the karmic debt and spiritual baggage we're bringing into this world? The soul is then choosing
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It's actually, when a person is contemplating death, it's actually because of the highness of their soul and what they're meant to do, which they are not allowed to be shown. However, what they need to know is, At that moment, if they do take their life, let's say at the age of 36, in two months, two weeks, at 2 p.m., they have this intense desire to leave this world.
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It is because in a past life, in the exact same moments, they had this desire and they took it. Then the soul leaves and says, oh my God, if I had just waited an hour, a day, a week, if I had just pushed through, Every problem was about to be solved. Everything, the soul sees it.
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And again, it begs to come back and it begs to go through the same painful, torturous, traumatic process up until the age of 36. And I always tell people, if you're thinking about this, you must know that you've been in this situation maybe hundreds or thousands of times before. This is the moment you can actually break the cycle.
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And you must know that if it's this dark, this bad, that is equivalent to the greatness that will come. One time I shared this. In one of my classes, a woman came up to me and said, I need to tell you something. This is the end of a 10-week course. She said that about 15 weeks ago, she was very overweight. She had a lot of problems. She was being bullied. I think she was in her early 20s.
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She said, I decided that I didn't want to live in this world anymore. I went into my room. And I was kind of talking out loud to the creator, to the world. I think she was Christian, she was spiritual. And she saw a book on her shelf. And it was a book that her late father had given her because he saw that she was struggling. And it was actually a Kabbalah book. It's called Power of Kabbalah.
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What's it called? Power of Kabbalah. So she's drawn to the book because she remembers her father gave it to her. She never read it. She took the book out and she started reading a few pages and she felt like there's some soul connection to it. And then she looked, flipped to the back of the page and saw like, where is there, you know, Kabbalah seminars.
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And then she saw that I was opening one a week later. She said, you know what? My father gave me this book. Maybe my father's speaking to me. I'm going to take, I'm going to go to this. But then she put in her calendar after the 10 weeks, she was going to end her life. She, she comes out to me at the end of the 10 weeks. She actually told me this and she got up in the class and said it.
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She said, look, tonight is the night I was supposed to take my life. Holy cow. But I've gone through this journey and now I see that I'm meant for great things. Even though I was bullied, even though I'm overweight, even though I can't find a healthy relationship, even though I feel not loved. Is she with her the whole thing? Beyond my logical mind, I am choosing love.
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to know that I am a vessel for great things, even though I cannot see it. She ended up becoming such a miraculous woman, doing incredible things, so much so that at an event we had with 3,000 people, she got up there, she had lost the weight, she had a relationship, so many things happened, and she got up and she told the story. And she's living her best life. And it's so powerful.
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So I don't know why we're talking about it, but whoever needs to hear it needs to know, no matter what your situation is, to the extent of the darkness you're going through, to the extent of the confusion you have, and to the extent you cannot see the future, it's to the extent of the greatness that is waiting for you. And you've been in the situation before.
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parents that align vibrationally with whatever it is I need to go through in order to become the greatest version of myself. So I don't know if I mentioned this last time, but if my soul brings this spiritual baggage of a fear of abandonment,
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When the soul came to this world, it asked for an opponent. And we all have an opponent. It's an energetic force. It's actually a positive force disguised as a negative one whose only job is to, at our level, challenge us, make us feel doubts, worries and fears. So for example- So that's supposed to happen for everyone. That happens on everyone on their spiritual level.
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As you grow spiritually, so does your opponent because of the bread of shame in order to earn everything, right? So people ask me, because I make mistakes. I make mistakes every day. People are like, wait, you've been studying Kabbalah for 25 years. Should life's work? The first thing they said is, how did your marriage not work? I said, no one should ever say their marriage did not work. Nobody.
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And in order for me to create miracles in my life and miracles in the area of sustenance, in love, in health and healing, in wisdom, just to have peace of mind and joy, in order for me to create those miracles, the Kabbalists explain that I have to transform the negativity that my soul came to the world with. But the only way to do that is actually to be put in situations that bring that out.
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Forget about me. Nobody should say that. Nobody should say that that last relationship didn't work because then you're basically saying the creator made a mistake. Everything worked as it should have. The only thing we need to focus on is what we can do to transform our vessel. Some people may need to have five marriages. I don't know. Some people may need to only have one.
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Sometimes they say the soulmate or the, you know, a different level of soulmate comes in the second marriage. There's many different opinions and spiritual writings. But what we know for sure is you are here. It is only you in the light of the Creator. Everything else is there designed for your greatness. So every time you say something, it was a waste of time.
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The #1 Cause of Breakups & The Spiritual Secret To Attracting Healthy Love | David Ghiyam
Every time you say something, it was a mistake. Every time you say he is toxic, she is toxic, he's a bad person, all you're doing is shrinking your vessel and delaying your wedding date. Let's say you just got out of a relationship that you found to be painful. Every day that you tell people That was toxic. That, I wish I never got into it. I wish I never met him.
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He or she robbed me of my best. Every word that you say on that vibration delays the meeting of your soulmate by another hour. Imagine that. Imagine that. So instead, choose today to bless this person, to love this person, to reach out. I mean, look, there's work involved here, right? I'm saying the headline, but there's work involved.
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This is a very horrible thing. It's a very painful thing. I hope that no one has to go through this. I hope that my children, maybe my children went through this. horrible thing. We must acknowledge that that is a painful thing, that is a horrible thing. And by the way, if someone came to me and said that, I wouldn't be like, well, everything's from the creator and you need to see it as good.
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Absolutely not. We need to be there for people and feel their pain and empathize with them and go down into the mud and the disgusting, painful situation with them. And we cannot judge them for it. That's number one. Now, if you're asking me,
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How do I get to the ultimate results where I will be happy and I will have my greatest life and I will have miracles and I will have success and I will find my soulmate quickly? I would say if you could at least start with the desire and the prayer to the universe and say, look, I'm not there. I'm angry. I'm frustrated. I am in pain. I feel like garbage. I feel so betrayed and hurt.
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Really? Yeah. A therapist might tell you, hey, look, you have abandonment issues because you had parents who divorced when you were young, causing you to have these fears and have these avoidant issues. Kabbalah says the opposite.
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I am at the bottom. But I desire to not be there. I desire to be on the vibration of love. I don't know how I'm going to get there, but you start there. It says that the universe remobilizes all the forces in this world to support you to get there. You will always be led by your desire. If you desire, for example, to rob a bank, the creator will show you how to do it. You will be sent thieves.
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You will be sent other people who are on that vibration who want to steal from the bank. And you will manifest it. A thief, a very good thief, could also be a very good businessman and a very good husband because he knows how to manifest his desire. His desire is to steal. Now imagine you take that desire And you shift it to something positive.
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When I was 14 years old, I started playing poker like eight, nine hours a day. I was trading in the stock market. I was addicted to gambling. At 14? At 14, 15. How do you have money to do these things? Well, I mean, at 15, I made my first million dollars because I was obsessed. I had all this energy. I didn't know what to do with it. How did you make a million dollars at 15? It was...
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I asked my father for a little bit. My parents really believed in me. I said, look, you give me a little bit of money, I will bring it back 24th. So he's like, all right, fine. Trade in this account. And I had fun with it. So it was through the stock market. It was through the stock market. And I went to casinos. It was a very interesting time. So I brought all of this kind of...
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which is really interesting because I did a Kabbalistic chart reading when I was like 16 years old when I first came to study Kabbalah. I said nothing. I sat there. She said, based on the time, the place, everything, and there's also intuition involved because people feel your soul. People feel things. They see things. She said, she looked at it. She said, past life gambler. I said, what?
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She said, based on your chart, you have an addictive personality, past life gambler, and it's one of the things you need to correct in this life. And you were already starting it as a teenager. She had no clue. I'm 16 years old. I think she's thinking, hey, be careful when you get older. She said to me, she said, for you to fulfill your correction, I would avoid casinos. What's interesting, yeah.
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So after I heard that, I realized, oh my God, this desire I have, which I've been channeling through gambling, And addictive behavior, if I could channel all of this desire and energy into helping people, it's the same methodology. It's just desire. And then the creator will help me with that. So then I'm like, well, what's the greatest thing I can put my energy into to be successful?
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Kabbalah says your soul already had these issues that brought from past life, and you are now choosing parents that will be conducive to awaken what's already inside you.
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I always wanted to be a billionaire when I was young. That's why my parents were like, you're doing what? I graduated UCLA top of my class. I had a perfect score in my SATs. I had everything going for me. I was supposed to go to Ivy League school. I was supposed to be their golden child. My brother's a physician. Everybody loves him. I'm from a Persian family in Los Angeles.
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And I told my parents, I want to join a nonprofit and teach Kabbalah. They said, you want to do what? They said, how much money are you gonna make? I said, no, no, you don't make money. Yeah, you pay. Yeah, exactly. They're like, wait, what? How are you gonna live? I said, no, they pay for my housing and my food and I get to focus on the people.
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They're like, well, how are you gonna raise your family? I don't know. How are you gonna, what woman's ever gonna wanna be with you? I said, I don't know. I said, all I know is, I believe that if I can channel my energy to help other people find their soulmate and other people find their wealth and other people, according to the spiritual laws, I will get everything.
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I don't know how it's going to happen. They lost their mind. But they totally lost their mind for a couple of years. But my mom always told me, she said, look, I always knew that you'd figure things out. So we didn't totally freak out. My parents trusted the process. My brother trusted the process.
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Correct. And they thought it was very noble, but they're like, can you just do it a couple hours a week?
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Can you make money doing it? Can you make money? I mean, you had made money and you have the potential and they're thinking like parents. How are you gonna live? Who's gonna take care of you? I remember when I got married, I had a couple thousand dollars in my bank account from birthday money I had saved up. And you never kissed anyone? Never kissed anyone. I made experience.
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And I didn't have a credit card and have credit. I remember we had to sign a lease. And I'm like, I don't have any credit. What's credit? I didn't even know what was going on. And I mean, we'll talk about this probably in the business podcast, because that began my business. That began the most miraculous thing
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journey of miracle after miracle to create, you know, what's today married with organics. That was the moment. So the first 10 years of my life, it was about how to just create that spiritual vessel. And I believe, you know, I don't know how many people, in the millions of people I got to connect with and touch and whatever. And also not having received for myself, I think helped tremendously.
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It helps to become pure because you're not thinking about well, what am I going to take from this person? Or how much are you going to pay me? It was really a beautiful thing. I do believe without a shadow of a doubt, those 10 years created the vessel for the- For abundance. For the vessel of abundance that came through Mary Woods, which we'll talk about in the next part. That's powerful.
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The #1 Cause of Breakups & The Spiritual Secret To Attracting Healthy Love | David Ghiyam
How do we get in the vibration of love to be able to get the love all we want to receive? First thing that comes to mind is you can only receive what you believe you deserve to receive. That's the first question I would ask all of us, because you could read all of the books about love and dating and relationships. You could be on all the apps. You could have the best photos.
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You could have the best profile. You could have a matchmaker out there scouring the earth to find your soulmate. You could have a beautiful physique and have amazing personality. However, your belief system about receiving is your capacity to receive. This goes for financial well-being, but especially love. And I ask this question to myself and I tell everyone to ask it to themselves.
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What do you believe? you deserve to receive. And it's very interesting because if you really look deep down inside, it's not just like one answer. It's a pie chart. If I take this pie chart, there's probably 50% that believes I deserve to be in a healthy relationship. There's probably 20% that you're not aware of that believes you should be in an abusive one.
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Maybe they did something shameful in their life. that they're not aware of consciously. And what do we do with shame? We hide and we diminish ourselves. So we subconsciously want someone to diminish us in order to not feel guilty about the shame. So the way we say it is 20% that kind of desire. 50% could just be a really healthy desire for love. Then there is maybe 20% that I want my freedom.
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And I have a belief system that relationships equal a loss of freedom.
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Correct. Maybe there's another 10% that believes that relationships are a really beautiful thing to help you grow spiritually, which is a very positive desire. You look at this pie chart, you will see that this pie chart represents your entire dating life.
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you will see that maybe the 50%, because it's the bigger part of the pie, you go in these relationships that last three to six months and they're very healthy, but then the 20% of I don't deserve kicks in, or the 20% of I need my freedom kicks in. And when that desire kicks in, you start to self-sabotage. You're not aware of it. So you start to become avoidant.
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You start to do things that are not in line with what you were before. And here's the thing, it's not about judging anyone. I tell people, I'm very curious always, if someone was loving you for three to six months and then all of a sudden they're not present and they're avoidant, they're not a narcissist. They're not, oh, he love-bombed me and he manipulated me.
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No, that's not what, I get that's what we say to try to understand our pain, But if you really look at it on a soul level, everything is happening commensurate with the desires of the person that they came to heal, that you both chose to find each other for in order to do it.
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Correct. And they are not allowed to enter your orbit unless your soul gave permission. You cannot get into the king's chamber. There are so many guards around the king and walls. If someone got into your life, into the king's chamber, if they're sitting at dinner with you and you're having a conversation, you start dating, Do you know how much permission must have been given spiritually?
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Isn't it crazy to think? It's unbelievable. It's profound. It makes me feel like, wow, this world is so big and so vast and so amazing how small we are, but we get into our, I know what's going on. And then here's the thing, the social media algorithm knows what we're going through, so they just validate it and paint.
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Yeah. It's not like if I am trying to find out about abusive relationships, I just keep getting videos that acknowledge the abuse and makes it harder for me to actually do my sole correction. My vessel shrinks more and more. My vibration drops. And I will have to go through a very painful situation to restart that whole process.
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The #1 Cause of Breakups & The Spiritual Secret To Attracting Healthy Love | David Ghiyam
100%.
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The #1 Cause of Breakups & The Spiritual Secret To Attracting Healthy Love | David Ghiyam
Because any other school of thought would always put you as the effect, and you will then always be looking on the outside who to blame.
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The #1 Cause of Breakups & The Spiritual Secret To Attracting Healthy Love | David Ghiyam
Before you continue, people should know you and I, Lewis messages me all day long, look at this comment, look at this question. What do you think of this? We are reading everything. We're reading it all. We're sharing it with each other. So this isn't like bots or our team. Lewis and I have a text. Look at this, look at this, look at this, look at this.
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And I will have a really powerful example for you when we do the next show. It just came to me. I'm going to share that example of how I've seen a man change overnight because a woman took some spiritual advice and shifted her consciousness. She literally... woke up the next day and said, I didn't recognize my husband. Wow. So how you can shift your partner in a powerful way.
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Don't try to change your partner, but how do you shift to a destiny where your partner You're like, wait, that's not the same human I even married.
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And it's not the highest vibration. But I always tell people, It's not about you need to believe that you had a soul contract. I always say like I'm gonna share this content, which is not my content. It's from thousands of years of ancient spiritual wisdom of all the sages and all the different religions actually that were very spiritual in its original intention and become more religious.
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Now, I always share like this wisdom has been there to show us that we are in control and that it is our birthright to have the absolute greatest life in every area. The Creator wants to give us even more than we want to receive. And it says that the Creator wants to give us endlessly more energy than even we know. But it looks like things are being deprived from us.
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It looks like the world is a very dark place and people are against me and Certain circumstances aren't fair and people are born in different situations that aren't fair. And it does look like that, but the truth is every single soul has a pathway to the greatest miracles that they could ever possibly imagine. Every soul has a pathway towards their soulmate, even if it looks like they don't.
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Every soul has a pathway towards having financial freedom, even if it looks dark and impossible and you don't know where it's going to come from. There is a pathway. The fact that you don't see it, there's a spiritual reason. It's because our soul asked not to see it. Our soul asked not to be born with our soulmate. Our soul asked not to be born knowing our purpose.
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Our soul asked to be put in a world of darkness so that we could activate our God gene and earn all of this fulfillment. So it shouldn't just be given to us. Anything that is just given to us makes us feel shame and we resent it. Because when you give someone something they have not earned, they feel the opposite. They feel they received less.
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So a lot of times people who don't appreciate us, it's not because we didn't give them enough, it's because we gave them too much. And so they keep thinking, I'm not getting. But it's not that they're not getting. It's that we're giving them so much, we're flooding their vessel. And too much light becomes darkness. Really? Yeah.
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When you're giving, not understanding what the vessel can hold, appreciate, and use. Which vessel? Yours or the other person? Other person's vessel. This is the number one thing in relationships that's causing breakups to happen or resentment to happen. Let's say, and I have an example of this. I remember coaching this couple. This guy basically said, I found this amazing girl. We've been dating.
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And it's finally. Like, I am so, I found my dream girl. I'm so in love. And this is amazing. It's been like three weeks. And I said, amazing, what are you guys doing? He's like, I'm taking her here. I'm doing this. I'm introducing her to my family, all that. I'm giving her the world. Giving her the world. And I said, wow, that's amazing. He's like, yeah. I said, I would love to meet her.
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I met her, and she had this beautiful Rolex watch, but it was like a male. It wasn't a female watch. I said, that's a beautiful watch. It was kind of big on her wrist. It was kind of big on her wrist. She's like, hey, Brandon got it for you. In three weeks of knowing her. Yeah, so that for me, I looked at it and I said, oh, that's so generous of him.
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Later on, I found that he also gave her a credit card and said, hey, look, this is whatever you need. Because he wanted to make her feel comfortable. Of course. He wanted to show her how much he loved her. He wanted her to... He understood her love language was gifts and acts of service, like I want to give that to her. Yeah, and he wanted her to feel safe and wow her or woo her as well. Correct.
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So I know, kabbalistically, what happens to a soul when you give them too much energy, you give them too much of something that they have not earned or don't have the capacity to receive or are using it for their own lack and need. So this girl figured out how to get him to give to her gifts, love, expression to fill her needs.
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Then I went to Brandon and I said, Brandon, you need to know something. I've seen this before. I know you're excited about this relationship. I know you don't, want to lose it. But because you're so afraid of losing it, you're over giving and you're literally pouring 16 ounces of water in an eight ounce glass.
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You're 100% correct because he thinks he's giving, but he is destroying. So he's actually taking from her by giving or what he thinks is giving.
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The #1 Cause of Breakups & The Spiritual Secret To Attracting Healthy Love | David Ghiyam
This is great.
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I've met with thousands of women, one-on-one. Maybe 20% of them have been in this situation. The way this usually ends up, if there isn't a spiritual course correct, is she leaves him. Why? She doesn't respect him. And this is what she says to her friends. And the friends say, you're with the perfect guy. I know. Something's missing. The spiritual connection is missing.
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The emotional connection is missing. The chemistry is missing. Something is missing. Because when you flood the vessel and you don't actually think from the consciousness of what's really good for the soul of this person. Because sometimes giving is setting a boundary.
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Sometimes giving is sharing how you feel, not from a reactive place, but explaining to her, hey, listen, these are needs that I have that aren't being met and I want to have a conversation about it. That's also giving. But if you're always just pacifying somebody, if you're not really thinking about how to grow their soul or to help them or inspire them, you're hurting them.
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And eventually she will look for something else because it's not making her feel good on a soul level. This concept in Kabbalah is called the bread of shame. The bread of shame is a feeling you get when you receive something you have not either physically or spiritually earned. The number one way you know you have a bread of shame is when you feel frustrated, impatient, and judgmental.
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When you feel very judgmental, you think it's because you're not getting what you want. It's actually because you're getting so much in your life, but you're not working for it. You're not breaking your fears and spiritually earning it. You're not pushing yourself to expand your vessel. So it's another case of there's so much light, you perceive it as darkness.
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Think of the people who are not judgmental or appreciative. They are the people who are working the hardest. They are the people who are breaking through stuff. They are the people who are like, what's the next thing I can, way I can give or I can transform? These people aren't sitting around judging and speaking evil speech. Judgment and evil speech is always a result of
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of not living up to your soul's potential and being stagnant spiritually. So you feel emptiness and then you want temporary energy. And the highest form of temporary energy is evil speech and complaining because it's so easy. It's right there. It's like it's addictive. It's a drug. So the darkness people feel is not because they're not getting what they want.
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It's because there's too much energy, too much light, and they haven't built their vessel to hold that energy. Kabbalah is all about how do I build my vessel? We are too consumed with trying to find out how do I get more light? How do I get more energy? How do I get more relationships? How do I get more dates? How do I get more people to love me? How do I get better looking?
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How do I get all these things? And less focused on how do I build my spiritual vessel to hold the energy that is already there? That's the only thing that matters. And when you think that way, then you look at every relationship as an opportunity to build my vessel. Oh, I attracted a narcissist. I attracted somebody who's toxic.
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In order for people not to experience the energy of death and darkness and eventually to have to leave this world and come back and fix it again, everyone is spiritually designed to come to us to activate the parts of us that are the weakest. So a narcissist or a toxic relationship is the very beautiful thing, your soul, pre-programmed and predestined. Now, how do you avoid it?
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Well, we have free will. So Kabbalah explains there is destiny and there's free will and they both coexist. So what is the destiny? On the day you are born, your entire life's destiny is already pre-programmed, meaning every sneeze you have, every relationship you have, every heartbreak you have, how much money you're going to make, A to Z is already pre-programmed. So what's my free will?
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Parallel to this destiny, there are infinite destinies. Each of them look the same. It's like parallel realities. And each one that goes higher is a better destiny and a more fulfilling one. The only way to shift up a destiny or down a destiny is to go through a period of darkness Because in periods of darkness, you see the weakness. You see what's called the soul's correction.
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You see your garbage. You see your anger issues. You see your control issues. You see your abandonment issues. You see how you're not actually the nicest person. You see your savior issues. You see your people pleasing issues. And they all come to the surface when things aren't going our way. That is the moment of free will. You only have free will when you're in pain.