Zan Perion
Appearances
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Who women adore. Men who have women in their lives all the time. Women take care of them. They love them, right? You know what it is, the number one? Well, it's complex, but I'll try and sum it into a little simple thing. The men of all of history... who have women in their lives who love them and take care of them, have two qualities. Counterbalancing. Remember upper Lauren energy I talked about?
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Just letting you know. There's simultaneously two women, a father figure that says, don't cross this line. I like you. Don't do this. I don't like that. I like you, but I don't like your behavior. Imagine that. What do phrases say? What a phrase to say to a beautiful woman. You know what I'm saying?
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There's a line, don't cross it. I like you and I don't like this behavior. I don't like it, but I like you. Powerful.
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So there's a father figure that says to put her in her place. Don't cross this line because this is the way I want it to be, my dear. It's kind. It's gentle.
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It's invitational. It's sweet. You're not like, I don't like this when you blah, blah, blah, blah. I'm inviting you to shut the fuck up. How do you feel about that, young lady? It's none of that kind of energy. It's like, listen, listen, baby, listen.
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I don't like this behavior. Don't do it again. Look at my eyes. Don't do it again.
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That father figure saying, no, don't do it. No, I don't like it. Powerful men that have women in their lives have that spirit at the same time. They have the spirit of these little boys who are lost.
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Calls to the life-giving mother essence of women, which they have. I don't care what modern society and media says, they have it. In other words, there's a little boy caught in a cookie jar like this, and mother walks in, and he's standing on the stool like this, and she goes, what are you doing?
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And he goes, okay, well, you're so cute, you can have a cookie.
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In other words, the strongest men with women are men who say, don't cross this line. I don't like it. I don't like that behavior. And they're simultaneously little boys who are like needing help and they can't. adjust their color, and women have to wash behind their ears.
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If you're only this cool guy who's got 100% figured out, and you don't give the women the chance, the woman in your life, the relationship in your life, to take care of you and to inspire you and to be that woman.
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You rob her of everything. She wants to take care of you two. And that's why women in relationships will start drama and start fights and start poking at the guy because... There's no energy. It's just like this flatline guy. So they try and cause a drama or cause a fight or cause some trouble.
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So this is the conclusion that I've ever come to in my life. I've never heard anybody in my life say it. There's probably a reason why, Zahn. Men who love women are loved by women. That's the way it works.
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They get a free pass. Now this. If you're the man of all of history who have women who just like, oh, that's just him. He gets away with it. You have to prove something to me. No, that's just him. He's on our side. He's on our side. You guys know what I'm talking about. It's a man who get a free pass. Well, it's because they have this strong father figure engine. Don't don't.
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Here's how I want it to be, baby. I want to be like this. And that's what I want to be. And I will not bend on that.
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Instead of following her around, we hear about this leadership energy. Guys are being taught this. If you want to do something, you tell the girl, I want to do this. I choose this movie. But there's no point in that. With my girlfriend, I say, hey, baby, listen, let's go to a movie tonight. What would you like? Did you have a preference? Because I don't care. Right?
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You know, I'm not sure. Then I decide. Okay, I'll decide. Let's go. So it's still a give and take. It's still an energy of that. You see? I'm not demanding my way or the highway. No, no, no. Not at all. I love my girl. You want to do this? Okay, baby, let's go. I'll go with you because I like you and I want to do it. So that strong leadership energy says, no, don't cry.
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I don't like it, baby. Listen, don't listen to me. This is my voice. Look at my eyes. I don't like it. I like you, but don't do this. I don't want it in my life. I don't want this energy around me. Don't do it. You see?
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No, he doesn't. I'm emphasizing his point, I know.
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Give her the ability to take care of you and her mother instinct comes out. There's something called the warrior's repose.
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Imagine this, an Aztec warrior out there fighting battles. Fighting warriors.
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Fighting and going at battle, which we used to have this spirit of like going out there. And he comes back into the tent with his woman.
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And he crawls into her lap like a cat. This fierce warrior. And he puts his head on her lap and she's stroking his hair and says, it's going to be okay. That's what we're missing. That's what we're craving from women.
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Battles and you fight your warrior. And you come back and she has the grace and the feminine energy.
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To rebirth you and say it's going to be okay. We want that and we're missing it across the board. Modern women are saying, well, what are you going to do for me? And what do you do for a living?
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It's all broken. But take heart, because it's going to change. It's going to change.
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I feel it. It's going to change. I talk all over the world. I talk to different groups.
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And it can't sustain. It's going to change. It can't sustain. Anyway, I talked a lot. I got a few minutes left for any questions.
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It's a simultaneous thing. If you feel the energies of both that, whatever you're talking about, the poet and the... The poet and the penis.
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And the warrior. And you express it to her. That's powerful. That's a powerful thing. That is penis powerful, bro. Like, I'm a big advocate of speaking your truth, whatever's going on in the moment. I really, I believe it. If you like a girl, if I like a girl, I say, I like you. I don't know why, but I like you. If I want her in my bed, I want you in my bed. That's what I know.
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Be a great lover for me. I say it. So to speak that, what you're talking about, is there is no transition. This is what I'm trying to say.
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You're simultaneously both. And you forgive yourself everything. All seeming mistakes. And I think that's a powerful takeaway I hope you guys get. You forgive yourself every seeming mistake because we think we're not good enough, but we're more than good enough.
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I'm not kidding about that, guys. I am not kidding about that. I hope you get that. I hope you really receive that.
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Who talked about... No, it goes back to the book of Ecclesiastes.
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There's nothing new under the sun. All is vanity, says the preacher.
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Mic drop. Got that? He had 500 concubines and 300 wives. He had riches above all the riches. He had wisdom above wisdom. And he writes the book, Ecclesiastes, which is... I sought all of this in this world and all is vanity. By that it means none of it matters. The sun rises on the rich and the poor, the good and the bad.
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Delight. Ease and delight. Or delight. Imagine this. Mark Twain said this. Mark Twain.
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Let's see what's on. You die. They memorialize you for an hour and forget you forever.
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When you die, everything, all your possessions are going to disappear like the wind. And here's the truth. Nobody's going to remember you. That's the truth.
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I'm from Canada, so I grew up in the wilderness with no sense of history, no old buildings.
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The people in Europe have all this like history that they grew up in and they take it for granted. And you know, when I see a portrait, I see a photo of a woman from 1880. She's smiling like this with a glass of wine, looking at black and white photo of this woman. I'm thinking she's young and pretty. She's probably 21 years old. And she's 100% forgotten today.
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Yes. And that shocks my mind. How is that possible that all she dreamed and all she loved and everything she tried to, and she tried to create things and stuff like that, and it's all gone and forgotten? In other words, whatever you're trying, whatever you're in your head about, whatever you're, like, trying to... But I want to point out one thing, Zahn.
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We're waiting for something else to happen. We're waiting for women to be nice finally. It's not going to happen.
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That was from a Greek philosopher. If not now, then when? Ask yourself that. If not now, then when? Well, when I save up some money. If not now, then when? I'm telling you guys, this is a call to leadership. This is a fight of your lives. There's no more time.
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My concept was this, and I wrote this phrase. It's in my book, and you're going to see it in my book. Because I'm giving you a free copy because no one will buy it. It affected me greatly. It's this. Every great life has had a great renunciation.
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Every great life, I'll say that again. Every great life has had a great renunciation. We're this self-help generation. Everybody here has got self-help books sitting on their shelf. You've got programs you've signed up to to try and understand something about yourself.
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It's enough that I bought it and it's sitting on the shelf. I got the answer right there, yeah. Right? We buy these books, we don't read them, but there's the answer right there. And when we read that book, we read the next one, we read the next one, we go to the next program, the next weekend conference, we go to all these conferences, we do all this kind of stuff.
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Choosing that. But I'm telling you, that is not enough. That is not enough.
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It's going to take everything you've got and more. If you want to have a life, if you want women to look at you like, who's this guy? Go into the wind and speak your name, like I said earlier. Go...
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Climb a mountain and don't tell a soul that you did it.
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Go into the world and hang around your heroes. Go seek them out. Say, well, I wanted to learn something.
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I want to fight for something. That's where you go. That's the power. It's that important.