Brad Lea
Appearances
Mick Unplugged
Brad Lea and How Relationships are the New Currency
I mean, the habits in your life will literally determine the quality of it. So extremely good habits, especially health. I would focus inward instead of externally. I would build my confidence with the sacred six, not allow it to be eroded. If you just reverse every single one of those, that's the map. That's the path you want to take.
Mick Unplugged
Brad Lea and How Relationships are the New Currency
That is freaking fire, dude. Yeah. I mean, I mean, if you think about what he said, fill your mind with doubt and fear, whisper things to you. Like, again, a lot of people think that it's going to be yelling at you or it'll be evil. Sometimes, man, listen, you've worked hard. Take it easy. You deserve a day off. Go ahead and eat the donut, bro.
Mick Unplugged
Brad Lea and How Relationships are the New Currency
You know, that's a great question. I ask myself that often. You know, ultimately, I just feel like God gave us potential, and it's our job to reach it or at least try. And so I just try to outdo the day before. Yeah.
Mick Unplugged
Brad Lea and How Relationships are the New Currency
It doesn't matter if they don't like you a little out of shape, then they're probably not your friend anyway. Like all the things we've told ourselves to procrastinate, to do these things, but fill your mind with doubt and fear. Distract you with instant gratification. Everybody wants everything immediately, even though we know things take time. Surround yourself with negative people.
Mick Unplugged
Brad Lea and How Relationships are the New Currency
Why are you allowing all of the negative influences in your life? They constantly will change your energy. Negative energy is powerful. You can choose positive energy and hang around negative people, and pretty soon you're going to get negative. The reason why is because... what you frequently see becomes your frequency and that's your vibration.
Mick Unplugged
Brad Lea and How Relationships are the New Currency
So, I mean, they've talked to water and studied it at a microscopic level and positive words make these beautiful cellular structures and negative words would make it bad and almost deformed. So there is 1000% scientific evidence that, that words matter. So the words you tell yourself, the words you allow other people to say around you, it's all affecting you.
Mick Unplugged
Brad Lea and How Relationships are the New Currency
And then people can't figure out why they can't win or why they can't break out of the rat race. And it's not that difficult to do. You focus on your mindset, then you focus on your skillset, then you focus on your habits. The mindset has to be powerful and it's a constant battle. Then once you get the right mindset, you're able to start really getting your skill sets down.
Mick Unplugged
Brad Lea and How Relationships are the New Currency
The reason why it's hard to get your skills to the level they need to be without the right mindset is because it's difficult, man. You need grit and discipline, they call it. When in reality, it just takes time and practice and hard work. So if you want to be really good at something... Well, then it takes a little bit of time. So that instant gratification kicks you out of the race.
Mick Unplugged
Brad Lea and How Relationships are the New Currency
So if you think about it, I want to be good at sales. I want to be good at communication. I want to be good at marketing. I want to be good at personal branding. And I want to be good at building and nurturing relationships. Those five skill sets. will put anybody in a position to win. But you have to be good at them and you have to study them and you have to like practice and drill and rehearse.
Mick Unplugged
Brad Lea and How Relationships are the New Currency
And if you don't have the right mindset, they start deteriorating or you don't get to the level and then you get victim mentality. It's someone else's fault. It's not my problem. I couldn't do it because of this guy or that or that reason. That's a victim mentality. So if you start going through what you do, everybody, a lot of people do. You start to realize those are the same 10 things, man.
Mick Unplugged
Brad Lea and How Relationships are the New Currency
Those are the same 10 things that he was talking about. So what I would suggest to any listener, if you guys go to chat GPT and Google it yourself, some people told me, well, that came from outwitting the devil. You know, I read that book once, but I don't remember it saying those 10 things, but maybe it summarized them. I don't know. But what I do know is.
Mick Unplugged
Brad Lea and How Relationships are the New Currency
If you would reverse those, get a sense of urgency, get good habits, focus internally. That's where the answers are. Build your confidence. Take action. Quit worrying about endless planning. Get uncomfortable. Get rid of your victim mentality. Get rid of all your negative circumstances and people around you.
Mick Unplugged
Brad Lea and How Relationships are the New Currency
Get rid of the instant gratification, and that will eliminate a lot of the doubt and fear that most people have, which paralyze them into not taking action.
Mick Unplugged
Brad Lea and How Relationships are the New Currency
Well, if you think about it like this, when you're born, you require relationships or you die. And when you're dying, you desire relationships over everything. So why in the middle do we forget how important they are? They're absolutely required for survival when we're born.
Mick Unplugged
Brad Lea and How Relationships are the New Currency
And then when we die, nobody wants to check their bank accounts and look at their trophy case and talk about their businesses. They want their loved ones. They want to be surrounded by the people that they care about. So relationships are vital in the beginning and vital at the end. Why do we forget in the middle how important they are?
Mick Unplugged
Brad Lea and How Relationships are the New Currency
Not to mention, the more hands you shake, the more money you make, period. Your relationships are your resources. Your resources, folks, are Look at your relationships. If you don't have the right relationships, it's going to be harder to get where you're going. So you have to reach out and introduce yourself and start building those relationships and nurturing those relationships.
Mick Unplugged
Brad Lea and How Relationships are the New Currency
And it takes, you know, time. Number one, it also takes effort, right? One of the, I call it the million dollar morning because I wake up with extreme gratitude and Then I focus on those four things, my health, my relationships, my fitness, my health, my relationships, my money, and my mind. To me, it's like people are like, how do you do that? Well, I just text five people every day.
Mick Unplugged
Brad Lea and How Relationships are the New Currency
Give them some good news. Tell them I love them. Tell them I miss them. Tell them I appreciate them. Whatever the case may be, with nothing expected in return. And if people would just start doing that, they'd start to realize that these relationships are crucial to your success. I mean, I have people that call me when they need something. I don't want to be one of those guys.
Mick Unplugged
Brad Lea and How Relationships are the New Currency
Everybody knows somebody that only calls when they need something. And it's not even intentional. I mean, I didn't call my buddy for a long time. I forgot all about him. And then I needed to move, and he had a truck. And I'm like, oh, yeah, he's got a truck. Let me call him. So I call him, and it's like, what a dick. I haven't even said a word to him in six months.
Mick Unplugged
Brad Lea and How Relationships are the New Currency
The second I need him, boom, call him. Why didn't I reach out and see if I could help him five, ten times? And when you have relationships that are not paying off, It might be the wrong relationships. So at the end of the day, man, relationships are vital to everybody's success. If you want to be truly successful in life, I'm telling you relationships.
Mick Unplugged
Brad Lea and How Relationships are the New Currency
If, and by the way, that's where the money comes from. Yeah. Like some people, I just want to get rich. You know, listen, Money comes from relationships, right? Every dollar I've ever received or will ever receive comes from some kind of relationship. So the more relationships you have, the more opportunities you have, the more resources you have. And coincidentally,
Mick Unplugged
Brad Lea and How Relationships are the New Currency
When you die, that's what's going to be important. So don't wait until you're on your deathbed to realize that that's what's most important. I say relationships over money. Because if you value money over relationships, soon you'll have neither.
Mick Unplugged
Brad Lea and How Relationships are the New Currency
Well, when I got kicked out of my house at 16 years old for not mowing the lawn, you know, I was kind of excited out on my own. No real parental supervision and just thought to myself, you know, a I wanted to be a movie star since I was a little kid. So I figured I'd probably just shoot down to Hollywood and see what I could do.
Mick Unplugged
Brad Lea and How Relationships are the New Currency
It blows my mind what people miss. But I think preparation is key to a lot of things, not just sales, but definitely in sales. I mean, sales is a relationship game, really. At the end of the day, you're trying to build trust. And if you want to make a transaction, all you have to do is raise the value of your product or service beyond the value of their money.
Mick Unplugged
Brad Lea and How Relationships are the New Currency
Well, if you don't have a good relationship, there's no trust. It's hard to do. I always teach people when it comes to sales, if you truly want to be really good at sales, stop selling. I mean, I don't sell anybody anything. I help people. That's what I'm focused on. I'm focused on helping the individual solve a problem. I'm not focused on the commission.
Mick Unplugged
Brad Lea and How Relationships are the New Currency
I know that'll come if and when I can help somebody. So my energy is different. So when I approach somebody, I don't have that energy. energy that some people sense and, and, and feel the distrust. Why? Well, because I'm not trying to sell you anything. I'm trying to help. And if I can't help you, believe me, I'm not going to take your money.
Mick Unplugged
Brad Lea and How Relationships are the New Currency
Even if you offered it at the end of the day, I have to believe that I'm helping you. And that's my intention, right? And so my energy is different from the get go. And it allows me to connect better, allows people to build trust quicker. Um, And if you just stay with that intention, let me just help this person. There's too many salespeople out there. They're trying to make a commission.
Mick Unplugged
Brad Lea and How Relationships are the New Currency
I mean, let's just tell the truth. They're trying to get paid. They're trying to feed their family. They're trying to buy cars and pay bills. Their intention is to make money. That's the wrong intention to start with. It's all about energy and connection and relationships. So just shift the energy over to one of empathy.
Mick Unplugged
Brad Lea and How Relationships are the New Currency
You know, that's, to me, the number one trait, I think, for good salespeople is empathy. I believe I'm an empath. I can read people's microexpressions. I don't even know how sometimes. And they're like, you know, how did you know that? It's just empathy, right? I can put myself in their position. And all I want to do is help them solve their problem.
Mick Unplugged
Brad Lea and How Relationships are the New Currency
and ultimately found myself homeless on a beach and didn't want to pay the price to stay there. So I realized there's something called nepotism, which is basically when someone else gets your part or whatnot. Back then, again, I didn't have the same mindset as I do today, but ultimately I thought, man, I'm going to go get rich so I can make the movie and I can decide who's who in it.
Mick Unplugged
Brad Lea and How Relationships are the New Currency
And coincidentally, that's what, at the end of the day, I think makes me successful in sales. So if anybody's in sales listening to this, it might sound counterintuitive, but I would say stop selling and just look to help. And if you think your product doesn't help anyone, that's probably your issue. You need to go represent someone or something that you believe actually helps.
Mick Unplugged
Brad Lea and How Relationships are the New Currency
Because if it doesn't help anybody and you're just focused on a commission, you're going to have a much harder battle.
Mick Unplugged
Brad Lea and How Relationships are the New Currency
Well, one story answers both those questions. you know, when I stopped being the way I used to be, which was selfish and out for myself. And I was pretty good at sales with that intention. In other words, I was just trying to get paid. So I helped somebody that was making minimum wage and I watched how it impacted his family. And I thought to myself, man, that, that feels good.
Mick Unplugged
Brad Lea and How Relationships are the New Currency
I want to go help other people learn to make more money because I think money makes a big difference in someone's life. But again, So I quit my job to go out and start training people like I used to, because I used to be able to pull them out of Burger King and landscaping jobs and turn them into badasses relatively easily. And so I quit my job thinking that I had it all figured out.
Mick Unplugged
Brad Lea and How Relationships are the New Currency
And when I ran out into the world and started training people... it wasn't working as well. And I couldn't figure out why. So I went back and I kind of just thought about what I used to do. And I realized that there's four things that are required to actually train people and it's good content, right? The right way to do it in the first place. Then there's repetition, practice and accountability.
Mick Unplugged
Brad Lea and How Relationships are the New Currency
And without like watching a video doesn't train you. Otherwise I'd be a mixed martial artist. Cause I watched UFC every weekend. So, so watching a video, isn't it? What light speed does is it delivers good content with repetition, practice and accountability. And most learning systems or online training that's out there is just a video. And just a video doesn't work.
Mick Unplugged
Brad Lea and How Relationships are the New Currency
You need good content, repetition, practice, and accountability. So the system was built for those things. And then because I asked questions in real life, it needed to be interactive. And the interactivity allows me to ask questions and respond accordingly. Most linear videos don't do that.
Mick Unplugged
Brad Lea and How Relationships are the New Currency
So when it comes to somebody that's selling something, we can leverage interactivity to ask questions and make offers within the course itself. Other people that aren't on Lightspeed, they don't get to ask questions and they don't get to make offers within the video itself. So what do they do?
Mick Unplugged
Brad Lea and How Relationships are the New Currency
Well, they sell you or give you a video and then they follow up in email and they call you and they text you and they try to sell you something after the fact. Right. When in reality, if they were smarter, they would have embedded questions in the content itself that led to solutions to your problems.
Mick Unplugged
Brad Lea and How Relationships are the New Currency
So if I were to ask you in your course, for example, so how's your credit and your credit's bad and I'm teaching you how to buy real estate. Well, if your credit's bad, wouldn't it, wouldn't it help them to fix their credit? So if I knew you had bad credit, I could offer you credit clearing as an example. And the list goes on and on.
Mick Unplugged
Brad Lea and How Relationships are the New Currency
And I just didn't realize it would take 30 years. I figured I'd be able to do it in a couple, be on back. And, you know, that didn't happen too well. But I learned a lot. And, you know, ultimately, I think getting kicked out of the house was, in retrospect, kind of a blessing.
Mick Unplugged
Brad Lea and How Relationships are the New Currency
I mean, there's medicines that help many things, but you know, people buy them for different reasons. So if you wanted to ask, you know, what symptoms are you having? Oh, well then this will help for that. So the interactivity is crucial. I can take somebody's video course. They call them courses. They're just videos.
Mick Unplugged
Brad Lea and How Relationships are the New Currency
I can take someone's video, put it on light speed, embed interactivity and get more conversion, higher satisfaction, higher engagement, higher comprehension just because of the interactivity. And then ultimately with the repetition and the tracking and the practicing that's within it, you learn and you actually make a difference.
Mick Unplugged
Brad Lea and How Relationships are the New Currency
Because again, information alone, as you know, I believe, is not going to do anything. You have to have the information and then apply it. And these courses that are out in the world are usually just videos behind a paywall. So you pay your money and there's a video. And some people can learn from them because they voluntarily go through it multiple times. Like you're on my book twice.
Mick Unplugged
Brad Lea and How Relationships are the New Currency
I guarantee you if you read that book ten times, you'll know it better than you do right now.
Mick Unplugged
Brad Lea and How Relationships are the New Currency
Okay, so if someone that read it once, yeah, I read your book. Okay, again, read it again and again and again. Who wants to go to a church from a pastor that read the Bible once? Repetition is the mother of learning.
Mick Unplugged
Brad Lea and How Relationships are the New Currency
It would be basically, it boils down to choices, folks. I mean, look at the choices that you're making from the second you wake up because the choices that you make determine the road you take. And it really starts with choosing which energy you want to operate in. You can operate in heavenly energy and it, no one can stop you from doing that.
Mick Unplugged
Brad Lea and How Relationships are the New Currency
And you can operate in earthly energy and there's too many people stuck in the earthly energy. And, and again, you, when you realize that God gave us free will, that's the gift. I mean, when people say, you know, everybody got a gift, you know, we've got lots of gifts, but the main gift, the biggest gift that we were given is free will, which means the ability to choose.
Mick Unplugged
Brad Lea and How Relationships are the New Currency
And most people don't understand that. Like, like if I busted in your house and said some rude stuff and left and a jury even agreed that it was rude and, And you got mad about it. Use that as an example. Who got you mad? Was it me busting in your house saying rude stuff? Or was it you? Because people don't look at it. Well, he busted in. That's victim mentality. I understand it was rude.
Mick Unplugged
Brad Lea and How Relationships are the New Currency
I understand I invaded your privacy. I understand all that. But at the end of the day, let's just tell the truth, man. Who decided... To get mad. Was it me that got you mad or was it you that got you mad? And the answer is you got yourself mad. You decided to choose anger. You decided to choose earthly energy and the energy that you choose will create more of it.
Mick Unplugged
Brad Lea and How Relationships are the New Currency
So if you know this and now you do stop choosing anger. earthly energy and start choosing heavenly energy. It's just a choice and yours is the power is yours to make it. Yeah. So that's what I would leave people with. I mean, it's, it sounds crazy, but it's true. You have the choice to react to anything that happens to you with a heavenly energy or an earthly energy.
Mick Unplugged
Brad Lea and How Relationships are the New Currency
Well, I just forgot, really. I mean, you know, I didn't really have much discipline or integrity back then. You know, I was always trying to get away with stuff and, you know, escape responsibility, etc. And I didn't appreciate, you know, having a roof over my head. Kids will be kids, right? That's it.
Mick Unplugged
Brad Lea and How Relationships are the New Currency
And if anyone was just blindly listening to me, I would stop choosing earthly energy. All you have to do is stop choosing earthly energy. Well, it's not as easy as that. Victim mentality. Well, it takes too long. Instant gratification. Like, come on, folks. This isn't rocket science. They want us to think it is, but it isn't. It could be a spiritual thing.
Mick Unplugged
Brad Lea and How Relationships are the New Currency
In other words, let's pretend Satan is real. Well, if Satan is going to influence you and keep you down and keep you depressed and keep you in this earthly energy and you've got the choice, I've got the choice. He cannot stop me from choosing heavenly energy.
Mick Unplugged
Brad Lea and How Relationships are the New Currency
Then why do you keep choosing earthly?
Mick Unplugged
Brad Lea and How Relationships are the New Currency
Brad, thank you so much, brother. Mick, thank you for having me. And next time you're in Vegas, hit me up. We'll put you on my podcast.
Mick Unplugged
Brad Lea and How Relationships are the New Currency
Well, believe it or not, Mick, mindset is key, and it is part of taking action, right? With the right mindset, you will take action. A lot of people don't have the confidence. They subconsciously don't believe they're worth any more than they have, so they'll make choices that are not ideal. And they'll just keep themselves down. But I mean, I believe knowledge is power.
Mick Unplugged
Brad Lea and How Relationships are the New Currency
Applied knowledge is where the rubber meets the road. But you got to understand, if you have the right knowledge, you already know to take action. So I preach three things. First one's mindset. Everyone says mindset, but I really believe it. And I'm talking about from a vibrational energy level. Then there's skill set. And then there's habits. The mindset...
Mick Unplugged
Brad Lea and How Relationships are the New Currency
most people never get to a point where they will fully understand that, that ultimately everything's a choice, everything. I mean, if you think about it, when you wake up in the morning, right, you have a choice to operate in what I call a heavenly frequency or operate in what I call earthly frequency. Now we're all vibrating in, in a frequency. So, um,
Mick Unplugged
Brad Lea and How Relationships are the New Currency
The heavenly frequencies or the heavenly vibrations or the heavenly energy, as I call it, are all the good things you would assume. You know, courage, confidence, abundance, happiness, joy, love, courage, all the things that you could imagine. And then the earthly is the doubt, the guilt, the shame, the anxiety, the worry, the frustration, the greed, the envy, things of that nature.
Mick Unplugged
Brad Lea and How Relationships are the New Currency
And we literally have a choice to operate by either one. And we were given free will. And with that free will comes a choice. So we literally have a choice to operate in the heavenly energy or the earthly energy. And unfortunately, most people are unaware that those exist. And to me, it's like a no brainer. I mean, What you see becomes your frequency.
Mick Unplugged
Brad Lea and How Relationships are the New Currency
And if you operate in a frequency, more of those frequencies will come to you. In other words, it's almost like it attracts more to be in that frequency about. So if I'm negative, that will attract more things to be negative about. And the opposite is true. If I'm positive, it'll attract more things to be positive about.
Mick Unplugged
Brad Lea and How Relationships are the New Currency
So from the second I wake up, I understand that there's simply a choice to make and you can choose to operate in your heavenly energy or your earthly energy. And that's all mindset. It's a perspective. And what I try to do is just shift people's perspective by a little bit because believe, believe it or not, it makes a big difference. Yeah.
Mick Unplugged
Brad Lea and How Relationships are the New Currency
And although action is required, I teach that too, but I think mindset's the most important and that's why people don't take action. They don't have the confidence. They're attracting negative energy. They're allowing negative people to be around them and it costs them dearly. I don't think most people realize that.
Mick Unplugged
Brad Lea and How Relationships are the New Currency
Well, I mean, winners win and losers lose. So if you find yourself losing all day long, you know, it's hard to feel like a winner. And the sacred six is really how to build your confidence. And the racking up the wins is simply a matter of deciding because, again, who gets to choose what a win is?
Mick Unplugged
Brad Lea and How Relationships are the New Currency
You do. Right. So a lot of people are like, I'm going to make a million dollars and they don't. And so that's a loss. And all day long, they're technically losing, even though someone could say, well, that's pretty good. I don't know if you've ever played sports, but trust me, an L is an L. Right. So all people have to do, believe it or not, is lower their idea of what a win is.
Mick Unplugged
Brad Lea and How Relationships are the New Currency
Like my win is drinking water, enough water. My win is brushing my teeth. My win is raising my heart rate and exercising. I got wins happening all throughout the day from the second I wake up. The first and most important win of all is just gratitude. That's that choosing that energy. Gratitude is in the heavenly energy.
Mick Unplugged
Brad Lea and How Relationships are the New Currency
I wake up and I realize there's no amount of money that would be worth me not waking up. So when I wake up, no matter what else happens, I want. So literally, my mind goes to a win the second I wake up. I start getting excited, enthusiastic. Why? Because, again, I chose heavenly energy. I chose to be grateful. Nothing needs to happen. I don't need anything else to happen. So that's a win.
Mick Unplugged
Brad Lea and How Relationships are the New Currency
Then I jump out of bed enthusiastically and I go hit the gym, get the heart rate going. Why? Because I'm going to be bombarded with negativity all day long. I might as well, you know. beef up the shields. So then I hydrate, I drink the water. Then I obviously go to work and do all that. But before I leave the house, I wake up with extreme gratitude.
Mick Unplugged
Brad Lea and How Relationships are the New Currency
I work out, I focus on relationships because that's what's key. Then I focus on reading my brain and then I focus on some money because money's also important. But back to the racking up the wins, it's pretty simple. People, in order to get confident, need to feel like a winner. And confidence is really just the memory of winning.
Mick Unplugged
Brad Lea and How Relationships are the New Currency
So if you can just lower what you consider a win, most people won't tell you that. They'll tell you to stretch your goals and set high standards and all this. Yeah, you can do that also. But I'm talking about on a daily basis. Start celebrating the little things that most people take for granted. And you will literally start walking a little taller.
Mick Unplugged
Brad Lea and How Relationships are the New Currency
You'll start feeling a little bit better about yourself. But then number four is get rid of the negativity. As soon as you start to feel better about yourself, bro, everybody and their dog is going to start saying, I don't like the new you. What are you trying to do this and that? So all six of those are important. Just racking up the wins won't do it. You've got to, number one, forgive yourself.
Mick Unplugged
Brad Lea and How Relationships are the New Currency
Wipe the slate clean. Number two, you have to commit to do what you say you're going to do. That's very important. Number three, start racking up the wins on a daily basis. Just celebrate little things all day long. Can you make one more call? Can you walk one more minute? Brush your teeth. Little things are wins to me. I'm winning all day long.
Mick Unplugged
Brad Lea and How Relationships are the New Currency
By the time I get to my office, buddy, I've been winning all morning. I'm walking in like I own the place and rolling out like I sold it. I am extremely excited. Number four, I eliminate all the negativity, the headlines, the hate, the nonsense. Then I map out and visualize exactly what success looks like. So I know whether it moves me towards or away because when it boils down to it, Mick,
Mick Unplugged
Brad Lea and How Relationships are the New Currency
It's all about choices. The choices you make determine the road you take. Talk about heavenly energy and earthly energy. That's just one choice. You have choices all throughout the day that most people are just bad at making decisions. So what I do is I map out and visualize exactly what success looks like, and I know specifically what I want.
Mick Unplugged
Brad Lea and How Relationships are the New Currency
And then ultimately, every choice I make, I ask myself, does that move me towards or away? So, I mean, I can drink water or I can drink beer. I can freaking, you know, work or I can rest, you know, but ultimately does that move me towards my goal or away from my goal? So it's all about choices. And then number six, man, I seek information on a regular basis. I develop my mind on a regular basis.
Mick Unplugged
Brad Lea and How Relationships are the New Currency
I get smarter every single day. I get more aware, more enlightened, more kind, more ethical every single day because I'm seeking information. And most people don't understand what that does. The reason you do what you do is because you believe what you believe.
Mick Unplugged
Brad Lea and How Relationships are the New Currency
So in order to change your beliefs, you literally have to get new information because if you got no new information, your beliefs would remain the same and so would your actions and choices. So I'm constantly seeking information on a regular basis, which gets me more aware, more intelligent, more valuable. And so again, that just goes with that confidence.
Mick Unplugged
Brad Lea and How Relationships are the New Currency
And pretty soon you're walking around like a freaking champ.
Mick Unplugged
Brad Lea and How Relationships are the New Currency
Sometimes it's also environments. Right. You know, one time I was using chat GPT and I put in there, if you were Satan, how would you stop a man from being successful? He gave me 10 things that he would do. One of which is surround you with negative influence environments. And when you go through all 10, you realize that that's the recipe for failure. So the opposite must be true as well.
Mick Unplugged
Brad Lea and How Relationships are the New Currency
Number one, these almost gave me the chills when I read them because I've heard them a million times. So, so yeah, I said, what would you do to keep someone from being successful? He said, first of all, I don't know why I'm drawing a blank all of a sudden. My phone just dung and I turned it off. Now I'm all brain dead for a minute. But the fourth one was victim mentality.
Mick Unplugged
Brad Lea and How Relationships are the New Currency
The third one was surround you with negative people. So the first one was I would basically plant fear and doubt into your mind. I'd whisper things like it's too risky, you're not good enough, etc. Yeah. Number two, I would distract you with instant gratification. Number three, I would surround you with negative people and environments, influences. Number four, I would give you victim mentality.
Mick Unplugged
Brad Lea and How Relationships are the New Currency
Number five, I would make sure you remained comfortable. Number six, I would make you think that you had to plan everything. Number seven, I would erode your confidence. Number eight, I would make you focus externally instead of internally. Number nine, I would give you bad habits, especially health. And number 10, I would remove your sense of urgency.
Mick Unplugged
Brad Lea and How Relationships are the New Currency
And then I wouldn't have to touch you at all because you'd sabotage your own success. And if you think about that, it's like, wait a minute, I've done that a million times. Now I'm thinking, man, was that influenced? So what do you do if you want to win? Well, I would say reverse those things, okay? Get a sense of urgency, okay? Start implementing good habits. That's why I'm so big on habits.