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Hey Bible Readers, I'm Tara Lee Cobble, and I'm your host for the Bible Recap. Yesterday we ended with Joseph's brothers selling him into slavery, and he was subsequently sold to a man named Potiphar, who worked for the king of Egypt. Joseph's brothers led his father Jacob to believe he was dead, and Jacob was crushed.
Today, we have a brief intermission from Joseph's story where we follow what's happening at that time in the life of his half-brother Judah, Leah's fourth son. Judah finds a wife from among the Canaanites. We've seen them a lot already. We'll continue seeing them. They're the cursed descendants of Noah's son Ham.
They're not worshipers of God, and they currently inhabit the land God promised to give to this family. Judah and his new wife have three sons, and he eventually arranges a marriage between his oldest son Ur and a woman named Tamar. But Ur was wicked, so God kills him, because he's God and he knows hearts. God is both just and merciful. In this instance, he leans into his justice.
So if you're feeling any kind of impulse to set yourself up as a judge over God because of this, I would just encourage you to remember that he's the one who gets to make those kinds of decisions. We've all committed treason against God and his kingdom, and we all deserve death. So no matter what Ur did or didn't do, he got what he deserved. The rest of us are just living on mercy.
After Ur's death, Judah gave Tamar his second son in marriage, because if she had neither a husband nor children, it was essentially a death sentence for her in that day. There'd be no one to care for her or provide for her. It seems like Judah was really trying to take care of Tamar. But son number two wasn't having it, so he got sneaky about it to make sure he didn't get her pregnant.
God's protection of Tamar kicks in when this happens, and God kills son number two. Son number three was still a child at that point, so Judah told Tamar to stick around until he was old enough to marry. But Judah didn't seem keen on keeping his promises, and Tamar was fearful that she'd never have kids, so she took matters into her own hands.
We've seen this kind of thing a few times before, and we're not even a month in yet. For the descendants of Abraham, children were the sign of God's blessing, because that's what he promised Abraham. So to not have children was shameful for one of Abraham's descendants. One day, after Judah's wife died, Tamar heard he was going on a trip.
She veiled herself and positioned herself on the road to be taking. Some theologians think she intentionally dressed like a prostitute and planned this scenario all along, but others believe she veiled herself as a reminder to Judah that he was supposed to be helping her marry his son. Either way, when he mistook her for a prostitute, she went along with the ruse.
He slept with her and she cleverly asked for collateral until his payment, which was a goat, could arrive. So he gave her his signet, which was like a form of ID. He also gave her the cord it was on and his walking staff, which was probably also personalized and unique to him. He sent the goat to her later, but surprise, she was nowhere to be found.
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