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Bill Eddy

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Huberman Lab
How to Deal With High Conflict People | Bill Eddy

Yeah, it's fascinating because I started out as a clinical social worker, working with children and families in psychiatric hospitals, outpatient clinics, but I really like conflict resolution. So I went to law school to get a law degree so I could do mediation, other conflict resolution, and I practiced family law.

Huberman Lab
How to Deal With High Conflict People | Bill Eddy

Yeah, it's fascinating because I started out as a clinical social worker, working with children and families in psychiatric hospitals, outpatient clinics, but I really like conflict resolution. So I went to law school to get a law degree so I could do mediation, other conflict resolution, and I practiced family law.

Huberman Lab
How to Deal With High Conflict People | Bill Eddy

Yeah, it's fascinating because I started out as a clinical social worker, working with children and families in psychiatric hospitals, outpatient clinics, but I really like conflict resolution. So I went to law school to get a law degree so I could do mediation, other conflict resolution, and I practiced family law.

Huberman Lab
How to Deal With High Conflict People | Bill Eddy

And when I started in family court, I noticed right away that a lot of the conflicts seem to be driven by people's personalities rather than the legal issue. Because I was also doing mediation in my office. I go to court in the morning, do mediation in the afternoon. Same exact issues. In the morning, people were stuck for two or three years.

Huberman Lab
How to Deal With High Conflict People | Bill Eddy

And when I started in family court, I noticed right away that a lot of the conflicts seem to be driven by people's personalities rather than the legal issue. Because I was also doing mediation in my office. I go to court in the morning, do mediation in the afternoon. Same exact issues. In the morning, people were stuck for two or three years.

Huberman Lab
How to Deal With High Conflict People | Bill Eddy

And when I started in family court, I noticed right away that a lot of the conflicts seem to be driven by people's personalities rather than the legal issue. Because I was also doing mediation in my office. I go to court in the morning, do mediation in the afternoon. Same exact issues. In the morning, people were stuck for two or three years.

Huberman Lab
How to Deal With High Conflict People | Bill Eddy

In the afternoon, two or three mediation sessions, shook hands, went separate ways. So in family court, a lot of people aren't familiar with this, but since the 1980s, there's been the use of the term high-conflict families.

Huberman Lab
How to Deal With High Conflict People | Bill Eddy

In the afternoon, two or three mediation sessions, shook hands, went separate ways. So in family court, a lot of people aren't familiar with this, but since the 1980s, there's been the use of the term high-conflict families.

Huberman Lab
How to Deal With High Conflict People | Bill Eddy

In the afternoon, two or three mediation sessions, shook hands, went separate ways. So in family court, a lot of people aren't familiar with this, but since the 1980s, there's been the use of the term high-conflict families.

Huberman Lab
How to Deal With High Conflict People | Bill Eddy

And family court lawyers, judges, mediators, therapists identified high conflict families as repeatedly coming to court to make decisions, as having a lot of hostility, of just seeming driven in one direction, unable to be flexible, and in many ways, unable to truly have empathy for their kids. So they'd fight over their kids.

Huberman Lab
How to Deal With High Conflict People | Bill Eddy

And family court lawyers, judges, mediators, therapists identified high conflict families as repeatedly coming to court to make decisions, as having a lot of hostility, of just seeming driven in one direction, unable to be flexible, and in many ways, unable to truly have empathy for their kids. So they'd fight over their kids.

Huberman Lab
How to Deal With High Conflict People | Bill Eddy

And family court lawyers, judges, mediators, therapists identified high conflict families as repeatedly coming to court to make decisions, as having a lot of hostility, of just seeming driven in one direction, unable to be flexible, and in many ways, unable to truly have empathy for their kids. So they'd fight over their kids.

Huberman Lab
How to Deal With High Conflict People | Bill Eddy

And so high conflict families was a term, when I became a lawyer in 1993, I was like, wait a minute, these aren't high conflict families. These have maybe one, maybe two people with high conflict personalities or traits of personality disorders, which I knew about since 1980, and working in hospitals and outpatient clinics. Because you're also a clinical psychologist. Clinical social worker.

Huberman Lab
How to Deal With High Conflict People | Bill Eddy

And so high conflict families was a term, when I became a lawyer in 1993, I was like, wait a minute, these aren't high conflict families. These have maybe one, maybe two people with high conflict personalities or traits of personality disorders, which I knew about since 1980, and working in hospitals and outpatient clinics. Because you're also a clinical psychologist. Clinical social worker.

Huberman Lab
How to Deal With High Conflict People | Bill Eddy

And so high conflict families was a term, when I became a lawyer in 1993, I was like, wait a minute, these aren't high conflict families. These have maybe one, maybe two people with high conflict personalities or traits of personality disorders, which I knew about since 1980, and working in hospitals and outpatient clinics. Because you're also a clinical psychologist. Clinical social worker.

Huberman Lab
How to Deal With High Conflict People | Bill Eddy

Clinical social worker. So I got a master's in social work in 1981. Then I got licensed to do therapy on my own. So I'm a licensed clinical social worker in California. I can diagnose disorders. I can do treatment without supervision. I went through that, and that's how I became licensed.

Huberman Lab
How to Deal With High Conflict People | Bill Eddy

Clinical social worker. So I got a master's in social work in 1981. Then I got licensed to do therapy on my own. So I'm a licensed clinical social worker in California. I can diagnose disorders. I can do treatment without supervision. I went through that, and that's how I became licensed.

Huberman Lab
How to Deal With High Conflict People | Bill Eddy

Clinical social worker. So I got a master's in social work in 1981. Then I got licensed to do therapy on my own. So I'm a licensed clinical social worker in California. I can diagnose disorders. I can do treatment without supervision. I went through that, and that's how I became licensed.

Huberman Lab
How to Deal With High Conflict People | Bill Eddy

So when I came into Family Core, I go, this is the same patterns when I was working, say, with people in the psychiatric hospital who had addictions, depression, all these problems. And my job as the hospital social worker was to help them with their outside problems, their family problems. So I did family counseling for the patients.

Huberman Lab
How to Deal With High Conflict People | Bill Eddy

So when I came into Family Core, I go, this is the same patterns when I was working, say, with people in the psychiatric hospital who had addictions, depression, all these problems. And my job as the hospital social worker was to help them with their outside problems, their family problems. So I did family counseling for the patients.

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