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Christiana

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2728 total appearances

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What Now? with Trevor Noah
The Perfect Algorithm for Finding Love? with Christian Rudder

But she also cares about money, but maybe money was like number five and it was his number one. So I always find couples, you know, they're like opposites attract. I'm like, what are their values? How do they rank them? If there's a matching in the rank of those values, that's a couple that's going to last for a long time. And I think what the algorithm can do is figure out

What Now? with Trevor Noah
The Perfect Algorithm for Finding Love? with Christian Rudder

But she also cares about money, but maybe money was like number five and it was his number one. So I always find couples, you know, they're like opposites attract. I'm like, what are their values? How do they rank them? If there's a matching in the rank of those values, that's a couple that's going to last for a long time. And I think what the algorithm can do is figure out

What Now? with Trevor Noah
The Perfect Algorithm for Finding Love? with Christian Rudder

What do the values, what does Trevor value? What does this imagine? How do they rank them? Let's cause a match. And the reason arranged marriages, I think, were so successful back in the day is because you're in this very insular world. You're likely to have the same values because you're raised in similar environments.

What Now? with Trevor Noah
The Perfect Algorithm for Finding Love? with Christian Rudder

What do the values, what does Trevor value? What does this imagine? How do they rank them? Let's cause a match. And the reason arranged marriages, I think, were so successful back in the day is because you're in this very insular world. You're likely to have the same values because you're raised in similar environments.

What Now? with Trevor Noah
The Perfect Algorithm for Finding Love? with Christian Rudder

But now in this world where it's like we're so global and cosmopolitan, we're porous, we're being influenced by different things just on our phone. And I think what an algorithm can then do is like bring it back.

What Now? with Trevor Noah
The Perfect Algorithm for Finding Love? with Christian Rudder

But now in this world where it's like we're so global and cosmopolitan, we're porous, we're being influenced by different things just on our phone. And I think what an algorithm can then do is like bring it back.

What Now? with Trevor Noah
The Perfect Algorithm for Finding Love? with Christian Rudder

do that work for you because there's a thing I asked my husband before we got married like what do you value he's like oh you know family kindness community and I was like okay so in those things like what do you feel most strongly about and when I passed that out we matched even though like Again, I'm not sure about dinosaurs. And this man is like very, very historical and science based. Right.

What Now? with Trevor Noah
The Perfect Algorithm for Finding Love? with Christian Rudder

do that work for you because there's a thing I asked my husband before we got married like what do you value he's like oh you know family kindness community and I was like okay so in those things like what do you feel most strongly about and when I passed that out we matched even though like Again, I'm not sure about dinosaurs. And this man is like very, very historical and science based. Right.

What Now? with Trevor Noah
The Perfect Algorithm for Finding Love? with Christian Rudder

But ultimately, like we both value family, community and kindness. And we will hold ourselves and a sense of duty. So he's just like, I'm always like, you're my best friend. He's like, you're not my best friend. You're my wife. I can get rid of friends. I can't get rid of a wife. And I'm like, from a background where duty is... I'm the eldest daughter. I take that duty so seriously.

What Now? with Trevor Noah
The Perfect Algorithm for Finding Love? with Christian Rudder

But ultimately, like we both value family, community and kindness. And we will hold ourselves and a sense of duty. So he's just like, I'm always like, you're my best friend. He's like, you're not my best friend. You're my wife. I can get rid of friends. I can't get rid of a wife. And I'm like, from a background where duty is... I'm the eldest daughter. I take that duty so seriously.

What Now? with Trevor Noah
The Perfect Algorithm for Finding Love? with Christian Rudder

Would you let your mother-in-law move in with you?

What Now? with Trevor Noah
The Perfect Algorithm for Finding Love? with Christian Rudder

Would you let your mother-in-law move in with you?

What Now? with Trevor Noah
The Perfect Algorithm for Finding Love? with Christian Rudder

conversations that at least based on the data you would expect to keep going or whatever and it was just a total dead stop yeah picture came on and people were like oh my god yeah and this leads me to see i love this imaginary app we're making right because when i was on the apps long before i've been married like i don't know seven eight years now um i remember feeling that

What Now? with Trevor Noah
The Perfect Algorithm for Finding Love? with Christian Rudder

conversations that at least based on the data you would expect to keep going or whatever and it was just a total dead stop yeah picture came on and people were like oh my god yeah and this leads me to see i love this imaginary app we're making right because when i was on the apps long before i've been married like i don't know seven eight years now um i remember feeling that

What Now? with Trevor Noah
The Perfect Algorithm for Finding Love? with Christian Rudder

men being on Instagram was really shaping how they thought women should look in real life? Yeah, definitely. Does that make sense?

What Now? with Trevor Noah
The Perfect Algorithm for Finding Love? with Christian Rudder

men being on Instagram was really shaping how they thought women should look in real life? Yeah, definitely. Does that make sense?

What Now? with Trevor Noah
The Perfect Algorithm for Finding Love? with Christian Rudder

Because also men are seeing more hot people than they've ever seen before. Women too. I'm like, my gosh, it's gorgeous. You're just scrolling all these beautiful people. And I think it changed dating because it was just like, I can actually, there's physically somebody that's fine-tuned to what I precisely want.

What Now? with Trevor Noah
The Perfect Algorithm for Finding Love? with Christian Rudder

Because also men are seeing more hot people than they've ever seen before. Women too. I'm like, my gosh, it's gorgeous. You're just scrolling all these beautiful people. And I think it changed dating because it was just like, I can actually, there's physically somebody that's fine-tuned to what I precisely want.

What Now? with Trevor Noah
The Perfect Algorithm for Finding Love? with Christian Rudder

And I definitely, you know, Gia, who was on the show, who wrote Instagram Face, talked about like the proliferation of this beauty standard on Instagram, changing what women did in real life with their bodies and their faces to match this beauty standard. And I'm interested in about this app. Could we...

What Now? with Trevor Noah
The Perfect Algorithm for Finding Love? with Christian Rudder

And I definitely, you know, Gia, who was on the show, who wrote Instagram Face, talked about like the proliferation of this beauty standard on Instagram, changing what women did in real life with their bodies and their faces to match this beauty standard. And I'm interested in about this app. Could we...