Daniel Pink

And the way we do that is we have to extract a lesson from that regret. And we tend to be pretty bad at solving our own problems. We're good at solving other people's problems, terrible at solving our own problems. So a really good technique is essentially to, it's what's called self-distancing, is basically get some distance from yourself. So you can do things like talk to yourself in the,

Second person, what should you do? Or even better, your third person, what should Holly do? I got to say, the single best decision-making tool that I know of when you're stuck is to ask yourself, what would I tell my best friend to do? I have people come to me saying, Dan, I should do this or should I do that? I'm just so torn. I don't know what to do.

Second person, what should you do? Or even better, your third person, what should Holly do? I got to say, the single best decision-making tool that I know of when you're stuck is to ask yourself, what would I tell my best friend to do? I have people come to me saying, Dan, I should do this or should I do that? I'm just so torn. I don't know what to do.

Second person, what should you do? Or even better, your third person, what should Holly do? I got to say, the single best decision-making tool that I know of when you're stuck is to ask yourself, what would I tell my best friend to do? I have people come to me saying, Dan, I should do this or should I do that? I'm just so torn. I don't know what to do.

Second person, what should you do? Or even better, your third person, what should Holly do? I got to say, the single best decision-making tool that I know of when you're stuck is to ask yourself, what would I tell my best friend to do? I have people come to me saying, Dan, I should do this or should I do that? I'm just so torn. I don't know what to do.

Second person, what should you do? Or even better, your third person, what should Holly do? I got to say, the single best decision-making tool that I know of when you're stuck is to ask yourself, what would I tell my best friend to do? I have people come to me saying, Dan, I should do this or should I do that? I'm just so torn. I don't know what to do.

we're too caught up in the details of our life. At some level, we know too much, and that blinds us from the big picture. It's like trying to understand, okay, I want to study the ocean, and what I'm going to do is I'm going to scuba dive to try to understand the ocean. It's like, well, now I'm immersed in everything. If you really want to understand, what does the ocean look like?

we're too caught up in the details of our life. At some level, we know too much, and that blinds us from the big picture. It's like trying to understand, okay, I want to study the ocean, and what I'm going to do is I'm going to scuba dive to try to understand the ocean. It's like, well, now I'm immersed in everything. If you really want to understand, what does the ocean look like?

we're too caught up in the details of our life. At some level, we know too much, and that blinds us from the big picture. It's like trying to understand, okay, I want to study the ocean, and what I'm going to do is I'm going to scuba dive to try to understand the ocean. It's like, well, now I'm immersed in everything. If you really want to understand, what does the ocean look like?

we're too caught up in the details of our life. At some level, we know too much, and that blinds us from the big picture. It's like trying to understand, okay, I want to study the ocean, and what I'm going to do is I'm going to scuba dive to try to understand the ocean. It's like, well, now I'm immersed in everything. If you really want to understand, what does the ocean look like?

we're too caught up in the details of our life. At some level, we know too much, and that blinds us from the big picture. It's like trying to understand, okay, I want to study the ocean, and what I'm going to do is I'm going to scuba dive to try to understand the ocean. It's like, well, now I'm immersed in everything. If you really want to understand, what does the ocean look like?

And I say, what would you tell your best friend to do? And they say, oh, well, I tell her, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. And it's like, all right, you kind of answered the question there.

And I say, what would you tell your best friend to do? And they say, oh, well, I tell her, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. And it's like, all right, you kind of answered the question there.

And I say, what would you tell your best friend to do? And they say, oh, well, I tell her, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. And it's like, all right, you kind of answered the question there.

And I say, what would you tell your best friend to do? And they say, oh, well, I tell her, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. And it's like, all right, you kind of answered the question there.

And I say, what would you tell your best friend to do? And they say, oh, well, I tell her, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. And it's like, all right, you kind of answered the question there.

What are its boundaries? How's it configured? You want to be an oceanographer. You want to get up like in a helicopter and go above there. And that's a better, often a better problem solving technique. We just know too much about ourselves. We're too caught up in the gory details where with other people, we see the big picture. We see what's really going on.

What are its boundaries? How's it configured? You want to be an oceanographer. You want to get up like in a helicopter and go above there. And that's a better, often a better problem solving technique. We just know too much about ourselves. We're too caught up in the gory details where with other people, we see the big picture. We see what's really going on.

What are its boundaries? How's it configured? You want to be an oceanographer. You want to get up like in a helicopter and go above there. And that's a better, often a better problem solving technique. We just know too much about ourselves. We're too caught up in the gory details where with other people, we see the big picture. We see what's really going on.

What are its boundaries? How's it configured? You want to be an oceanographer. You want to get up like in a helicopter and go above there. And that's a better, often a better problem solving technique. We just know too much about ourselves. We're too caught up in the gory details where with other people, we see the big picture. We see what's really going on.