Addy
Appearances
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
Also, ich weiß nicht, diese Zeit war so kurz und ich erinnere mich einfach nicht mehr. Ja. Also, ich kann nicht, oh, du sprichst von Arbeit oder Pushen. Vielleicht Pushen. Weil du gesagt hast, Arbeit. Ich war so, nein, nein, nein.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
Was ist mit der Pregnanz? Wait, I can say mine about labor actually. The one that I had about labor is that, I don't know, before having gone through labor, I was literally like, the whole time is going to be challenging, but not true. Even before I had the epidural, you have breaks, like between contractions. Und ich denke, du bist nur darin darin darin darin darin darin darin darin
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
Wie lange ist eine Kontraktion?
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
Nein. Ja, weil... Oh, in Transition sind sie eine Minute. Aber dann... Früh, es sind 30 Sekunden. Okay. Okay, but they're only like really, really, really intense for like a second.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
I'll stop talking. Add these ratios. I was also on Pitocin, so I know that really affects your contractions. Like I was having them really close together, but they really weren't that long. But like in between, you'll feel normal, like relatively normal. And whereas like I thought that the whole time was going to be like one big contraction, I guess. Like always like your stomach was feeling weird.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
And also contractions, I thought I would feel it down low. Ich dachte, ich würde in meiner Vagina Kontraktionen fühlen. Ich dachte, das wäre das, was die Schmerzen sind. Nein, es ist dein Stomach. Es sind deine Muskeln. Es sind deine Abdominalmuskeln. Und ich denke, das waren Dinge, die ich ausgesprochen habe. Aber das waren Dinge, die ich nicht voll nachgedacht habe.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
Aber ich hatte Missverständnisse in der Rückseite meiner Meinung. Die ganze Arbeitserfahrung war relativ ruhig. Eigentlich war es komplett ruhig. Wir haben Breaking Bad gesehen und Karten gespielt. Ich dachte, die ganze Zeit wird es ein bisschen intensiver sein als das. Es ist wirklich intensiv. Intensiv, Quote, unquote. Es ist wirklich isoliert zu drücken und das ist es.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
Ich dachte, oh mein Gott, wenn die Leute für 30 Stunden arbeiten, ich kann das für 30 Stunden nicht machen. Es sieht nicht so aus.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
Please don't take this as professional advice. Sometimes I say this.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
Aber ich weiß, dass das bei vielen Frauen nicht der Fall ist. Postpartum, ich war überrascht, wie viel ich mich nicht interessiert habe, wie mein Körper aussieht. Ich dachte, dass ich mich sehr interessieren würde, wie du gesagt hast. Und ich erlebte das mehr postpartum. Ich erinnere mich nicht wirklich darauf. Ich denke, als ich verheiratet war, war ich so, oh, ich bin verheiratet, das ist okay.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
Nein, ich denke beide von euch sind sehr weise, besonders wenn wir alle in unseren Zwanzigern sind. Wir haben so viel Lebenserfahrung. Wir haben nicht so viel Lebenserfahrung, aber ich gehe zu beiden von euch, wenn ich sage, okay, warte, was ist das? Was ist das? Und ich denke wirklich, dass ihr viele gut umgekehrte Ansätze und Opinionen habt.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
Ich liebe es nicht, aber es ist okay. Aber später war ich so, das wird ein Schwung werden, weil ich nicht den Entschuldigung habe, dass ich ein Baby werde.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
Und dann habe ich gesagt, nein, ich kümmere mich eigentlich noch nicht so sehr. Ich kümmere mich eigentlich noch weniger. Mein Körper ist so cool. Und ich weiß nicht, das ist das meiste wichtige Ding. Jetzt ist es so, wie es aussieht. So lange ich gut fühle, dann bin ich großartig. Wir sind gut. Das kann viel für mich tun. Aber... Total.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
Das ist eine gute Frage. Wie handelt man sich mit den Menschen, mit denen man einen Neubau eröffnet? Wie handelt man sich mit den Grenzen?
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
I feel like a safe bet is to not ask to hold a newborn.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
Like it just feels a little taboo in case you didn't know.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
Really? Well, unless they're like clearly aware. I feel like I wait till it's offered to me because sometimes I'm like, I don't know, I don't want to put someone in a position where they feel like they have to say yes to that. Now Abby's like rethinking everything. I don't think it's bad, but I think it's okay. Okay. Consider your relationship with the person.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
Also, ich denke, das wird nur sehr lustig zu sprechen und wir haben einen guten Zeitraum. Thank you to everyone that replied on the Instagram. We're going to get to as many as we can. And whatever we don't hit on, maybe we'll do a part two.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
If it's someone that you really don't know well, definitely don't ask. I would say that's just not really good. If it's like a friend that's like a sister, a really close friend, then obviously you know how to navigate that. But if it's someone that you're like, oh, I'm kind of here because I'm married to someone that knows, like think about that. Like how many degrees apart are you?
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
Not that it makes... Es ist einfach nur für die Mutter. Sie wollen bereits ihre nahen Leute halten. Es sind einfach nur mehr Leute, die du auf die Liste gibst. Und das wächst ihre Angst. Wie viele Leute hast du in den nahen Quartieren ausgewählt?
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
That's a great way to say it. Are you comfortable with people holding the baby? If not, it's totally fine. Yeah.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
Es ist etwas, was wir uns sehr schuldig gemacht haben. Es fühlt sich sehr überwältigend an, um den richtigen Arzt zu finden. Wohin gehen wir? Wird er meine Impfung nehmen? Sind sie nahe? Wie lange muss ich warten? All diese anderen Dinge. Aber ZocDoc macht es einfach. Wir sprechen über Booking in-Network-Appointments mit mehr als 100.000 Ärzten auf jeder Spezialität.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
Von mentaler Gesundheit bis zu dentaler Gesundheit, primärer Gesundheit bis zu urgenter Gesundheit und mehr.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
Plus, ZocDoc Appointments happen fast. Typically within just 24 to 72 hours of booking. You can even score same day appointments, which is basically what we've done every single time, which is amazing.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
You can do in person or just on your phone and it's so, so handy. We use ZocDoc and you should too. Stop putting off those doctor's appointments and go to ZocDoc.com slash unplanned to find and instantly book a top rated doctor today. That's Z-O-C-D-O-C dot com slash unplanned. Hier ist eine gute Frage. Wann erzählst du Freunden und Familie über deine Pregnanz?
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
I'm so thankful that you guys are on here.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
Really?
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
Do you think that you feel like you should wait because some people wait? Or do you think it's because you just personally want to?
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
You got to actually chat. No kids around. No husbands. When do we get to do this?
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
Du hast Freunden und Familie am nächsten Tag erzählt.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
Okay, das war der erste. Das ist ein Zinger, um zu beginnen. Wie wusste du, dass du bereit bist, ein Baby zu haben? Ich bin 23 und bereit, aber mein Mann, der 25 ist, ist nicht.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
Ja, das ist eine gute... Ich denke, die einzige Grund, warum wir für beide warten wollten, war zu Beginn mit Griffin. Wir lebten damals in Hawaii und wir waren nicht bei unseren Freunden und Familie. Und wenn wir sie gesehen haben, haben wir ihnen gesagt. Aber es war ein bisschen später an diesem Punkt. Es war wirklich früh. Also ich erinnere mich nicht, wann das war.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
8 Wochen, 10 Wochen, etwas so.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
Es war noch sehr früh. Aber dann mit Augie, weil die Natur von ihm so unerwartet war, glaube ich, dass There was so much going on, I just needed to think about it for myself for a little bit.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
Totally. I think a lot was happening there and I think a lot of it was denial and so much fear. Like I told you guys, I literally... This was like... Not irrational, but it was just like... My brain was literally telling me, as dark as this is, this wasn't real, that something was going to go wrong. Like, I really believe that. And so I was like, I just need to mourn on my own.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
That's literally how I viewed it. Because I was like, I can't believe that this is happening right now. And then, like, I don't know why, but in my head I just could not envision having a baby and everything just being great. And that was just the place I was in mentally, clearly. I was in a weird place. And so I was like, I just need to, I don't know.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
I didn't feel like I could tell anyone at that point. Mm-hmm. Ich glaube, ich wusste auch nicht, was die Details waren. Ich weiß nicht, diese Zeit ist so seltsam, weil es so... Es fühlt sich so an, als wäre ich nicht mehr da. Das war Auggie, aber ich kann diese zwei Teile nicht verbinden. Das war so schmerzhaft und traurig. Aber Auggie ist so toll und perfekt für unsere Familie.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
Und ich liebe ihn zu Teilen. Ich kann diese zwei Dinge nicht verbinden. Ich will nicht, dass ich diese zwei Dinge verbinde. Weil ich... Das war so eine dunkle Zeit. Ich wollte sie nicht verbinden. Er ist großartig. Das war eine seltsame Sache, die ich durchgegangen habe. Das war separat von ihm. Ich denke, wenn wir ein drittes Baby haben, werde ich nicht warten, um Freunde und Familie zu erzählen.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
Wir sind alle hier. Wir waren alle in verschiedenen... Es war wie Lebensverhältnisse. Ich denke, das Beste, was wir tun, ist... Like Abby was saying. Think about the people that you're going to want to walk through the highs and the lows with. Like that you already are currently walking through the highs and lows with. And then like tell them if you want to and if you don't. Like it's okay.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
Like I don't know. Just consider if you're like surroundings. Like are you close to them? There's a lot of things to consider there.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
I've heard people not telling their family that they're in labor and then just FaceTiming them like with the babysitter. I would feel a little bit sad if I was that family member. If I was like the mom, I'd be like, oh my gosh, I would like to know what's going on. Yeah, I don't think, I don't know how my mom would handle that. How do you deal with mom rage? How do you guys deal with mom rage?
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
I don't know. I don't know. This one I'm asking for myself. What do you guys think? Hmm.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
I was thinking of pregnancy rage.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
Which seems to always be geared at the husband.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
Mom rage. Maybe I don't know what mom rage is. Google mom rage. Well, maybe it's when you're mad at your kids.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
Well, maybe that is setting boundaries for yourself as a mom. I think you wouldn't feel so pushed to your limit if you had boundaries. Now that's way easier said than done. But it can even look as simple as like, I'm not gonna get my kid unless they're really upset out of bed until this time. And like having that expected amount of time, like in the morning where you're like, okay,
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
I can do things. I'm not on the clock with you until this time. Now, obviously, I'm not saying neglect your child. I do this too. I'm like, if they're really losing it, our time is 6 o'clock, because if we can hold them out till 6 at this stage of life, then it's a win. So I'm like, if it's 5.54 and I can hear them chirping, I'm literally like, no, I'm gonna put on my little outfit.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
I'm gonna still put on my mascara. Oh, I also think that helps a lot, at least for me. Like, doing things that I'm like, okay. Das ist nicht für sie, das ist für mich. Ich nehme meine Mascara an und meine Kleidung und wir machen das und das ist gut. Und auch Leute werden verärgert. Ich habe andere Kreatoren gesehen, die sie auch verärgern und auch andere Moms im Allgemeinen.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
Du spielst dein ganzes Leben im Gym, weg von deinen Kindern. Nein, nein, nein, sie können das tun. Sie können das für sich selbst tun, was sie gut fühlen. Und auf der anderen Seite sind ihre Kinder, ihre Kinder sind in Ordnung. Sie sind da. Du musst nicht an die Mutterwut hinweisen, die jeder schon fühlt. But yeah, I would say having boundaries where it's possible.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
Now granted, it can only look like six minutes, like I'm saying at 5.54. I'm like, give me till 6 o'clock before we're in presence and in fight or flight for the day. Also doing things for yourself still. I don't know, what would you guys say?
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
We need to touch grass for a minute.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
Für mich war es so, dass ich nicht am Wochenende Laune machen werde. Weil dann, wenn du fühlst, dass du jeden Tag alles tun musst, jeden Tag, jeden Tag, jeden Tag, jeden Tag, jeden Tag, jeden Tag, jeden Tag, jeden Tag, jeden Tag, jeden Tag, jeden Tag, jeden Tag, jeden Tag, jeden Tag, jeden Tag, jeden Tag.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
Und sie sind so, weil jeder sagt, okay, na gut, nach dem Abendessen muss ich es sauber machen. Ich bin so, die Gerichte werden immer noch da sein. Ich weiß nicht, wir können es machen. Wir können es später machen. Ich weiß nicht, ich hatte diese Boundary für mich selbst. Am Morgen werde ich alles erreichen, was ich erreichen muss. Aber abends bin ich so, das ist nach dem Abendessen, also...
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
That really, really helped me. Because before I was feeling like, my gosh, every day is demanding so much of me that I literally cannot get to everything and still feel okay. So I was like, I just gotta adjust my expectations. I'm not gonna get to everything.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
No, I do the exact sense. You do? If I know it. Like if we like are splitting something, then I don't want to pay like less than my part. Do you round up?
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
Wait, does this make me look kind of cheap then?
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
I just feel like that's the benefit of Cash App. If I only had cash, then I would have to round up or down. But like Cash App, you can like be specific about it. Rounding up kind of feels like flexing on somebody. It's like, let's just keep it fair.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
Sieh, das ist, was ich mache. Ich personalisiere meinen Profit.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
You can even spice up your payments with custom text stamps and backgrounds because why should paying your friend for a brunch be so boring?
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
Und dann kommen wir rein und ich bin so überrascht. Sie hatten Früchte, sie hatten einen Cheese Stick, sie hatten einen Chomps Bar, sie hatten einen Granola Bar, sie hatten einen Joghurt-Packet und eine Menge Wasser. Ich bin so, das ist Abendessen. Wir sind großartig. Und jetzt muss ich es nicht öffnen. Ich habe es weggezogen aus dem Park. Ich habe es weggezogen aus diesem Ort.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
Und ich habe das meinen anderen Mom-Freunden gesagt. Sie sind so, das ist großartig. Sie sind so, ich habe es nicht. Ich war so stressiert, fühlte mich, als ob es einen konstanten Zyklus von Dishs und allem war. Wir machen nicht Abendessen zu Hause, also ich weiß es nicht. Sie sind so, was meinst du? Ich bin so, es ist eine großartige Boundary, die ich liebe.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
Even if you find yourself at home one day, you're like, okay, go to the back porch. Go eat that out there. It's fine. It's literally fine.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
Das ist die Wahrheit, weil ich eigentlich, ich fühle mich ehrlich gesagt, dass du episodes von diesem Podcast finden könntest, von mir über meine IUD reden und sagen, oh, es hat mich überhaupt nicht beeinflusst. Ich habe es entfernt und das ist eine große, große Unterschiede. Ja, und es hat mich ein paar Monate gedauert, um es zu verstehen.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
Vielleicht dauert es ein bisschen, um es zu rebalancieren, aber ich habe meine IUD entfernt und dann, wie ein paar Monate später, war ich so, warum fühle ich mich in diesem Art von Weise? And I was like, this is what they're talking about. They're not making this up. I thought I was just exempt from that. But even not just that. My actual energy levels were so much higher after getting off of it.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
Now, I didn't notice it right away. It took, I will say, three months. And I was like, I feel awake. I never hit that afternoon slump as much. And it was really crazy.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
Hast du das auch bemerkt?
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
Wow. Wir haben gesprochen. Ich weiß, dass alle drei von uns darüber gesprochen haben. Und hier bin ich, meine Worte zu essen. Aber wenn wir sprechen, wie jeder über seinen Zyklus spricht, jeder Frau spricht über ihren Zyklus und die verschiedenen Phasen seines Zykluses. I feel it now. I feel differences in myself. Do not try to get away. Because literally he laughed when I was talking about it.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
I was like, I literally, I'm not usually like this, but I was like, I feel so fat and ugly right now. And I was like, you know what? Some people will probably say that it's because of my cycle. I looked at what stage I was in. Luteal. Luteal. That's the only one I feel.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
Ich dachte, wir müssen es an allen Kosten tun. Und die Ovulation? Ich glaube, ich habe nicht so viel Aufmerksamkeit. Es würde Sinn machen, dass das so ist.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
Ich fühle sie. Ich fühle sie wirklich jetzt, Leute. Ich glaube nicht, dass das groß ist.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
During ovulation I feel like sexy. I'm like, okay. And Matt looks sexier to me.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
Period is obvious.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
period. Is that it, actually?
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
Like, literally, that's when I'm like, I need a tan. I can't look at myself anymore.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
I'm luteal. That's what I felt.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
Our hot takes before was that people were overblowing these stages. Which, that's probably still fair.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
I'm so mean because of my luteal phase. Oh, Blake doesn't let me get away with that.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
Is luteal making mean? No, I have no idea. Oh, okay.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
Yeah, I didn't notice that.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
What is follicular? Oh, I cried like all night the other night. I was watching sad reels and I was just getting hit by them. Your estrogen levels rise in the follicular phase. So what does that make you do? It's not going into that. What is follicular? Guys, why don't we know about proliferative phase? What does proliferative mean?
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
We're so uneducated.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
Well, I will tell you, I was like, I feel fat and ugly. I don't know why I'm feeling so down on myself. I was like, I know I've gained weight. And then I literally was like, it's...
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
Und ich dachte, was heißt ludial? Ich wusste es nicht. Und ich habe es gegoogelt.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
Und ich habe es so viel gefühlt. Und dann habe ich es Matt gesagt. Danke. Ich habe es Matt gesagt. Ich habe gesagt, du musst diese App downloaden, damit du weißt, wie du mich behandeln musst. Oh, das ist süß. Er hat die App. Er hat die App. Er hat die App. Er hat die App.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
Just because you're pregnant. No, yes you can. Okay, wait. Now we're putting you guys in the hot seat. We're doing the hot seat right now. Rapid fire. Abby, do you get upset that both of your pregnancies were shared with someone else? No, I'd be sad if I was doing it alone. Next.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
Ich war wirklich besorgt, dass ich dein Thunder die zweite Zeit verloren habe. Die zweite Zeit? Mit Augie? Mit Augie. Es hat so viel mehr Spaß gemacht. Addy, hier ist die echte Frage. Hat Abigail deinen Thunder verloren? Ja. Weil du erst verheiratet bist.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
It's gonna be really nice postpartum to have each other.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
It's gonna be baby heaven. Christmas is gonna be so fun.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
It's better. It's better. Trust me. Um, this one is so out of package. We're not gonna answer this one. Moving on. Okay. What is it? If you had to switch husbands with one of us for 24 hours, who would you pick and why? Oh, Blake, because he's a good cook. That'd be so fun.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
No, I'm offended, honestly. You guys should marry my husband. Okay, I'll take Matt.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
Ja, ich kann nie mit Blake verheiratet werden. Für so viele Gründe, aber er fängt mich so an. Nein, du bist sehr anders. Nein, es ist einfach so, dass Blake so auf eine Meinung steckt. Ich bin so, du weißt, das ist eine Meinung, oder? Aber in seinem Kopf ist es Fakt. Ich bin so, du weißt, das ist dein Set von Gedanken.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
Was würdest du für Arbeit machen, wenn nicht für Content-Kreation? Oh, ich habe das vorhin gedacht. Du würdest zuerst. Meines ist sehr einfach. Arbeit in der HR.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
Let me guess, Abby, what you would do. Interior design? No. Wow, you think I'm good at that? Yeah. I feel like you're passionate about it.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
I went to school for that, but then as soon as I started subbing, I was like, coffee shop owner. That sounds fun, but I don't want to be an owner of anything. Okay, coffee shop barista. A barista would be really fun. It wasn't one of the two I was thinking about. One was, I would love to be a personal chef for someone. I love the idea.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
I wouldn't love the hours, but a lot of people I see, they do work regular hours and they just prep for dinner. I was like, I would have a lot of fun just cooking for people and growing grocery shopping for them. I don't know why that sounds so fun to me. I saw this lady prepping juice for her family. I was like,
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
You'd be good at that. I would love that. Or two, I don't know, I would have to learn a lot about cooking. I don't really know what I'm doing. But two would be a children's librarian. I think it would be so fun. I'm like, I wanted to do story time, like read the picture. I love reading picture books to kids. Like I, like it's so fun to me.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
But to do that at a library, like formally do that, you literally have to be like a librarian. And to be a librarian, you have to have your degree in library. I think it's library science.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
Okay, don't take me out. It's not. It's not. Let me look at that. What's the library degree?
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
What accolades to be a librarian? Because I think it would be so fun. Yeah. Okay, to become a librarian, you typically need a master's degree in library science.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
Yeah. Who do you think is the wisest? No one can get offended right now.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
Jetzt, wenn er nervös ist, würde ich ihm sagen, dass die meisten Leute wirklich nervös sind, in dieses neue Leben zu kommen. Es ist einfach völlig anders als alles andere. Es ist eine Lebensveränderung. Es ist permanent. Es gibt viele Dinge darüber, die sind, du weißt, es könnte wirklich, wirklich, es könnte ein riesiges Verhältnis von Ergebnissen sein, in dieses Stage zu kommen.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
I think that about both of you. I really do. You're the wisest. I think it just makes sense. You're also the oldest, Abby. You're the oldest. You have, but you like, I know that that doesn't mean the same thing, but like, you also are, you are the wisest.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
What would they tell me at this point?
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
So I should tell Blake that Valentine's Day is coming up. Trust me, I'm Team Addy over Team Blake.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
Weißt du, was ein bisschen verrückt ist? Wenn Griffin nicht einmal gewonnen hat, hat jemand gesagt, okay, hier ist die Schule, in der meine Kinder sind, und sie sprechen darüber. Es war eine Preschule. In Arizona gibt es viele Sprache-Emergenz-Preschulen. Und sie sind so, oh, aber ich weiß nicht, ob er in die Schule kommen wird, weil die Warteliste drei Jahre lang ist.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
Es ist ein Preschool, also das würde bedeuten, dass das Baby geboren wird, sie sind für den Preschool registriert, was ein bisschen wild ist. Wow. Also ich bin so, okay, ich denke, wir haben einige der Optionen an diesem Punkt verringert, aber nicht wirklich.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
Ich meine, ich bin sicher, dass es noch viele gute Optionen gibt, aber es ist ein bisschen verrückt, wie du fühlst, als ob du auf dem Topf von all dem bist.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
I'm very pro public education and I think it's really good. But also I really, really want to be hands on. I feel like because of my background too. I think that this is like, I view it as like a gift that I have this opportunity to do it. That I like really want to do it. But I also don't want my kids to be alone because they're both really social kids.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
So we're going to try like a little hybrid homeschool with like friends type of thing. Yeah, which is in the fall, which I'm excited about.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
I just also know that like, especially because I have boys, the way that standard education is really designed is for like the typical girl. Das ist auch eine Fähigkeit, die sie lernen sollten. Wann sie spielen und wann sie still bleiben. Ich weiß nicht, ich denke, Ich denke, ich muss mich immer darauf konzentrieren, wo meine Kinder ihre Bedürfnisse sind.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
Was würdest du sagen, Abby?
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
Aber ich denke, es ist ein bisschen schwierig, wenn du die Mutter bist. Du bist ein bisschen wie, ich bin dein größter Fan. Also, ja, ich weiß nicht. Vielleicht muss ich jemanden haben, der sagt, hey, es ist Zeit, sie lernen, sich in eine Schuhe zu stellen.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
I have a friend who, their kid was in preschool and they were calling home to say, or at their parent-teacher meetings, they were like, she's falling a little behind. She's not quite meeting these milestones that we were hoping. They went on a week-long vacation and they kind of gave her some supplies so she could keep her up to date.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
By the time she came back after a week, apparently she was meeting all of those milestones.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
milestones huh so you just needed a little break i think she's maybe just need individualized like one-on-one yeah type of education yeah that's cool so that was inspiring to me too i was like you know every kid's kind of different their learning needs are different too yeah i'm glad we're in like positions where we can choose make that decision yeah because i know not everyone it's like you just have to go totally you don't have an option yeah especially like if you're living in a smaller town we had one high school yeah
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
Das ist eine wirklich... Das ist eine schwierige Sache. Ich glaube, ich erinnere mich daran, dass das eine der schwersten Dinge war. Unser erstes Jahr der Beziehung war die Weihnachten. Ich war so, oh mein Gott, wir haben alle Weihnachten und Weihnachten verbracht, fahren zu und von Plätzen und es hat sich verändert. Not even fun anymore. Because I think we're just like, we're barely present.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
Because we're thinking about how we're going to have to pick up and leave. And then it got a million times worse when we added kids into the mix. So what do you guys think about navigating shared events and holidays and time with both sides of the family to keep it fair? Do you feel the need to keep it 50-50?
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
Yeah. I also think it's like... I have to stop and recognize it's such a blessing that we have both sides of the family that want to be involved and want us there and want to spend quality time with us. It is still hard then to feel like you're pulled in a million different directions. If I could clone myself, I would be at all this stuff. But then once we had Griffin...
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
Yeah, that's really tough. I think it's never going to be 50-50 is the hard part of it all. That's just like a really unrealistic expectation maybe. But what you can do that everyone feels like it's fair.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
So maybe you just get pregnant and don't tell your husband.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
Something I love that you also like pointed out too is like giving the options. And I think that's also like a way of being clear of like, okay, this is what our capacity is. Now it's in your hands. Like which one do you choose? So they also feel like they have like a say so and like input.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
But the fact of the matter is like we're all in the situation of life where we have like the highest needs on our time. Like there's the most expectations with having little ones. And so I feel like when we're older, now we have to remember this. Yeah. Keep this in the back of our mind. Remember like, okay, our calendar does not look like their calendar.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
And because otherwise I'm like, I would also like it on the receiving end for if it was like, hey, I know you can't do everything. Here, these two things are really important to us. Like if you could make it to one of them, that would feel really like I would really appreciate that. I think that's a good way to communicate those types of things. Here's everything in front of us.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
Let's look at it above bird's eye view. What can we prioritize?
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
What are we doing? I love that you guys are willing to do this. And this was like a really fun conversation. And I feel like there's gonna be a lot of follow-ups to come. I'm so excited for the babies. That really changed things, guys. I know.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
You guys look great too, by the way.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
Wait, your skin is crazy?
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
Guys, be rooting for a girl. But we'd love a boy too. Also, before you leave, make sure you subscribe to Caleb and Abby on YouTube. Is that what it's called? I've subscribed, so they come up. But Caleb and Abby, the goal is 100,000 by the end of the year. Put it out there. It's a girl. Indigestion.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
Addie Biswell. There you go.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
Awesome. Well, thank you guys so much for listening and thank you so much again for being here. Love you.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
What was the most unexpected things about being pregnant or having a baby for the first time?
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
Hilf ihnen, sie zu verändern. think into the future a little bit or also like if you're like okay you're not ready right now like what is your expected timeline because if he's like maybe by the end of the year then you're like okay well I can wait till then like you know things like that my mother-in-law feels like she lost a son not gained a daughter advice navigating difficult in-laws
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
Oh, das ist traurig. Ich würde sagen, meine Perspektive auf das hat sich verändert, seit ich Söhne habe. Ich bin so, Matt, nenn deine Mutter. Weil er wirklich gut ist, mit seinen Eltern in gutem Kontakt zu bleiben. Aber ich bin so, Matt, es ist eigentlich nicht das Beste, weil Söhne, ich fühle mich, das ist natürlich, generell gesprochen, in viel näherer Kontakt mit ihren Eltern als Söhne.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
That is unexpected, Eddie. I feel fat and ugly. I don't know why I'm feeling so down on myself. I looked at what stage I was in. Luteal. Luteal. That's the only one I feel. If you had to switch husbands with one of us for 24 hours, who would you pick and why?
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
Und es ist so, okay, also, A mom of all boys, like our mother-in-law, I'm like, give Teresa a call. I'm like starting to see this. I knew that. I thought about that before, but now being like, it feels so personal to me. Please. But that's really hard. I don't know. What do you guys think?
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
sometimes it might feel awkward to like do things individually with your in-laws or your mother-in-law but that might be helpful in those areas yeah like maybe having a relationship with your mother-in-law outside of you as a couple just like you woman to woman having a relationship yeah if she's open to that
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
Family group chats. I actually was just talking to someone who she's like I was never included in like a family group chat and now her husband is going on independent sibling trips like with him and his two other siblings and like she's not invited or anyone's spouses are invited. It's just the siblings. Oh.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
That seems bad.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
all the way to australia for two weeks i would feel weird with my siblings that's kind of a long time it's not like a weekend two weeks two weeks away from your spouse two weeks away from your spouse and it's just the siblings and you can't bring your i wouldn't mind like a weekend is different uh i don't i think the parents are going to yeah oh oh like it's like a family family no they call it i
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
Ich glaube, sie nennen es die Core-Familie oder so etwas. Ja, das ist es, was ich sage. Ich glaube, das ist falsch.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
I won't accept you until you reproduce. You're not stuck here until you have a kid here. I think that mom needs to actually think about what that means. That's really sad.
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My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
Welcome back to the Unplanned Podcast. I have my lovely sister-in-law today, Abby. And Abby, everyone's confused. The internet's confused. Our family's also confused. It's just, it's how we roll. We're not related by blood. Abby is married to my brother. Abby is married to my husband's brother. Yeah, that was good. You got it right. Thank you. And they're both having babies. So we are sick.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
Ja, wer möchte die Großmutter an der Zeit involvieren? Warum würde ich mein kleines, mein wichtigstes Verhältnis mit dir verlassen und ich kenne dich nicht? Du akzeptierst mich nicht.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
Aber was bedeutet das in ihrem Buch? Was bedeutet das in ihrem Buch, dass du nicht Teil der Familie bist?
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
Ja, ich würde mich interessieren, was das bedeutet. Wie wenn sie nicht im Family Group Chat ist?
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
But investing can sound like a big, overwhelming, confusing thing, especially for someone like me. I was like, okay, I know that's something I need to do, but how do I even go about doing that? And that's where Acorns comes in. Acorns is a financial wellness app that makes it easy to start saving and investing for your future.
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My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
Was waren die unerwartetsten Dinge, wenn du mit einem Baby verheiratet bist? Für mich speziell?
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
Das ist süß. Ich habe das nicht erwartet. Ich erinnere mich auch daran. Besonders, wenn man Taschen in die Oberfläche der Flugzeuge setzt. Es ist schwer. Ich war so... Ich habe nicht mal versucht, weil ich wusste, dass Leute das tun werden.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
That's so crazy. And Abby, 21? Yeah, today. Over halfway. And Addie's having a good time. We're so excited and we're pretty sure Addy's also having a girl. Strong feelings for that. We have all boys in the family now, so I think it's the year of the girls. In this episode, we got your guys' input. We asked on the story about things that you guys might want advice on. We're not professionals.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on 2nd trimester, mom rage & switching husbands
Aber würdest du nicht sagen, dass das so hart war? Ja. Und cool? Was war der erste Satz, den du benutzt hast, den du beschreibst? Weil ich mich nicht daran erinnere. Ich erinnere mich nicht. Wie Arbeit war die am spannendste Erfahrung.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
By bye binkies, hitting a car & losing our luggage
I said, I hope you can cheer up. And it felt so invigorating. I just screamed out.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
By bye binkies, hitting a car & losing our luggage
Yeah, well, because I told you. Maybe he cheered up. He's like, I don't care.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
By bye binkies, hitting a car & losing our luggage
I know, I feel like it really made him happy.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
By bye binkies, hitting a car & losing our luggage
Ich dachte, ich könnte den Deal öffnen.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
By bye binkies, hitting a car & losing our luggage
It's sad. I just wanted to stay a baby forever.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
By bye binkies, hitting a car & losing our luggage
I know, because that's how Griffin feels.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
By bye binkies, hitting a car & losing our luggage
Er hatte keine Ahnung, was er machte.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
By bye binkies, hitting a car & losing our luggage
Sie wissen nicht, wie wertvoll der Binky ist.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
By bye binkies, hitting a car & losing our luggage
Es ist so traurig. Es ist wirklich so traurig.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
By bye binkies, hitting a car & losing our luggage
Weil du den Monitor hattest.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
By bye binkies, hitting a car & losing our luggage
Aber du hattest den Monitor.
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By bye binkies, hitting a car & losing our luggage
No, I cannot.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
By bye binkies, hitting a car & losing our luggage
I'm surprised it took him that long to calm down.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
By bye binkies, hitting a car & losing our luggage
Warum hat es so lange gedauert, bis er nach Hause kam?
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By bye binkies, hitting a car & losing our luggage
Dis shoveled.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
By bye binkies, hitting a car & losing our luggage
Das klingt unreal.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
By bye binkies, hitting a car & losing our luggage
Discheveled.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
By bye binkies, hitting a car & losing our luggage
Why is this happening all the time with you?
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
By bye binkies, hitting a car & losing our luggage
You still say nightmare. You say inevitable instead of inevitable.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
By bye binkies, hitting a car & losing our luggage
Wait, does your grandma listen to our podcast?
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
By bye binkies, hitting a car & losing our luggage
No, I don't think they do. I don't think they do.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
By bye binkies, hitting a car & losing our luggage
Nightmare.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
By bye binkies, hitting a car & losing our luggage
You all say cigarette.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
By bye binkies, hitting a car & losing our luggage
That's how it's spelled. That's the word.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
By bye binkies, hitting a car & losing our luggage
You're saying you miss because it's that small? Shut up.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
By bye binkies, hitting a car & losing our luggage
At least it's perky and it's round.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
By bye binkies, hitting a car & losing our luggage
I was doing the butt thing.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
By bye binkies, hitting a car & losing our luggage
I'm not gonna high five that. I'm not gonna high five that.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
By bye binkies, hitting a car & losing our luggage
Was ist passiert?
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
By bye binkies, hitting a car & losing our luggage
Oh, du hast lachen.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
By bye binkies, hitting a car & losing our luggage
It didn't take you out of the mood, apparently.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
By bye binkies, hitting a car & losing our luggage
We gotta end this podcast because we always start to talk about...
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
By bye binkies, hitting a car & losing our luggage
We had a great rapport. I could be friends with her.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
How many adults though?
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
There'd be six adults and five kids. If it was just us. A table for eleven.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
No, Rachel James. I called Rachel, Blake called Trey. And then you were the first person in person that we told. Actually, no. Rachel und Tom Sullivan waren die ersten, die das Podcast-Studio kennengelernt haben, also das ist eine lustige Geschichte.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
Ich arbeitete heute in Person, an dem Tag, als ich ins Studio gekommen bin, und ich war so, oh mein Gott, ich habe es gerade gefunden, dass ich krank bin. Ich fand es um 10 Uhr, ich bin um 10.30 Uhr weggegangen, um hierher zu kommen. Und ich kam hier und Rachel und Tom waren hier und ihr ganzes Team, und sie haben mich gefragt, und sie waren so, hast du eine Familie, hast du Kinder?
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My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
Und ich sagte, ja.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
Ich war so aufgeregt und dachte mir, ich muss es jemandem sagen. Es ist so lustig, das zu tun. Und sie waren nicht sicher, aber sie kennen mich nicht. Sie kennen nichts. Das Problem war, dass sie so aufgeregt waren. Thomas war so süß. Er kam und gab mir einen großen Hügel. Er ist so süß. Ich sagte, ich weiß nicht. Du kannst es ihnen nicht sagen. Bevor sie hierher kamen. Und dann gehen sie weg.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
Und Tom kommt zu mir und sagt, Glückwunsch wieder. Und dann kamen sie weg.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
Are we going to tell people yet or are we going to wait? And I wanted to tell people because I was like, if anything, I want to enjoy this right now and not be like scared to talk to people or tell people. Two, if anything happens, I want those people that I want to tell right now to know. And that can like be there with me. And so...
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
Ich habe die Möglichkeit bekommen, aber ich habe darüber gesprochen. Ich habe meinen besten Freund Rachel angerufen und sie FaceTime und sie gesagt, und dann hat er seinen besten Freund Trey angerufen und ihm gesagt. Und dann kam Abby an der Nacht, um Real Housewives zu sehen. Und das ist übrigens ungewöhnlich. Wir versuchen nicht wirklich. Wir versuchen nicht wirklich.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
Wir versuchen nicht wirklich. Wir versuchen nicht wirklich. Wir versuchen nicht wirklich. Sie hatte andere Pläne, zu denen sie auch gefragt wurde. Und sie fragte mich, ob sie gehen sollte oder ob sie zu mir kommen sollte. Und ich war so, du solltest wirklich kommen und das Show mit mir sehen. Keine Sorgen, wir canceln das. Ich habe doppelt gebookt.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
Sie war so, ich habe dich zuerst verabschiedet, Vater. Did you pick up on that, that she was urgent? No, not at all, actually. Well, you just had said I was your first obligation anyway. Yeah, I said, yes, you first. So I was going to go to your hospital.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
And so then you get there, we're sitting on the couch and I'm like. No, here's the thing.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
Vor dem Start des Shows. Ich dachte, ich warte, bis wir den Start des Shows starten. Es würde nicht seltsam aussehen. Ich dachte, okay, ich gehe in den Kühlschrank. Wir haben den Start des Shows 20 Minuten gedauert. Ich dachte, okay, ich gehe in den Kühlschrank. Ich habe gesagt, okay, ich muss in den Kühlschrank. Ich habe den Test genommen und es rausgebracht. Abby war völlig überrascht.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
Ich habe es so viel geliebt. Sie konnte nicht... We were watching Housewives.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
I'm also so planned. Why would I do it earlier than when I'm telling you I'm going to do it?
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
Jemand, umfülle mich. Es war lustig, weil ich fühle, dass ich dich nie auf den Weg bringen kann. Und ich bin so, das war großartig, dass du dich auf den Weg bringen kannst. Ich hasse es, wenn ich nicht lachend oder weinend bin. Hier ist das Ding. Oh, okay. Oh, okay. Oh, okay. Oh, okay. Oh, okay. Abbie und Ergo are you coming? We're gonna go. Blake always needs a little bit of a push anyway.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
I think he was still processing everything. So we had told Abbie and then she convinced us and so we went over and just told the rest of the family and I just showed them. I just walked in and I was like
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
Und dann... I told you just a couple days later when I saw you. And I wasn't going to see you for a couple more days. But then I needed to run over and drop something off. I'm like, I'm going to tell her. I'm like, Blake, can I tell her? I kept the pregnancy test also just in my fanny pack in case I needed it for anything. Bis zum nächsten Mal. Andere Leute werden es bewegen oder halten.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
Ich denke nicht, dass das seltsam ist.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
Ich bin nicht sicher, dass jemand darauf gebeten hat.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
Ja, na gut, zumindest ist es nicht Puh. Ich habe nicht gebeten. Auch meine war in einer Kuppe, also war es nicht so, als ob ich überall beten würde. It was contained. It was contained. But with you, I had just come over and I started recording because I had gone to the dentist that day. And they turned me away because I was pregnant and they needed approvals from my doctor. Which is so weird.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
So weird. Were you going to get nitrogas? No, no, no. This was just a regular check-up cleaning situation. That's never happened to me. Yeah, I've never heard of that. Und weil auf der Anrufform, du hattest einen Mark, ob du krank bist oder nicht. Ich bin so, ich habe gestern literal herausgefunden, dass ich krank bin. Aber sie sind so, wir brauchen eine Prüfung von deinem Doktor.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
Ich bin so, okay. Also komme ich her und du warst so, literally.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
Ich habe es so gut gespielt.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
Als ich Caleb gesagt habe, war er so... Ich glaube nicht. Abby knew? Sieh!
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
Ich war so, ich glaube nicht. Das war ein wirklich guter Schauspieler. Wie war dein Tag? Ich war gut. Ich habe angefangen zu filmen. Ich war so, ich brauche noch ein Bild von diesen Bildern. Dieses Video von den Bildern auf der Wand. Mixed Tiles. On the mixed tiles. Thank you for the beautiful mural. And I was like, oh, it was good. But I got turned away from the dentist because I'm pregnant.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
And you were like, what? I was shocked. I don't think I knew that you guys were trying. No, I think we had planned to start in the new year. That's off topic. topic that we'll talk about later. Yeah, no. Okay, we can actually bring it up right now.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
You guys can talk about sex with each other. I get all the tea. One time we were at dinner. Oh my gosh, Blake hates that I talk to other people. But it's a girl thing. I feel like it's an open thing. Blake doesn't like it? No, that I talk to other girls about it. He's like, you need to get that off your chest. We just need to discuss what's happening. Abby, close your ears.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
I need to tell Abigail something.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
Like, you have a little brother. Yeah, I do. He doesn't have a girlfriend yet.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
Gotta stop there.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
Das ist ein langer Weg, glaube ich. Ja, ich bin fast am Ende.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
Ich habe mich darüber nachgedacht, warum neun Monate? Es ist ein langer Zeit, mental musst du dich vorbereiten. Aber ich bin so, lass uns sie hier holen. Ich bin bereit für sie.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
Ich glaube, als ich morgens krank war, war es der längste. Es ging so langsam. Und jetzt bin ich schon 18 Wochen da. Ich bin fast halb da. Das ist verrückt. Der Fakt, dass ich schon im zweiten Trimester bin. Wo ist der erste? Ja, du warst ziemlich krank. Yeah, I was, the first like six to ten weeks, I was like down bad, like nausea all day, like nothing would work.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
And then like Unisimum B6 were my cure. I know a lot of people talk about those too. And guess what? Blake did the research. I didn't do any of it. He's the one, like that's how he cared for me. I was like, I'm like, you tell me everything. He bought me everything. The bands, the Die Gummis für, was ist es, Gingernudeln und all die verschiedenen Sachen, die du bekommen kannst.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
Er hat es für mich bekommen. Aber nur diese zusammen und dann immer essen. Wenn ich, wie Ramen-Noodles war, wie eine Woche, ich musste Ramen-Noodles haben. Wenn ich es nicht hatte, innerhalb von zehn Minuten, der Fakt, dass ich es brauchte, würde ich krank werden. Und so war es einfach. But ever since then it's been pretty good.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
I have a question about that. So like for me, example, first pregnancy, morning sickness, tired. I was like, everyone's like, it gets better. I'm like... Ich weiß, dass du sagst, dass du es nicht glaubst, weil ich mich gerade schrecklich fühle. Und du kannst einfach nicht nach dem Zukunft denken. Du bist da, du hast es schon erlebt. Ich weiß, dass es besser werden wird.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
Mentally, ist es einfacher als das erste Mal, würdest du sagen?
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
The other night at dinner he asked for coffee because the adults were getting coffee after dinner. He's like, can I have coffee? We're like... That's for the morning. Yeah, only decaf.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
Das war das erste Symptom, das ich in fünf Wochen hatte. Oh, ich habe mich in den Schauer geschnürt.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
Ich habe gesagt, das ist etwas, das niemand mir gesagt hat. Und dann habe ich mit dir darüber gesprochen und ich war so, okay, gut, ich bin nicht der Einzige. Aber wenn sie kalt werden...
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
I didn't have any of those. No, me neither.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
I feel like I have fixations each week. Maybe that's what the cravings are. Apples maybe are my one thing right now. Apples every single day sound good. With a little lime juice on them.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
Ich fühle mich, als hätte ich weirder Dinge. Kommt später. Interessant. Ich habe meine ersten Stretchmarken. Oh. Oh. Welcome to the club. Yesterday. Yesterday I said, that wasn't there before. Are you using all the creams he got me? I'm like, yes I am. You can't help it. He's like, so did you put them on today? I'm like, yes, I put them on today.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
If you're gonna get stretch marks, you're gonna get stretch marks. I have stretch marks already, like in my hips and my legs. I'm like, I'm just gonna get them. I'm prone to them.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
Ich denke nicht darüber nach.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
We found out at... Yeah, I think 10 weeks we found out the gender. We did a blood test. Fun fact, if you try and do the test through your doctor, they're going to charge you an outrageous amount. Just go to a blood center, get the blood test, get like peekaboo or sneak peek for 100 bucks. Do it that way instead, if you want to do it early. And so...
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
Wir wollten definitiv das Geschlecht herausfinden. Blake ist, wiederum, kein sozialer Medienleiter, sehr privat. Und er wollte herausfinden, wie wir es selbst machen, das Geschlecht herauszufinden, und dann machen wir ein Reveal für alle anderen. Und so haben wir die Tests gemacht. Es kam in drei Tagen zurück, was so schön war. Ich musste nicht warten. Hast du irgendeine Instinkt?
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
Ich fühlte, als ob ich eine Frau bin. Ich glaube, Blake und ich waren beide eine Frau mit dem, was wir dachten. Aber ich hatte wirklich keine Ahnung. Ich glaube, die einzige Grund, warum ich eine Frau dachte, war, weil es keine Jungs in der Familie gab. Das war die einzige Sache, die ich dachte.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
I love that. Yeah. I could be a dance mom. I also have two sisters. Yeah, I'd be a dance mom. I have two older sisters. So there were like three girls and then a boy in my family. And so I was like, it makes sense if I have a girl first. And so got the blood test, came back. I was like, I want to do something special, even though like... Er will nur auf die Tests schauen.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
Er hat keine Ahnung, ob er etwas Spaßes oder Besonderes macht. Und ich dachte mir, ich will nicht die Kekse machen. Ich will keine anderen Ideen machen. Also habe ich diese Bücher auf Amazon gekauft, die sagten, warum ein Sohn eine Mutter braucht, warum eine Tochter einen Vater braucht. Und ich habe sie in den Set gekauft und dann habe ich sie gebraten. Shoutout zu Amanda. Sie ist großartig.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
Okay.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
Das war ein geplantes Baby, geplantes Geburtstag. Addy macht alles geplant. Es war keine Art und Weise, dass es ungeplant war. Mein Leben funktioniert nicht so gut. Das ist ein gutes Game, Tori. Ich liebe das. Ich bin so stolz auf dich. Aber es war unser erstes Mal. Wir wussten nicht, ob alles gut funktionieren würde. Und es hat funktioniert. Das ist das, was wir im August machen. Das erste Mal.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
Ja, er ist so, lass mich meine Haare sauber machen, meine Kontakte reinlegen, ich werde mich ein bisschen bereit machen für das. Und dann haben wir es geöffnet und ich war so... Ich sah es, ich habe es gerade gelesen und ich war so, oh mein Gott. Es war so ein Schockmoment, aber auch er war so, ich wusste, es wird eine Mädchen sein. Ich wusste, es wird eine Mädchen sein.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
Und es war wirklich ein süßes Moment. Wir haben nur die beiden von uns bekommen, was war, ich habe angefangen zu weinen, weil ich war so, das ist so süß. Und wie alle anderen Jungs in der Familie, es wird so spannend werden. Sie wird vermischt werden, weil sie groß ist. Aber dann haben wir diese Informationen für drei Wochen gespeichert.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
Ich habe jedem gesagt, dass ich verheiratet bin, den Tag nachdem ich herausgefunden habe. Es war nicht eine klare Idee, niemandem das Gender für drei Wochen zu erzählen. Ich habe niemandem gesagt, dass ich verheiratet bin. Was glaubt ihr, was das war? Oh, ich dachte, dass ich so sicher war, dass Baby eine Frau war.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
Viele Daten kommen auch von mir, die meine Präferenzen sagen. Addie war wirklich aufgeregt, als sie herausgefunden hat. Ich war aufgeregt, aber Addie war wirklich aufgeregt.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
I was texting her, I was like, so what do you think it is? She goes, I know it's a boy, in all caps. I said, fair, no, Lori.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
So we had a gender reveal party, but just for like family and friends to tell them all, but we already had known it was a girl, so that was really fun.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
Es hat funktioniert. Wir haben uns verheiratet. Und ich habe herausgefunden. Also wiederum, ich trage alles. Ich mache natürliche Zyklen. Ich trage meinen Zeitraum. Du warst eigentlich ziemlich intensiv. Ich war intensiv. Ich hatte einen Oralring. Ich habe noch einen Oralring. Du hast ihn für diesen Zweck gekauft, oder? Für den sehr spezifischen Zweck, um meine Temperatur zu prüfen. Intensiv.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
Es ist wie, oh mein Gott. Ja, egal was. Ich fühle mich immer noch so, dass ich es oder das Baby sage, oder ich sage nicht, dass sie oder sie einen Namen hat. Und ich versuche, sie zu nennen, wenn wir über sie reden. Und ich bin so. It just feels weird right now. The more I say it, the more... It's just like when you get married and you're like, my husband, my husband, I'm a wife.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
You're like, it feels weird. It feels weird at the first couple times. I'm like, just gotta get used to it.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
I wonder if that's something different for the nurses or like for the OBs. Like when you're like, I don't want to find out the gender. And when they're like doing everything, they're like... And you want to slip up with the first one.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
Not any dreams. I had a dream about the name.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
I don't really dream. I don't really dream either.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
Das ist sehr faszinierend für mich, weil ich sehr unabhängig bin. Wir versuchen, krank zu werden. Und das erste Mal, als ich ovuliere, weiß ich nicht, wann es ist, weil ich meinen Charger nicht habe. Mein Ring ist gestorben. Ich liebe Naturzyklen, aber wenn du nicht, sie tun es nicht. Du kannst keinen normalen Thermometer benutzen. Du kannst nicht kaufen.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
And it'll happen.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
Du kannst keinen Orring-Charger kaufen, weil der Größe ist. Du musst es online bestellen. Es war wirklich kein Weg, weil ich nicht mal den portable Thermometer hatte, den sie mit mir geben.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
I feel like I would be one of those people that would take it negatively. Because I'd be like, so you're telling me that I look like I'm crazy right now? And that I feel crazy? Because what if I feel like I have it under control? And then they tell me that my hands are full.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
und also war das stressvoll.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
Or just wait until, I'm like, it's actually all the fun. I'm actually so excited. Yeah, I don't like that one either. You'll hate the newborn stage. I'm like, I'm actually so excited to get to experience that. So, I can't wait. I know, I think that one is... I'm like, it'll be hard, sure, but... We could get rid of that.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
Beat it.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
Nein, es lässt dich nicht die Temperatur einladen, auch was ich sage, das ist unnötig. Ich verstehe, dass sie versuchen, Geld zu machen. Das ist ein großartiges Geschäftsplan. Das ist ein großartiges Geschäftsplan. Ich war so, warum kann ich nicht einfach meine eigene Temperatur einladen?
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
What are we going to say in 2025? It is March now.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
I actually love toxic positivity.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
I'm like, pretend like you're healthy right now and you'll feel healthy. That is you. That is so you. Nope, I don't feel sick. I'm going to the gym. I would never tell someone I was pregnant that, though.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
You take a seat. For yourself, you're like, no, I gotta keep going. But if I was like, Abby, I'm sick today. You'd be like, oh my gosh, just go lay down. What can I get you? You know, and you'd be like, I'm gonna go to the gym. You're growing a life. I'm gonna do all these things because I'm not sick. Growing a life. Even though I am sick. You do that. You're growing a life.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
I'm like, no, but I still have to function as a human being. You're growing a life. That is very important.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
I feel like I'm gonna take all the people up on their offers. Because I feel like here's... Ich habe mir gedacht, die Leute, die Dinge anbieten, vielleicht als ich zu Vanessa Van Edwards Podcast gehört habe, habe ich mir gedacht, dass du sie liebst und ihnen etwas anbietest, um sie auf ihre Anbieter zu nehmen. Ja, sie hat gesagt, gib ihnen ein Geschenk.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
Gib ihnen das Geschenk, um dir helfen zu können und sie auf ihre Anbieter zu nehmen, die Leute fragen, wenn sie dir helfen. Total. Du würdest dich wahrscheinlich so lieben, dass ich dich vertrauen würde, um das mit meinem Baby zu tun.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
Oh ja. Also ich bin so, dass sie es machen kann. Du kannst es machen. Das wäre toll. Du kannst es nicht haben. Ich bin sorry. Du wirst sehr krank werden. Ich meine, wenn du willst. Ich habe das Gefühl, dass ich aufwachen werde. Natürlich. Ich will nicht. Ja, du wirst... Ich schlafe wirklich hart. 40 Wochen krank werden. Es ist okay. Aber... But if you weren't pregnant, I would trust you.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
Like, taking people up on those offers, I think, is very nice.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
Yeah.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
My hot take about the O-Ring. I don't love it. I think it's good for people who care about their sleep maybe. I don't necessarily care about my sleep. I wish I would have just upgraded my Apple Watch to be able to take my body temperature and hook it up that way. So probably after this baby I'll upgrade my Apple Watch and just keep track of my cycle that way.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
I have zero expectations and I feel like Das ist ehrlich gesagt so ein Geschenk, dass man sich nicht interessiert, wie es läuft. Ich denke mir, das Einzige, was ich möchte, ist ein Epidural. Und wenn Blake recherchiert und etwas anderes findet, was wir sollten oder sollten nicht tun, dann bin ich im Spiel für es. Wenn es ein Vaginalbirth ist, dann ist es großartig.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
Wenn es eine C-Sektion ist, dann muss es so sein. Ich denke, vielleicht, wenn ich weiterführe, werde ich es ein bisschen mehr prozessieren. Aber jetzt denke ich mir,
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
My story is like... Because both of you have had pretty rough birth stories. And then there's a couple of girls in our friend group that it's the best thing ever. And they've had great experiences.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
I don't really care about my sleep cycle. It actually stresses me out if I'm like... You got a 34% score. I'm like, yeah, that's why I feel horrible today. Rather than I'm like, I don't know what I got. So I just have to live my life and keep moving that way. So I didn't have my Oura Ring, didn't have the charger or anything like that.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
Yeah. I was like, let's do it again! I'm curious to see how Blake is. And, like, during that whole process. Because he's a... He cares. He's interesting. He's kind of like Abby, where, like... Mein einziger Beispiel ist das Zerren. Er sagt, du musst das nicht tun. Du bist in Ordnung. Und ich bin so, wird er denken, dass alles in Ordnung ist? Es ist eine völlig andere Situation.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
Das ist wahr. Das ist so wahr. Wrigley hat auf meinen Bein gesprungen. While I was in bed, I was like, oh my gosh, he just jumped directly on her. And the next day Blake's like, do you feel okay? Did that actually hurt? Do you think there was actually an issue? I'm like, no, I just didn't want him to jump on my belly. And so he's very protective with the dogs getting on my belly.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
So I'm like, I feel like when we get to those areas, he's very like...
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
Ich habe keine Ahnung. Blake wird das wahrscheinlich sagen, wenn er seine Recherche macht.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
Wenn du verabredet wirst.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
And so we were like, I was still keeping track of like when I could, when my period was going to start. I have a very regular period. And so with that, we got home from that trip. Blake... Ein bisschen psychisch, nicht psychisch.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
Das macht Sinn. Das scheint zu machen Sinn.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
Ich kaufe die Stiefel für mich selbst. Und für dich. Ich kaufe dir beide Stiefel. Das wäre toll.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
Eigentlich würde er mich nicht trinken lassen oder was auch immer, oder wie viele von den Dingen, die du hättest, wenn du krank wärst, über diese Länge nicht zu wissen, ob wir krank sind oder nicht. Nur weil er sich darüber kümmert, was ich bekomme. Aber ich war so sicher, dass ich nicht krank werde. Der erste Versuch.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
That's why I'm like, it's probably worth it to just buy it all and have it. Either way. You know, like in case.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
Ich bin froh, dass du dich in dem Moment nicht so fühlst.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
I feel like we talked about that on the last episode, too. Oh, yeah, we did. About how, like, but even, I don't know if we talked about, like, parenting, like, for you guys or anything, but I'm like, I feel like I watch YouTube parent and I'm just, like, learning. Like, at least being, like, not having a child, I'm more so learning and not being, like, not gonna do that.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
Or, you know, I'm, like, just learning techniques from you guys and I'm, like, I don't feel like I'm gonna compare, other than if my child's, like, crazy and doesn't behave. I'm, like, what the hell? Hecht did I do?
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
Wie kann ich nicht mit unseren Freunden, wie kann ich nicht nur ein Glas Wein zum Weihnachtsessen haben? Er ist so, nein, ich bin wahrscheinlich smart, jetzt, dass ich krank bin. Smart von mir, das zu tun. Aber wir sind heimgekommen. Ich habe einen Test gemacht. zwei Tage bevor ich meinen Zeitraum starten sollte. Und ich habe den Obulation-Test genommen. Also habe ich 50 von Amazon gekauft.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
Maybe that's part of the like openness of like Maybe you guys too. The struggles of parenting. That you don't feel like you know what you're doing. So it's easier to not compare.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
Ich habe das die andere Nacht gedacht, weil viele Leute sagen, du hast keine Ahnung, du kriegst ein Baby und du denkst dir, What do I do? I have no idea. I've never experienced this before. And I was like thinking about the other night. I was like, I'm not really worried about that. I'm like, I feel like I know the basic needs of a child and I'll get like, I'll figure it out.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
But maybe once like I have it in my arms again, I said it like I'm just the associations out there. Yeah. When I have her in my arms, I'm going to be like, I might be a little more freaked out. But right now I'm like.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
Sie sind super teuer und sie zeigen einfach... Oder nicht den Obulation-Test, die... Die Strips? CP... Was ist der Niveau? HCG. HCG-Niveau-Tests. Und ich habe zwei Tage genommen, bevor ich meinen Zeitraum starten sollte, um zu sehen, ob irgendwas aufstehen würde. Nichts aufsteht. Ich war so cool, nicht krank. Wir hatten eine Mädels-Nacht that night.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
And I wonder if it's... Okay, so anxiety is like... I don't know if it's a symptom of pregnancy or if it's my hormones. I've never felt... echte Angst vor der Geburt. Wo in deinem Stomach und in deinem Kopf, du kannst nichts anderes denken und du bist so nervös, du kannst nicht schlafen. Dinge wie das sind nicht passiert, bis ich geboren bin. Und es ist mehrere Male passiert, dass ich geboren bin.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
Und ich weiß nicht, ob es die Art ist, wie mein Gehirn processiert. Es geht nicht um Eltern. Es geht nur um das Leben oder über verschiedene Dinge, die in meinem Leben passieren. Und dann vielleicht ist es die Lebensphase, in der Blake und ich sind, dass es verschiedene Dinge gibt, über die ich Angst habe. Aber ich bin so.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
Nein, ja, es ist anders.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
Ich war nicht normalerweise angstig. Warum mache ich das jetzt? Ich glaube, wir sprechen mehr so über selbstverwirklichende Angst.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
Ich war mit Emily Fuller darüber gesprochen und ich war so... Nope, not pregnant. She's like, I feel like you would not tell anyone and you would just have a baby. I'm like, that is absolutely not me at all. Like I would tell you literally, if I was pregnant right now, I would tell you. I took a test this morning, negative. That was a bad take. Not me at all. It's okay to know each other.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
Das Beispiel, wie letzte Nacht, wach zu wachen und zu sagen, ich brauche dich, um mit mir wach zu sein. Ich habe das noch nie gemacht. Zwei und ein halb Jahre verheiratet. Ich bin nie aufgewacht, ich fühle mich anstrengend. Ich bin so, hm, Pregnanz, vielleicht. Das ist das Einzige, was ich emotional hatte. Deine Hormone können dir alles tun.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
Das ist die Anxiety-Portion. Ich denke, das Beste, was du tun kannst, ist, sie aufzuwachen.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
You can't let it fester. You gotta talk it out.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
How about you just talk to that person? Oh. Yeah, that would probably work. But it does. I'm sorry.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
Yeah, I hope it goes away. Or I learn ways to handle it.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
Das ist toll, weil letzte Nacht habe ich angefangen, über die TV-Show Traders zu denken, bis ich schlafen konnte. Ich habe gesagt, denk nicht über diese anderen Dinge, denk über Traders. War das effektiv? Es war, aber das war nachdem ich krank war und mich verletzt habe und dann habe ich mich besser gefühlt und dann habe ich über Traders gedacht.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
Wow, hast du sich verletzt, weil du dann Angst hattest? Es könnte sein, dass die Angst mich öffnet. Oh Gott. Und dann war ich so, oh, mein Stomach schmerzt. Und dann konnte ich nicht mehr schlafen, weil ich über Dinge nachdenkte. Und ich fühle mich, als ob ich nicht mehr schlafen können würde. Ich hätte nicht mehr schlafen müssen. Und es geht nicht um die Geburt? Oder die Mutter?
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
Es hat nichts mit der Geburt zu tun. Es ist nur ein Gefühl. Es ist nur ein Gefühl. Und dann denke ich über Dinge, die...
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
happened throughout my day and i'm like oh this thing needs to be done and i haven't done it and if i don't do this then this will happen and this and this and this i can't stop thinking about it which is weird because then i go to bed i don't like it's like different it's not weird i mean you're about to go through a huge life transition and i think i think it's really easy for us to like you were saying abby earlier
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
The next morning I take, or I don't take a test. And then in the, it's like 10 a.m. I'm like looking at my aura ring. The next day. I'm looking at my aura ring stats and my Und ich habe gesagt, ich bin sehr, sehr regelmäßig, es ändert sich nie. Und ich war so, hm, das ist interessant. Also ich war so, okay, ich werde einen Test nehmen. Blake sitzt an der Küchentasche, arbeitet.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
Das ist eine massive Sache. Jobverlust. Jobverluste. Jobverluste. Dinge wie Finanzen, wie ein Baby zu haben. Das ist ein großer Lebenswechsel in der Finanzseite auch. Und Jobs und das Thema Arbeiten und Baby und Leben und Baby und einfach gut sein wollen. Alles, was ich tue, während ich auch krank bin. Weißt du, einfach alles. Ich finde es klingt... Ich mag es nicht, Leute zu verletzen.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
Das wäre gut später.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
Es ist wirklich lustig, manchmal, wenn ich etwas poste, oder CJ ist in der Bildung, und...
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
griffin und augie aren't or something and people think it's one of your kids and they'll dm me and they'll be like hey by the way like you're showing abby's kids like their faces i'm like it's cj they're okay with it but it's like people are protective of you too which is like nice and sweet of their like your boundaries with your kids as well i made a boo-boo a couple weeks ago i forgot to tell you i'm not it was up for about five minutes but i got like i got several messages but thank you like that's also just not like not the purpose for it so like if you like i'm like i don't
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
We take a million pictures of those boys with their faces and we have them and we have private stories where we're able to share those moments and things like that. But I'm like, all the pictures in your house have photos of the boys and their faces and things like that. So I feel like that could be a misconception online. They're like, but they're not...
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
Also ich bin so, ich werde einfach einen HCG-Test nehmen und sehen, was passiert. Geh da rein. Ich sehe es und denke mir, da ist eine feine Linie. Ich denke, da ist eine feine Linie, weil ich den Tag vorher getestet habe. Ich dachte nicht mal, dass es eine Linie gab. Und dann war ich so, da könnte es eine Linie geben. Und ich bin so verrückt. Ich bin so...
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
That is so true. Up and down didn't work. I literally would go...
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
forward like bouncing like this no it's like he needed like so in motion oh my god i was watching him one time when you guys were recording a podcast episode and we were like i had to keep going in and outside and there was an alarm on the door and i'm like they're recording but he's crying he won't i can't put him down so i literally was just bouncing with him outside the whole time he never was a lounger no i love that story great times he's gonna laugh about that sunday you were crazy
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
I'm like crying, I'm like, I think that's a faint line, I think, I think, I don't know, I don't know. And then I go out, I just show it to Blake, I say, so do you think there's a line here? No planning, nothing special, I was just like, is there a line here? And he's like looking at it, he's like, I don't know. He's like, what does it mean if there's a faint line?
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
Die lustigste Sache, die jedes Jahr auf dem Tag auf dem Video auftaucht, ist, als wir in Springfield lebten. Ich glaube, wir kamen zu dir eine Nacht lang zum Abendessen. Du warst in Mattes Apartment und ich habe ein Video gedreht, in dem ich sagte zu Blake, They're making a TikTok right now. And I like turned it around and you guys are like dancing in the kitchen.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
And it was like, obviously this was like before you guys like got crazy. So at some point you're like.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
And it was so funny. I was like kind of making fun of it. And I'm like. Nope, shouldn't have made fun of that. Look who's on their podcast.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
Someone asked me if you were gonna be in the room with me. I always think that's a wild assumption. I didn't want my own mom. But also, love you mom, no.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
I feel like no one calms me down or regulates me the best other than Blake. I love my mom. We've talked about this before. She's way more emotional than I am. She'd probably be really emotional and I'd be fine. And I'd be like, Mom, I need you to just... Take a break, you know? And so I'm like, Blake is like the best person because I'm very overly crazy. And he's like so mellow.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
I'm like, I need that person in the room with me.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
She is. Oh, yeah. That would be... She's a good tough love, really. One thing I was going to say is that I'm so excited for your dad for a little girl. Oh, my gosh. Like, he's so sweet with the boys. I cannot...
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
He's sweet. He thinks everything they do is hilarious.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
I'm like, if there's any line, I'm pregnant. He's like, I don't know. I'm like, no, that's what that means, if there's a faint line. And I was like... I have one test that says like yes or no, if you're pregnant or not. And he's like, okay, go take that. I'm like, okay, I will. Go back. Did you have more pee in you or like in a cup? Did you pee in a cup?
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
So either she's gonna have a little bestie girl or she's gonna have a new boyfriend. Legally, that's fine. We're not actually related.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
He went through everyone. He's like, I talked to all these different people and these are things I learned about all of them. I'm like, oh, so this is that person that you talked to.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
Yes.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
So exciting.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
Maybe next time we do an episode, we'll both have new babies. Be nursing. Yeah, we might have the babies with us.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
You have, yeah. You have. You gotta do what you gotta do.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
We'll just put it into existence that we'll be nursing and then Abby will be pregnant in the next one. Mmm. Put it out there. That's my goal.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
I'll be pregnant with you when you have your third.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
I don't post anything. Follow Abby.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
Thanks so much for listening. Yes, thank you. Bye.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
So when you buy those HCG tests in that package, it comes with cups. It has 50 cups with it as well. So I peed into a cup. And so then I was able to do the test and I was like just waiting there. I was like, I'm so confused if this is going to be...
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
und ich habe es umgekehrt und es hat gesagt, ja, ich war einfach so überrascht, weil es wie eine feine Linie zu sehen ist, als es zu sehen ist, dass es einfach komplett andere Gefühle ist, also habe ich diese Rekordungen, wie das ist, warum ich diese Regel für mich selbst habe, du nimmst nur die, die digital lesen sind, aber mit Auggie dachte ich nicht, dass ich das war, also habe ich nur die Linien gemacht, ja,
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
Das ist eine dunkle Sache. Ich wollte nicht... Sie sind teuer. Ich habe meine eigenen Regeln verloren. Warum sind Prägenz-Tests so teuer? Ich wollte nicht all diese kaufen. Und sie nehmen sie und sind immer negativ. Ich wollte nur diese bekommen. Und mein Vater war so... Du brauchst nicht alle. Du brauchst nur zwei. Und dann bist du in Ordnung. Jetzt habe ich 48 für die restliche Zeit.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
Ich habe 48?
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
Nein, ich hatte noch einen Tag. Ich hatte noch nicht meine Periode verpasst. Meine Periode war am nächsten Tag. Es sollte am nächsten Tag beginnen. Also war es ein Tag vor deiner Periode. Es war ein Tag vor meiner Periode. Ich hatte keine Symptome für ein bisschen. Wow, das ist verrückt. Außer, dass ich meine Periode verpasst habe.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
You're like, you never not know what's going on in your body, but I guess this time you're like, what? Das ist schon wach. Was passiert hier? Ich weiß es nicht. Das war sogar mehr überraschend für Blake und ich und TMI für die Leute. Aber es war das erste Mal, dass wir es überhaupt versucht haben. Wir waren sehr, sehr vorsichtig. Wir haben natürliche Zyklen gemacht.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
Ich weiß, dass viele Menschen, die natürliche Zyklen machen, nicht perfekt benutzen. Und wir haben es perfekt benutzt und sind nie verheiratet. Und dann war das erste Mal, dass wir versucht haben, es nicht zu benutzen, sich verheiratet zu machen. Ich war so, das wird uns nicht passieren. Und Blake war so, und als ich ihm gesagt habe, er war so, ich wusste immer, dass du verheiratet wirst.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
Aber okay, ich glaube, das ist das nächste Teil. Also ich fliege es über. Es sagt ja. Ich bin so, oh mein Gott, oh mein Gott, oh mein Gott, oh mein Gott. Ich bin so, werde ich, werde ich etwas tun? Ich kann nicht warten, Blake zu erzählen, weil ich ihm die Tests vorher schon gezeigt habe. Er weiß, dass ich einen jetzt nehme. Also ich war so, okay, ich glaube, ich werde ihn recordieren.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
Und Blake ist ein sehr, man, ein paar Wörter. Er ist kein emotionaler Mann, kein sozialer Medienmann überhaupt. Ja.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
Nein, er kann nicht online veröffentlicht werden. Er ist sehr kurz in meinem Announcement-Video, oder im Finding-Out-Video, nur weil er sagt, ich will das nicht teilen. Ich bin so, okay, gut, ich mache das, was du willst. Er ist ein privater Mann. Und er ist so, das ist meine Reaktion. Ich bin so, weil er sagt, ich wusste, dass du das tun wirst. Also habe ich es geöffnet und er sagt, oh, wow.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
Er kam aus dem Tisch, kam rüber und hat mich geholfen. Wir waren im Pajamas, also hat es gut funktioniert. Als ich den Test gemacht habe, habe ich mich in die Pajamas gewechselt, weil ich wusste, dass er die Pajama-Tüten trägt.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
Secret. I was like, this would be cute.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
What? I was like, this would be cute. We're not doing anything special, but hey, we would be in matching pajamas and that might be cute. That's cute. Our dogs are jumping on us because we're hugging and Blake's pushing them down. I'm like, I'm fine. They're not going to hurt anything right now. But that's how we found out we were pregnant.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
It's so sweet. All the things he's like, I don't like doing research. I don't like finding things out. I'm like, you tell me what to do and I trust you with it. And so like him telling me the things I can and can't eat or like can and can't do with like working out and like has been super helpful because I'm like, I don't want to look that stuff up. I didn't know you were like that.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
Sure.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
Weil ich ihn genug vertraue, um die Recherche zu machen. Und er, für unsere Registrierung, ich war so, du schaust, welche Bottle und welche Binky und so weiter, weil ich will nicht schauen, was das Beste ist. Ich weiß nicht, ich habe wirklich keine Ahnung.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
My sisters-in-law on pregnancy, surprise gender reveals & VBACs
Okay, that's different. I need to organize my phone.