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So let's assume for a moment that Hassan does not use a shock collar.
That he uses, he uses a vibrating collar.
That there, um, he treats his dog well.
Let's assume that this is true.
Now, once you form a judgment, this is the really scary thing.
So then everyone gets upset about this clip.
So this is, everyone gets upset about this clip and people form opinions.
And then what happens is, let's look at things like, you know, there's this clip.
Now, here's the scary thing.
When we have these clips of people saying this, this is what's crazy.
Because we're not listening to each other at all.
So there's historic evidence of, let's say, I'm going to call it frustration, right?
Is there anything he could say that
We do not ask ourselves this question enough.
Now, there's one other thing about mentalization that I want to talk about.
So this is why it's so important to mentalize, okay?
So if a 40-month subscriber...
There's a lot of displacement.
So what I detect is a lot of pent up resentment.
Would y'all say that this is like, okay, because we hate hypocrites.
Why do y'all think this is not disproportionate?
No, no, let's listen to the people.
Because he always escapes... Okay, this is beautiful.
Always escapes responsibility.
He can't keep getting away with it.
So this is like related to hypocrisy.
Okay, so he's like deflecting.
So I'm going to ask you all a question.
Do we live in a world where there are some people who escape?
And I apologize for taking the Lord's name in vain.
Can we do anything about it?
So I want you all to think about.
I want you all to think about someone who you are, who is escaping responsibility.
Can you all do anything about it?
So like some people are saying yes.
Are we sensitive to people who do not take responsibility?
So here's what I think is happening.
When human beings have all of this pent-up stuff, right?
And this is where, like, we don't really, like, you know, it's like, anyway.
But do you all get what I'm saying about this right here?
Think about other groups that you know.
So why am I talking about this?
We need to understand that this poor guy, he is getting just an explosion of resentment.
Because we've got nowhere else to send it.
And I'm not saying he's innocent.
And as long as we are doing this, this will continue.
Now, the last thing that I want to talk about is talking to people.
So this is where a lot of times.
Because I want you all to think for a moment.
Ooh, why women are liberal and men are conservative.
So 18 months sounds like a long time.
That's like, it doesn't take much.
If you guys think he's a terrible person, like, it's your choice.
I'm living proof that people get better.
I'm just trying to do what I can do.
Got to be careful with that though.
So, I mean, if you've lost hope, fair enough.
And I'm not saying I'm right.
Let's move on to other things.
You guys want to talk about nighttime anxiety or...
It's about being, I mean, I guess it is.
So I would say I'm perpendicular to the axis.
All it does is rile people up.
Let's talk about anxiety at night.
So our circadian rhythm is our 24-hour biological clock.
When you're awake or when you're asleep?
The frontal lobe is the part of our brain that controls other parts of our brain.
And it is the source of willpower, restraint, discipline, focus.
This is where we get to distraction.
Is this some kind of MyPrize advertisement?
Did we just stumble into a MyPrize advertisement?
Sounds like some Reddit sneaky astroturfing that we just stumbled into.
Reddit age two months looks like astroturfing to me, chat.
Actually, Broca's area I think is more over here, but whatever.
Now, the last thing that we're going to talk about
is our self-referential processing.
So if we sort of look at these posts, right?
So oftentimes, when we're anxious, we're worried, oh, did I screw this up?
GABA is a hyperpolarizing neurotransmitter.
I'm increasing amygdala activity when I go to sleep so that I can process through dreams.
First thing that we got to do, increase pro-sleep signals.
Carb-heavy dinner can work great.
Second thing, don't distract from anxiety, at least exclusively.
Third thing, don't miss, this is huge, your sleep window.
This is what a lot of people don't understand.
Chasing that energy monkey in your armpit.
Like then you can't control yourself.
Actually, let's do questions real quick.
What questions do you all have?
Can you read me a bedtime story?
Like a warm candlestick, the body of the patient can be contorted into almost any posture.
The patient may maintain the posture for several minutes.
So in people who are catatonic,
They move incredibly slowly.
So this is what catatonia is.
There's going to be a lot of entitlement.
So like to recognize that if there's, oh, there's,
Lipstick on my forehead, but it looks like it's not going away.
But drama being everywhere is like, it's hard.
Any videos on forming friendships?
Isn't there a way to bypass emotional regulation so you don't even get triggered in the first place?