John Ballen
Appearances
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
I was in Afghanistan in 2014 as a Navy SEAL. We're in the middle of this gunfight, and a grenade came over the wall, and it detonated. And I'm waiting to either be shot by the enemy or I'm going to bleed to death. And all that was running through my head was, and that's the way I think people should look at their lives.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
Yeah, so every branch of, I think, basically every military in the world, this is a broad generalization, but it's usually the case that virtually every branch of every military has some form of specialized unit that carries out special operations. It's the stuff that, you know, the Call of Duty video games and Modern Warfare, those are based on like the idea of specialized combat units that...
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
That go out and do these kind of difficult and high stakes missions. And so in the US, you have the Army, the Navy, the Marine Corps, the Coast Guard and the Air Force, and each of them have like their like respective special operations divisions, like you have Marine special operations Marines, you have the PJs, the pararescue jumpers in the Air Force, there's multiple divisions.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
But of all these special operations units in America, of all the different branches, you could make the case that the most – and again, some flack from people that disagree with me – the most, let's just say, well-known and potentially most skilled – and I say that carefully because, of course, there are other groups like the Green Berets who are incredible at certain things –
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
But the most skilled at multiple disciplines is very likely the Navy SEAL teams. And it's because the acronym SEAL stands for Sea, Air, Land, so S-E-A-L. The idea is even though it's under the Navy, which is sort of like maritime and water, the reality is that the SEAL teams are a special operations group that can insert into virtually any area. Any environment, sea, air, or land.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
They can also use multiple insertion platforms, whether it's diving, jumping, going in on land. It's like a highly versatile special operations group, whereas a lot of the other special operations groups, not just in the United States, but internationally, are kind of specialized in certain areas.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
geographies like you have mountain warfare specialists you have like the dutch have this incredible uh diving unit uh but the seals are like we do everything and they also sort of came into prominence they started in the 60s under jfk they really came into prominence post 9 11 because they were being sent out into the middle east which is you know it's a landlocked place but this navy special operations unit was being very successful carrying out you know kinetic operations all across the middle east
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
So it's like a very famous jack of all trades special operations group that, especially after the bin Laden raid as well, that sort of made them celebrities. But even before that, they were very well known as like the jack of all trades special operations group.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
Broadly speaking, I would say it takes about two years. But realistically, it takes a little bit longer. So you have... There's two ways to become a SEAL. You either go in as an enlisted person. So there's the enlisted component of the military, which is somebody basically without a college degree who just raises their hand and just serves. That's the grunts of the world.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
Those are the enlisted community. And then you have the officer side, just somebody who at a minimum needs to have a college degree to apply. You go to officer school. And in the SEAL teams, there's a tiny, tiny number of officer SEALs and a massive number of enlisted SEALs. But there are two very different pathways into training.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
If you go the officer route, it's practically like a political appointment just to get an opportunity. Like it's so, so difficult to even get a chance to try out that what you get. And it's because there's just like a handful of spots available. That's really all it was.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
So you have all these people on the enlisted side who actually have college degrees and could easily like become an officer in the military who, let's say, have other opportunities that they could pursue with their college degree, but they want to be a SEAL.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
and so you have this big number of people that are electing to go be enlisted to try out to be seals and that's important because it makes the enlisted side super competitive you have like these professional athletes and you have like olympians and you have like the best college athletes and you have mma fighters and wrestlers and then like the random people like me who have no resume and you all just show up for the class in san diego that technically is six months long but there's like
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
Before you've been joined the Navy, you need to basically compete for a spot to even have a chance to try out. And there's a whole application process before you've joined the Navy that can take years. And then let's say you get your chance as an enlisted person. They're like, okay, you're going to get a chance to go. Well, first you got to go to boot camp. That's two months in Chicago.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
And technically you can fail out of it, but really you won't. It's sort of like a suck it up and get through it. But then at the end of boot camp, at least when I went through, you go to this other school, which is like a prep school. It's another two months in Chicago. Mind you, you haven't even started training yet. This is like potentially a year of pre-Navy.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
And now you're four months into like you're in the Navy, but you're not really in SEAL training yet. You go to this prep school where you like learn how to swim and run. You already know how to do these things. But professional coaches work with you. The Navy invests a lot of money in getting you really strengthened up and mentally strengthened.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
Because following the prep school, you go to San Diego where you go through what's regarded as like the hardest part of SEAL training, which is it's called BUDS, B-U-D-S. And it stands for Basic Underwater Demolition Seal School. And it's basically, imagine whatever you think of as boot camp, like military boot camp.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
Make it not two months long, but six months long, because most boot camps are about two. And make it like a thousand times more difficult. It's really the same concepts. It's like intense, grueling, physical, emotional, and mental torture for six months. And that's the part where everybody fails out and drops out.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
That's like the, if you made a movie about SEAL training, you'd really only focus on the six months of BUDS training. And in fact, you'd only focus on the first two months because that's the most physically challenging. And then once you finish that, you go to advanced training. You're still not a SEAL yet. It's another six months of like learning how to actually do the job.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
So BUDS is like, can you handle it?
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
advanced training or still qualification training is i'm going to teach you how to shoot a gun with surgical precision i'm going to teach you how to jump out of a plane i'm going to teach you how to like use this technology because you need to know how to do the job so learn the job and then after that you go to like or we did anyways i don't know if they do this now you go to like a language school for a month or you'll go to like a medical school or some sort of school to give you additional qualifications
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
And then you go to your team. And so all told, you have about two years from I want to be a Navy SEAL to I am now a Navy SEAL. Two years is usually the mark.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
The thing that stands out, honestly, and this is what is pretty universally true, although there's some outliers, is the folks who show up to Bud's, the candidates who show up to Bud's that have like an incredible resume. There was a guy that showed up to training who literally played for the Arizona Diamondbacks. He's like six foot five, looks just like a god. And he's so humble.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
Like he's this big, strong, professional baseball player who I actually have a memory specifically of playing with his character in a video game. And like there's other people who are like professional football players and all that. And he washed out so quick. And a lot of the other guys with big resumes, like the sports and big accomplishments, they typically wash out really, really quickly.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
And it's not because they lack the physical to do it. They don't. They definitely don't. And this is generalizing because this is not true of everybody. But let's take the guy who played for the Diamondbacks. So this person... is used to being, generally speaking, the very best person at what they do their whole lives. And it's not because there's anything wrong with them.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
It's just sort of a truth. That's how you became a professional baseball player. That's how it works. In Bud's, your instructors don't fucking care about who you were. And it's like a point they make. they don't care at all about what you've done before.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
In fact, if they even suspect that you think you're special because you have some bullet point on your resume, like playing for the Diamondbacks, they will torture you and see if you really got it. They will single you out and specifically make you feel terrible and tell your class to like, look at this guy, he can't even do push-ups.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
You play for the Diamondbacks, you can't even do push-ups, even though the guy's doing push-ups just fine. But he's like, look, that doesn't even count. That doesn't count. Do another one. Get in the water. Do this, do that. It's a mind game. But the guys like me who I went to Bud's and I'm like, I literally am a joke compared to the people that are here.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
I wasn't in great shape relative to my peers. I'm certainly not a professional athlete. The only thing on my resume is, well, I nearly flunked out of college, but then managed to graduate college. That is the extent of my resume. I played a little baseball in high school. And so for me, I have very little to lose.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
Like either I'll make it and that'll be amazing and I'll get to do the thing I want to do or I won't. And people will say, that's about right. The folks that go in that have the resumes on some level, they expect to be really good, even if they're humble. And everybody in their personal lives also expects them to make it through because who wouldn't? He played for the Diamondbacks. Expectation.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
It's brutal. And the course is too long to simply gut your way through it. The level of physical discomfort that you experience in buds is so unbelievably high that That it's not you got to want to be here. That's the way they say it. You got to want to be here if you want to make it through. It's you need to have something to hold on to in your brain that overrides the discomfort.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
I think it all starts with, you know, the family I was born into were like very successful academic people. So I was born in a town called Quincy, Massachusetts. It's just south of Boston, Mass. And, you know, my mother, father, and two sisters are like brilliant minds in like the academic sense of the word, just like brilliant.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
And it can't be, oh, I need to make everybody else happy. I need to live up to expectations. Maybe that's strong enough for you. For most people, it's not. Like when you are at like your absolute lowest, like what do you hold on to? And it's for people like me, it was like I have to prove myself to myself. I want to prove to myself that I can do this hard thing.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
Like it was not even about serving in the military. It was accomplishing this goal because I've set my mind to it and I want to believe that I'm the guy that can set goals that are hard and achieve them. And so in my worst moments, I would go to that place where I'm like, this is worth it to me. But for other guys, it's not.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
And so at the end when you graduate, you look around and it's like a ragtag group of like –
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
short sort of weird looking guys that don't in any way embody like what you would think of as like i mean some guys do some guys are unbelievable studs but it's like a ragtag group of guys that just didn't quit and a lot of it is because they had some sort of chip on their shoulder that internally drove them and it allowed them to persevere when things got so bad because things get so bad in butts
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
I mean, not just to like shamelessly cycle back to this idea of responsibility, but I'm going to do that. Before, when I first got to the basement, I've just arrived, I was really not even able to see what a mess I had made of my life. It wasn't like I knew I had screwed up and was blaming other people. It was more like my default setting was this is somebody else's fault.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
Somebody did this to me. Like I actively remember being furious with my mom and dad for making me withdraw from college when I literally was about to get expelled. I had a terrible GPA. I couldn't afford to live in the dorms. I had shown no respect. there was no evidence to suggest I would succeed in college.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
It wasn't until I was like home in the basement and the sort of like living in my mom's basement with no direction that I just sort of naturally happened. I was like, wait a minute, it's you. It's not them. It's you. And it seems so obvious now, but it took falling to the bottom. And also, by the way, kudos to my mom, because she's a single mom.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
She didn't give an F. She was not like, don't worry, you'll figure it out. She was like, no, you're going to get a job. Or you're going to move out or whatever. And you're also going to pay rent while you're here. And that's it. Like this is your fault. And at first I'm mad. But it's sort of like it became this arduous thing I had to overcome.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
So it was like no self-awareness, none, and genuinely blaming the world for my problems to like probably, if anything, an extreme on the other side where like if you haven't already noticed, I'm talking about the CS gas thing that I mentioned to you earlier.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
That's something that if that happened to other people, I don't know if they'd talk about it on such a public platform, especially just in the SEAL community. Like reputation is such a big thing that even talking about things that other people know about but that cast you in sort of a bad light reputationally, I think people would stay away from saying that. But for me, I view it as a strength.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
You know, my sister, one of my sisters has gone on to win two Pulitzer Prizes. My dad's won a Pulitzer Prize. My... And this doesn't even flex, but to give you a sense of the people in my life, my other sister like has a PhD and she like worked out of a Harvard lab. My mom was a professional writer. And then there's me.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
to highlight not only the things that I'm good at, but the things that I've made a mess of and screwed up because it shows other people that I'm secure. So it's like ultra self-aware and secure in my image, the opposite as the basement kid. And it took basically falling to the bottom, being home, no new opportunities in front of me.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
Other people are off at college succeeding and here I am in my mom's basement for it to sink in that like, if you want to fix this, you have to start with saying it's my fault and then do something about it.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
I've never heard that. That's actually a great quote.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
Well, I think that part of the reason, or I should say this is more of a general statement that kind of answers this, I, in a way, was fortunate because when I hit rock bottom, I am a person that does not have, what is it called, paralysis by analysis. I'm sort of an impulsive person, for better or worse. And so for me, it's like once I hit that rock bottom,
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
it wasn't hard for me to sort of quickly find a good North Star, which the first one was college. I'm going to do college, right? And then when I was nearing the end of college, by this point, I've sort of righted the ship at this point, but I wanted a new goal. It was like, oh, SEAL training. That checks some boxes. It's like, I want to serve. Check. Like, it's a super hard goal. Check.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
I'll have to work for it. Like, it offers me a chance at reinvention and rebirth. Check. Okay, good. Like, I jumped to that. That's what I do. I think there are plenty of people, and this is my guess, I don't know if it's true, who maybe have already hit rock bottom and they want to make a change. They know it's their fault or whatever situation that they know they've contributed to it.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
When I was growing up, I could have done well in school, you know, but I didn't want to. It was sort of like my form of rebellion was being a bad student willfully. And I would like go out and party with my friends and just was like –
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
But they don't know what to do next. And there's so many choices. Think about it. If you're at rock bottom, in some ways, you have every choice in the world to make. And I think that one of the things that I certainly preach when I talk about this at all, which I guess is in situations like this, is you don't need like a perfect idea.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
You just need something that checks enough boxes for you to be worth doing. So for me, it was like, okay, I'm in my mom's basement. I've done this to myself. I am the reason I'm not at school. I'm the reason that like my parents are embarrassed about their son. It's my fault. What do I need to do? Okay, well, I should graduate school because that demonstrates that what happened at UMass is fixable.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
I can graduate school. I can do it. I'm not dumb. I can do that. Okay, fine. Gotta go to school. That was it. It's like, it checks a box, so do it.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
What if it's the wrong decision or something?
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
Yeah. I mean, and also you gotta figure it's sort of like a self-perpetuating problem too, where if you, let's say you've hit rock bottom, even if you don't know it and you're like, oh, I want to fix my life. I want to do something with my life. Let's say the kind of generic rock bottom.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
Well, let's say you get paralysis by analysis and you're not able to sort of like pick a path and you go nowhere. That only reinforces the idea that you screwed up again. But you haven't. There's just too many choices and you're allowing too many factors to be at play here. Jocko, however he said it, is dead on.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
And there's another way that's talked about in the military, which is an 80% solution now is oftentimes better than a 100% solution tomorrow. And it's all about like speed over certainty. In the military, it applies a lot of times. But that's the way I think people should generally, not always, but generally look at their lives if they haven't quite built anything yet.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
Whether they're at rock bottom or just starting out like they're young people or whatever age you're at. If you feel like you need to make a change, like you said, the pain of staying the same is greater than making a change. If you're at that point, you kind of know it. Think about what matters to you, whatever it is.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
trying to be sort of like a bad kid in a way and also like the town i grew up in was sort of a it was not a place where academics really thrived it's like a really working class like hard and tough place i mean quincy's becoming much much nicer but it was a little bit of a tough place And I sort of wanted to be like an edgy, like tough guy.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
I like to equate it to when you're in the shower by yourself and you're just having unfiltered true thoughts. Ask yourself, what do you really care about? Honest to God. Forget what society says you should care about. Let's say you really just wanna be famous. And that's the actual core. And you don't even know why, but that's what you want. Well, guess what? Listen to that part of you.
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It's not vain. It's a thing that matters to you. Similarly, if you're like, I wanna be just rich. Great. If that's a real motivation for you, like at your core, in the shower, it's just you. If that's really what drives you, great. Those are boxes that must be checked for something to be worth doing. So it's like have your shower thoughts and be real with yourself.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
Like what do you really actually care about? Not what society says, not what you want your family, none of that stuff. For me, honestly, the reason the SEAL thing really paid, I wanted to do it ultimately, is I wanted people to say, that's John Allen, the Navy SEAL. Because to me, it was like I had been the black sheep in my family because of me. I had discovered this.
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But it's like, oh, his sisters have done this. Oh, his dad's done this. His mom's done this. And then there's John. I wanted something that sort of overrode the mediocrity and failure. And I felt like, what better thing? What more honorable thing? And also, I wanted to serve. That's another check. It's a big goal. That's difficult. That's a check.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
But ultimately, it was like, I want people to know that I became a Navy SEAL. That mattered to me. And you know what? It flies in the face of what Navy SEAL instructors tell you, which is you shouldn't do this because you want to be a Navy SEAL. You should do it because you want to serve the country. And, like, that's true. And what else are you going to tell your students?
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
But if you really want to be real about it, you've got to find your real motivation, and that box must be checked.
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Yes, it is.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
Ultimately, exactly what you said. If that box goes unchecked, you might in your life eventually convince yourself that you never needed to check that box. But at some point, at some point in your life, when it becomes too late or you're about to die or you're on your deathbed, you will have regret.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
And I can actually speak to a specific instance in my life, which I had checked a box by this point, but I had one that I hadn't checked. I was in Afghanistan in 2014. And we were in this alleyway and a grenade came over the wall and it detonated next to a whole bunch of us. And I nearly bled to death.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
And so I'd like get into street fights and get my ass kicked. And like, I'd like stay out drinking with my friends. But what it did is it set me up for like colossal failure by the time I got to college. I got into college because my mom, the professional writer,
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And I have this moment where I can't pull the tourniquets off of my kit that are rubber banded to my chest for quick access to stop the bleeding. But I was so weak and like losing my vision. We're in the middle of this gunfight, I couldn't get them off.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
And I realized as I'm sitting in this alleyway in the middle of this like horrible place in Afghanistan, like the town was very kinetic and dangerous. And I'm waiting to either be shot by the enemy, who we know is on the other side of the wall that could be coming around, or I'm going to bleed to death, or there are RPGs being fired blindly in our direction. It's like I'm about to die, 100%.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
I'm actively bleeding out, or I'm going to be shot. And all that was running through my head, there was a couple thoughts. There was one that was kind of funny now, which was I was like, hmm, I wonder if my obituary will say Jonathan Allen killed in action, John Allen killed in action. So that was going through my head.
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But I also, in addition to that, I had this really acute sadness that I hadn't started a family yet. I didn't have kids. I was married. We've been married for several years. And my wife and I, we'd sort of talked about having kids before that deployment. But we were like, oh, we'll have time. And I'm sitting there in this alley bleeding to death or expecting to be shot to death.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
I'm at the end of my life. And it was like, holy shit. I wish I had a child. Yes, that's horrible for the kid. They lost their dad. But like that was a box for me. I wanted a family. What was the first thing I did when I survived this and got home? We started a family. So it's like that's sort of an extreme example.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
But I do really believe that a lot of people have boxes that are going to go unchecked. But to your point also – Just try to do it and fail. And believe it or not, you actually checked the box.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
wrote my college essay and my grades were horrible in high school in fact so bad that when i sent off my application the the school got in touch with me and they were like hey your grades are not really what we're looking for but boy that essay was so beautiful we're going to give you a chance so i get into college i go to the university of massachusetts out in western mass it's like where a lot of kids where i was growing up that's where they went to school it's a big party school and
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It was not immediately after, but basically between that and some mental issues I was having, I was pushed to see a psychologist. This is like years after. So 2014, that injury happens. I survive, obviously. And I ended up getting surgery to sort of like my shoulder was banged up and I got fixed up enough to deploy again. But I was just not fit to serve.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
Physically, I was really struggling to keep up. I had some issues with my shoulders and my knees. I have shrapnel in my leg. But ultimately, I was recommended to a psych in the military because they're like, dude, you are not like a sane person. Things are not going well for you. Like close friends of mine just sort of said, I don't think this is working out. And I was very angry.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
I had like – now I can say it. It's like I had very stereotypical or whatever you want to call it, PTSD. Like I had not dealt with the near-death experience in Afghanistan and sort of how that went. And so I ended up going for a medical retirement, which was driven in part by the physical injuries but also by like mentally I wasn't there.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
So I get medically retired at the end of 2017, and I never really had a plan. It's like I knew I was going to get medically retired, which just means you're going to get out, and there's going to be this amount of money you get paid. It's a retirement. It's not really enough to live on realistically. You're going to have to have a job.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
And I basically got out at the end of 2017, and I went on LinkedIn, and I'm like, I guess that's where you get jobs because that's what I think people do. And I was like on LinkedIn and I wound up randomly connecting with this guy named Jordan Selleck, who is he was living in New York at the time.
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He's this former investment banker who had just so happened at the time that I was on LinkedIn doing this like kind of weird job search. that his best friend was a transitioning fighter pilot. Like he was leaving the military, going to the private sector, was struggling with the transition, which is very common in the military, making that jump to the civilian world.
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And Jordan, who's like this very entrepreneurial guy, he was trying to prove to his friend, his friend's name was Austin, that like, You must be alone. Like you're so successful being a fighter pilot. Like you're going to find a job.
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And he was like – he was doing this exercise where he was reaching out to like random veterans on LinkedIn and being like, hey, what are you doing like with your transition to the civilian world to prove to Austin that like you're basically complaining and you can go find a job. You're not a – But he found like one, nobody really got back to him because they didn't know who he was.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
But I got back to him and I'm like, actually, you know what? I just got medically retired. I have no idea what I'm going to do. I got kids. I'm stressed. I don't know. Didn't know this guy. And so Jordan quickly went from trying to prove a point to his friend. He was like, oh. Well, hey, why don't you like come to New York and I'll just like introduce you to some people in my network.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
And out of that was born this charity that Jordan and I actually started called Elite Meet. It's still around today. It's like a networking event. It's a series of networking events for transitioning military veterans and private sector hiring managers to meet and get jobs. So I did that for a little while. Ironically, my job became running a charity that helped other vets get jobs.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
But Jordan instilled in me, he was a big believer in Gary Vaynerchuk's style of social media that sort of like bombard the internet with content and be like all in on content. And Jordan, he even had a similar sort of, he was similar to Gary Vee. And I found it like really fascinating, the idea of social media and content creation, because when I was in the military,
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
I didn't even have – or I might have had a YouTube account, but I certainly didn't post on it, didn't have social media. But I – with Jordan, we began using social media content to drive donations for this charity we're running together. But at some point, I wanted to do more like with social media.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
And I just immediately bombed. First semester, like I got a 1.016 GPA, which it should have been like a zero. I basically didn't go to class. I was involved in this riot. So at some point, our football team, which was a team that no one cared about, even the people who went to the school, we didn't care about it. No offense to the Minutemen. They're very good now.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
I was doing storytelling but narrative storytelling like written out stories about military stuff to try to generate donations.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
i was like yeah i want to i want to do something for myself with social media like build a brand for myself and i i committed a cardinal sin one that i was very aware of so this is self-awareness but doing it anyways um in the the seal teams and really i think in special operations generally despite what you see in terms of books written and like movies made about seals and
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
You can Google SEALs and there's like 78 examples of SEALs that are publicly talking about being Navy SEALs. There is like this code of conduct amongst the active duty community that you don't talk about being a SEAL. You can say you're a SEAL. No one's telling you you literally have to lie about it. But being a SEAL is not something that's yours.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
Being a SEAL is you were allowed to enter a community of people that were like fighting for a common goal together, struggling, bleeding, dying together. Like the strength of the brand of SEAL, the SEAL brand is built literally on people dying. And so you can't then leave the military and say, hey, look at me. I was a Navy SEAL because that's for personal gain. You can't do that.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
I began posting about being, I was the quintessential, look at this guy, Mr. Navy SEAL. At first, it wasn't that way. It wasn't like one day I was like, guess what, guys?
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But it began as like, oh, I'm going to just like have my own accounts and sort of tell stories about my experience as a SEAL to push people towards elite meat. But then quickly as these began to succeed, not really, but kind of, they got like a thousand likes here or there. I was like, wow, that's pretty cool.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
And I like began leaning a little more and more until finally I was like full send, like the guy that you're not supposed to be. This is like in 2018, 2019. And dude, I got...
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
disowned by the navy seal community i mean like hard give me specifics when you say uh i could pull up dms uh from instagram no i so at first did not catch a whole lot of public at first i think i was doing it and people sort of were like well he's doing this charity elite meat that's helping seals it's helping vets
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
But gradually, as I sort of drifted farther and farther away from that into just like John the Navy SEAL, mind you, I'm not giving up anything sensitive. It isn't like I'm talking about stuff that's like problematic. It's really just doing some of this, you know, bumping my chest. I began receiving just some of the most painful messages I've ever gotten in my life.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
It's different than getting hate. You know, as Mr. Ballin on the internet, I certainly get hate from time to time, but it's different because they don't know me. It's like they see somebody on the internet doing something they don't agree with or like, and so they speak their opinion. I'm sure you're familiar, but it's not personal. It might feel personal at first, but you get used to it.
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This was actual SEALs who I knew, who wanted me to know exactly who was sending this message, like writing me messages to be like, hey, I used to think of you this way. And now I think of you this way with like detailed explanations and talking about how at the team, like we all talk about how much you fucking suck, basically.
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But at the time in 2006, they weren't. They made it to like this conference game or something. This is like not big time D1. This is like D1 AA. It's like very high level football, but not going to be on TV or anything. And the college, the student body, again, they don't really care about the football team. But for some reason, when they lost this game,
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
And like, I lived in Virginia Beach at the time, which is where the SEAL team, SEAL team two, that's where I was at. It's a big town, but it's where like a huge concentration of SEALs were. And during this time, I would like go out to like the grocery store and I would see people that I know. These are not, oh, I think that guy could be a SEAL. It's like, oh, no, I served with him.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
I know exactly who that is. And they'd like mean mug me and my family at the grocery store or the gym. Because remember, this is not like a normal group of people. This is like A group of highly trained killers of like operators, people that like go to war. They're not afraid of conflict. And I have done something that in many ways is like tarnished their brand. Not their brand.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
That's not how they look at it. Tarnished their brotherhood. It's like I'm being selfish. And I was – they hated me. I got –
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
regularly two to three messages email instagram wherever i i get i get phone calls voice messages of people leaving me just the most deep cutting personal like i this is how i know you and this is what's being said about you and this is how i feel about you it was horrible but luckily uh
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
I had already had the experience in my life, the CS gas thing, the coming home from college thing, of fairly quickly realizing that no matter how I justify this, no matter how I justify why I drifted into this arena, Ultimately, I knew what was going on. I knew the line.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
And I knew when I crossed the line of being... No matter what the public thinks about sealed content that you see on the internet, I knew amongst the huge majority of people that will never be public about their service, the active duty guys and the retired guys, I had crossed the line for them. And I was not dumb.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
I would have been just as upset if I was them, still active, looking at a guy like me. But instead of like... getting mad at anybody or looking for retribution or trying to justify it. I deleted it all at some point. I remember there was a night I'm like sitting on my couch and I got a message from somebody that I would have said was one of my very close friends. And it just said, you suck.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
That's all it said. But that sounds stupid. But this is somebody who's on team six. This is somebody who is, I specifically trained with and was like very close with like his wife and my wife were close. And like, I know what the context of this message is. It's way more than you suck. It's, we're not the same anymore. Like you're different and I look down on you. And I was like, I can't do this.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
There is no amount of success that I could possibly achieve doing the Navy SEAL content stuff that would be worth what I'm going through right now. And so instead of being like, I'm going to just act like that didn't happen, I just removed all the content, save for a couple of very small specific things. And I hadn't lost the itch for making content, but it was like,
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
It just like instilled this need to riot on campus. And it was like concentrated in this one area of campus where I happen to live. And I like went out there and I was like breaking windows and being this horrible kid. And the security cameras everywhere recording you. And it got to the point where at the end of the semester, there was like this witch hunt to –
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
I can't do anything with regards to being a SEAL because that's not worth it to me and I don't want to do it. I felt wrong. And after trying things that never worked like sketch comedy and like following trends at one point, I was my lowest – my lowest moment, my worst one was I – there was a trend on TikTok briefly where people would – tell, like, sort of weirdly traumatic stories.
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Not traumatic, but, like, intense stories, but with autotune. They'd use the feature in TikTok that was autotune, and they'd, like, sort of sing it as autotune. But it would be, like, about the time they got, like, mugged. And so, like, the contrast is so extreme, it's sort of interesting.
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I did something like that. And I made it. And I was like, I cannot post this. This is like the worst thing I've ever made. But nothing worked. And I remember thinking like, okay, you know, I don't have a clue what I could do that would be interesting. And actually, I remember I had these two documents in my computer. This is, again, post-deleting everything.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
My family were very successful people with Pulitzer Prizes, PhD. And then there's me getting into street fights and about to get expelled. But it took becoming a colossal failure to realize that if you want to fix this, you have to start with saying it's my fault and then do something about it. But then fear becomes the thing keeping people from doing it.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
I'm like trying to make it on social media with something different. I had this one document that was like ideas for content that were not SEAL-related, that were like totally divorced from that, the sketch comedy, the auto-tune, whatever it was. And I literally had exhausted all of them.
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But I had this other document that – I didn't even know why I had separated this topic, but it was – all I wrote on it was Dyatlov Pass, right? So personally, I am interested in the strange, dark, and mysterious, the tagline that's become the Mr. Ballin thing. Basically unsolved mysteries, but not like – don't think true crime necessarily. Think like world-level mysteries like – What's out there?
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
Is there life out there? Like, why is this portion of Antarctica blacked out on Google Earth? Like, the deep, like, scintillating stuff that no one really has an answer to. I've always been drawn to that stuff. And there's a really famous mystery called the Dyatlov Pass.
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And it's about these hikers in the 50s, these nine really experienced hikers who are going for their what's called their level three mountaineering test, which sounds sort of like run of the mill. But in fact, in Soviet Russia in the 1950s, this was like master mountaineer. Nobody had level three. This is like the top.
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If you did this, you're like the best climbers in the country, if not potentially the world. This is a big deal. And the way you pass your level three is you and the people taking it with you. There was nine of them. You have to map out this route through this really rugged part of whatever mountain you're going to use. They use the Ural Mountains. So big snow swept, like huge icy mountains.
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And you map out this course that like checks the boxes of difficulty. And you're effectively timed. You have to start on a particular day and time. And they have people set up along the way, the scheduled checkpoints, if you will. And so they brought cameras with them, this group. This is, again, 1952, I think it was. And so there's these young nine hikers who were like so excited to do this test.
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No one's stressed. They're so pumped. There's a couple of couples in there. They set off on this journey. And I think they reached the first checkpoint. I forget what it is, but they didn't make it to whatever second checkpoint or whatever it was. And there was a protocol for the people who were sort of sponsoring this test that were part of the checkpoints that knew this.
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They knew what was going on, where if they missed a checkpoint, there's like this big search that goes out to make sure they're okay. Even though there's some expectation that they might not make a checkpoint by like a day because it's a difficult test. Yeah. But the protocol is like really extreme.
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to find the people that had been involved in this riot. And there was like the website had posted, the college police website had posted all these images of just faces of people in the crowd that were a part of it. And anybody could anonymously name people if they saw them. And it was like, everybody got expelled. And I found pictures of me and I just got my grades back 1.016.
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As soon as they go missing, it's like the army gets involved and they go and follow the route to find the hikers. So they missed the checkpoint. This protocol is enacted. And not only are there pictures that we will get from the hikers, but there was cameras that came with the search crew. They follow the trail that they're supposed to be on. This is, again, there's no trees.
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It's just like the tundra. It's like ice and snow and mountains. And they come across this mountain off in the distance and they see on the windswept side of the mountain, basically halfway up, are these tents that are just these like canvas tents. They barely see them, but they're situated right in the middle of the slope.
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which is like strategically one of the worst places you can place these tents. So immediately they're thinking, one, it has to be the hikers because who else is out here right now? But two, why in the world would these incredibly talented hikers or mountaineers, why would they ever pitch their tent there? This is the most hazardous part. The wind can whip you off.
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You either go to the top and over or you stay to the bottom. Let's say you've begun hiking up that mountain. You get halfway and you're like, I can't make it. You better go back down and make your camp down there. So they see these tents. They're in the wrong spot. They go up to the tents, and the hikers aren't there. They're not in there. There's pictures of this too.
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The tents inside had stacks of clothing neatly folded and placed in the corners, like as if they hadn't – they left their clothes behind. And the tents themselves were cut open like with a knife, but somehow they deduced that they had been cut open but from the inside. So presumably one or multiple of the mountaineers chose to cut open these tents in like negative 50-degree weather.
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And then there were all these prints in the snow that led down the mountain. And some of the prints were bare feet. Some had one shoe and one bare foot. And it's all nine of the hikers. They spotted these prints. And they follow the prints down the hill or the mountains, a big space. And they find this little crops of trees.
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There's only a few areas in the Ural Mountains, in this part of the Ural Mountains that have trees. And There's this little group of trees. And when they get to the trees, they find three of the hikers. And they're all deceased. And there's one who's basically almost naked, wrapped up on the ground. There's pictures of this.
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There's one who I believe was draped over one of the branches up in one of the trees. And then another one that was also on the ground as well. And there's these deep scratch marks in the tree, like gouges on the tree as if some animal had been scratching at this tree. And all three of these hikers are deceased. And it looks like exposure.
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But they're not really wearing the right clothing or they're missing pieces of clothing, but they're all deceased. There's more footprints that lead away from those three about a mile kind of back in the direction the search party had come from. And there's this big snow drift that created sort of like a snow cave underneath it.
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And the footprints lead into the snow cave where the other six hikers were. And they're all deceased as well. Except in there, the hikers had seemingly exchanged clothing. And they know this because the women were wearing men's clothing and vice versa. Some of their clothes had trace levels of radiation. And some of them had parts of their face removed, it looked like. lips, nose, ears.
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It almost looked like surgical precision removal. They're all deceased. And one of the injuries, there was a person in there who their chest had basically been caved in. And it was deduced that the impact it would have taken, there was no lacerations, just their chest was caved in. The impact would have been equivalent to like a speeding car smashing into you at full speed.
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And at the same time, I'd been telling my brilliant parents Yeah, I'm doing great in school. Things are going really well, getting good grades. And I had to tell them, like, actually, it's the opposite, and I'm probably going to get expelled if I don't withdraw.
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But there's no sign of anything that could have done this damage. And so they're all deceased. And so the Soviet government, they launch an investigation. And during this investigation, they discover that there was a huge military exercise, a Russian military exercise taking place in the Ural Mountains who had no idea about these hikers.
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They have no clue that the level three mountaineering test is going on. That's not even on their radar. And they're, you know, 15, 20 miles away.
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And one of their senior commanders on the same night that it's believed the hikers all died and whatever happened to them happened, he began noticing all these strange lights in the sky over the Ural Mountains going up and down and moving all around to the point where he actually thought it was another country, a foreign country. Are they invading us?
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And he literally thought it was like an invasion of Russia. And he sent out messages to say, hey, what's happening over there? Having no idea that he was pointing to the one spot where these hikers were. So during this investigation, they discover that families are clamoring for information about their lost loved ones. Nobody has any idea what's going on.
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And suddenly the Soviet government says, oh, we're going to shut this investigation down. All we know is that the nine hikers who died, died from an unknown, unnatural force. Sealed. Sealed.
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And to date, even though there was actually a recent – a reinvestigation done in 2020, it's remained like one of the great unsolved mysteries in part because it's got this like, oh, the Russian government sealed it and there's more information. What do they mean unknown, unnatural force? But there's pictures of the tent, of the bodies, of all this stuff. And so I –
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I always thought that was a fascinating story. And I love stories like that. And I was at this water park in Pennsylvania with my family, an indoor water park. And at this point, I've exhausted the one list. Nothing's worked on social media. And this new thing, TikTok, had sort of begun to happen. I didn't really even know what it was.
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But I was like, maybe I'll try posting on there because it's a new platform. Maybe that'll work. And I was like, but I bet I want to try something else, you know, because these ideas haven't worked. And so like in my hotel room, I tell my wife and three kids, like, go down the water park. I'll meet you down there in a minute. And I just pull out the phone and I do a 60-second rendition of that.
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So my dad comes out to the school, and he, like, sits down with the dean, who also says, John has all these violations of living in the dorm, like noise complaints and being a jerk. We're going to kick him out of the dorms. Even if he stays at the school, he has to live off campus. And my mom and dad are like, you're coming home. We're done with this. Like, you're an adult.
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And I was like, hey, you know, at the end of this, you're going to Google two words. And I tell this brief story about this crazy mystery. And I'm like, that's called the Dyatlov Pass mystery. That's the name of the pass they were in when they were found. And I post this video to my account that has no followers. It's like the Mr. Ballin account. There's a story behind that.
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But it's a nothing account. Post it and really no expectation that this is going to amount to anything. I leave my phone in the room because I'm going down to the water park. I can't waterproof my phone. I'll be with my kids. And when I came back up a few hours later and I picked up my phone, I couldn't even get it to turn on. Like it was like – I was like, oh, is it power dead? Yeah.
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And I finally get it on and it's just like notifications like mad from this video. There's over 5 million views on this video. Mind you, everything I've ever posted collectively has maybe been like 100,000 views. So this is like massive virality, but it was utterly divorced from SEAL stuff. This is like pure, I think this is fascinating and I love telling stories.
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and that wasn't like oh boy here's a business opportunity it was more like oh my god this is so cool i'm gonna tell more stories like that because this is what i like and i just began making story after story that sort of fell in line with that and it happened to fall at literally the start of the pandemic so it's like suddenly everybody is not only on their phones but they're on tick tock
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And everybody on TikTok is like mostly kids dancing and also me telling stories with a flannel and backwards hat. And so the account just blew up like mad. I transitioned to YouTube and I've just been telling stories ever since.
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Man, I don't know. I don't know. So they reopened the investigation, like I said, in 2020. I don't claim this to be true, but I think it might have been in part because of the virality of that video. Suddenly there's this newfound interest of people Googling that the outlaw passed. And they concluded that there was an ice slab that broke off and killed them.
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But it's like, how does that account for like the clothes being exchanged, the potential radioactive nature of their clothes, like what the military guys saw with the lights? There's too many things that don't get explained. It is true that like when you become hypothermic, when you become truly hypothermic and you're nearing like the end, basically, you're about to die from exposure.
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You become warm to the point where you're hot and actually take your clothes off.
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Yeah. That's a well-documented thing. So you could say, okay, so they pitched a terrible place on the mountain. They're being exposed to the elements. They're basically freezing. Maybe as skilled as they were, they weren't really prepared for the weather. And so they became hypothermic. And let's say maybe an avalanche or an ice slab did come down. And maybe they got hit by the ice slab.
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And now they're hypothermic. They're taking their clothes off. But it's like, okay. What are all the marks in the tree? Why are their clothes radioactive? What did the government mean when they said an unknown, unnatural forest back in the 1950s? What were the lights seen by the military guy? There's too many unanswered questions. So I admittedly am a huge skeptic.
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And if anything, creating this content has only made me more skeptical because there's so much stuff that gets put out that's not true. And it's just like totally made up. But this remains one of those stories that just sort of makes you wonder like, Is it possible there's stuff out there that we don't necessarily understand like supernatural forces or, you know, extraterrestrials?
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Like I'd say this is a story that certainly opens the possibility. But I also would be perfectly fine to hear that actually turns out here's all the things that happen that makes that completely reasonable. Maybe there was a leak of some kind that like leaked out radiation or who knows what. So I'm open to it. But I think it's one of the few cases that seems like could make a case for paranormal.
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Yeah.
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So one of the things that my wife and I often find ourselves saying is like, wow, the timing on things is just amazing. We're so lucky with timing. And I'll give you a couple examples. So when I was getting medically retired from the military, There was a time where I actually was going to be pushed out, like actually cut from the military.
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So I come home, and I was living in my mom's basement in Quincy. And I remember the first couple of weeks I was home, I actually felt mad at my parents. Like, how dare they make me withdraw from the school, even though there's all this information that it's completely my fault. But I had like an epiphany when I was literally in my mom's basement when I sort of realized like, oh, this is my fault.
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And it was going to be like a year earlier than when I actually did. And so it was like, hey, you're going to get medically retired and it's happening tomorrow. And I didn't have a job lined up. I didn't have anything lined up. And that's actually – when I began reaching out and I met Jordan and it was like really quickly, we came up with this elite meet thing.
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But then after the elite meet thing actually had some legs and we're getting donations in, we're putting these cool events on and I have like this feeble little salary coming in from it plus my retirement. I'm like, okay, I can keep things afloat for a little while until I figure out the next thing.
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Right as that happened, so out of necessity, I found a way to make an income within like a month of needing to have an income. The Navy says, actually, we're going to extend your contract for an extra, I think it was eight months or something. And so suddenly I had the opportunity with Jordan and Elite Meat, but also got eight more months or 10 months, six, I forgot what it was.
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It was less than a year, but it was a lot more time in the Navy, but I really didn't have to do much in the Navy. I was already on the medical discharge way. I had to go to work and like be there like a couple hours a week. It was not hard, but it meant I got paid through the Navy. And so it allowed me really to not worry about pulling money from Elite Meat and pulling a salary.
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I can just grow Elite Meat with Jordan. and get paid by the Navy. It's like the Navy is incubating Elite Meat. But Elite Meat wouldn't have existed if I didn't have that, oh my God, I'm getting out in a month. I have to do something about it. And so it feels like, oh, the timing's so perfect. Like I started Elite Meat with Jordan, and then I was granted this extra time with the Navy.
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It fostered this company. It incubated this company. But no, I've sort of always looked at my life as being like, man, there's just such amazing timing on things. Like, I just feel like we're so blessed with the timing. Like when, like the TikTok thing, like I just so happened to, to like be making this video when suddenly everybody's on TikTok at the beginning of the pandemic.
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Yeah, that's insane timing for sure. And I'm not denying that that's a timing thing. But also, I'm somebody that is perfectly willing to take a chance and do something. I don't get stuck on, is this a good idea or not? It's like, I'm just going to try this thing.
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And it's the people that are sort of willing to quickly check a box and do this thing that will be in a position to where timing can benefit you. If you're constantly like, ah, I'm thinking about it. I'm thinking, things are going to pass you by. And so I forget what the question was, but essentially, The advice I would give is like, really, it's sort of what Jocko said.
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It's this idea of like, you just got to start moving because it's amazing what doors begin to open up for you if you're already on the move. If you're stationary, they don't open.
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You know, it's funny you say that because I literally have sort of a mantra that I've developed that I can't claim is something I came up with, but I definitely find myself living by it now. And that is, it's do things that scare you, you know, quantify that or qualify that. So actually, Will Smith, the actor, has this great thing he does. He goes on Oprah. I think it was Oprah or some talk show.
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Like I have created like a habit pattern and a way of thinking that's put me in my mom's basement with no direction. Like I've been gifted all these opportunities that I've squandered. And something sort of changed in my head where it was like – I don't want to be a screw-up. I don't want to be that. I'm looking at my family members as being so successful, and I just was like, I can't be that.
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And he talks about his experience skydiving. And it's this unbelievable monologue, this impromptu monologue he gives. But he basically is like, you know, my family was like, yeah, or my buddies were like, we're going to go skydiving tomorrow. And it was like, oh, yeah, that would be so crazy. We'll go skydiving tomorrow. But he's like, we're not going to really do that.
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And then it's like the next morning we get up and he's like, yeah, let's go get breakfast, guys. Like, no, no, we're going to go skydiving. Like, let's go skydiving. And he's like, wait, we're really doing that? And they're like, yeah. And he's like, oh, my God, I don't want to go skydiving. I thought we were just like saying it last night.
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And he winds up, you know, going with his buddies to the actual, you know, airfield. And they're like signing the paperwork. And he's like, guys, are we really doing this? I don't want to do this. Come on. It's not so bad. And so before long, he's like in the plane, up in the air, attached to the instructor. And he's like – they open the door up and they're like, all right, it's your turn.
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And he was like, the second I left the plane, the fear was gone.
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And it was just this exhilarating experience of soaring through the air, of skydiving. And he was like, when I landed, he's like, I suddenly understood that there's always been this aspect in my life that I've sort of seen in other ways in my life. But it's... the best things in life, this is Will Smith, not me, the best things in life are on the other side of fear.
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And so what I've taken that as, you know, like becoming a Navy SEAL, for example, when I decided to do it, like there's a huge amount of fear and not so much fear of failure. It's like, it's fear of, like not stacking up. Like when I got there, like I was so intimidated by the people around me.
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But I knew if I could just like not let the fear overwhelm me, that the reward on the back end would be so high, you know? Or even take, you know, I just did a live, we did a live show with 15 shows. I actually am terrified of public speaking. I've had instances in my life where I have frozen up publicly giving a speech and literally had to put the microphone down and leave.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
I've had that experience and I'm volunteering to do a tour with thousands of people. But it's – the way I look at it is like the things that you don't want to do, you'll be indifferent to. The things that you do want to do, you'll typically have a – if it's a big enough thing, the best things in life so to speak, you will have some element of a fear response to it. Now, of course –
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
If you're scared to go down in the basement because you hear an intruder breaking in, listen to yourself, don't go down in the basement. When it comes to like goal setting, kind of going back to that idea of shower thoughts, right? Everybody has something that they just really want to do. And it's not even necessarily motivated by one particular thing. Maybe it's some action they want to take.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
Maybe it's talking to a friend that they've blown off for 10 years or it's public speaking or whatever it is. But they know, even if they don't admit to it, deep down they know fear is the thing keeping them from doing it. It's fear of embarrassment. It's fear of failure. It's a fear of all the things that make us human.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
It's the very select number of people in this life that are still able to say, I'm going to still do that thing that scares the fuck out of me, that have the best and most fulfilling lives. Not always, but they often do. And that's why we look at Will Smith, for example. That dude, very likely, just because I'm referencing him, he's probably had to do things that were so uncomfortable in his life.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
I'm suddenly becoming self-aware that that's the path I'm on. I'm going to be the guy that floundered everything and didn't amount to anything. And so I just made it simple. I was like, I'm just going to go to a local school, get good grades, and graduate from college. That's going to be my focus for now. And I did that. I went to a local school. I got my grades up.
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To be an actor at his level is like, hey, perform in front of everybody right now. And don't screw it up. You know, it's like pressure and performance. It's like that dude has faced fears his whole life. Yeah, he's using skydiving as an example, but his life is very likely a product of a guy who faces fears. But it's the fear knowing that if I do this, there's something big on the other side.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
And so I preach to my children and I try to live this idea of do things that scare you. And literally the live tour that we just did was it. I was having like an existential crisis before we began. But the second I took the stage, it was like, oh, this is great.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
Yeah. I look back at the fact that I was in San Francisco at a dinner where I literally froze and put the mic down and walked off. I looked at that as a catalyst for why I was so scared to do public speaking this time. And it ultimately pushed me to do it. I don't regret San Francisco. I'm glad it happened. but only because I faced it later on. I would be so embarrassed.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
I would harbor like my pain forever if I never tried again. But yeah, it's like you don't regret the failure. You regret not trying.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
Oh, good question. I would say, and this is not even to try to curry, you know, favor with my, you know, former SEAL brethren. But I think that even when I was posting, and this is really just specifically to the people that really disowned me, who still very likely do. You know, my intention when I was posting the SEAL stuff before Mr. Ball and thing happened, it was never like, I'm so great.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
It was more like, I want to do something with my life. And this feels like an opportunity. And I know it's sort of like questionable. But when you're no longer in that insulated space, team room, when you're in the wolf pack, so to speak, it's easy to view the rest of your life as being, oh, I've become a SEAL. I can do anything I want.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
I actually transferred back to the school that I withdrew from to finish out my couple of years in college. but it was like a drug, like having a goal that I was working towards, like doing something that was worth my time and like studying. I was like struggling with school, but I worked so hard.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
But when you're cast out or when you leave and you're by yourself and you've got to figure out your new life, it's really difficult to imagine how you're going to do that without leveraging the biggest thing you've ever done and
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
And so I think that the one definite specific thing is I never made that content because I literally believed I'm the special guy and like everybody better look at me as like Mr. Navy SEAL. I was very aware of the fact that I was a junior SEAL relative to the other people that had served. And like my experience was minimal compared to others.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
So I think that some people think that I actually somehow believe that I'm like I'm a superhero. And I didn't then and I don't now. I'd say now sort of –
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
Mr. Ballin side of things there's like a practical thing which is the as the sort of Mr. Ballin thing has grown to where it is now to where it's like a it's a pretty recognizable thing in in the genre of the strange dark and mysterious um it's been really really challenging for me personally to balance my my life with my wife and my three kids who I adore and sort of like you
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
you know, responsibilities with content. I mean, we have a recording schedule. We have things that I sort of have pledged to do. And as you know, with content creation, there's not really an end. You just sort of keep doing it. I think that by no means am I saying, like, oh, this job is so hard. People better sympathize with me. Hardly. Like, I understand the privilege.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
But at the same time, like I started making content and it was like an outpouring of content constantly. I was making five videos a week sometimes that are like 25 minutes each by myself, like shooting it, editing it, everything. It was like it would take me about 26 hours or so per video over seven days. So it's like I really wasn't sleeping. I became like a raging alcoholic.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
I became like horribly overweight because it was like everything got pushed aside to make videos. And then as I realized that like doing content at that fervorish rate was really taking a toll on my physical health, my mental health, and definitely my relationship with my wife and kids, I began to sort of make an exchange. It was like I'm going to do less content for more time with my family.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
And loads of people got that. It isn't like the masses were like, dude, you're a jerk. But I think what's happened now, and it's sort of a product of success, is we've reached a point, not just me, but we have a team that's pretty sizable. We have an amazing studio. We have publishing division. We have this. We have that.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
We've reached a point where I think people view me as this corporate guy out to get money, when in reality, You were talking before the show, you're like, it's weird people say you're so successful when I don't even know what I'm doing. I'm still very much the guy that randomly made a video that went viral on TikTok.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
I was in the library all the time, like feeling, like getting to feel what it feels like to be working towards a goal and achieving it was like really addictive for me. And so by the time I was like in my last year in college, I actually ironically had no clue what I would do post-college. It was sort of like, Well, the goal was just to graduate college. I don't really have a clue what's next.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
And so one of the harder things for me has been as the audience grows, which I'm happy for, it's like you really have to understand that there are people that...
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
don't like me anymore like have taken an issue with me and it's always this idea that like i'm somehow like this money-grubbing like corporate guy that is only in it to make money when in reality like as you've probably seen with this interview dude my default is i love telling stories i love this genre always have and like i also i kind of like being my own boss to a degree so it's like it checks a lot of boxes for me do you ever worry that you've got your priorities wrong
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
You know, I think that I've actually probably reached a point in my life as a content creator where maybe I haven't come to it exactly the way you've just laid it out. But it's. I'm definitely not currently in this for money. If anything, I'm in it for, I get a lot of enjoyment out of literally telling stories.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
I mentioned to you pre-show that doing the live tour was so much fun because I got to actually interact with these people that show up as numbers on my YouTube videos, but they're real people. And it's like, it was so much fun, like fulfilling for me. I would have, I literally told Nick, my CEO and my manager that
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
And it's the very select number of people in this life say, I'm going to still do that thing that scares the out of me and have the best and most fulfilling life. And so I decided to become a Navy SEAL because it was only a really small percent that make it through the grueling, mentally torturing training And what's the similarities that you noticed between the people that made it? Two words.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
before the tour started like I would have I would have paid to do the tour and now especially I would have paid money to have that experience to put those shows on but yeah like looking ahead it's like I've sort of reached a point which is like I was never really in this for for fame or money or I definitely was in it for like the idea of being successful no doubt I want to be successful and things come with that that are in in the money and fame and all that but like
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
I ultimately just, I'm a guy that just like tries new stuff. I've done lots of new things. I sort of reinvented myself several times over. But I do really well when I just sort of have a new goal. And I thrive in that environment. And like for me, like when the Mr. Ballin thing started, it was not how much money can we make or how successful or how big of a business can we make?
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
It was like, can I make another video that people like? Can I keep doing that? And that became the goal. Can I repeat interest in the videos?
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Yes and no, for sure. Because I think that I'm also capable of saying, and now I'm good. I'm going to go do this completely new thing with my family and ride off into the sunset.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
I do, actually.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
It's about 10. I think we've done the math and we looked at all areas, all platforms, including podcasts. It's probably somewhere around 20 to 25 million.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
Yeah.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
And I thought about briefly becoming a lawyer or something because I was studying philosophy and English because I liked those two subjects and they sort of fit the mold. But I had always sort of had this calling to serve in the military because my – just some friends of mine in high school went off to serve in the military in 2006. Like they went to Iraq and Afghanistan.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
You know, actually, it's funny you bring this up because I've sort of mentioned the live tour a couple times. If I had to be honest about my... deeply internalized, unchecked box from the time I became an adult. Well, from the time I like joined the military, it was, I always just had this interest in giving a big public talk for no other reason than to simply conquer that moment.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
My dad is an incredible speaker. He's done some pretty big talks, and I've seen him speak, and he's so good. And I've always known that I'm a good speaker. I can tell stories. This is something well before Mr. Ballin. But I viewed it as something that was so terrifying that I would never actually do it. I was the guy that had that thought and was like, I'll live with an unchecked box.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
And I would tell myself it's because I don't really have the content to deliver a talk. I have the ability, but no content. And that was my excuse. But then the Mr. Ballin thing sort of takes off. And suddenly, it's like, oh, you have the audience. You have the content. You have all this stuff.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
it is now a decision are you going to do it or not and i over the last couple years have like really mentally tortured myself to work myself up to be like i'm not only going to do the live stuff but i'm going to do a whole tour like it's and i told you before for the show that i wanted limited production value a part of that was because i wanted it to be me with a spotlight on me with a microphone to make it as as intense as it could possibly be because i felt like if i didn't start there
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
I'd be worried I didn't fulfill the thing I've always wanted to do, which is like be the guy with the mic and captivate people. And so I did that. I feel like I genuinely accomplished this thing that I really didn't think I would ever actually do because fear was too much. I wasn't able to get past it.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
But as a result, coming back from that tour, and this is going to sound so, like, egotistical, but it's like we come back from tour and we have the graphic novel we released, New York Times bestselling graphic novel. Like, it's beautiful. I'm so proud of that book. You know, the tour was, like, statistically, financially, whatever you want to call it, huge success.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
You know, the YouTube channel, the podcast, everything's going great. but I suddenly had no more genuinely deep-seated unchecked boxes, I don't. The only thing I have is like, A real desire to be a good dad. There's not a specific way to quantify that.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
But by doing the live thing, which was so in the back of my mind, now that it's been checked, I could do 50 more live tours and it would never be the same as the first one. Like I could right now, there's 70,000 people out there. Go tell a story impromptu. I could do that right now. It wouldn't be stressful as hell, but I'd do it.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
I don't have, and this is again, not meant to be egotistical, I don't have a goal anymore. I have now reached a point where the only other thing that I wanted to do was pitch for the Boston Red Sox. And I think that ship has sailed. That'd be the one thing I'm not able to do. But I don't really have like the big audacious goal. I'm sure I'll find one. I'm looking for one.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
But I've sort of reached a point where like I adore the storytelling aspect of storytelling. I just do. I'm doing it right now. But I also adore my family and my kids. And I want to have a full life there. And by the way, I definitely have a good balance right now. But to your point, can I do this for 30 more years? The answer is no.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
I could do this for a time and I'll put all of my energy into it. And when people hear my fans, when I say like, I genuinely care about what you think, I'm in the comments, I read Reddit, I read painful things on Reddit, I read all this stuff. It's because I genuinely care because this was never about building a business. That's a product of the thing that I love to do.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
It's a product of telling stories and loving to do that. But yeah, I don't have the deep unchecked box. I hope to find one. But right now it's like I feel like I'm just sort of doing stuff and I need to find the thing and I don't have it. I'm so fortunate, so blessed. I love my life. I love that. But I've done the box checking and I don't know what's next.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
But I wanted to do something really hard in the military because I needed like a big goal. And like graduating college was this goal that I had achieved. And I was like, I want to do something hard in the military. And that's when I got turned on to the SEAL teams. And the cool thing about the Navy SEAL teams is virtually anybody can apply to be a SEAL. You have to have the right physical fitness.
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I feel like you do. It keeps you moving, keeps you like thinking about that. It's like purpose and meaning, isn't it?
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
there was that horrible disaster with the little submarine that imploded. Horrible thing. And I was reading about it and like the people that that go on these deep sea excursions are typically like billionaires. It's people that literally have every resource known to man. You can do basically anything you want within reason.
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And it's like they can't figure out what to do now because everything – like to us, if it's like, hey, do you want to go buy a $100 million yacht today? Like we can't do that. Like I can't go buy – maybe you can. I can buy a $100 million yacht. But it's like imagine being – it's very difficult to do this. I'm sure billionaires could tell us.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
If you could buy anything, it's like suddenly everything loses its value, at least the things you can buy. It's only valuable to us because we can't have it. It's like I can get this nice of a car, but I know I can't get a McLaren. But that's what makes this one special because I can't afford this one.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
But it's like the billionaires, it's like, oh, well, all I can do is like adrenaline now because it's money doesn't put up. So it's, I've sort of reached a point, not billionaire status even close, but it's like, It's hard to figure out what I even want to do besides knowing wife and kids is like a really big thing for me.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
It stems literally from nearly dying in Afghanistan, like really cherishing the fact that I have a family. But it's like I also cherish what I have here with Ballin Studios. I just I'm waiting for the next big sort of unchecked box to to appear.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
Yeah, I've really struggled with my mental health. In particular, kind of like from military service was a big part of it.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
when i was medically retired so 2014 i get hurt in afghanistan i really didn't i thought i dealt with it because you have to go see a therapist and stuff post deployments you go you go speak to somebody but i sort of was just sort of playing the game to get through it because i just wanted to deploy again and be a part of the team again um it wasn't until later on that i actually saw i deployed a second time and i went to south america
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
Um, and I remember not giving much thought to the deployment before I got there. I remember thinking like, compared to going to Afghanistan, we're going to South America to like sit in a, in like a nice house, literally in a beautiful part of South America and like train Peruvian military forces. Like it's not a combat deployment.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
This is like you're deploying and you're living there, but you're just sort of like a teacher. That's the gist. And that's, that's an amazing thing to do, but it's definitely not combat. But as a result, I really didn't like mentally prepare myself for what it would be like to be in Peru. And if you don't know this, like Peru is a totally Spanish-speaking country.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
It's very – at least where we were, there was very little English, like very, very little. And so I remember I had to go late to Peru. So my team had gone with a group of us that was deploying there. They went early to Peru and I went like a week later. And it meant that I had to fly into the airport in Peru by myself. And I had to like navigate the airport.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
You have to be a citizen. There's a few things, but basically anybody can try out. but it's only those who survived the training that become SEALs. And it's a really small percentage of people.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
And I speak a little Spanish, like barely conversational. And I didn't take it seriously at all. They gave a Spanish course as I blew it off. And I remember I got to Peru, and it was like, oh, my God. As soon as I landed and I look around, no one speaks English. I'm trying to figure out where to go. Everything's in Spanish. I can't find my ride.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
My ride, by the way, is a local who speaks Spanish, doesn't know what I look like. And my bag got stuck, and they were trying to figure out what was in my bag, but I don't speak their language. It was so stressful. And then I finally get in the vehicle to get brought to our – But to get there, it required driving through like a true like slum, like a very, very unsafe place.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
And I remember thinking like I am in a totally foreign country. I'm so far from my family and I'm going to be here for six months, which is not long by, you know, deployment standards. But that's a long time to be away. Yeah.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
and it was like i didn't put any thought into this i can't believe i'm gonna be here it like i had suddenly i feel like i was in afghanistan again a little bit i struggled so so bad on that deployment with just being sane like i was so miserable there there was like to the point where i was borderline having delusions i was so depressed i can't even describe it i had this recurring dream
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
where I'd be lying on my bed. And it's also, it's always moist in Peru. Like it's, everything's wet. Like no matter what, like your sheets are wet, your clothes are wet. It's like a very humid environment. And I'm like laying in my bed. I don't have a fan. It's like humid in this crappy little room. And outside I just hear the chaos of like the Peruvian streets.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
And it just really was the thing that was like, wait a minute, if I do that, if I go through like this baptism of going through this rigorous training, I'll become a guy that will no longer be viewed as like the screw up in high school who sort of got it together with college. I'll be able to reinvent myself. I'll be able to serve in the military, which is something I felt the calling to do.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
And I would like fall asleep and I'd have this dream that I was in Russia standing on the corner of this like embassy or some federal building. And somebody would come out of a car and like grab me and like hijack me and like take me hostage. But it was like over and over again. I had this dream to the point where I began to believe I was losing my mind. That like, how can I have the same dream?
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
I'd wake up in a panic. I missed my wife so terribly. She was pregnant with our first child. It was awful. It was like the worst time of my life. And it's hard to even now to put it into words. It was just like I had bordering on like a mental collapse. And it was in part because I just didn't appreciate the fact that like you're going to another part of the world where everything is different.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
And I also sort of began to confront, I guess, my demons from the deployment to Afghanistan, there was just some things that I, that we did, that I did, that were not necessarily wrong, or like, illegal at all, but just like, it's war and war is like this horrible thing. And seeing it up close, man, it's, it's just, it's rough, you know, and at the time, you're so conditioned to
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
to not only see war and be okay with it, but to practically revel in it. Because how else do you get young men to keep going to war and keep fighting and dying? You need men and women. But it was like, yeah, it was like I had a breakdown, like a mental sort of questioning, why am I in the military? You know, questioning who I was. And so I ended up getting medically retired.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
And it was not really from Peru at all. It was more like I was so unhappy. I came back from Peru, and I just detested the fact that I was in the military. I didn't feel like it was the place for me. I also was physically injured. I was dealing with the injuries. And I ended up getting medically retired. But it was my choice if I wanted to continue to see a therapist after I got out.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
And at first, I didn't. At first, when I got out, when I got medically retired, I just was like, whatever, I'm done. I'm on my own. But I was so angry all the time. Like, just everything made me mad. I was so like, on edge, not even like jumpy, but just I was just like,
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
so high strung and it got to the point where like nobody wanted to be around me like my kids didn't want to be around me my wife didn't want to be around me and ultimately they were like I think you need to see somebody and I was like you know what I think I do too like I feel like I'm a mess and it was through therapy that I this is like 2018 or so that I realized I had some very deep-seated issues with myself with my service with just stuff I saw and did and
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
And it was only when I began to sort of openly talk about those things that I actually began to sort of forgive myself and begin to feel content. What's the word? Content again. It's not about like therapy is not meant to make you forget stuff. It's to give you perspective that you didn't have. And I think I had fallen into a cycle of just detesting who I was. Why?
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
It's a career that I can kind of progress into. And it's a big freaking challenge that's going to require a whole bunch of training and prep before I get to go. And so I kind of just shifted my goal from graduate college to become a Navy SEAL. And everything fell in line. And then naturally after that, I became a YouTuber, which is an even longer story. But basically, I...
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
I think that it was like ultimately if I were to boil it down to its simplest part, it's like I wanted to be a Navy SEAL in part because I just wanted to go through the training. I wanted to serve in the military, but I didn't really think that hard about that.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
It was mostly like I want to serve because it's an honorable thing and I know people that have done it and that's something that means something to me. But it was really the draw to be a SEAL that was the challenge that I saw. That's the thing. It's going to take years to do it. It's like this really hard thing.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
It was like the idea of even contemplating what life would be like as a SEAL felt like even cart before the horse. It's like, who do you think you are thinking about what it's going to be like to be a SEAL? Like, if you ever get there, you'll figure it out. And this is actually a – I think it's a relatively common phenomenon that the people that become SEALs, it's almost surprising. Yeah.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
Like you become a SEAL and you're like, wait a minute. Like now I'm going to be a Navy SEAL, which sounds goofy, but it's years to get to that point. And all the way up until the end, to a degree, you can not make it. You can like fail out. And so you finally become a SEAL and you realize like the reality of the job.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
And I say this not because I have deep exposure to this, but because it's just true, which is in this job, people die. and you kill people. Like, that's kind of the gist of the job. There's way more to it than that, but it's like, that's the job, guys. Like, why do you think they make video games and movies about it?
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
And I think that there's a mental conditioning to being able to do that job that comes from training. And frankly, it's a remarkable thing that they're able to create this system that creates really capable warfighters because that's how you protect your country. That's how you go out and do what you got to do. But when you come out of that, when you sort of – what's the word?
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
It's almost like when you – it's like you enter this matrix of thinking when you go through training and you become like willing and able to fight wars basically. But when you begin to fracture and you begin to sort of realize that you want to do something else with your life – you have to like kind of come to terms with what you have been doing and the way you've been thinking about it.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
You begin to view who you were as a SEAL as a person you don't, for me only. I was not proud of the person I had become. I had sort of really leaned into being as aggressive and as like, you know, like alpha as I possibly could be, not with my teammates, but just in doing the job that I had sort of drifted down a path that I wasn't very proud of.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
And I think that realizing that this wasn't a fit for me, like being in the SEALs, even though I got medically retired, I think I realized it wasn't a fit for me and I would have gotten out whether or not I was medically retired. It was really difficult to cope with that loss of identity.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
Yeah, but I go to therapy for them. And shout out to Vinny Shorman, who actually, he's based in the UK. He's my therapist. He's awesome. We haven't really delved too deeply into the military stuff. But yeah, I think that it's something that will always be with me. I certainly, when I think about having served, I'm very proud and I'm proud to have
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
I'm a veteran now, and the people I worked with were incredible. Even the people that hate me now. It doesn't mean I think any less of them. They're incredible people in the military. I think that I just sort of... It wasn't a fit for me. I thought the military was, but it was the SEAL thing that drew me in. And in many ways, this is going to sound weird, but I was sort of lucky enough...
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
Yeah, I became a SEAL, and then I got hurt, medically retired, and then I basically posted something online that went viral. And I love telling stories, as you can see from this long intro. And I just kept telling stories, and now I'm here. But it started with setting a goal and achieving it, which sounds so basic. But I think a lot of people go through life just sort of
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
uh to get to deploy to afghanistan and actually have a combat deployment because many people what happens is they go to like a war fighting unit like a special operations unit and then they never see combat and it's not because they made any decision it's just the way it goes and those people it's sort of like they have this unchecked box yeah but it's not their decision and so in a way i was given this gift and it sounds horrible to say it that way but i don't know how else to say it of getting to sort of do the job in real life
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
But there are sort of like, and to anybody who's listening that's done multiple deployments, like, look at this guy. Like, I don't claim to have like, oh, I've done 87 deployments and this is my experience. It's just from like, I had one combat tour, one. But it was enough to show me that like that isn't what I was cut out to do.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
And I think that, but I still did those things and I still was that person. And now as a civilian sort of reconciling that I'm such a different person now in a good way. I've taken all the best qualities I possibly could and I poured them into this person. I'm trying to be a good husband and a good dad. And I'm trying to do all the right things.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
But it's like I have this part of me that it's just crazy to me that I was ever a Navy SEAL. It's crazy.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
that you can't talk yourself out of them. A demon to me is something that If you begin to have those thoughts and you feel them creeping in and you tell yourself, stop thinking about it. I don't want to deal with that. I don't want to think about that.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
If you have those thoughts in your life that even just the slightest beginning of a thought about that thing starts to creep into your head and your reaction to it is not now. I don't want to do this. I can't do this right now. It's all happening in your head. If that's something that you deal with, That's a demon. It's something that is like the uncontrollable thought that comes into your head.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
It usually happens at the same time of the day or same thing that triggers it. And if your reaction to it is, oh, my God, I can't think about this thing, like that is a demon in your life. And you are not going to be able, at least in my opinion, long term, to simply convince yourself that that's not a demon. It is a demon. It doesn't matter if it's rational or not.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
For me, I have several that sort of creep into my life, but the only way I have found to sort of cope with them is to sort of not embrace them because that's not what you do, is to talk about them with someone who it's cathartic to talk about it with a therapist, but it's even more cathartic to almost hear yourself talking about it.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
Like you actually, for me specifically, like I have things that I've said in therapy that I can't believe I'm saying out loud that are so like personal and intimate and so tied to like deep insecurities and pains in my life. But it's only in that environment with like a third party who's neutral in a private setting. that these things just come to the surface and I'm saying these things.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
doing stuff because they were told to or they just sort of fell into it. I found like setting a goal that's really consciously something you care about for whatever reason and working hard to achieve it, it like organizes your whole life. And so my life starting with coming home from college and being in the basement has been a series of set a goal and shoot for that goal.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
And the beautiful thing about having a great therapist is their whole gig is they're listening and interpreting and providing perspective. They're not trying to like tell you, oh, that's not a thing. It's like, well, have you thought about it this way?
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
So, you know, it's funny. My dad and I recently have sort of had a resurgence. He and I sort of had, I guess you could call it a falling out. I was very close with my dad growing up. My parents split when I was 13. And even though I was living with my mom and sisters, my dad was a very active part of my life. It isn't like I didn't see him again. But we had a good relationship, me and my dad.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
And then when I left for the Navy, it came after I had found a way to graduate college. And I was talking about law school a little bit. And I think my dad, he was like, that's great. My son, he turned it around. He's got this career in mind that seems like a really strong idea.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
and i sort of sprung it on him and my mom and my sis my sisters that i'm like actually no when i graduate college i'm going to enlist in the navy and try to be a navy seal i hadn't really talked about it with them at all i mean i'm exaggerating but it was a very quick turnaround and i i didn't want to talk to them about it because i knew they'd say one why will you make it through and two why are you doing this
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
And that's all that matters.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
And so when I began talking about it, like right at the end of my college career, like literally I'm getting ready to enlist, my dad, I think he couldn't quite wrap his mind around the idea that I really was going to do this. For reasons that make sense to me now that didn't at the time, like it's his son. If you're successful, that's not good. You're going to be a Navy SEAL, like going to war.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
If you're not successful and you wash out of training, you're stuck in the Navy in the sense that you don't get to pick another job. You kind of become needs of the Navy and you have to go do like these crappy jobs for like four years. Nobody likes being stuck if they don't have what's called a rate. It's like your job.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
So it's like he's viewing it as both outcomes sort of come with big negatives. But the way it came out to me was he doesn't believe in me. He doesn't believe I can be a Navy SEAL. Like he thinks I'm not going to make it. I'm sure that was not what he intended, but that's the way I interpreted it. And it marked like a departure in our relationship in 2010. I left for boot camp.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
And while he and I absolutely maintained some level of contact, from 2010 until quite literally like a few months ago, I barely spoke to my dad by choice. I had a lot of ill will towards him. I always just sort of felt like... he doesn't believe in me. He also, he got remarried and he has, and he's, you know, he got remarried as a family.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
It just, I, I had a lot of resentment towards him that some was founded. Much of it was not. And it sort of became something that it never was, which is I had it in my head that my dad doesn't believe in me. That really was the thought. And it actually helped propel me to, at times there were, there were days in SEAL training where I would literally think to myself, well,
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
If I don't make it, I can't even fathom what it would be like to face my dad, who in my head at the time, I'm like, he'd be like, told you so. Like the idea of that made my skin crawl, you know?
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
So in many ways, my relationship with my dad had become sort of negative for many years, but it sort of maintained a pretty healthy chip on my shoulder that pushed me to sort of prove him wrong in a sense. But with self-awareness recently, like very recently through therapy with my boy Vinny Shorman and through some sort of the world lining up, he and I sort of reconnected and
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
And we actually had some frank discussions about that. And it turns out that no, my dad just literally was worried about his son and felt like I didn't like him or love him. And we sort of drifted and life happens. I had my life, he had his life. But we've reconnected now and I'm happy for it.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
It's... But then I realized the reality of the job. You kill people. And I had really leaned into being as, like, alpha as I possibly could be, but there were just some things that I did, and I just... I struggled so, so bad. I had to face my demons. What have you learned about dealing with demons? If you begin to have those thoughts, the only way I have found to sort of cope with them is...
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
Sure.
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I can see that.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
I think that taking men specifically as an example... You sort of have like the socially acceptable things that can be demons for you that maybe we don't talk about them. But if you did, no one's really going to bat an eye. Like, it turns out I hate my job. And, you know, it turns out I don't love my partner, okay? These are bad things.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
It's a harsh truth when you realize it's your fault or a big part of it is your fault. But that's what self-awareness is, like taking responsibility for the good and the bad.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
But they're things that if you brought them up, no one's going to question your manhood. They're not going to question, you know, things that society views as really important, right? It's the stuff that is super personal to you that could be potentially embarrassing. Those are the things that are your real demons. I'm not saying those other things aren't demons. They are. They are.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
But if you can't talk about those things, they will dog you your whole life. They really will. And so I think it's not about you need to go sign up for therapy and go talk to a therapist. But I do think that, like you mentioned it yourself, you have to be able to sort of like unburden yourself. And part of that is simply talking about it.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
Like I had one, this is not really a demon, but to give people a sense who are watching this of like how comfortable I am being forward about things that I struggle with. So. Oddly enough, one of the reasons that I was also drawn to the military, believe it or not, was I struggle mightily to urinate in front of other people, just publicly going to the bathroom in front of other people.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
It's not like it's destroying my life, but it's uncomfortable. Like it's easier for me if I'm alone, right? I knew this about myself at a young age. Don't have a reason for it. But I knew when I was in high school or in college, I would go to a bathroom that was private because that was easier for me. And as I got older, I was like, that's not really that normal that this is happening to me.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
And so part of the reason I was interested in the Navy is they drug test you and they do it really publicly. And it was like... In order to deal with this, I have to go into an organization that literally will force me to have to urinate in front of other people.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
But for me, it's sort of like facing these things that are hyper-personal, like inability to pee in front of other people, which I've overcome. But you have to be willing to sort of identify those things. And in my case, I talked to my wife about it before I joined the Navy. And she's like, OK. I talked to my therapist about it recently as well.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
But it's sort of like that's a really specific personal thing that if I brought that up in a casual conversation, I'm sure there are people that could actually relate to it. But most people would be like, that's a little uncomfortable that you brought that up. But like everybody's got stuff that falls into that category.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
I would say that when I was, you know, pre-basement moment, I was definitely in the mindset of playing the victim. And if something bad happened, it was somebody else's fault and not taking responsibility for anything. I was the guy that would come home from school and I'd tell my mom, like, you wouldn't believe that we had a test today. Joey got a 50.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
Maybe not specifically, but everybody's got weird insecurities and they've got things that drive their decisions that would be to them deeply embarrassing to bring up. That is the reason you have to bring them up because they will dog you and they will always be there until you deal with them. And for me, it's been helpful and cathartic to state them out loud and then do something about them.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
Yeah, that's true.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
Yeah. So I would say, obviously, the medium by which you're telling the story matters.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
But if we're talking about literally speaking a story, telling a story, and assuming you have people listening to that story right in front of you, which is a medium by which many of us tell stories, telling our friends, telling our family members, to tell a really good story, it has less to do with the content of the story and more to do with the delivery of that story.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
When I told you the Dyatlov Pass story, I was fully committed to telling you that story. I didn't care if you thought it was interesting or not. I thought it was interesting enough that I was gonna give you my hand gestures. I'm gonna make sure I harp on the details that I find really interesting. But it's like a level of commitment to telling that story Like that's the key.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
It's commit to – like you have to be in the story. And like for example, when I did the live tour, like that's the purest form of – you're either going to be awkward up there and like get through it or you're going to fucking own the story, be in the stories and tell it to those people right there. And they're going to hear what I want to tell them.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
So it's like the delivery, it's not just practice and get your words right. Hardly. Dude, I don't even use a script when I tell stories. I look at the story, I learn the story, I internalize the story, and then I inhabit the story. And when I tell you the story, it should almost feel like I was there. Like that is the level of commitment you need.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
got a 65 but joey got a 50. it's like you're sort of like that's the way you approach it versus like i failed the test um but when i sort of decided i would graduate college and organize my life around that and then become a seal i realized that it's not enough to simply just say i'm gonna do this thing like you need to own like the entire process and like for example in uh in
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
And I would say also like with regards to general storytelling, it really is true that it has less to do with like finessing the language so it's perfect or getting your script exactly right. It's like I would say when it comes to most stories, you need to make sure there's some sort of payoff at the end of the story, which is sort of like storytelling 101.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
But if you look at the way newspapers structure stories, for those who maybe don't read the newspaper or generally, here's how it goes. This thing happened. And now I'm going to tell you the details of what that thing is and how it happened, right? That's not good storytelling. That's great for getting information across, right?
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
But all too often, if you look on like YouTube or if you look at other people who tell like, you know, mysteries, for example, sometimes in their header, it'll be like, you know, crazy, like golden, you know, skeleton found in cave in Russia. And like – actually, that's pretty compelling. Maybe I'd read that. But it's like Suzanne murdered in London.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
And then you click on it to find out what happened. But it's like you don't want your audience to already – in certain cases, you don't necessarily want your audience to know where the story is going. They might have a very strong inclination that Suzanne is going to get killed at the end of the story or there's going to be a golden skeleton found in Russia. Yeah.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
But being a storyteller, your job is to keep people invested and to build tension and to get them like ready for the payoff at the end. Any story can have a twist at the end. It depends on how you tell it. Like it isn't like some stories have payoffs and some don't. Absolutely not. You can use point of view. You can inhabit aspects of the story that give different lenses into the story. But –
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
Own the story when you tell it and ensure that there's some type of payoff at the end, whatever it is. Like when I told you that the outlaw past story, like ultimately the goal is to get you to see that, wow, all these conflicting things, there's pictures of this and that. But the Russian government said an unknown, unnatural force is responsible and then closed the case.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
The whole point of that is to say all these crazy things that are objective, they objectively happen, that we have data, we have pictures, we have all these things. I've demonstrated that to you. And clearly something's wrong and they sealed the case and no one could look into it. The whole point is to make you think, what is going on over there? But if I had said, guess what?
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
There's this case that's sealed and no one will look into it. Here's what happened. It's the same story, but I've opened with the reveal. You got to do it the other way. So pay off at the end and own the storytelling aspect of it.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
would say the story that i'm the most proud of in terms of just how difficult it was to piece it together is the the headless valley and it's actually in our graphic novel as well um it isn't that it's literally the best story but it's a story that is a composite of a whole bunch of anecdotes over about a hundred years there's this i know we don't have time but
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
There's this place in Canada called the Northwest Territories. And so it's a part of Canada that's already very remote, and it's just wilderness and forests. And there's this section called the Northwest Territories, which is even more remote. It's as big as Germany, but Germany has like 50 million residents, and this has like 50,000 people there. So it's like no one lives there.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
And within the Northwest Territories, there's this valley, this like river that cuts through this beautiful valley called the Nahanni Valley, which has been now dubbed the Headless Valley. Because over the course of 100 years, all these people who've gone into this valley have turned up headless. But like in the most bizarre ways, and also you can't really get into this valley.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
It's very difficult to do. You can't fly there. You can't hike there. You have to either take a boat upstream and literally carry a boat up a couple waterfalls and then continue going upstream. Or there is an overland hike, but it's like 70 miles of treacherous terrain. So it's really hard to get there. It's totally remote, and the only other people that ever lived there were the Nahanni tribe.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
in seal training there were a couple moments where like i myself failed miserably catastrophically i like tests and opportunities to to be a leader and i just like squandered it in in a way so the way seal training works is it's very reputational like as you go along uh in training you know it's like the closer you get to graduation the closer you get to being a real seal and so your instructors
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
And they, one day, somebody was actually there on a hunting expedition. They noticed that the Nahanni tribe, which made up like hundreds of people, they were camped out along this river. They disappeared overnight, and literally nobody knows what happened to them. They left behind their... All their equipment, all their housing, it was left. They just vanished. No one knows what happened to them.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
And there's rumors of like white creatures wandering the woods. But I took like seven or eight anecdotes chronologically and pieced them all together and created what, in my opinion, is the most comprehensive narrative of what could be happening in the Headless Valley. And I'm very proud of the way it was written and put together. And it's the first story in the graphic novel as well.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
I would say that what I love about the podcast space that I hope continues is that it is not corporate in the sense that it's totally like anybody can start a podcast. We're seeing so many podcasts, but it's like... Podcasts rise based on the merit of those shows versus like there's not a lot of corporate pushing behind podcasts.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
It's sort of like the corporations show up and take the podcast or try to license podcasts that have already sort of made their place, but they don't have a lot of influence over who or what they do. So it's like it's this great meritocracy of content where the podcasts are growing and succeeding based largely on merit and skill. And they're covering all these topics that are like so far reaching.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
So it's like it just feels sort of authentic. I know there are plenty of corporate podcasts out there too, and there's nothing wrong with that. But I hope that podcasting continues to be this sort of like how in the world are like –
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
the Joe Rogan podcast and like, you know, whatever the random podcast you want to name, like these like titans of industry, but it's like, it's so random, but it's like, it's like this beautiful product of just like human, like authenticity and willingness to talk about stuff. I love it. I think that it's a very authentic place that has not been corporatized yet.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
Nick Witters does.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
Yes, in the graphic novel. It's a New York Times bestseller. It's an anthology of nine stories. It's beautiful. And we intend to continue making more of them. So definitely check out the graphic novel. It makes a great holiday gift. It is absolutely gorgeous. Thank you.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
Those are active duty SEALs, and they're no longer viewing you towards the end of training as being just some like, oh, candidate. Now it's like you could be my teammate. There's not too many of us. And so it changes from you aren't going to make it to you better do a good job because I might need your help down the line.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
And I remember in the final part of training, there's this confidence exercise where they basically expose your class to tear gas, which is something that's pretty standard in the military. And the only thing they say is like this is a – like it's all about mentality here. It's a confidence booster. It's going to suck. It's going to make you want to feel like you're dying from this gas.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
And it's like a long exposure. And they set you up in this square. You're all just standing. You're kneeling shoulder to shoulder, if you will, out in this open field on San Clemente Island in California. And all the instructors have their gas masks on. And they have these pool sticks that you would swap trash out of a pool. But at the end, they have the CS grenade canisters.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
And they're like, all right. They put their masks on. They fire off these CS grenades. This big white smoke comes out. And they hold out the pole. And you get covered in CS gas. And all you have to do. It's not run. Just stay here and take it. That's the whole point. And I ran. It was like a fight or flight instinct completely. It was like before I – and it was instant.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
It wasn't like, oh, this is really bad. What am I going to do? What am I going to do? It was like instantaneously. I ran. I had to get tackled by one of the instructors because I was just out. I wasn't even thinking. It was like – and nobody else ran. This is the end of training. And so afterwards, it's like I was brought into the amphitheater.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
There's this little theater where they would teach us classes about ordinance and whatever. And they were like, Alan, stand up. And all my peers know I did this. All the instructors know I did this. And he just goes, the main instructor, he's like, Alan, you're a fucking pussy. Sit down. He goes, you're a fucking pussy. And I never want to serve with you. And neither should your classmates.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
Sit down. And that was it. And I had to, from that point on, for the rest of training, wear these like, it's almost like a bikini over my shorts. And it was like the worst moment ever because I've made it so far into training. But I knew, and also, by the way, at this point, we weren't even home. I wasn't able to go home and see my wife. We're out at this island for a month.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
You work seven days a week. You are in training until you're done. And the only choice was like, Own the fact that you did that. Don't make excuses for it. Like let this show people my actual strength, which seems funny because I did the thing I'm not supposed to do. But instead of like running from it, literally, own it.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
Take responsibility for what you did and show people that, you know what, I'm prepared to show up for work every day wearing these fucking trunks and be looked at as a lesser than to demonstrate that I'm not.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
Yeah, I mean, I think that there definitely were some people that did carry that sort of like stigma into the teams, because right after we finished this, we kind of went into the SEAL teams.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
But I do think that there was definitely some people that and I'm not even tooting my own horn, I really think this happened, that as a result of that moment knew they could like trust that I was prepared to sort of like, I'm going to take responsibility for me, I'm going to do what I'm supposed to do and be the best team that I can be.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
even at my lowest, you're still going to get the best version of me. And that doesn't mean I think I'm better than anybody else. It just means I'm an adult. And I think that's a big part of being an adult is responsibility is ultimately owning those mistakes. And sometimes your mistakes are painful and public and awful. Yeah. And that's the most important time to own them.
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
And like you said, that's your opportunity in some ways, not just to rectify the mistake, but to become a stronger, better version of yourself. And I think that my mistake in college was a series of mistakes. My first semester of screwing it up and getting sent back home
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MrBallen (Former Navy SEAL): I Wasn't Sleeping, I Became A Raging Alcoholic! I Was Disowned By The SEALS! This Will Turn Your Life Around In 2025!
But it was only when I recognized that it was my fault and I had to own that, that I was able to graduate college and try to become a Navy SEAL. And then in the process, like have the CS grenade happen. But in some ways that made me a better SEAL, you know? So I think that like in failure comes the best opportunity for success, which is something that I certainly didn't coin, but it's the truth.