Mike Hohnen
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Episode 7 - Connections Before Content: Mike Hohnen’s Leadership Advice for Managing Managers
It's on a scale of 1 to 5. It's a 3.5. It's okay. And there's no loyalty in that. So we tend to over-focus on this product specification and improving the product. But we forget that in order to get from basic satisfaction to fantastic loyalty and enthusiasm, it requires...
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Episode 7 - Connections Before Content: Mike Hohnen’s Leadership Advice for Managing Managers
employee engagement and then we need to ask us and when we look at the engagement figures we all know them from gallup and all the rest of them we know them from all the companies it's a huge headache across the board in general terms most places and engagement levels are very low so i think you can can sardines in portugal and not be particularly engaged in your job but in the services industry
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Episode 7 - Connections Before Content: Mike Hohnen’s Leadership Advice for Managing Managers
From the customer perspective, there is a world of difference between being served by somebody who has a job and somebody who is actually engaged. It's just two different worlds. There's no comparison. So we don't spend enough time asking ourselves, so what is it? How do we actually get to that point? What is it that drives that engagement? How do we get to there?
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Episode 7 - Connections Before Content: Mike Hohnen’s Leadership Advice for Managing Managers
And then we get back to my story about the polarities because if you think about it, there is a polarity which we could call tasks versus relationships. The to-do list, all the things we want to do versus spending time building relationships with people, connecting, all of that stuff. And if we lift that polarity 500 feet up, essentially that polarity is also called management versus leadership.
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Episode 7 - Connections Before Content: Mike Hohnen’s Leadership Advice for Managing Managers
The key problem that we face out there is that the system has a bias towards task orientation. The whole system that we all sort of subscribe to in the sense that We all live in these pyramids. There's somebody on top of us and somebody below us.
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Episode 7 - Connections Before Content: Mike Hohnen’s Leadership Advice for Managing Managers
And it turned out to be the CEO of a rather large software development company with a very sort of high profile background and top management team, high profile background. And so I was thinking, well, why on earth have they found out to me? It's a world I don't understand.
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Episode 7 - Connections Before Content: Mike Hohnen’s Leadership Advice for Managing Managers
And whoever's on top of us, whatever level we are on, has a certain tendency to exercise a pressure on us, downward towards us, which is, you could wrap it up in all sorts of fancy paper, but it's called more productivity. We want to see more output for less input. Please turn it up. which is basically a task orientation. And then there's a pressure from below us.
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Episode 7 - Connections Before Content: Mike Hohnen’s Leadership Advice for Managing Managers
The people who are below us, they have a different pressure. They are exercising a pressure towards us for a better relationship. They want more attention. They want to be seen. They want us to be involved. They want an emotional connection with us one way or the other. And they try and drive that. The problem is that when we then look at our calendar and all the stuff on the to-do list
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Episode 7 - Connections Before Content: Mike Hohnen’s Leadership Advice for Managing Managers
What do we give the priority? Well, because the guy upstairs, you know, he has he can be nasty or she. So we keep on then value picking the task versus the relationship problem or the relationship thing that we could be doing. Having that conversation with that person, going for a walk with somebody who we know is in trouble with whatever they're doing.
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Episode 7 - Connections Before Content: Mike Hohnen’s Leadership Advice for Managing Managers
In that sense, it's built in in the way we think about what do we value in work? What do I as a manager value in the next level below me? I level somebody who gets their stuff done, who delivers on time and all of that stuff. And so in that sense, it has this lopsidedness. And the other thing that's built into that cake is that when we recruit, who do we recruit?
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Episode 7 - Connections Before Content: Mike Hohnen’s Leadership Advice for Managing Managers
What is the kind of personality that we prefer? Well, in my world, the hospitality world, who is the young, bright waiter who gets promoted to assistant shift manager or something, team leader or whatever? Well, it's that waiter who's really well organized and who gets his stuff done and who ticks off the boxes and clears up in the evening. It was very, very... who's in fact really task-oriented.
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Episode 7 - Connections Before Content: Mike Hohnen’s Leadership Advice for Managing Managers
And who gets promoted assistant manager? Well, it's the team leader who's really task, yeah, okay? And so suddenly you see that there is a trace all the way through the system where everybody who gets promoted to the next level gets promoted primarily because of their task capabilities. They are really good at getting things done.
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Episode 7 - Connections Before Content: Mike Hohnen’s Leadership Advice for Managing Managers
And I go crazy in the hospitality business when I see this because it's supposed to be a people business. And somehow we get lost in that. But it gets worse because if you then think about it, when we are pressured, when we are under stress, when the heat is turned up, then we all have a tendency to gravitate towards what we feel comfortable doing.
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Episode 7 - Connections Before Content: Mike Hohnen’s Leadership Advice for Managing Managers
And so if you've structured your system with people who are most comfortable doing tasks, then the more the heat gets turned up, the more they will take refuge in the tasks instead of getting out of their bloody office and facing the problem, which is having that conversation with that person, helping that person grow through the next level or whatever it is.
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Episode 7 - Connections Before Content: Mike Hohnen’s Leadership Advice for Managing Managers
I took the meeting, of course, and I wanted to be polite, but I prepared a sort of little speech, you know, it's very kind of you to contact me. Thank you very much. I don't want to waste your time. Once I got going on that, he stopped me and said, you know, I've researched you and I understand what it is you're doing. Do you realize that I'm a humanist?
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Episode 7 - Connections Before Content: Mike Hohnen’s Leadership Advice for Managing Managers
So first of all, you have to break the waterfall, as I call it. Even if your boss does this, you have to stop doing it. That's a fundamental mentality. You need to make up your mind that you want to do that. And then when I coach people around this, then they always present this to me as a problem. This is a problem. How do I solve this?
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Episode 7 - Connections Before Content: Mike Hohnen’s Leadership Advice for Managing Managers
Because my boss is pressurizing me and this is what they want. And I know I should be paying more attention to taking care of the people. But I mean, I still have to deliver. So I have to say to them, it's not a problem. It's a polarity. You need to get better at managing that polarity. And you have to see it as a polarity and not as a problem. Because as a problem, it's not solvable.
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Episode 7 - Connections Before Content: Mike Hohnen’s Leadership Advice for Managing Managers
You're always, this is good. This is going to, this is, it's there every bloody day, day in and day out. You're faced with this.
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Episode 7 - Connections Before Content: Mike Hohnen’s Leadership Advice for Managing Managers
and so it's not a problem to be solved it's a polarity to be managed understanding when do you do what when do you put your foot down and resist and when do you insist on taking time to do something else or whatever it is but you need to do that and if you do that you will also see how much more successful you end up being because you get a completely different output from the next level below you so they support you but you have to have the guts to actually believe that
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Episode 7 - Connections Before Content: Mike Hohnen’s Leadership Advice for Managing Managers
I'm not actually madly interested in the business side of things. It's the people side. I'm a people side person. And that's the only thing that really drives me. The rest, I don't give a toss. He says, I want you to come and talk to our people. And so I explained that there is another perspective on the world, which is not the one that we sort of generally normally have.
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Episode 7 - Connections Before Content: Mike Hohnen’s Leadership Advice for Managing Managers
The first thing is, I don't ever think in employee satisfaction. Employee satisfaction is not an interesting concept in this context, because I can easily have people who are satisfied with their jobs, but not being particularly engaged. That doesn't help me. So I can provide really nice jobs or decent salaries, work conditions. I can do all of that stuff.
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Episode 7 - Connections Before Content: Mike Hohnen’s Leadership Advice for Managing Managers
And I can tick off all the little boxes over on the management side and see I'm doing that really well. And I will get employee satisfaction. But I don't get any engagement. And so if we go back to the first thing, the NPS, if we try and analyze, so what is it that drives, what is it that moves the needle in NPS from being reasonably satisfied to being
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Episode 7 - Connections Before Content: Mike Hohnen’s Leadership Advice for Managing Managers
a key promoter in that sense it's not the product it's not the basic spec because we're already we've already established if you deliver on spec you get a 3.5 so what is it that needs to be added to your delivery your way of doing it in order to move the needle it's an emotional component
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Episode 7 - Connections Before Content: Mike Hohnen’s Leadership Advice for Managing Managers
It's an emotional component in the sense that there's somebody in that team, that service team, that manages to connect with you in some way that touches you, that makes you feel seen, that makes you valued as a customer, solves the problem for your little dog. Whatever it is that they do, they do something that triggers something in you.
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Episode 7 - Connections Before Content: Mike Hohnen’s Leadership Advice for Managing Managers
It's a feeling they trigger in you where you feel, oh, that was really sweet. Okay? So what does it take? to move the needle from basic employee satisfaction to engagement. It's exactly the same mechanism. I can get decent, reasonable employee satisfaction if I tick off all the boxes, I deliver on spec, I do what I'm supposed to do.
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Episode 7 - Connections Before Content: Mike Hohnen’s Leadership Advice for Managing Managers
But if I want to move the needle, I have to make sure that that employee feels an emotional connection with this job and with me. And the tons of research to support this, that relationship that we're talking about is with your immediate boss. We join companies and we leave managers. It's the relationship with your immediate supervisor, which determines 90% of your mental health of the work.
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Episode 7 - Connections Before Content: Mike Hohnen’s Leadership Advice for Managing Managers
And so it's that relationship and it's a relationship. It's not a to-do list thing. It's a relationship. So you need to start thinking about, so what is it that constitutes a relationship? When does something become a relationship? When do I start thinking, This Matt guy that contacted me, he's actually an interesting and fun guy. Well, he starts taking an interest in me. He asks me questions.
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Episode 7 - Connections Before Content: Mike Hohnen’s Leadership Advice for Managing Managers
So what do you do, Mike? And tell me a little bit more. And John said you were doing something. And so when we take an interest in somebody else, it becomes the first step in a relationship. Think of anybody that has become a decent relationship. It starts off with a conversation where that other person actually shows an interest in you. We're pretty primitive.
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Episode 7 - Connections Before Content: Mike Hohnen’s Leadership Advice for Managing Managers
And you have a different perspective on the world. And I'd really like you to elaborate on that. So I ended up spending an afternoon with them over in Nice. And that was great fun. We had a really good time.
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Episode 7 - Connections Before Content: Mike Hohnen’s Leadership Advice for Managing Managers
You just need to learn one thing. They need to say to themselves every time they go into a meeting or a group or whatever it is they're going. Connection before content. That's the mantra. Connection before content. Don't barge into a meeting and say, this is what we need to do and this is how we're going to do it. No, no, no, no, no, no.
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Episode 7 - Connections Before Content: Mike Hohnen’s Leadership Advice for Managing Managers
Whether it's with a group or whether it's one-to-one or whatever it is, take the time to connect. I see managers who get it and I see managers who don't get it. And the managers that get it, they follow this base. I don't know if you've come across it, but there's something called the Team High Performance Model, which is a lovely Drexler-Sibit model. It's a lovely model of it.
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Episode 7 - Connections Before Content: Mike Hohnen’s Leadership Advice for Managing Managers
Which basically states that, you know, you start off with why, who, what, and then you get to how. And then you start building the action plan and all the rest of it. But the foundational piece that needs to be put into place in all these situations is the why, the who, and the what. When we do something, when we, engagement, when we do something, we want to understand why we're doing it.
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Episode 7 - Connections Before Content: Mike Hohnen’s Leadership Advice for Managing Managers
It's a key driver. I mean, even Nietzsche talked about this. You can resist, you know, whatever was it he said, you can bear any pain as long as you know why. And so taking the time to make that clear, what is the purpose of whatever it is we're trying to do? And then... What I think is completely neglected the whole way around is this concept of social contracting.
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Episode 7 - Connections Before Content: Mike Hohnen’s Leadership Advice for Managing Managers
So whenever we get together with other people, we need to, as managers, we need to scan this room and say, these people here in the room today, do they know each other already? Okay, well, then that's one thing. No, there's Joe over here. He's actually new to the crowd. Okay, that means it's going to take us 10 minutes later, but we now need to make sure we bring Joe into this conversation and
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Episode 7 - Connections Before Content: Mike Hohnen’s Leadership Advice for Managing Managers
bringing up today introducing so we spend some time massaging that and if i sometimes i've been working with a top management team for a hotel and we're planning an opening whether they come together as a new group and then i can spend a whole weekend
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Episode 7 - Connections Before Content: Mike Hohnen’s Leadership Advice for Managing Managers
on that because i get them to do what i call life maps i get them to share where they're coming from what they're doing and what their experiences and all of that and once i've got that in place then the rest of the work just goes it just flies because there's no resistance no guardedness no all of that's gone there's a sense of camaraderie and trust and an openness
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Episode 7 - Connections Before Content: Mike Hohnen’s Leadership Advice for Managing Managers
And I think, Johnny, I want to follow up on something that you were asking. So what does one do? And I think the other thing that we don't really understand enough in depth is how important the sense of belonging is to our engagement. Feeling that you are part of the team, feeling that you belong, feeling that you are accepted by the others is such a strong driver in our own engagement.
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Episode 7 - Connections Before Content: Mike Hohnen’s Leadership Advice for Managing Managers
And it's really interesting. The scientists say that when you scan people's brain and you see what happens to their brain, if they experience physical pain, then one part of the brain lights up. And it's the same part of the brain that lights up when people feel they don't belong. It's bloody painful to not belong. But we take shortcuts like that the whole time and don't ensure that.
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Episode 7 - Connections Before Content: Mike Hohnen’s Leadership Advice for Managing Managers
We talk about diversity. Visually, it's diverse, but actually, are we encouraging the discussion? For me, this leadership aspect is this thing of trying to keep together what is by nature inclined to separate those and split up and separate those. There's a constant piece of work that needs to be done. And it never stops. You have to do it every day. You have to keep it together.
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Episode 7 - Connections Before Content: Mike Hohnen’s Leadership Advice for Managing Managers
As a group, keep this sense of we are something together. Sort of the conclusion for me after having been in this game for many, many years. I spent the first 20 years actively running hospitality stuff in all sorts of shapes and forms and as a top manager. And then the last, since 2001, I've been doing what I do now, this consulting. And I can just see that the more and more
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Episode 7 - Connections Before Content: Mike Hohnen’s Leadership Advice for Managing Managers
that I work on this, the more and more my business tends to gravitate towards this relationship stuff, trying to help people understand how they do that. And also, I think, very important, we have this sort of, we have a fatalistic approach to work relationships. You know, oh, It's a bad team. It's an irritating guy. I wasn't lucky. Thank God I can work a little bit more with the other group. No.
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Episode 7 - Connections Before Content: Mike Hohnen’s Leadership Advice for Managing Managers
Take responsibility for your relationships. Ask yourself, what is my role in this relationship actually not being ideal? What could I change? Is there a different approach from me that would give a different response from them? Because it's not helpful not to have those strong relationships.
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Episode 7 - Connections Before Content: Mike Hohnen’s Leadership Advice for Managing Managers
But Matt, it's not on my Outlook to-do list, that part. I can't see it anywhere.
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Episode 7 - Connections Before Content: Mike Hohnen’s Leadership Advice for Managing Managers
Thank you both. I've had fun and I really appreciate you accepting my rants.
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Episode 7 - Connections Before Content: Mike Hohnen’s Leadership Advice for Managing Managers
No, it's just a classic story. I mean, there are so many examples like that out there in the world. It's unbelievable. What really gets me is, you know, it's not rocket science. We know exactly what it takes. It's not a big mystery. It's a lot of hard work, but there is a way to solve that, you know?
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Episode 7 - Connections Before Content: Mike Hohnen’s Leadership Advice for Managing Managers
Yeah, as you can see with my gray hairs, it's a long story. We'll try and keep it short. I just want to inject something there, because it gets me every time I hear it. How is it we've come to get to this spot where we talk about work-life balance? I mean, it's rubbish. From my perspective, it's rubbish, because it implies that work is not life. And for...
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Episode 7 - Connections Before Content: Mike Hohnen’s Leadership Advice for Managing Managers
I don't think any of us three would sign up for that. I think we all three probably work bloody hard and we love what we do. And it's a very important part of our life. It's a different kind of balance. And it's a funny way of reinforcing something that I think is completely skewed in this thing. And we all do. I know that. I hear it the whole time. Every time I hear it, I try and shoot it down.
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Episode 7 - Connections Before Content: Mike Hohnen’s Leadership Advice for Managing Managers
Well, you know, I mean, everything is a question of how we use words and how we frame things at the end. That's the first step. And so when we frame it that way, we've already sort of built a an image around it is. But what we're looking at is polarity between work and leisure. And what constitutes a really nice life is to maximize both. That's a good life if you see what I mean.
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Episode 7 - Connections Before Content: Mike Hohnen’s Leadership Advice for Managing Managers
It's not doing more of one and less of the other. It's maximizing both. If we can maximize both of those two, then we actually thrive. And so we have to find out what that is for us and in what way we do it. But it's not like that work-life balance for me. That's the short version.
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Episode 7 - Connections Before Content: Mike Hohnen’s Leadership Advice for Managing Managers
That's a hopeless question in a sense, Matt, because that is exactly what you started out saying. It becomes a very individual choice. It's finding one's own sweet, as you said, your own sweet spot. What is it that actually stimulates me? And I think the three of us would probably... not enjoy not working or having a completely, we wouldn't thrive with that.
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Episode 7 - Connections Before Content: Mike Hohnen’s Leadership Advice for Managing Managers
And so each of us has to find out that. But with all polarities, the polarities are fascinating subject, but all polarities have this thing. They're always driven. There's something we want to achieve. We want to achieve the good life, which is trying to balance this polarity. But there's always a fear of something going wrong that will drive us to overemphasize one polarity over the other.
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Episode 7 - Connections Before Content: Mike Hohnen’s Leadership Advice for Managing Managers
So before we get down there, but the other classic polarity is leadership versus management. And so we have this fear that we're not in control, that we're not going to be successful, that we're not going to manage the business, that we're not going to all the rest of it.
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Episode 7 - Connections Before Content: Mike Hohnen’s Leadership Advice for Managing Managers
Thank you so much. Thank you for having me. It's a pleasure to see you again.
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Episode 7 - Connections Before Content: Mike Hohnen’s Leadership Advice for Managing Managers
And so we push our foot down on the pedal called management and we push it hard because we think that as long as I keep pushing that pedal, then I'm sure to be doing right. And the reality is that it comes at the cost of the leadership aspect. And then that deteriorates. And then you get the downside of both polarities. And it's a little bit the same thing.
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Episode 7 - Connections Before Content: Mike Hohnen’s Leadership Advice for Managing Managers
So in consulting businesses and what we do, we all wake up in the morning and think, oh, when are we going to get the next client? And are we being successful enough? Are we working hard enough? And so we push the bloody pedal, which is called work. And we forget to balance it the other pedal, which is the leisure part.
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Episode 7 - Connections Before Content: Mike Hohnen’s Leadership Advice for Managing Managers
And in that sense, we do ourselves a disfavor because that means at the end of the day that we're not at our best anymore. So one has to find out. So one has to try and identify and actually be really conscious of the fact that you said the running. So what are the things that I could actually see on a to-do list or put in my calendar or say, when I do these things, I'm on the other polarity.
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Episode 7 - Connections Before Content: Mike Hohnen’s Leadership Advice for Managing Managers
I'm actually reinforcing that polarity and not working on the other one. And then you need to sort of think a little bit about what are the warning signs? When do I know that I'm actually only focused on my work side? My wife doesn't speak to me anymore.
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Episode 7 - Connections Before Content: Mike Hohnen’s Leadership Advice for Managing Managers
You said the word mental health. I think this is something we don't like to talk about. It's a little bit taboo. It's incredibly important. Years ago, I was also working like crazy, and I was actually really enjoying myself, but I was on an airplane three times a week going somewhere, and it just went on and on and on in that sense. And one morning, I was preparing to walk into a client workshop,
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Episode 7 - Connections Before Content: Mike Hohnen’s Leadership Advice for Managing Managers
Well, I have an impression that I'm going to be the odd fish out here, but that's fine. Why is that?
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Episode 7 - Connections Before Content: Mike Hohnen’s Leadership Advice for Managing Managers
and my brain shut off i can't really explain what happened everything just went fuzzy and wobbly and i was disoriented and i it was it was i wouldn't wish that on anybody and the short story is i spent a year trying to getting out of that because once you've you've done that you and that's just so let this be a warning to anybody when you start And I started, it took me a year to get out of it.
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Episode 7 - Connections Before Content: Mike Hohnen’s Leadership Advice for Managing Managers
And during that first period, it was so bad, I couldn't cross the street on my own because my brain was not capable of calculating, you know, the cars coming or not. Are they faster? Is there a space? That's actually a piece of complicated arithmetic our brain performs. And mine just wouldn't do it. It was just, can't do that. And so one really has to, and that was the lesson for me.
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Episode 7 - Connections Before Content: Mike Hohnen’s Leadership Advice for Managing Managers
What are the warning signs? What was it that, you know, that started telling you, body pains or headaches or whatever, that you were pressing this pedal a little bit hard, too hard. And I think that is so important because once it hits you, then it's no joke anymore. I mean, anybody who's been there will know what I'm talking about. I don't wish that for anybody. It's really, really tough.
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Episode 7 - Connections Before Content: Mike Hohnen’s Leadership Advice for Managing Managers
Well, I'll tell you. I'll try and illustrate this for you with a little anecdote, which would get us going in that sense. A couple of weeks ago, I got a... a request for a Zoom meeting over my calendar system, somebody who'd found me on LinkedIn. And then I sort of, as we all do, went down and checked out. So who is this person? I wonder why they want to talk to me.
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Episode 7 - Connections Before Content: Mike Hohnen’s Leadership Advice for Managing Managers
This is where I become a broken record player, you know, because Johnny described a hotel visit that wasn't extremely successful. So coming back to the sort of overall framework here, everybody wants customer loyalty. Everybody drives for the, is super interested in their NPS score and all of this good stuff. But few people actually really take the time to reflect on the fact.
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Episode 7 - Connections Before Content: Mike Hohnen’s Leadership Advice for Managing Managers
So in the services industry, I don't know anything about production, but in the services industries, what is the primary driver of NPS? It's employee engagement. Employee engagement drives your NPS because there is no loyalty in basic satisfaction. Just delivering the right product at the right specification at the right price exactly as on spec and all the rest of it, that gives you 3.5%.