Mae Martin
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The Daily Show: Ears Edition
Trump’s Trade Wars Hike Prices, GOP Blames Biden for Economy | Mae Martin
Look at that.
The Daily Show: Ears Edition
Trump’s Trade Wars Hike Prices, GOP Blames Biden for Economy | Mae Martin
Oh, yeah, I am.
The Daily Show: Ears Edition
Trump’s Trade Wars Hike Prices, GOP Blames Biden for Economy | Mae Martin
So first question, what was your experience like doing... Okay, I'm going to have to also retaliate with tariffs on my answers. So, yeah, my experience was really...
The Daily Show: Ears Edition
Trump’s Trade Wars Hike Prices, GOP Blames Biden for Economy | Mae Martin
Yes, I was thinking that, too. It's beautiful.
The Daily Show: Ears Edition
Trump’s Trade Wars Hike Prices, GOP Blames Biden for Economy | Mae Martin
I am a comedian.
The Daily Show: Ears Edition
Trump’s Trade Wars Hike Prices, GOP Blames Biden for Economy | Mae Martin
But yeah, yeah. I've always wanted to. I've always, you know, played music in my bedroom.
The Daily Show: Ears Edition
Trump’s Trade Wars Hike Prices, GOP Blames Biden for Economy | Mae Martin
Yeah, and shed a single tear and been really emo. But yeah, yeah.
The Daily Show: Ears Edition
Trump’s Trade Wars Hike Prices, GOP Blames Biden for Economy | Mae Martin
Well, no, it's a good thing to specify. It is. People would be pissed if they wanted punchlines.
The Daily Show: Ears Edition
Trump’s Trade Wars Hike Prices, GOP Blames Biden for Economy | Mae Martin
I'm racing to do a show, yeah, right after this.
The Daily Show: Ears Edition
Trump’s Trade Wars Hike Prices, GOP Blames Biden for Economy | Mae Martin
I do, and I have to, well, I mean, I chat a bit between songs, but I definitely have to unlearn the muscle memory that, like, if people are just listening and not laughing, I'm bombing.
The Daily Show: Ears Edition
Trump’s Trade Wars Hike Prices, GOP Blames Biden for Economy | Mae Martin
Because I'll be playing a sad song or something, and I'm thinking, oh, I'm sorry. Bombing. No one, yeah, yeah. But it's really gratifying. It's really nice.
The Daily Show: Ears Edition
Trump’s Trade Wars Hike Prices, GOP Blames Biden for Economy | Mae Martin
There's noise.
The Daily Show: Ears Edition
Trump’s Trade Wars Hike Prices, GOP Blames Biden for Economy | Mae Martin
Well, it's also nice not to be alone, because there's a drummer, and I have a whole band, and so it's nice to have that support.
The Daily Show: Ears Edition
Trump’s Trade Wars Hike Prices, GOP Blames Biden for Economy | Mae Martin
The world is not that funny right now, so it's not hard. No, no, I mean, I'm really enjoying the opportunity to be earnest and, yeah.
The Daily Show: Ears Edition
Trump’s Trade Wars Hike Prices, GOP Blames Biden for Economy | Mae Martin
I guess, well, I just, I'm Canadian, as we mentioned.
The Daily Show: Ears Edition
Trump’s Trade Wars Hike Prices, GOP Blames Biden for Economy | Mae Martin
Yeah, yeah. Right.
The Daily Show: Ears Edition
Trump’s Trade Wars Hike Prices, GOP Blames Biden for Economy | Mae Martin
Thanks.
The Daily Show: Ears Edition
Trump’s Trade Wars Hike Prices, GOP Blames Biden for Economy | Mae Martin
Yeah, yeah. Yeah, so I think I was feeling good or feeling more comfortable, because it is vulnerable. It's super vulnerable. So yeah.
The Daily Show: Ears Edition
Trump’s Trade Wars Hike Prices, GOP Blames Biden for Economy | Mae Martin
In this moment, I feel that.
The Daily Show: Ears Edition
Trump’s Trade Wars Hike Prices, GOP Blames Biden for Economy | Mae Martin
I mean, Michael.
The Daily Show: Ears Edition
Trump’s Trade Wars Hike Prices, GOP Blames Biden for Economy | Mae Martin
For sure, but I guess with stand-up, you can bail halfway through a joke, right? Or you can pivot.
The Daily Show: Ears Edition
Trump’s Trade Wars Hike Prices, GOP Blames Biden for Economy | Mae Martin
Am I right?
The Daily Show: Ears Edition
Trump’s Trade Wars Hike Prices, GOP Blames Biden for Economy | Mae Martin
No, you can't be halfway through a song and be like, nah, never mind, actually. That's true. So you have to... Yeah, so it does feel exposing.
The Daily Show: Ears Edition
Trump’s Trade Wars Hike Prices, GOP Blames Biden for Economy | Mae Martin
Well, that's the great thing about music. You can project all your own shit onto it. That's right. Yeah. But that, yeah, for sure.
The Daily Show: Ears Edition
Trump’s Trade Wars Hike Prices, GOP Blames Biden for Economy | Mae Martin
Again, I just moved to the States, and I went for the weekend to Big Bear. It's all the mountains and the lake and just outside of L.A., and I felt... I weirdly didn't tell anyone I was going. It's so rare that no one knows where you are. This sounds dark, but it was just nice to be alone and walking through the woods. Yeah, so that's why I wrote that.
The Daily Show: Ears Edition
Trump’s Trade Wars Hike Prices, GOP Blames Biden for Economy | Mae Martin
You can't be doing that.
The Daily Show: Ears Edition
Trump’s Trade Wars Hike Prices, GOP Blames Biden for Economy | Mae Martin
I sort of thought it would get a laugh, but it was deadly silent. Like, everyone was like, yeah.
The Daily Show: Ears Edition
Trump’s Trade Wars Hike Prices, GOP Blames Biden for Economy | Mae Martin
That's it. My friend said, does it stand?
The Daily Show: Ears Edition
Trump’s Trade Wars Hike Prices, GOP Blames Biden for Economy | Mae Martin
Sure, I'm glad you did. Where does it come from? Titles are really hard. But I think it was, for me, about there's so much noise and static electricity. And sometimes I wonder if our whole personalities are just like a sort of combination of other people's projections and stuff we consume. And so the album was kind of stripping that away.
The Daily Show: Ears Edition
Trump’s Trade Wars Hike Prices, GOP Blames Biden for Economy | Mae Martin
But then a friend of mine was like, does it stand for I'm a transvestite? I was like, no. Interesting. If you wanted to, it could. That's the great thing about music.
The Daily Show: Ears Edition
Trump’s Trade Wars Hike Prices, GOP Blames Biden for Economy | Mae Martin
Yes, exactly.
The Daily Show: Ears Edition
Trump’s Trade Wars Hike Prices, GOP Blames Biden for Economy | Mae Martin
Yes, I do.
The Daily Show: Ears Edition
Trump’s Trade Wars Hike Prices, GOP Blames Biden for Economy | Mae Martin
I do.
The Daily Show: Ears Edition
Trump’s Trade Wars Hike Prices, GOP Blames Biden for Economy | Mae Martin
No, that was just an ex. I bought a tattoo kit.
The Daily Show: Ears Edition
Trump’s Trade Wars Hike Prices, GOP Blames Biden for Economy | Mae Martin
Never do that.
The Daily Show: Ears Edition
Trump’s Trade Wars Hike Prices, GOP Blames Biden for Economy | Mae Martin
Yeah, yeah.
The Daily Show: Ears Edition
Trump’s Trade Wars Hike Prices, GOP Blames Biden for Economy | Mae Martin
Like a stick and poke kit. I don't know. And to an ex of mine one night, we'd had a few drinks and she'd tattooed TV on my, I guess I've always liked the feeling of the word in my mouth, TV.
The Daily Show: Ears Edition
Trump’s Trade Wars Hike Prices, GOP Blames Biden for Economy | Mae Martin
Yeah, but I think I put the emphasis on the T, TV. What do you say?
The Daily Show: Ears Edition
Trump’s Trade Wars Hike Prices, GOP Blames Biden for Economy | Mae Martin
That sounds very different.
We Can Do Hard Things
How to be Sexually Confident with Mae Martin (Best Of)
Ja, es ist schwierig, weil es so ist. Du sprichst von Paradigmen-Schiffen auf diesem Podcast. Es ist ein großes und herausforderndes Ding, aber es ist so ein wichtiges Ding, das passiert. Es könnte 100 Jahre dauern, um uns zu unterhalten, wie stark wir in dieser Spionage geworden sind. Aber wir gehen definitiv in diese Richtung. Und es ist super wichtig und interessant.
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How to be Sexually Confident with Mae Martin (Best Of)
Und ich denke, wenn wir uns interessieren können, in einer historischen, wissenschaftlichen und kulturellen, anthropologischen Art und Weise, Wenn man sich darüber recherchiert, ist es einfach sehr kompensierend. Man sieht diese hübschen Wälder, die um uns herum gebaut wurden, und wie beschädigend sie sind. Die World Health Organization definiert das Gender als kulturelle Sache.
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How to be Sexually Confident with Mae Martin (Best Of)
Es schreckt die Welt wirklich. Aber auch Sex ist nicht so binär, wenn man es sich anschaut. Es ist gut und aufregend, aber... I don't know. People have a panic reaction for sure.
We Can Do Hard Things
How to be Sexually Confident with Mae Martin (Best Of)
Ja, das ist super interessant. Es ist ein Meilenfeld. Ich meine, ich fühle mich ähnlich wie du, glaube ich, wo ich meine persönlichen Erfahrungen, wenn ich mich von diesen Dingen fremde, bin ich so, dass ich mich nicht mit jedem davon identifiziere, wirklich.
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How to be Sexually Confident with Mae Martin (Best Of)
Aber dann, ich weiß nicht, ich glaube, in der Leistung davon, ich identifiziere mich, ich fühle mich komfortabler, wenn ich sexuell präsentiere und ich genieße es, Und die Leute, die ich ausgesprochen habe und die ich als Kind gewollt habe, sind alles wie den Fenix-River und solche Leute.
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How to be Sexually Confident with Mae Martin (Best Of)
Ich weiß nicht, ob wir einfach das Gewicht davon nehmen können und sagen können, es ist eine Form von Selbstexpressivität. Es gibt Kreativität dazu. Wir können alles tun, was wir wollen. Und ja, sicher, wenn du dich wie ein Mann fühlst und dich damit identifizierst, dann ist es toll. Hab Spaß. Und dann sollten die Leute es respektieren und dich so behandeln.
We Can Do Hard Things
How to be Sexually Confident with Mae Martin (Best Of)
Aber ja, ich denke, es ist schrecklich, dass die Leute denken, dass es einen Element Kreativität gibt, Like it's scary to give yourself that power, you know? Yeah. It's good.
We Can Do Hard Things
How to be Sexually Confident with Mae Martin (Best Of)
Ja. Oh Mann. Ich meine, ich habe das Buch über Sexualität und Gender geschrieben. Und dann habe ich eine Buch-Tour gemacht und ich war in den Hochschulen. Und als das Buch rauskam, war es outdaten. Ich habe die falschen Wörter benutzt und die Leute haben mich unterrichtet. Also es ist, du weißt, wir müssen einfach alle... curious and interested and patient.
We Can Do Hard Things
How to be Sexually Confident with Mae Martin (Best Of)
Yeah. There's a really interesting book called Can the Monster Speak? A speech given to a college of psychoanalysts by a trans man called Paul Preciado. And that sort of rocked my world. It was really interesting. But he talks about how we're, I think part of the reason people are so reactive is that we're still attached to this kind of
We Can Do Hard Things
How to be Sexually Confident with Mae Martin (Best Of)
freudian way of thinking where our gender is a huge part of our identity in our psyche and this sort of 200 year old white guys being like but you know men want to fuck their mothers and like it's like that's a huge part of our identity and we have to undo that and then it's a much less big deal if you want to be in some gray area or you want to be a bit more fluid
We Can Do Hard Things
How to be Sexually Confident with Mae Martin (Best Of)
Denn es muss nicht so ein großer Teil deiner Persönlichkeit und deiner kulturellen Rolle sein.
We Can Do Hard Things
How to be Sexually Confident with Mae Martin (Best Of)
Yeah, that's been my experience. And definitely even, yeah, regardless of how you identify, you're rarely attracted to an entire gender, right? It's to do with pheromones or the way people laugh. I have like very specific criteria. Yes, you do. Yeah, I think people often forget that Yeah, it's not just queer people that have asexuality.
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How to be Sexually Confident with Mae Martin (Best Of)
It's what happened today. Yeah, I do feel lucky that I've, like, from when I could even think, I could sense that the things I was being told were immutable, objective truths didn't fit with how I felt inside. So that was very confusing, but I feel really grateful because it made me challenge all kinds of other things as well and learn about myself more.
We Can Do Hard Things
How to be Sexually Confident with Mae Martin (Best Of)
Well, I think I had a kind of existential spiral in my teens and spun out and was a bad teen. I think a lot of it came from that feeling of questioning the systems around me. I dropped out of school. I'm not recommending this, but I guess I... I saw options that other people weren't seeing. Like I saw that I could do comedy and I love doing comedy.
We Can Do Hard Things
How to be Sexually Confident with Mae Martin (Best Of)
So I did that and I don't think I would have done that at such a young age if I hadn't already been Ich denke, was mich glücklich macht und wo ich fit bin. Ich denke, das ist wie Monogamie. Ich habe es letztens viel darüber nachgedacht.
We Can Do Hard Things
How to be Sexually Confident with Mae Martin (Best Of)
Es ist ziemlich wild. Ich weiß nicht, ich höre viel von Esther Perel. Ich bin sehr auf die Leute, die tun, was für sie funktioniert. Und nicht reaktiv wahrzunehmen, dass offene Beziehungen nicht so valid sind wie geschlossene. Ich denke, man muss es nur immer interrogieren und nicht verletzt werden. Wir haben nur eine Leben.
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How to be Sexually Confident with Mae Martin (Best Of)
Also, wenn du müde bist oder verletzt bist, dann gibt es andere Möglichkeiten.
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How to be Sexually Confident with Mae Martin (Best Of)
Ja, oder du denkst, naja, jeder in meiner Klasse hört auf Mädchen- und Mädchen-Bands, aber ich kann nicht finden, mit wem ich mich überhaupt interessieren soll oder mit denen ich mich identifiziere, also denke ich, ich höre auf Nine Inch Nails oder Pink Floyd und dann bin ich sehr dankbar, dass das geschehen ist. Aber ja, ich meine, es gibt auch Vorteile, oder?
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How to be Sexually Confident with Mae Martin (Best Of)
Dann endest du mit Art von Kampfschmerzen. Aber ja, irgendein anderes ist, denke ich, ein Geschenk, für sicher.
We Can Do Hard Things
How to be Sexually Confident with Mae Martin (Best Of)
Wir haben uns immer daran erinnert, dass wir zwei Individuen sind. Wir haben uns gut kommuniziert. Wir hatten einen Sinn für Humor. Es fühlte sich so an, als ob wir uns selbst den ganzen Metrik des Ertrags und alles gegeneinander besitzen. Ich weiß nicht, ich bin keine besonders traurige Person. Es macht mich an, wenn Leute zu der Person, mit der ich bin, attraktiv sind, oder wenn sie flirten.
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How to be Sexually Confident with Mae Martin (Best Of)
Ich fühle mich, dass es mich auf den Beinen hält und ich mag das. Ich versuche es trotzdem herauszufinden. Es ist unglaublich. Ich denke, nur kommunizieren. Ja. I don't know. I mean, you guys are successfully doing relationship stuff. So you're the experts.
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That's so funny. Well, I sometimes wonder if my fear of codependency comes from a fear of being abandoned. Like, just don't let yourself get to that place because then what happens if, you know, if it all falls apart? I've definitely... Yeah, it ebbs and flows. Who knows?
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Yes, I know. Yeah, that's insane, right? Yeah, I think it's because queer people are asked to communicate about it a lot more and to sort of defend it and explain it a lot more. So it feels like a much bigger part of our identity when really it should be just one small part, you know, or it should be the same size as your part. That's right.
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It's so hard to tell what part of our personality is a coping mechanism that was formed years ago and what's like our actual personality. You know what I mean? Yeah, totally get it. Are we just the sum of our coping mechanisms, basically? I think so.
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Ja, es ist wie, wer wäre ich gewesen, wenn ich noch nie jemanden kennengelernt hätte, wenn ich auf der Straße gewachsen wäre? Wer wäre ich gewesen? Ich weiß nicht, ob ich Comedy machen würde. Ich bin ziemlich introvertiert. Ich denke, ich wollte meine Mutter wahrscheinlich erfreuen, aber es hat sich gemacht. Ja.
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What is that like? Well, you know, now I'm just really vigilant about when things start to... Oh Gott. Yeah, but I'm in a pretty good place now. I think it was a big thing for me was because I had a big drug problem in my teens and then I got clean. And so I always relegated thinking about addiction to just substances. And I thought, well, I had that problem and now I don't.
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And, you know, I can never touch that substance again. But other than that, I'm all good. And then... Once I realized that addictive behavior permeates all aspects of life and, you know, relationships and that it's not just about substances and 12-step programs, then that was big. And then I tried to have just in general a healthier lifestyle. more balanced thing. I don't know.
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Now I do a lot of escape rooms and I try to get adrenaline healthy places. So I do like horror escape rooms where there's like an actor dressed like a clown in a dungeon and you're trying to escape. It's psychotic.
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Adrenalin-Junkie. Aber ich erinnere mich, dass viele Athleten das haben, richtig? Weil das die Endorphine ist. Ich habe nur erst angefangen, in den letzten paar Jahren zu arbeiten. Und es fühlt sich gut an. Ich verstehe es komplett. Ja. Ja. Ja.
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How to be Sexually Confident with Mae Martin (Best Of)
Was ist das? Ich empfehle es wirklich. Besonders mit Kindern. Es ist ein Spiel namens Wet Head. Es ist nur ein Hat, das einen Bucket Wasser drauf hat. Und dann ist es wie das russische Roulette, wo du auswählst, du nimmst Runden, und du handelst das Hat um. And you pull out these pegs that are fastening the bucket and one of them is going to douse you. And it's very simple.
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I mean, it's called Wet Head. Like, it just couldn't be more simple and fun. And you chant Wet Head, Wet Head, Wet Head.
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Try Wet Head, yes. It's going to work out for you. I bring it to dinner parties and stuff and people are like, do we have to play Wet Head tonight? I'm like, yes. It ruins someone's night.
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They kicked me out when I was 16. Um, and I thought, you know, ah, I don't know. I hit puberty. I had an amazing childhood. I'm so lucky. I'm privileged. And then, yeah, just as soon as puberty hit, we butted heads a lot. And I was doing drugs. I was not in a great place. And I think they reacted with rage, like being lied to. And just sort of shut down.
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And they did a tough love thing that was difficult. I think they probably were... Vielen Dank. Untertitelung. BR 2018
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Incessantly, I'd call an ambulance for them. But yeah, I love it. I think it's the confidence. When someone, I know it's kind of old school, but a wink is, maybe I just like attention. And so it's very direct attention of someone going, I'm giving you attention. And I love, yeah, I love a wink. I can't do it. Maybe that's part of it too. I'm a terrible winker, but like a subtle, quick wink.
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How to be Sexually Confident with Mae Martin (Best Of)
Ja, das ist wie Ace Ventura. Ich glaube nicht, dass ich damit aufmerksam sein kann.
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Yeah, I think it's evolved slightly, the drink thing. Because once I put that in print, now when I'm out, people send me drinks and I'm scared of what's in them. I'm like, this is not safe. I don't know, I shouldn't have said this. But I guess it's all confidence for me. And yeah, being in the passenger seat when someone's driving... It's hot to me. Yeah, a car is a powerful vehicle.
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I mean, I think you can do whatever you want. You're happy. You're the coolest. They're just lucky that you're there. That's a great answer. I don't know anything about fashion. I know that Gucci dressed me for that event. I've never been dressed by anyone. And it was so thrilling. And they were a little bummed that I wasn't wearing a tie, for sure. But I couldn't do it. I feel constricted.
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I just... Yeah, and so it felt good. But that wasn't a tux shirt, so I don't know. I think you can... Ja, ich dachte nur an das. Das ist ziemlich cool.
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Ja, genau, ja. Ich kann einfach nicht einen Bowtie rocken, aber Elliot sah großartig aus.
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I want to get to a place where I can be adventurous and dress like Harry Styles and wear like, but I'm still trying to figure out all that. But yeah, one day I'll be wearing sequins.
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How to be Sexually Confident with Mae Martin (Best Of)
Hmm. I'm trying not to do things out of habit. There's this, I think it's Emily Dickinson. There's a phrase that she wrote that's like when the skeleton of habit upholds the human frame. And it just was so bleak. And I think about how so much of our life we just are on autopilot and even things like What kind of music? Like emo, you know, I don't know, embarrassing acoustic guitar music.
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I love it. Yeah, it makes me happy and Yeah, I don't want to monetize it. I just want to do it and experiment with it.
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How to be Sexually Confident with Mae Martin (Best Of)
And being like, I guess I'm going where you're taking me.
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Das ist so cool. Ja, ich meine, als ich alt war, gab es niemanden, der wie wir aussieht. Und das ist spannend. Aber dann willst du nicht verletzt werden von der Druck.
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Komplett. Ich verabschiede mich total. Ja. Die einzige Unterschiede zwischen einem Poeten und einem Poeten zu sein, ist, Poesie zu schreiben, richtig? Ja. Genau. Das ist gut.
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Du bist es. Danke. Das war so schön. Letzte Nacht habe ich meinem Freund gesagt, dass ich es tue. Und sie war so, wirst du weinen? Und ich war so, bin ich? Ich weiß nicht, haben Leute weinen? Und sie war so, ich weiß nicht, es könnte tief werden. Und ich war so, oh mein Gott. Aber ja, ihr seid so wunderschön. Und danke so sehr, dass ihr mich gehabt habt.
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Ja, das ist alles, was ich tun möchte. Wettbecken, wettbecken.
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That was awesome. Yeah, I didn't want to torture that couple anymore. I felt like I left them in a good place and I would have been too mean to... You'd have to break them up again if you kept going.
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Das ist elektrisch, ja.
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Aber das Schwierige ist, dass all diese Dinge schrecklich werden, wenn die falsche Person sie macht. Das ist so repulsiv, wenn ein gewisser Verrückter das macht. Aber ja, wenn es jemand ist, der eine Vibe hat.
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Yeah. Is that sexuality? You know, there's certain people who, when they're around, it's like a director has said action and suddenly you're in the room and you're, it's those people and you're trying to be the best version of yourself. I love that feeling. Yes.
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Yeah, if or when I have kids. I don't know that I would do it exactly the way they did it. But yeah, I was really young and I think I had a lot of questions already probably because my parents had shown me the movie Rocky Horror Picture Show when I was very young. weil es ein Lieblings-Familie war. Und dann, ja, meine Mutter setzte mich ein. Ich glaube, ich war etwa fünf oder sechs.
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Und sie hatte Diagramme. Und sie hat in dieser Konversation gesagt, das ist, wie ein Mann und eine Frau Sex haben. Und ein Mann und ein Mann. Und eine Frau und eine Frau. Und sie hat wirklich jeden Bass gespielt. Und sie hat mir gesagt... A lot in that conversation. She told me there's no Santa Claus in the same conversation. Oh no. That was a lot to take in.
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And she just sort of demystified all of life in one sitting. But she was very sex positive always and described it as extremely pleasurable and tried to explain orgasms and stuff. I mean, it was maybe too much, but I mean, I couldn't really understand it at that age, but I just knew it wasn't scary and...
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Ich habe auch, sie haben nie wahrgenommen, dass ich recht war, ich oder mein Bruder, der ausgesprochen recht ist, glaube ich. Sie haben immer gesagt, du hast eine Freundin oder einen Freund oder, weißt du, was ich meine? Es war einfach, weil es verrückt ist, dass wir einfach wahrnehmen.
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So poetic and so misleading. I was really, really disappointed when it finally happened. No rainbows.
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When you're a teenager, if you were like, what kind of music do you like? And then you have to say it and never change it. And yeah, I'm just, I'm lucky, I think. We had other issues, me and my parents for sure. But just in this area, they really, they really did a great job at giving me this armor against the rest of the world, kind of.
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And, you know, then I encountered all of that weirdness when I was not at home. And I was like, oh, why is this a thing? But I remember renting the movie Gia. Yeah, with Angelina Jolie. And there's a sex scene in it. But I just didn't know to be ashamed. And I didn't even really know what it meant. But I was like, God, guys, I just love this movie so much.
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How to be Sexually Confident with Mae Martin (Best Of)
I just kept talking about it to my parents and being like, isn't this a beautiful scene? And they were like, yeah, okay. And I think that was all. And then I always brought home boys and girls and Yeah, I mean, I think I had a pretty voracious sexual appetite, so I don't know if that was a byproduct of how they raised me. Probably Gia.
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How to be Sexually Confident with Mae Martin (Best Of)
Ja, und auch außerhalb davon, ist es so, dass du es wirklich nicht vorstellen kannst. Ich kann alles vorstellen, was ich will.
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How to be Sexually Confident with Mae Martin (Best Of)
Das ist schade für deine Vorstellung. Das ist richtig. Anfangs in meiner Story, weil es 20 Jahre her war, fühlte ich mich,
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How to be Sexually Confident with Mae Martin (Best Of)
Ja, das ist, wie ich mich jetzt ein bisschen über Gender fühle. Und das ist auch so ein wachsender Weg für mich und ein letzter Schiff. Und ich bekomme so viele Fragen darüber. Und auf der einen Seite ist es frustrierend, aber ich versuche so hart zu sein. Es ist ein neues Ding für alle, nicht nur in der historischen Geschichte, aber auch in den letzten Jahren. Also versuche ich, super zu sein.
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How to be Sexually Confident with Mae Martin (Best Of)
Ja, genau. Well, so I'm 35 and looking back, I'm like, oh, I'm for sure trans. But then, and for 10 years, I thought every day about top surgery. And I just never thought I'd be brave enough to do it. I thought it was such a huge deal and such a massive thing. And then I just did it at Christmas. And it's been incredible. And I didn't think that this type of joy or like,
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How to be Sexually Confident with Mae Martin (Best Of)
Ich fühlte mich nicht komfortabel in meinem Körper. Ich dachte nicht, dass es für mich zugänglich war. Ich dachte, dass es für mich zugänglich war. Ich dachte, dass es für mich zugänglich war. Ich dachte, dass es zugänglich war. Ja, und sie sind gut geworden. Pronomen sind schwer für Menschen. Ich meine, es ist schwer, wenn du nicht in einer Gemeinschaft bist, in der du die Musen oft hörst.
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How to be Sexually Confident with Mae Martin (Best Of)
Und es wird ganz schnell zweifelhaft, glaube ich. Aber für sie, sie leben eine ziemlich leise und leise Leben. Und sie können noch nicht wirklich ihre Hände daran wenden. Aber sie versuchen. Und sie haben eine interessante Sache gesagt, die letzte Zeit, als sie mich besucht haben. I was like swimming in front of them and I think they could just see how happy I am.
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How to be Sexually Confident with Mae Martin (Best Of)
And they said, we can't really understand the pronoun thing, but we want you to know that we see you as you are. Like we can see that you're not a girl and you don't feel like a girl. And so we do know and see you and all your nuances and everything, but it's just linguistically we can't get it.