Bowen Yang

Like it's a continuous thing where you like have to tell these people who make you feel like you're making a mistake, which you're not. Yeah. You can't even think of them as mistakes because these are just people who are trying to like end you creatively and you have to protect that.

Like it's a continuous thing where you like have to tell these people who make you feel like you're making a mistake, which you're not. Yeah. You can't even think of them as mistakes because these are just people who are trying to like end you creatively and you have to protect that.

I was like, is she okay? And Sasha was like, yeah, girl, she's laughing. She's loving it. I was like, okay, well then, it's fine.

I was like, is she okay? And Sasha was like, yeah, girl, she's laughing. She's loving it. I was like, okay, well then, it's fine.

Right.

Right.

I think people just get worked up over someone that they are very... It's like a love-bombing thing, or it's like limerence. It's like they're obsessed with you, and so they will die if anything goes wrong.

I think people just get worked up over someone that they are very... It's like a love-bombing thing, or it's like limerence. It's like they're obsessed with you, and so they will die if anything goes wrong.

Sure. Yeah.

Sure. Yeah.

Totally. I want us to have a serious conversation about this. What do you love about service topping?

Totally. I want us to have a serious conversation about this. What do you love about service topping?

But do you identify as one? Because this is a new thing for me.

But do you identify as one? Because this is a new thing for me.

It's, this is, I had an encounter in the last year, not recently, but someone who was like, what do you want me to do to make you feel good? I'm a service top. Oh. Said these words to me. Like, I get off on watching someone take pleasure in what I'm doing.

It's, this is, I had an encounter in the last year, not recently, but someone who was like, what do you want me to do to make you feel good? I'm a service top. Oh. Said these words to me. Like, I get off on watching someone take pleasure in what I'm doing.

They are... In their mind, they are servicing you, which sometimes, I mean... I'm sure we've been in situations... In a kinky way? And I wouldn't even... I don't even know if they would identify it as kinky. But sometimes it's like, I want to have sex because I want to feel good. They want to have sex because they want to see you feel good. Does that make sense?

They are... In their mind, they are servicing you, which sometimes, I mean... I'm sure we've been in situations... In a kinky way? And I wouldn't even... I don't even know if they would identify it as kinky. But sometimes it's like, I want to have sex because I want to feel good. They want to have sex because they want to see you feel good. Does that make sense?

So what does being a giver mean to you then?

So what does being a giver mean to you then?