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So that doesn't bode well for the longevity of a relationship when you're looking at about how it's going to end. Because really, you're trying to just protect yourself, right? But if you're protecting yourself, you also can't necessarily extend beyond the reaches of the wall that's protecting you. So you're limited in the emotional experience you can have because you are protecting yourself.