Bethany

Before she answers, I need to let you know I think I'm out. She just doesn't value privacy as much as I do.

Before she answers, I need to let you know I think I'm out. She just doesn't value privacy as much as I do.

Yeah, I think I'm done.

Yeah, I think I'm done.

That's it. Are you kidding me? We're done.

That's it. Are you kidding me? We're done.

There's always loopholes in these NDAs. Guys, thanks for trying. I appreciate it, but I've got to go.

There's always loopholes in these NDAs. Guys, thanks for trying. I appreciate it, but I've got to go.

Thanks for having me.

Thanks for having me.

Well, her name is Aria. And she got me laughing over her first line, which was her biggest pet peeve. is people who microwave fish at work.

Well, her name is Aria. And she got me laughing over her first line, which was her biggest pet peeve. is people who microwave fish at work.

Uh-oh.

Uh-oh.

Yeah, because there's actually a guy that does that at my work, so we kind of bonded.

Yeah, because there's actually a guy that does that at my work, so we kind of bonded.

It was an opening to see her personality and man, she's funny and we just got along so well after that.

It was an opening to see her personality and man, she's funny and we just got along so well after that.

Yeah, I wanted to pick a place like a restaurant so I could get to know her. A place that wasn't crowded and that's important to me, just us focusing on getting to know each other.

Yeah, I wanted to pick a place like a restaurant so I could get to know her. A place that wasn't crowded and that's important to me, just us focusing on getting to know each other.

It went well, and I'm also not a fan of cameras.

It went well, and I'm also not a fan of cameras.

Well, security cams. Like, businesses and restaurants, they have so many, they capture your image, and they can use it for anything.

Well, security cams. Like, businesses and restaurants, they have so many, they capture your image, and they can use it for anything.

No. I like to scout that out ahead of time. Okay.

No. I like to scout that out ahead of time. Okay.

We talk about traveling and hobbies.

We talk about traveling and hobbies.

Like, I like to work out and run, and she likes to play tennis.

Like, I like to work out and run, and she likes to play tennis.

Yeah, but you don't, you hate walking.

Yeah, but you don't, you hate walking.

Running only.

Running only.

I'm really a positive person. I don't know why. There's just some things that bug me, that's all.

I'm really a positive person. I don't know why. There's just some things that bug me, that's all.

Basically, after the meal, we left, and I asked her, I don't live far from here. Would you be up for coming over and having a drink and hanging out?

Basically, after the meal, we left, and I asked her, I don't live far from here. Would you be up for coming over and having a drink and hanging out?

A little forward dance. Nice.

A little forward dance. Nice.

She said yeah.

She said yeah.

Nice. She must have had second thoughts, though, because a few minutes later, as we were walking and just having a good conversation, she said, you know what? On second thought, I got to get up for work in the morning, so I got to go. And I was like, are you sure? And she said, yeah. Really?

Nice. She must have had second thoughts, though, because a few minutes later, as we were walking and just having a good conversation, she said, you know what? On second thought, I got to get up for work in the morning, so I got to go. And I was like, are you sure? And she said, yeah. Really?

I'm not so sure. And it's been like eight or nine days since then. And it feels like... Things have shifted, so I don't know why, and I need your help to figure it out.

I'm not so sure. And it's been like eight or nine days since then. And it feels like... Things have shifted, so I don't know why, and I need your help to figure it out.

I mean, we didn't talk about security cameras like that at all. Okay.

I mean, we didn't talk about security cameras like that at all. Okay.

Who knows? You never found out what she did?

Who knows? You never found out what she did?

Hey, guys, can we just stop this for a second? I don't like the way this is going. Oh, hello there. We were just getting to the good stuff, I felt like.

Hey, guys, can we just stop this for a second? I don't like the way this is going. Oh, hello there. We were just getting to the good stuff, I felt like.

Yeah. I didn't know that bothered you. And I think I told you I don't go on dates a lot, like maybe once or twice a year, but... The ones that I do, all the women that come back to my place have no problem signing the NDA.

Yeah. I didn't know that bothered you. And I think I told you I don't go on dates a lot, like maybe once or twice a year, but... The ones that I do, all the women that come back to my place have no problem signing the NDA.

Sure, it's just whoever I hang out with, I have them do that, and I'm surprised you would bring it up on the radio.

Sure, it's just whoever I hang out with, I have them do that, and I'm surprised you would bring it up on the radio.

Come on. Do it for the plot. I can't. I'm not saying that I never want to see you again, but I am going to ask If you are bartending at a bachelorette party for a girl named Sienna next month, because if you are, I'm going to have to change my RSVP. No.

Come on. Do it for the plot. I can't. I'm not saying that I never want to see you again, but I am going to ask If you are bartending at a bachelorette party for a girl named Sienna next month, because if you are, I'm going to have to change my RSVP. No.

I mean, I don't know if it's him or the mojito, but...

I mean, I don't know if it's him or the mojito, but...

Hello.

Hello.

No, no, no. It's good.

No, no, no. It's good.

Welcome back to the show, Bethany. No, no. Bethany, Bethany, Bethany, relax. We've been here. We've done this. I'm good. We're good.

Welcome back to the show, Bethany. No, no. Bethany, Bethany, Bethany, relax. We've been here. We've done this. I'm good. We're good.

No, I do. I do. You know I do. Don't make me do this again. Oh, God.

No, I do. I do. You know I do. Don't make me do this again. Oh, God.

We're back. You know, Zach? I've been trying to forget, yes. Bethany!

We're back. You know, Zach? I've been trying to forget, yes. Bethany!

No, no, guys, it was a mistake.

No, no, guys, it was a mistake.

Yeah. All of my friends keep getting married and apparently only know one bartender.

Yeah. All of my friends keep getting married and apparently only know one bartender.

That I need to talk to the maid of honor at the next party I'm going to.

That I need to talk to the maid of honor at the next party I'm going to.

I mean, I guess a little bit because I did end up making out with him. Okay.

I mean, I guess a little bit because I did end up making out with him. Okay.

What are you doing? I told you that that was a one time mistake. You said that?

What are you doing? I told you that that was a one time mistake. You said that?

I just remember saying it was. I mean, honestly, I made out with a lot of guys that night. So I wouldn't say that it was like that.

I just remember saying it was. I mean, honestly, I made out with a lot of guys that night. So I wouldn't say that it was like that.

See, that's true. Because you were the one serving all of us drink. Everyone else was drinking.

See, that's true. Because you were the one serving all of us drink. Everyone else was drinking.

Oh, no.

Oh, no.

I mean, actually, I did that twice, but there is a big difference. Between drunkenly making out with somebody and then dating the bartender.

I mean, actually, I did that twice, but there is a big difference. Between drunkenly making out with somebody and then dating the bartender.

Well, yeah, I thought I was just talking to you guys.

Well, yeah, I thought I was just talking to you guys.

So you'll wear it then? Because I really like it.

So you'll wear it then? Because I really like it.

That's a great point. I could wear it so you could smell it on me first.

That's a great point. I could wear it so you could smell it on me first.

I would love to see her again.

I would love to see her again.

Oh, okay. Why are you calling me?

Oh, okay. Why are you calling me?

Ooh. Okay. Yeah, Carly. I know Carly. What does this mean?

Ooh. Okay. Yeah, Carly. I know Carly. What does this mean?

Yeah, I mean, are you serious? Am I really on the air talking about this? Yeah. Yeah.

Yeah, I mean, are you serious? Am I really on the air talking about this? Yeah. Yeah.

Well, that's surprising because I'm not trying to blow her off. We had a great time.

Well, that's surprising because I'm not trying to blow her off. We had a great time.

Yeah, I thought she was great. She has a great laugh and we had a great time out. You like the laugh.

Yeah, I thought she was great. She has a great laugh and we had a great time out. You like the laugh.

Well, we were texting about when we were going to try to get together again. I mean, I'm really just surprised right now that she saw it that way that I was blowing her off.

Well, we were texting about when we were going to try to get together again. I mean, I'm really just surprised right now that she saw it that way that I was blowing her off.

You know what? Maybe I shouldn't be saying this. Don't tell her this. It's maybe too early. I kind of bought her perfume.

You know what? Maybe I shouldn't be saying this. Don't tell her this. It's maybe too early. I kind of bought her perfume.

Well, to be honest, my ex used to wear it and it kind of drove me crazy wild.

Well, to be honest, my ex used to wear it and it kind of drove me crazy wild.

Oh, God. Whoa.

Oh, God. Whoa.

I didn't know you were on, Carly. I didn't know you were on. Yeah.

I didn't know you were on, Carly. I didn't know you were on. Yeah.

I like the scent. I thought she would smell great with it on her. Okay.

I like the scent. I thought she would smell great with it on her. Okay.

That's right. And this is not about my ex at all. She doesn't own the scent. She doesn't own the perfume. Anyone can buy it. I love the scent. And I thought Carly would smell great with it on. That was a nice gesture.

That's right. And this is not about my ex at all. She doesn't own the scent. She doesn't own the perfume. Anyone can buy it. I love the scent. And I thought Carly would smell great with it on. That was a nice gesture.

Well, yeah, I thought I was just talking to you guys.

So you'll wear it then? Because I really like it.

That's a great point. I could wear it so you could smell it on me first.

I would love to see her again.

Oh, okay. Why are you calling me?

Ooh. Okay. Yeah, Carly. I know Carly. What does this mean?

Yeah, I mean, are you serious? Am I really on the air talking about this? Yeah. Yeah.

Well, that's surprising because I'm not trying to blow her off. We had a great time.

Yeah, I thought she was great. She has a great laugh and we had a great time out. You like the laugh.

Well, we were texting about when we were going to try to get together again. I mean, I'm really just surprised right now that she saw it that way that I was blowing her off.

You know what? Maybe I shouldn't be saying this. Don't tell her this. It's maybe too early. I kind of bought her perfume.

Well, to be honest, my ex used to wear it and it kind of drove me crazy wild.

Oh, God. Whoa.

I didn't know you were on, Carly. I didn't know you were on. Yeah.

I like the scent. I thought she would smell great with it on her. Okay.

That's right. And this is not about my ex at all. She doesn't own the scent. She doesn't own the perfume. Anyone can buy it. I love the scent. And I thought Carly would smell great with it on. That was a nice gesture.

Come on. Do it for the plot. I can't. I'm not saying that I never want to see you again, but I am going to ask If you are bartending at a bachelorette party for a girl named Sienna next month, because if you are, I'm going to have to change my RSVP. No.

I mean, I don't know if it's him or the mojito, but...

Hello.

No, no, no. It's good.

Welcome back to the show, Bethany. No, no. Bethany, Bethany, Bethany, relax. We've been here. We've done this. I'm good. We're good.

No, I do. I do. You know I do. Don't make me do this again. Oh, God.

We're back. You know, Zach? I've been trying to forget, yes. Bethany!

No, no, guys, it was a mistake.

Yeah. All of my friends keep getting married and apparently only know one bartender.

That I need to talk to the maid of honor at the next party I'm going to.

I mean, I guess a little bit because I did end up making out with him. Okay.

What are you doing? I told you that that was a one time mistake. You said that?

I just remember saying it was. I mean, honestly, I made out with a lot of guys that night. So I wouldn't say that it was like that.

See, that's true. Because you were the one serving all of us drink. Everyone else was drinking.

Oh, no.

I mean, actually, I did that twice, but there is a big difference. Between drunkenly making out with somebody and then dating the bartender.

Before she answers, I need to let you know I think I'm out. She just doesn't value privacy as much as I do.

Yeah, I think I'm done.

That's it. Are you kidding me? We're done.

There's always loopholes in these NDAs. Guys, thanks for trying. I appreciate it, but I've got to go.

Thanks for having me.

Well, her name is Aria. And she got me laughing over her first line, which was her biggest pet peeve. is people who microwave fish at work.

Uh-oh.

Yeah, because there's actually a guy that does that at my work, so we kind of bonded.

It was an opening to see her personality and man, she's funny and we just got along so well after that.

Yeah, I wanted to pick a place like a restaurant so I could get to know her. A place that wasn't crowded and that's important to me, just us focusing on getting to know each other.

It went well, and I'm also not a fan of cameras.

Well, security cams. Like, businesses and restaurants, they have so many, they capture your image, and they can use it for anything.

No. I like to scout that out ahead of time. Okay.

We talk about traveling and hobbies.

Like, I like to work out and run, and she likes to play tennis.

Yeah, but you don't, you hate walking.

Running only.

I'm really a positive person. I don't know why. There's just some things that bug me, that's all.

Basically, after the meal, we left, and I asked her, I don't live far from here. Would you be up for coming over and having a drink and hanging out?

A little forward dance. Nice.

She said yeah.

Nice. She must have had second thoughts, though, because a few minutes later, as we were walking and just having a good conversation, she said, you know what? On second thought, I got to get up for work in the morning, so I got to go. And I was like, are you sure? And she said, yeah. Really?

I'm not so sure. And it's been like eight or nine days since then. And it feels like... Things have shifted, so I don't know why, and I need your help to figure it out.

I mean, we didn't talk about security cameras like that at all. Okay.

Who knows? You never found out what she did?

Hey, guys, can we just stop this for a second? I don't like the way this is going. Oh, hello there. We were just getting to the good stuff, I felt like.

Yeah. I didn't know that bothered you. And I think I told you I don't go on dates a lot, like maybe once or twice a year, but... The ones that I do, all the women that come back to my place have no problem signing the NDA.

Sure, it's just whoever I hang out with, I have them do that, and I'm surprised you would bring it up on the radio.

I was incredibly hurt when my best friend started going out with my very serious ex-boyfriend behind my back. And two years later, they got married. A week after she told me they'd started dating, she sent me flowers with a note that said, Bethany, thinking of you daily and praying for a peaceful path forward for us with a glaring lack of apology.

I was incredibly hurt when my best friend started going out with my very serious ex-boyfriend behind my back. And two years later, they got married. A week after she told me they'd started dating, she sent me flowers with a note that said, Bethany, thinking of you daily and praying for a peaceful path forward for us with a glaring lack of apology.

I know I'll never understand her actions because I would never treat a friend that way. But I've accepted that she's not going to apologize and we'll never be friends again. Thankfully, I am growing more indifferent as time goes on.

I know I'll never understand her actions because I would never treat a friend that way. But I've accepted that she's not going to apologize and we'll never be friends again. Thankfully, I am growing more indifferent as time goes on.

I was incredibly hurt when my best friend started going out with my very serious ex-boyfriend behind my back. And two years later, they got married. A week after she told me they'd started dating, she sent me flowers with a note that said, Bethany, thinking of you daily and praying for a peaceful path forward for us with a glaring lack of apology.

I know I'll never understand her actions because I would never treat a friend that way. But I've accepted that she's not going to apologize and we'll never be friends again. Thankfully, I am growing more indifferent as time goes on.