Dr. Dave Vago on the Neuroscience of Mattering: How to Feel Valued & Seen | EP 565

2734.383 - 2758.582 Dr. Dave Vago

And there's this big gorilla that comes in the room and stares right in the middle of the room and starts beating his chest and then walks off the camera. And you don't even see it. Often people don't even see that big gorilla came in because of this phenomenon of how engaged we are when we're focused. And some of the thoughts that are negative in content, we stick to so much so that