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Topaz Adizes

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Leap Academy with Ilana Golan
If You Want to Have Life-Changing Conversations, Ask These Tough Questions | E74 | Topaz Adizes

Your mind is a faithful dog. It will chase any stick you throw.

Leap Academy with Ilana Golan
If You Want to Have Life-Changing Conversations, Ask These Tough Questions | E74 | Topaz Adizes

Your mind is a faithful dog. It will chase any stick you throw.

Leap Academy with Ilana Golan
If You Want to Have Life-Changing Conversations, Ask These Tough Questions | E74 | Topaz Adizes

I don't know even if I like humans. We do some terrible things. But I love humanity. And what is humanity? Humanity is not what's in us. It's what's between us. If you see yourself in a negative mode, beating yourself up, you're asking a disempowering question. Should I fire this person? Should we launch the product or not? Should I leave my job and start a startup?

Leap Academy with Ilana Golan
If You Want to Have Life-Changing Conversations, Ask These Tough Questions | E74 | Topaz Adizes

I don't know even if I like humans. We do some terrible things. But I love humanity. And what is humanity? Humanity is not what's in us. It's what's between us. If you see yourself in a negative mode, beating yourself up, you're asking a disempowering question. Should I fire this person? Should we launch the product or not? Should I leave my job and start a startup?

Leap Academy with Ilana Golan
If You Want to Have Life-Changing Conversations, Ask These Tough Questions | E74 | Topaz Adizes

Okay, wait, change the question. Create a better, more specific, constructive question. And then the answer becomes obvious.

Leap Academy with Ilana Golan
If You Want to Have Life-Changing Conversations, Ask These Tough Questions | E74 | Topaz Adizes

Okay, wait, change the question. Create a better, more specific, constructive question. And then the answer becomes obvious.

Leap Academy with Ilana Golan
If You Want to Have Life-Changing Conversations, Ask These Tough Questions | E74 | Topaz Adizes

I got started in my parents' divorce as a four-year-old. I got started feeling disconnected from the two people I love the most and who did not seem to find a way to connect. That's where this pain became hunger. And then in my 20s, I studied philosophy and was trying to find how I can contribute.

Leap Academy with Ilana Golan
If You Want to Have Life-Changing Conversations, Ask These Tough Questions | E74 | Topaz Adizes

I got started in my parents' divorce as a four-year-old. I got started feeling disconnected from the two people I love the most and who did not seem to find a way to connect. That's where this pain became hunger. And then in my 20s, I studied philosophy and was trying to find how I can contribute.

Leap Academy with Ilana Golan
If You Want to Have Life-Changing Conversations, Ask These Tough Questions | E74 | Topaz Adizes

And I was really interested in cinema and the camera and talking to people to ask questions, to have conversations. to feel a sense of connection to other people. And I would think, yeah, it's because when you're a kid and your parents get divorced and your world falls apart and you're looking for that sense of connection. That was my experience for me.

Leap Academy with Ilana Golan
If You Want to Have Life-Changing Conversations, Ask These Tough Questions | E74 | Topaz Adizes

And I was really interested in cinema and the camera and talking to people to ask questions, to have conversations. to feel a sense of connection to other people. And I would think, yeah, it's because when you're a kid and your parents get divorced and your world falls apart and you're looking for that sense of connection. That was my experience for me.

Leap Academy with Ilana Golan
If You Want to Have Life-Changing Conversations, Ask These Tough Questions | E74 | Topaz Adizes

And so then here I am in my twenties with a camera and I realized the camera is a bridge. It's a door opener. You show up to someone with a camera and you ask a question. In some sense, it gives you a door opener. It's a bridge. And so I became a filmmaker for 15, 20 years.

Leap Academy with Ilana Golan
If You Want to Have Life-Changing Conversations, Ask These Tough Questions | E74 | Topaz Adizes

And so then here I am in my twenties with a camera and I realized the camera is a bridge. It's a door opener. You show up to someone with a camera and you ask a question. In some sense, it gives you a door opener. It's a bridge. And so I became a filmmaker for 15, 20 years.

Leap Academy with Ilana Golan
If You Want to Have Life-Changing Conversations, Ask These Tough Questions | E74 | Topaz Adizes

And then the last 10, 11 years with my experience design studio called The Skin Deep, I'm really interested in how the experience, the emotional experience of being human is shifting. And that's what I've been, my team and I have been exploring for the last 10, 11 years.

Leap Academy with Ilana Golan
If You Want to Have Life-Changing Conversations, Ask These Tough Questions | E74 | Topaz Adizes

And then the last 10, 11 years with my experience design studio called The Skin Deep, I'm really interested in how the experience, the emotional experience of being human is shifting. And that's what I've been, my team and I have been exploring for the last 10, 11 years.

Leap Academy with Ilana Golan
If You Want to Have Life-Changing Conversations, Ask These Tough Questions | E74 | Topaz Adizes

I don't know, the makeup of my personality, along with that experience of a feeling of lack of connection. So I went in the opposite direction. I searched for connection. I searched for intimacy. And, you know, my 20s and 30s, as I was exploring my own romantic relationships, I could feel the reverberations of the divorce in my own patterns, in my own way of thinking.

Leap Academy with Ilana Golan
If You Want to Have Life-Changing Conversations, Ask These Tough Questions | E74 | Topaz Adizes

I don't know, the makeup of my personality, along with that experience of a feeling of lack of connection. So I went in the opposite direction. I searched for connection. I searched for intimacy. And, you know, my 20s and 30s, as I was exploring my own romantic relationships, I could feel the reverberations of the divorce in my own patterns, in my own way of thinking.

Leap Academy with Ilana Golan
If You Want to Have Life-Changing Conversations, Ask These Tough Questions | E74 | Topaz Adizes

how did I circumnavigate around people emotionally? And I'm talking about the intimacy. And I think in 2014, when you looked around the world at the time and you saw how technology was shifting so much politics, it was shifting the financial currencies with cryptos coming out and dating. I mean, people were using dating apps and it was really coming.

Leap Academy with Ilana Golan
If You Want to Have Life-Changing Conversations, Ask These Tough Questions | E74 | Topaz Adizes

how did I circumnavigate around people emotionally? And I'm talking about the intimacy. And I think in 2014, when you looked around the world at the time and you saw how technology was shifting so much politics, it was shifting the financial currencies with cryptos coming out and dating. I mean, people were using dating apps and it was really coming.

Leap Academy with Ilana Golan
If You Want to Have Life-Changing Conversations, Ask These Tough Questions | E74 | Topaz Adizes

And I was single at the time in New York and I just saw how technology was shifting the way we were relating to one another. But at the core, like if we go to the seed, I believe for me, at least in the current understanding of my life and the current vantage point of looking back, is a sense of disconnection as a young child, trying to make sense of this huge world.

Leap Academy with Ilana Golan
If You Want to Have Life-Changing Conversations, Ask These Tough Questions | E74 | Topaz Adizes

And I was single at the time in New York and I just saw how technology was shifting the way we were relating to one another. But at the core, like if we go to the seed, I believe for me, at least in the current understanding of my life and the current vantage point of looking back, is a sense of disconnection as a young child, trying to make sense of this huge world.

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