Savage Lovecast Episode 931

3124.558 - 3150.095 Dan Savage

You can't enjoy your kinks that may be rooted in having been shamed or feeling shame if you haven't learned to love and accept yourself, including the part of yourself that's kinky. Loving the unintentional gifts shame sometimes leaves us with, not all of us, just some of us, such as an amazing kink or two, is the trick that I am attempting to describe. But it involves a kind of neutralized shame.