Danny Morel
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By the way, you like Latinas, right? So screaming is part of it.
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There you go. Good. So I had to tell myself a different story. By the way, don't hate me. It's a joke. It's not an outlaw. Relax.
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But can I tell you why?
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It's from a lot of wounding.
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A lot of wounding.
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That's right. And.
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Because that's the wounded feminine. The wounded feminine uses seduction to get you.
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Right. The divine feminine. Yeah. They don't need that. She's in. She's in her power. She's in her power. Yeah. She doesn't need to use that. No. She knows who she is. Exactly. Yeah. Yeah. And then, talking about our culture, why do the men drink so much? Because the men are wounded. Because the men were taught as little boys to never tap into their emotions.
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Because it's a Hispanic, macho, masculine thing. It's bull is what it is. And then by the way, guess why else are women? Because the women are taught, the mothers are taught that they have to, you just have to deal with it because that's how men are. So then the woman gets taught to not deal with and live in their authentic truth. And then you're there. I know grandmothers.
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My grandfather, Louis, my grandfather had 13 kids from seven different.
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Because he was wounded. He was a mess. God bless him. He's gone. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Yeah. And then my family, like, honored and revered that. Really? Oh, yeah. Because that's... He's the patriot.
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I remember my high school graduation. I remember it was my grandfather. And, like, I had, like... My cousin's grandmother, my cousin's grandmother, my cousin's grandmother, and my now, it was all just there. And everybody just got along. They all got along? It's just how you do life. Did they really get along, or was it just kind of like... Yeah, they really all got along.
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I don't know, bro. I don't know.
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Well, all I know is that for me, that just didn't feel right. It just didn't feel right. And I saw my poor grandmother. I love her. She was just so self-sacrificing. For the sake of the family.
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Yeah, man.
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I get that. You know, can I tell you what's interesting? Let me tell you what my story was. Because when I saw Jen, I didn't think I was worthy of her.
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So Jen is 5'10".
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I'm a short guy.
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Short king. Right, that's right. So listen. She's 5'10". She's 5'10". With heels, she's towering. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Right? And she's gorgeous. She's just this long blonde, right? British, I never in my life thought. But let me, and this is.
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No.
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No, no Spanish at all. No, but I have to share, this is so wonderful because a lot of times what you're looking for is not what your soul needs. So you see, number one, she was taller than me. So like go back to the Hispanic machismo. That's keeping you from your heart. So it's like God goes, okay, you're ready? Here, let's deal with that.
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Let's have you feel what it feels like to be with a woman that's taller than you.
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Yes, this is what I'm telling you guys. Relationships are the greatest medicine of your life. Here we go. You ready? Number two, she's white.
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She's not Latina. So as a minority, which there is no such thing as minority, that's a programming from the 3D world, you are taught as a little boy and little girl that white people are different or better or whatever it is. So I had to deal with that.
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Or whatever it is. Whatever the story is, I had to deal with that. I had to deal with being accepted by a different culture. Right? Number three, she's younger than me. She's younger than me. So I had to deal with the fact that the world wasn't going to like this. The world was going to get mad.
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Well, I don't know.
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All I know is that Whenever I post a picture of Jen and I... Because you're divorced is what you're saying. Well, that's another thing. Can I be honest with you? Don't hate me. I'm just telling the truth. But the backlash that I... He left his wife for a younger, beautiful... Which there was a three-year... I didn't even know her when I got there. It was none of that.
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And can I tell you? The number one people who I got the most backlash from were Hispanic women.
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What did they say? Well, think about what 5'10", Blanc, does for that program.
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You see, because when you love yourself for exactly who you are, you don't give a what somebody else does. You don't care, right? So all it is, right, it's just mirrors that are being reflected back to you that are causing you to feel a certain way. And then you go on Instagram and your ego, and that's what, instead of, whoa, wait a minute, why is this making me feel this way?
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And then number three, I had three boys. So I had to somehow get... a taller, drop-dead gorgeous, beautiful blonde. Younger. Younger, who lives halfway across the world to somehow fall in love with me. Talk about like going into the essence of himself. It was the greatest medicine of my life.
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Whoa, how is that?
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Okay.
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Sure, sure, sure.
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Watch this. I want you guys to pay attention. You see, there's medicine in everything if you allow it.
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That's right. You can never offer someone else what you don't have with yourself first. Mm-hmm. And that's one of the greatest lessons that I could, like, whenever you are judging your partner, whenever you are in a place where you're telling, I can't wait for my partner to change. They're like, what if they, you know, again, they go, you know, all men are dogs, right?
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Always go back to self, which takes a lot of courage, I know, but always ask yourself, wait a minute, hang on a second. What is it that I am afraid of changing or healing within myself that has me in a relationship where I'm constantly waiting for something else to change? Yes.
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And what am I, what does that mean to me or what am I making it mean?
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I think what we're both saying for the listener, I want you guys to really pay attention to how both of us, the partner that we found made us deal with and look at parts of ourselves that maybe we haven't looked at or been wanting to deal with. Like for me, it was scary, bro.
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I wasn't. Me too. Straight up. Me too. Straight up, right? And this is why I get so passionate about it, because it's like if we can help the world awaken to this, right, that all of you, whether you're a woman or a man, you all have masculine and feminine parts of you energetically. I called in the perfect partner, like it seems you did, right? To heal those parts of you.
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Like maybe where you judged yourself in the past. Right?
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and trip out on this.
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Louis, for me, it was my body. So like for me, like if I have too many carbs, like, you know, like little chubby Danny comes back and I would wait and I would look at, Jen loves me exactly who I am, how I am.
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I don't have to feel anything. I'm free.
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Yeah. It's just beautiful, man.
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Well, hang on, Lewis. Do you remember how we started? We said life when you heal is a reflection of the inside. So when you feel peace, love and abundance inside, guess what you attract? A partner that mirrors that frequency. So then it's all about, guys, please listen to me. What is in your life that is robbing you of peace, love and abundance?
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You know, sometimes I've had to work with some of my clients that it's their mother.
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Like, the mom shows up drunk, as abusive, as judgmental. It's the father. I made a quote the other day, and it said, don't allow the family you came from to ruin the family you're creating. And this is a message to the men out there. Like a lot of men out there, you have like some of these, you know, manipulative parents who, by the way, are doing it because it's their form of loving you.
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It's just a wounded form of love, right? If you allow that to take priority over your wife, you're never gonna have freedom. You're gonna have to find, remember, the courage
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to speak up to your family right and realize that my family is from me down that means me my partner my parents and that's when you come from a hispanic culture it's oh brother everybody above is the family yeah and they get intertwined that's right
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Which research shows there's like beauty in that. Of course. Because, you know, but it's like just understand that there's a cost to it.
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I mean, heck yeah. Like I'm up for that. You ever? Yeah.
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Everything you just described is the outcome of fear. And when I say fear, You ever heard of Maya Angelou's poem? She said, the greatest fear we have is not that we are inadequate, but it's that we are like, I'm going to butcher this.
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Essentially, what it says is the greatest fear is that we are like, we're the one where as powerful as can be, right? And so this all, remember, I feel like a broken record sometimes, but it all comes back to whatever you're experiencing on the outside is just a match for how you're living on the inside. So all of that is correct. Absolutely. I lived it. You lived it.
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And we can all go back and look at the fact that all of us in some way, shape or form had the frequency of fear inside of us. Fear of speaking my truth, fear of being seen, fear of being accepted for who I am. Fear, right? When you decide, because this is what I decided, Louis, I after 13 years of being married, right, which I'm grateful for to this day, I love her. I support her.
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I provide for her. my dream actually has finally come true. We're all like, everyone is cool. Like everything is great right now, right? But I had to come to a realization and I said, okay, I know what it feels like to not have peace.
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Right?
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Not fun at all, man. Not fun at all. Because when you don't have peace in your life, that lack of peace shows up, listen to me, in your money. Mm-hmm. literally the lack of peace that you have within attracts clients, partners, careers that will give you more lack of peace because you're the one creating it all, right? And so it shows up in every facet of life.
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So Louis, I said to myself, if I'm going to be with anyone, My number one priority is peace.
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Yeah.
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Which is very healthy masculine energy, by the way. Very healthy masculine energy. And by the way, that is wounded feminine energy. Of course.
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That's right.
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Can you pause right there?
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Do you guys remember what I told you? I said at the very beginning, or maybe in the previous episode, that if you could finally look at everything that has been in your life and accept it and thank it, because it will be the greatest teacher and give you the greatest gift of your life when you finally allow yourself to do it.
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Literally, you going through that relationship showed you what you no longer wanted, showed you what you wanted, and attracted your new fiance. Exactly.
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I can't blame you for something you already did. And that's why whenever I deal with couples who are like, the one has cheated.
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It's either you're going to accept it, go into it and heal it. And by the way, understand that if they cheated, you co-created that.
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No one wants to hear that. They're the victim.
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Listen to me. They cheated for a reason so that you could heal part of you that attracted someone that was going to cheat. Period. End of story.
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What are you talking about, Danny? I can guarantee you there was a part of you that wasn't in your power. That wasn't in your authenticity.
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100%.
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Maybe they gave too much, so much so that they didn't honor themselves. There's always a reason. There's always a reason. So I gave so much love, should I stop giving all my love? I'm going to block my love. Hang on, because let's talk about this. Because what is cheating? Cheating is you being with someone else without telling the person. That's it. Because I know throuples.
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I know open relationships. I know as long as you have consent, it's not cheating. Right? So hang on a second. So then your partner had some sort of hidden desire that they didn't feel comfortable sharing with you. Why didn't they feel comfortable sharing with you? Maybe, just maybe, could you have not provided a comfortable and open space where they could share everything?
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Well, then just stay there. And watch it happen again.
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Or. I hear what you're saying. I know, I know, I know. Or, by the way, this is, I only speak of the things that I had, I cheated. I had an affair. Luis, I was that guy that when like all of the husbands were going on a guy's trip, the wives would only allow their husbands to go if Danny was going. Oh, wow. Because I was Mr. Goody Two Shoes. Wow.
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Because I wanted to create this facade that I had it all together. And deep inside, it was all a lie. Wow. It was all a lie, man. So I created it. Yeah. And by the way, so did my ex. I know she may not want to hear that, but we couldn't speak about this stuff. We couldn't. I couldn't. I couldn't. I couldn't even share the truth as to why I forgot the milk at the grocery store, let alone that.
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If I forgot the milk at the grocery store, I would get my balls chopped off. Are you kidding me? I would never hear the end of it. And then if I said, the, did you just say the? It was like a, there was nothing I could do.
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I'm wrong no matter what. Yeah, it's exhausting. So tell me something. Yeah. If that's how you react, what do you think is going to happen? What do you think? And people used to tell me all the time, people used to say, you know, everyone makes mistakes. Because trust me, man, I dealt with the guilt of that. That was a very deep, dark journey. You've got to live with that.
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I lived with it, you know, and I... I don't wish that on anybody. I really don't because I am aware of the pain that it caused. But you know, ultimately what both of us discovered, like we were trying to hold on to each other for all the wrong reasons. There wasn't real love. There was just the facade. And so like when I look back, it's like, It wasn't a mistake.
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It was like, it was the key that unlocked both of us from the cage. Yes. Like if you could really allow yourself to look at things from like a different perspective, like that's where you'll find your healing.
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It's the lack of being able to speak your authentic truth. Period. End of story.
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It's coming from there's an energy within you from a spiritual, energetic perspective. Your throat chakra is blocked. You had an experience as a little boy or as a little girl where you weren't seen or accepted for your truth. And your mother...
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or your father told you that your voice, in some way, shape, or form, because this is how this all happens, and then you attract someone from that wounding, and then both of you never share your truth. Or when you finally do, it comes out in anger, because that's the other side of the wounding, basically. And then when it comes out like that, there's no reflection.
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Like, don't get me wrong, me and Jen, we get into our situations. But we always, like, here. I'm going to leave you like this. If you get this, you'll heal your relationship. But this takes an immense amount of courage.
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From this day forward, everything that happens in your relationship, every argument, every disagreement, everything that goes wrong, if you are ready to heal your relationship, here's what I want you to do. Make it your fault.
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Everything. What's that book that Jocko wrote? uh, something, uh, responsibility, uh, something responsibility. There's something about like, yeah.
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Yeah. But there was, there was one he wrote about something like responsibility, except 100% responsibility. And you know what I started realizing? I started realizing that everything that I would blame Jen for like secretly, there was something I did. Maybe it was the energy in which I came to the conversation. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
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But maybe it was the fact that I wanted to get into an argument with her. Maybe it was the fact that I didn't share my truth. Whatever it was. And when you can learn to accept ownership and responsibility for everything, here's what you do, then you communicate it. And you say, you say, baby, I realized that the way I showed up was wrong.
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I wasn't being authentic or, you know, the energy in which I was speaking from, it was manipulative. And I'm sorry. And I'm not aware of why I did that. But I can see it's a pattern that has been showing up in my life for so long. Because that's what started happening, man. Here's my dream woman. And she would start saying the exact same thing that my ex would say about me.
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So it's either they're crazy or I'm crazy. And once I realized I was the crazy one, well, then I got to go into it.
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They would both say, but Danny, you don't understand. It's the energy in which you say it. And I'd be like, no, I'm being nice. So then I was like, I was coming into this with a charge. Sure. Right. I was coming into it expecting to not be heard. So, of course, they're not going to hear me. So who created it?
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Well, I don't want to say that they're getting it wrong.
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The greatest pain that is being created inside the life of women today is that they have been taught several things that are keeping them disconnected from love. Number one, they're in a competition with other women. They need to realize that other women are their sisters. And whenever they're in competition with other women, they're actually in competition with themselves.
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Whenever they judge other women, they're actually judging themselves. The second thing that is keeping women from their heart is women have been taught that their value is on the outside. And so women, and I say this lovingly, but women are so preoccupied with changing, adding, removing their outside.
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And the message that I think love has for them is that they are perfect exactly the way they are. And there's a reason why they were born the way that they were born. And the moment that they start to cherish and honor and accept themselves for who they are, and not change to conform to what society wants of them or for what a man wants of them. They'll be in their power.
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I will tell you, and this has been a deep part of my journey. When I was in my teens, I can remember only thinking about one thing and that was getting married.
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And from that power, they will attract, guess what? A man that is also in love with himself for who he is, right? And the third thing that I think is keeping women from the love they truly desire Is that they will not allow a man to fully love them, protect them, and provide for them. Because they have been the man in their life. They have been the masculine in their life.
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And the only way, the only way for a man, a masculine man, a safe man, a loving man to come into your life is if you stop being the man in your life.
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Women don't like hearing that, but women love hearing that.
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Because the man that was supposed to protect them, love them, and provide for them didn't. He broke their hearts. He wasn't there for them. And He taught them that trusting and leaning on and counting on a man was the last thing they should ever do in their life. It's a father wound.
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Or it could be a mother wound, and where they saw their mother be defenseless with their father, and they told themselves, I will never be that ever again.
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Because the energy of society, it's a fear consciousness. I'm going to be very gentle with this, but let's just look at the recent election, okay? Let's talk about fear and victim energy. By the way, I didn't vote, so I'm not, I have no fight in this game. Because I decided a couple years ago that the game of politics is actually the game of separation.
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It's a losing game. It's a game of pitting one against the other. So watch this.
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And by the way, someone's right and someone's wrong.
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And when someone's right and someone's wrong, we're all wrong. That's right. That is separation. We used to walk around planet Earth butt naked, loving each other. That's who we are at our core. We're love, right? And so when you're in victim energy, all of your energy and fear energy is put into something outside of you. So you are on pins and needles for your person to win.
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Because if and when they win, my life will be different. There is no more deeper that you are falling into than that. You are the president of your life, period, end of story. You are the creator of your life, but then watch this.
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Victim fear energy, which is literally all of Hollywood, all of the news, all of the machine, which wants to keep you in it, they're constantly just programming you with fear, right? So then when your person win or doesn't win, guess what happens? You go into fear. Oh my God, how could I live in this world, this world, this world with so much bad things happening in this world?
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What if you shut off the damn program?
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What if you shut off the TV? True story. I don't know what the hell is going on in the world. because it was shown to me very clearly that the TV is the very thing that is being used to program us and keep us in fear. I don't know who's at war. I don't know who won the game. I don't know. I'm oblivious, because I want to stay here. I don't need that to entertain me or to fill me.
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I'll tell you why. I was that guy that was like, I just, I wasn't the sleep around kind of guy. And I'm sure I did my thing, but more than anything, I was looking for.
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I'm filled in here. You want life? Close your eyes. Sit in silence. You want to meet God, by the way? Go sit in nature for 30 minutes. Take a deep breath in. Hold that breath. Release it. Do that six, seven, eight, nine times, and then just sit in stillness. Watch all of your ailments. Watch your body heal, your life heal. Because you're going to meet God. You're going to meet God.
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You're going to meet the Creator. You want to manifest it here. You, the center of the universe, is literally all right here. But you're being told that it is out there.
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By the way, so let me keep going. Thank you. So what does fear want? Fear wants chaos. Fear wants darkness. So fear and the consciousness of fear and separation devises this plan. I know what we're going to do. We're going to make the women men and the men women. Because when those energies come together, guess what happens?
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We will create children that are in the energies of chaos, guilt, and shame. They can't be in their power. Because when they're in their power, they're being shown by a man, a father, what true masculinity is, and by a woman, what true femininity is. And the more and more that these babies are being created in chaos, guilt, and shame, the more that darkness can live.
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The last thing it wants is for men to be in their masculine and women to be in their feminine. Because if that happens, guess what will happen here on Earth, Lewis? Heaven on earth.
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Love. Love. The heaven that religion tells you that you need to wait for someday out there, you will literally experience it here on earth. And if you want that, remove all separation that is within you. Remove all racism that is within you. Start there. Start there. Anything in you that sees yourself as less than or greater than someone else.
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I used to be in real estate and I used to be a part of a club that was only for like Hispanic real estate agents. That's me creating and filling the energy of racism. Wow. I'm the one creating it.
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It wasn't. My desire was this, what you're talking about, right? And so after I got married and through my divorce and through the affair and through that entire process, I went on a three and a half journey of healing myself.
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You are not your culture. You are not your country. You are you. I'm not Hispanic. I'm not American. I'm a human being, and my country is the world, and my religion is love. Period, end of story. Watch what happens when you start going on that journey. Watch how beautiful life gets. Money? Dream partner? Because you have finally gotten it. That you are love.
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Well, the world that we live in. The game is this, Lewis. You come down into this world and the world is made to take you from your power. All of your power believes in and listens to everybody else. You listen to your mom and dad. You listen to your teacher. Then you listen to the government. Then you listen to the preacher. You listen to everybody but you.
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And that shows you to be separate from God. So you're praying and hoping, God, please change my life. Please change my life. Please change my life. until one day you realize, this ain't working. This ain't working. Because they keep attracting the same thing, right? And then you go on the journey.
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You go on the journey of no longer believing what the world, society, religion, when nothing is told you, you go on the journey of finding the truth for yourself and discovering who you are. And when you do that and you have the courage to unravel everything within you that has anything to do with fear, anything to do with not honoring your truth, guess what you discover, man?
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You discover exactly what Jesus said when they asked him, who are you? Who are you? And what did he say? I am that I am. They say you're God. Are you God? I and the Father are one. And that very thing is available for all of humanity.
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Backslash Awaken.
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If I could, every day of my life.
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We will do 10 of them in 2020. 10 of them?
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I just, I... That's great. Lewis, there's nothing on planet Earth like you seeing a human being uncover their eyes and look at you with tears going, I get it.
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Yeah, we've got two. It's the Higher Self. And then with my wife, we do Finding the One.
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38, 39. Okay. Maybe 40. I don't know. And I'll tell you exactly what happened, Louis. Yeah, I'm going to tell you the exact story. So I always thought that my wife was going to be from Colombia. Obviously, Colombian women are beautiful.
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Everything you've ever wanted and every question you've ever answered is already within you. There is no separation between you, the plants, the animals, your brothers and sisters, as you are all one, and you and God are one.
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Discovering yourself and living from your authentic self.
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Thank you, man.
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Right? And so in that story, I had met someone. I had met someone and I wanted so bad for them to be the one. So bad. I'm sure you've been there as well, right? And I was trying to force it and I was trying to make it happen. And one day I was speaking to a friend of mine that was a psychic. He had psychic powers. And it was like, I was tired of it not working.
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And I wanted him to tell me that she's the one, right? Like, just tell me, just tell me, right?
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Yeah, maybe your mind, sometimes it's like the truth is right there, but you're afraid to look at it, right? And so then he looks at me. He goes, I don't think I need to tell you. I think you know. True story. I'm sitting there. It was during COVID. He's looking at me through Zoom, and everything inside of me says, say it, say it, say it. And I said, she's not the one.
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And Louis, by that time, we can get into this if you want, I had done enough work with plant medicine to where I understood energy and the way my body works when it's starting to release energy is it starts to shake.
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So I immediately start to shake and I'm having a massive ego death. I did not realize how big it was. So I go, I got to go.
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I shut the computer down and I'm literally on the floor because all of this trapped energy that I now realize was there since I was a little boy and didn't receive my mom's love, which turned into the teenager that wanted to be married because I was looking for love outside of me.
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Louis, imagine all of that had been stuck in my body for so long and it's just starting to shake and I'm like, I need to go lay down. So I go lay down, man, and I'm finally admittedly like at my wit's end. Because it's like I've tried to make this relationship thing work and it's just not working. And what is it? What's wrong with me, right?
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And I literally just ask the question and my body is shaking and I'm doing all of this and I'm like, God, just show me who's the one. Who's the one? At that point, I was helpless, basically, right? And my arm literally goes up like this, and it points to God. And then, I'm not doing this. My body is spirits, whatever. And then my hand goes like this.
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And I look down, and I'm like, I'm the one I've been looking for my whole life. And brother, I started to just cry and cry and just release this story that again, I unconsciously created since I was a boy and I didn't feel my mom's love, you know?
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Yeah, 100%.
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And so then I'm there and I'm crying, I'm crying, I'm crying. And then all of a sudden, Luis, my body, again, not me, my body goes, and I lean over to the side and my hand is right there like this. And it's almost as if God was like, okay, now that you got rid of this, just let me show you what's coming. And all I see is the top of a head, and it was like a light brown hair.
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It wasn't brunette, which was what I was used to, light brown. And I just got the message, she will finally feel safe with you. Wow. Yeah. A couple months later, I'm in a mushroom journey. And at the end of that journey, it is clear the message comes to me and it says, you are about to meet the woman of your dreams. And together you will have a daughter. Wow.
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And that daughter will be the healing culmination of your heart, your mother's heart, and your grandmother's heart. So I get up and I'm like, I'm going to have a daughter. I'm going to have a daughter, right? Brother, I don't know how to explain to you. It was the truest thing I had ever, right? And you already have three kids. I already have three kids. They're telling me, right?
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Two years later on that very day. is with Jen and I, I woke up. It was on my birthday. I was holding a mushroom ceremony on my birthday, which is what I love to do on my birthday, is to give back in that way. Two years later, on my birthday, I wake up and Jen is laying there by my side.
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Right. What I want to share is if you're out there and you are really looking for your life's partner, I'm going to tell you everything that I did. Okay? Yes. Number one, you have to be willing to let go of the parts of yourself that need a partner.
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Because if you need a partner, you're not in your heart. You're in your mind.
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And I like to call it the difference between a mind mate and a soul mate. And trust me, if you are up here, you will find a mind mate. You will find a partner that energetically matches that frequency. And then you'll be stuck in it. And then you'll be 10 years, 13 years down the road like I was, like talking about, oh my God, what do I do now? Right? We'll get to that in a second.
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That's number one. Number two, if you want to track this, what I'm sharing with you, you also have to be willing to let go of everything that has been causing you to avoid your healing journey. For me, that was two things, alcohol and sex.
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Yeah, because it's what I use to stay disconnected from myself.
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Yeah, every weekend I used to drink. It's what used to numb my pain. Wow. And so I just, I let it go. I'm not telling you drinking is bad. That's a whole different story. I'm telling you is that for something to be born, something has to die. Don't ever forget that. For something to be born, something has to die. For something new to come, you have to be willing to release the old.
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This is spiritual energetic here.
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You're just going to keep attracting the same thing.
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Yes, absolutely. It will always feel like that because that's the way human beings and relationships work, right? You get together and it's infatuation is what it is.
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Right? I used to think that infatuation was love. It's not. It's not. No. As a matter of fact, infatuation doesn't, love doesn't happen until you let go of infatuation.
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And you start to realize, and this is the key, Lewis, is that we are calling into our lives the partner that not only reflects where we're at energetically, but is the perfect partner that we need in that moment to help us to heal a part of ourselves. Most people that say that they want a relationship, you don't actually want a relationship. You just don't want to be lonely.
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All
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real soul connected relationship, get ready to deal with your deepest, darkest of your life. Because a relationship is the greatest medicine that you can have in your life. Because I'll give you an example. You're either going to keep doing this or what? Someone is going to have to allow, release, surrender, let go. And then hopefully the other person does the same thing.
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And that's the thing, Luis, is that I don't think people really know what they're asking for when they ask for a relationship.
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How did yours? Because I know you're in one now.