Becky Lynch
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The School of Greatness
How To Turn Self-Doubt Into Your Superpower - The Mindset of Champions
It is.
The School of Greatness
How To Turn Self-Doubt Into Your Superpower - The Mindset of Champions
Exactly.
The School of Greatness
How To Turn Self-Doubt Into Your Superpower - The Mindset of Champions
Gosh, I think that's, you know, I think that's the thing is that you don't get confidence by thinking about having confidence. You know, you get confidence by action. And I never had confidence before I started wrestling. And I think that's why...
The School of Greatness
How To Turn Self-Doubt Into Your Superpower - The Mindset of Champions
I was always trying to fit in with the kids that were drinking and that would make me cool and then I'd be smoking and it would take the edge off from the self-consciousness and everything that was going on at home at the time. And then when I was 15, And I just failed PE.
The School of Greatness
How To Turn Self-Doubt Into Your Superpower - The Mindset of Champions
I was getting ready for my junior cert, which is, I'm not sure what the equivalent is over here, but when you're 15, you're doing these exams in school. That at the time, they make it seem like if you fail these, your life is over.
The School of Greatness
How To Turn Self-Doubt Into Your Superpower - The Mindset of Champions
But yeah, all the pressure that they put on you in school.
The School of Greatness
How To Turn Self-Doubt Into Your Superpower - The Mindset of Champions
Yes, exactly.
The School of Greatness
How To Turn Self-Doubt Into Your Superpower - The Mindset of Champions
And that's how, and that's what... what I felt like. And at the time, even though I was a little degenerate and I wasn't doing good in school and I was drinking and I was smoking, I was doing everything that I shouldn't be doing. Like I still had ambition. I still wanted to do something good in my life. I still wanted to be a lawyer or something productive in society.
The School of Greatness
How To Turn Self-Doubt Into Your Superpower - The Mindset of Champions
And I realized on one random Monday when I wanted a beer that at 15 that I needed to turn my life around. I needed to do something different that I couldn't keep going down this pathway of failing PE and just
The School of Greatness
How To Turn Self-Doubt Into Your Superpower - The Mindset of Champions
not applying myself to anything and so I started looking up like different kickboxing things because gyms weren't the thing in Ireland back then there was like two or something you know there was there was there was this big gym but it was too preppy it was too preppy and I was an alternative kid you know the ones with the black lipstick and the dog collars and all that kind of stuff and uh and so I you know going to a gym just seemed too mainstream for me too too Jane Fonda for me
The School of Greatness
How To Turn Self-Doubt Into Your Superpower - The Mindset of Champions
And so then one day I go into the computer room because in 2002 everybody had a computer room and my brother's looking up this website and it was called Hammerlock and it was this wrestling school over in the UK. And I was like, what are you doing there? And he was like, well, I was thinking about training as a wrestler. Instantly I had this jealousy, this feeling of I need to do that.
The School of Greatness
How To Turn Self-Doubt Into Your Superpower - The Mindset of Champions
And I was like, are you going to go over there? And he was like, yeah, yeah, yeah. And I was like, there's no way. There's no way my mom is going to let me go over to the UK to train. I'm 15. I'm also a degenerate. Like she's aware. She's aware that I'm going off the rails.
The School of Greatness
How To Turn Self-Doubt Into Your Superpower - The Mindset of Champions
And then the promoter there wrote back to him to let him know that there was two Irish lads that were going to be opening a school like an hour away from us on the train. And so that's how I found out about it. And he told me that. And I was like, oh, I want to go too. He was like, no, you're not going. You have to be 16. And I was like, I'll lie.
The School of Greatness
How To Turn Self-Doubt Into Your Superpower - The Mindset of Champions
And he was like, no, I don't want to have to look after my little sister. I was like, you won't have to. lying and I went down there and I started and that was it all of a sudden for the first time in my life I wanted to apply myself to something I wanted to get better at something I saw progress in each training session.
The School of Greatness
How To Turn Self-Doubt Into Your Superpower - The Mindset of Champions
And that built confidence because not only was I applying myself and getting better at something and seeing results, but I also now had this community. And I think there was also this feeling of like, I'm different, which, you know, I always felt a little different. You know, I wasn't a cool kid, even though I tried to be. But now I had this confidence in my difference, you know?
The School of Greatness
How To Turn Self-Doubt Into Your Superpower - The Mindset of Champions
And I was the only girl there too. I was the only girl in a group of lads and I was hanging with them or maybe not, but I was there. I felt like I was. And so that gave me confidence that I could do this and I could set myself apart and there was something more to me. And then I just continued on there. I never thought, or not that I never thought,
The School of Greatness
How To Turn Self-Doubt Into Your Superpower - The Mindset of Champions
Maybe I had like this suppressed dream, but I still thought I was going to be a lawyer and do something realistic.
The School of Greatness
How To Turn Self-Doubt Into Your Superpower - The Mindset of Champions
Until I was like 17. And it was the first time I had...
The School of Greatness
How To Turn Self-Doubt Into Your Superpower - The Mindset of Champions
played the heel role the bad guy role and I was teaming with my brother and when you're a heel when you're the bad you can do no wrong because you can just have fun you can taunt the crowds you can be an idiot and that's your job yes there's such freedom in that there's such freedom in that and I came back and I was this is this is this is what I need to do this is what I'm meant to do this is what I'm going to do
The School of Greatness
How To Turn Self-Doubt Into Your Superpower - The Mindset of Champions
At 17. And then by 18, dropped out of college, moved over to Canada, wrestled around Canada, around America, around Japan, around Europe. My visa ran out from Canada. I had to move back in with my mom. And my mom, God bless her, like... She's only ever wanted the best for me. And the best in her eyes was not being a wrestler. Especially back then.
The School of Greatness
How To Turn Self-Doubt Into Your Superpower - The Mindset of Champions
Because what I wanted, what I visualized for myself was... was me being seen on par as The Rock, as Stone Cold Steve Austin, as Mick Foley, as all these lads that I looked up to. But if you watched TV and you watched how the women were booked, there was lots of brown panties matches, there was mud wrestling matches. That wasn't anything I wanted to do.
The School of Greatness
How To Turn Self-Doubt Into Your Superpower - The Mindset of Champions
That was certainly nothing my mother wanted me to do. And so...
The School of Greatness
How To Turn Self-Doubt Into Your Superpower - The Mindset of Champions
Not in the way that I wanted to be. Not in the way that I wanted to be. And so I started looking at the women's promotions in Japan. And then I went over there and I wrestled in Japan. And I got assigned to this advertising agency over there that wanted to promote me as this big-time wrestler. But then when I came home and I had to live with my mom again, she's gone... What's your plan?
The School of Greatness
How To Turn Self-Doubt Into Your Superpower - The Mindset of Champions
What's your plan? What's your plan? What's your plan? What's your plan? Because she always wanted a plan. But with wrestling, and I suppose any artistic endeavor, I genuinely think wrestling is an artistic endeavor. You can't necessarily plan that.
The School of Greatness
How To Turn Self-Doubt Into Your Superpower - The Mindset of Champions
You can have a rough plan, but so much is out of your control. You know, you can work towards what you want. You can't decide when you're going to get on somebody's radar what they're going to be looking for. You know, I think it's the same with, say, for example, an actor. An actor can do the best audition of their life, but they might have brown hair and the person is looking for blonde hair.
The School of Greatness
How To Turn Self-Doubt Into Your Superpower - The Mindset of Champions
And so they see this great audition, but that's not what they were looking for on that day. And so I started to believe that if I looked a certain way, that that would give me, that that was my plan.
The School of Greatness
How To Turn Self-Doubt Into Your Superpower - The Mindset of Champions
That is how I would get there because all these women looked like figure competitors and they were beautiful models and, you know, it was... Just a regular average looking girl with a bit of a pair of biceps on me and decent set of shoulders. But like at the time, you know, there was there was enhancements that were standardly involved in the hiring process.
The School of Greatness
How To Turn Self-Doubt Into Your Superpower - The Mindset of Champions
And I didn't have them, nor did I want to get them.
The School of Greatness
How To Turn Self-Doubt Into Your Superpower - The Mindset of Champions
and uh and and so i thought well if if i have abs and if i'm ripped then if i look in this way then they'll want me and so i kind of compare it to the uh survivor song and on the eye of the tiger and you you change your passion for glory because then my my focus shifted from just how i looked and how that would make if i change how i am to make them want me as opposed to being true to myself.
The School of Greatness
How To Turn Self-Doubt Into Your Superpower - The Mindset of Champions
For who I am.
The School of Greatness
How To Turn Self-Doubt Into Your Superpower - The Mindset of Champions
Well, it didn't last very long because I completely destroyed myself. So I started bodybuilding then. I was like, oh, let me sign up for this bodybuilding competition. And if I can do well in this bodybuilding competition, then they'll see that. just the logic that goes through my head. They'll see that. And then they'll be like, oh yeah, let's sign her.
The School of Greatness
How To Turn Self-Doubt Into Your Superpower - The Mindset of Champions
Like she'll be on a magazine or something and we'll sign her that way.
The School of Greatness
How To Turn Self-Doubt Into Your Superpower - The Mindset of Champions
I was 19 then. And I mean, maybe it would have worked if I committed to it. But anyway, the point was, I didn't know what I was doing. I was with this lad who had never trained a girl before. He was a bodybuilder himself, but he was a giant man. And a giant, giant man and who had done many competitions. And he was training me and my diet, then my diet was all over the place.
The School of Greatness
How To Turn Self-Doubt Into Your Superpower - The Mindset of Champions
And then he put me onto this other guy who gave me this other diet, which then I just became a messiah. And I was trying to wrestle around Japan and all this stuff.
The School of Greatness
How To Turn Self-Doubt Into Your Superpower - The Mindset of Champions
body was just hurting but like I was loving how I looked in the mirror because I had these abs and I was like disciplined and my focus was what I was going to eat and how I was going to train and like I had this then sense of ego like like look at how disciplined I can be I am so much better than everybody because I have this discipline but ultimately I was like dying on the inside because I had no energy hmm
The School of Greatness
How To Turn Self-Doubt Into Your Superpower - The Mindset of Champions
My moods were all over the place. I was like leering at cookbooks of what I was going to eat when this diet finished. And ultimately I ended up not being able to make it past 10 weeks of this diet. There was two more weeks to the competition. I just... The guy who was trying to me suggested a cheat meal, and that was it. Then I just went completely off the rails and couldn't get back on. Wow.
The School of Greatness
How To Turn Self-Doubt Into Your Superpower - The Mindset of Champions
And then that then became an unhealthy relationship with food for years.
The School of Greatness
How To Turn Self-Doubt Into Your Superpower - The Mindset of Champions
Really?
The School of Greatness
How To Turn Self-Doubt Into Your Superpower - The Mindset of Champions
Years and years and years, completely destroyed how I looked at myself and everything like that and how I valued myself.
The School of Greatness
How To Turn Self-Doubt Into Your Superpower - The Mindset of Champions
on how I looked. From somebody who had gone from valuing myself on my substance and what I brought to the table in terms of wrestling and my craft, I was then just now, I was just conforming to what I thought thought they wanted and what society wanted. But by then, then I was like, I don't even know if I want to wrestle anymore. Maybe that dream is over.
The School of Greatness
How To Turn Self-Doubt Into Your Superpower - The Mindset of Champions
It's time to be realistic and get a real job. Then I ended up being a flight attendant.
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How To Turn Self-Doubt Into Your Superpower - The Mindset of Champions
Yeah.
The School of Greatness
How To Turn Self-Doubt Into Your Superpower - The Mindset of Champions
Well, then I was like, well, then I started thinking like, oh, well, maybe I'll be a fitness model because that'll be easy on my body. But I couldn't maintain it because I was so hungry. I just loved eating. I loved eating so much. And so then I became bulimic and all of these things. And it was really just going from being somebody who cared about
The School of Greatness
How To Turn Self-Doubt Into Your Superpower - The Mindset of Champions
About their mind, who thought their mind was powerful to just thinking that I was a set of abs and a pair of arms, you know, and that was where I put my focus. It took a long time to shake that.
The School of Greatness
How To Turn Self-Doubt Into Your Superpower - The Mindset of Champions
35 wow no no no no quite but like um i think it was a process it was a process it was it was a process because i was a flight attendant hated it but was still trying i then did the bodybuilding competition i came third by the way wow out of four okay Four entries. Yeah, it sounded impressive. So I did the Buddy Button competition, was like standing up on stage.
The School of Greatness
How To Turn Self-Doubt Into Your Superpower - The Mindset of Champions
Oh my goodness, I'm so glad they just, everybody didn't have an iPhone back then. But I did that and I was just like, why am I standing?
The School of Greatness
How To Turn Self-Doubt Into Your Superpower - The Mindset of Champions
in my underwear showing people my muscles like this this isn't this doesn't feel like me you know because for some people for some bodybuilders it's such an artistic thing they are sculpting their body they are they love it they love the discipline of it but for me it was it was some sort of a means to an end some sort of way for me to be validated by society or something that that
The School of Greatness
How To Turn Self-Doubt Into Your Superpower - The Mindset of Champions
And it just didn't feel authentic and true to me. It just felt like I was, yeah, I was just trying to be something that I wasn't. It was just consumed by my body will be my vessel too. But if it looks a certain way, then I'll be successful and whatever. And then I started to realize that part of wrestling that I loved, it wasn't just the training, it was the performance. I loved the performance.
The School of Greatness
How To Turn Self-Doubt Into Your Superpower - The Mindset of Champions
The crowd, I loved... The creativity. I love the storytelling. And I think throughout my whole life, I found that storytelling is what draws me more than anything. Like in school, I was terrible at every subject except English and history because it was just stories. Like it was it was hearing stories and learning about these stories. And I rocked at those subjects, terrible at everything else.
The School of Greatness
How To Turn Self-Doubt Into Your Superpower - The Mindset of Champions
And so then I went back to school to study acting.
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How To Turn Self-Doubt Into Your Superpower - The Mindset of Champions
This is in Dublin.
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How To Turn Self-Doubt Into Your Superpower - The Mindset of Champions
Yeah, I'm kind of all over the place. But like at 22, I went back to college, studied acting in Dublin and then did a year in Chicago. And that felt like, okay, now I'm back. Now I'm back a little bit. And then it seemed more like I was part of a creative endeavor. Really?
The School of Greatness
How To Turn Self-Doubt Into Your Superpower - The Mindset of Champions
Yeah, yeah, yeah. Because Dusty Rhodes was the promo teacher at the time, and Dusty loved his broken toys, the ones that were rough around the edges, but he saw that had some soul or something about them.
The School of Greatness
How To Turn Self-Doubt Into Your Superpower - The Mindset of Champions
just just a little something just a spark and he he tried to bring that out and so i didn't know i didn't know who i wanted to be i did there everybody was like find a character find a character right character so i try out all these stupid characters none of them worked no and of course none of them were they were all awful but like they were but but it was it was the trying it was the yeah yeah it was the being able to put yourself out there and
The School of Greatness
How To Turn Self-Doubt Into Your Superpower - The Mindset of Champions
throw shit at the wall and see what sticks. Nothing stuck. But I tried and I kept trying and I think he valued the creativity more than the outcome. Because if somebody came in, they were the total package. I can point to, there's a wrestler called LA Knight at the time who
The School of Greatness
How To Turn Self-Doubt Into Your Superpower - The Mindset of Champions
right now is making big waves in wrestling but at the time he was down there we started on the same day and he had everything he had it just down he had it down you know so Dusty was smooth he was great yeah Dusty was like yeah you're great but he had no more work to do because he already had his act down whereas somebody like me was completely lost completely screwed had and I think I think there was a combination of Dusty and William Regal
The School of Greatness
How To Turn Self-Doubt Into Your Superpower - The Mindset of Champions
That saved my job many, many times because they saw that there was something, something there in this Irish girl that had not a clue. That had not a clue. Because I didn't look like any of these other girls that were like stunners. I wasn't great in the ring. But there was something when I talked that...
The School of Greatness
How To Turn Self-Doubt Into Your Superpower - The Mindset of Champions
That was unique, yeah.
The School of Greatness
How To Turn Self-Doubt Into Your Superpower - The Mindset of Champions
So it was like five days a week, and then we would do three shows. So you'd do Monday. Tuesday you would do a school session, which is you'd watch matches. But then there'd be extra training.
The School of Greatness
How To Turn Self-Doubt Into Your Superpower - The Mindset of Champions
In hindsight.
The School of Greatness
How To Turn Self-Doubt Into Your Superpower - The Mindset of Champions
But during it was... But I remember that. That was one of the things that Triple H would always say, you know, because he was head of developmental and he was always, enjoy this, enjoy this.
The School of Greatness
How To Turn Self-Doubt Into Your Superpower - The Mindset of Champions
There's never going to be... And there was times when I would feel like I was in a Rocky movie and, you know, like I'd get that like... And you could enjoy it, but the other part of it was not sleeping because you were always scared that you were going to be on the chopping block.
The School of Greatness
How To Turn Self-Doubt Into Your Superpower - The Mindset of Champions
Yeah, yeah. There was... We called it Black Friday. And you'd come in, you'd get pulled into the office and that was it. Your dream would be over. And, you know, I had several friends that got caught and it was devastating. And my friend Joe, the reason that I got signed in the first place, who I lived with, he got caught. And so that was a whole new world to navigate.
The School of Greatness
How To Turn Self-Doubt Into Your Superpower - The Mindset of Champions
But so once the fear of not being caught...
The School of Greatness
How To Turn Self-Doubt Into Your Superpower - The Mindset of Champions
So I think it was shortly after that, shortly after the breakdown, shortly after the breakdown of, okay, wait, I'm not a bad person.
The School of Greatness
How To Turn Self-Doubt Into Your Superpower - The Mindset of Champions
And then I remember coming into promo class, not doing a character, but just cutting an angry promo of, of, of, I am sick of the, I put in all of this work, I have done this, I have done that, I have done this, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, and, and, and, and, This is why I deserve a shot. This is why I need to be on TV. And I remember cutting that promo.
The School of Greatness
How To Turn Self-Doubt Into Your Superpower - The Mindset of Champions
And then like people like seeing a bit more of an edge and it wasn't just a hi. Yeah, please don't fire me. Hi, hi, hi, hi. I'm so happy to be here. Like there was there was this there was now this weird confidence in this. I wasn't so meek anymore. Like I had a chip on my shoulder and I was ready to fight. And then things started to happen there. And like, then I got on TV.
The School of Greatness
How To Turn Self-Doubt Into Your Superpower - The Mindset of Champions
One of the worst debuts of all time.
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How To Turn Self-Doubt Into Your Superpower - The Mindset of Champions
Really?
The School of Greatness
How To Turn Self-Doubt Into Your Superpower - The Mindset of Champions
Oh my God, terrible. I came out there doing this stupid Irish jig and I can't, I can't Irish jig, but like.
The School of Greatness
How To Turn Self-Doubt Into Your Superpower - The Mindset of Champions
Yeah, yeah, yeah. Yeah, yeah, tried, tried.
The School of Greatness
How To Turn Self-Doubt Into Your Superpower - The Mindset of Champions
I tried to do the Irish dance, like as as hammed up as possible, like shameless, just shameless. But like at the time there was this girl, Emma, she was doing this wacky dance and it was like, OK, well, like wackiness is getting people on TV. There was there was just wacky characters left, right and center because that was the thing about the developmental system down there.
The School of Greatness
How To Turn Self-Doubt Into Your Superpower - The Mindset of Champions
You got the chance to be wacky and you got the chance to try things and fail. And so I failed epically. Publicly. On TV. On TV. That lives on forever. That will never be erased from history. But hey, if you can come back from that, you can come back from anything. And so the greatest part of it was like, I didn't even realize how awful it was until like a few nights later.
The School of Greatness
How To Turn Self-Doubt Into Your Superpower - The Mindset of Champions
And like, I remember seeing Triple H and being like, what did you think? As if he was like, oh yeah, that was amazing.
The School of Greatness
How To Turn Self-Doubt Into Your Superpower - The Mindset of Champions
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. But the audience loved me. They were still, they were real positive to me. I think, come on, like I was a little idiot. Yeah. I suppose you couldn't really boo me. Like, God bless her. You know, what did she think? What was she thinking? Look at this fool. But yeah, and then I tried various different things.
The School of Greatness
How To Turn Self-Doubt Into Your Superpower - The Mindset of Champions
But I remember after that and then just having this different perspective and this gratitude that I was able to
The School of Greatness
How To Turn Self-Doubt Into Your Superpower - The Mindset of Champions
pay my bills and the food in my fridge was bought by the money that i'd made from wrestling and the roof over my head was paid for by the money that i'd made from wrestling and i was driving a car with the money that i'd made from wrestling and like i were just driving with just tears of gratitude that i could afford these things with the money that i'd made from wrestling because it it
The School of Greatness
How To Turn Self-Doubt Into Your Superpower - The Mindset of Champions
I've never felt like money that I've made from wrestling is real money. It just doesn't feel like real money because I'm not working.
The School of Greatness
How To Turn Self-Doubt Into Your Superpower - The Mindset of Champions
I'm having fun. I love what I do. I love what I do. I love it. I love it. And sometimes... And sometimes it's hard and sometimes there's so many opinions and there's, you know, like our wrestling fans, they're so vocal and they're so great. But, you know, you take the good with the bad. So sometimes you're getting lots of negative opinions on what you're doing or you're getting...
The School of Greatness
How To Turn Self-Doubt Into Your Superpower - The Mindset of Champions
And so where you or you think creative should be this way or you should be booked that way. And so you can get bogged down in those things when it comes to the creative process. And I'm putting together a match or I am thinking about a promo.
The School of Greatness
How To Turn Self-Doubt Into Your Superpower - The Mindset of Champions
i don't think there's anything bar like playing with my child that makes me feel more alive like i just i love it so much and i love just like something coming to me and building from that you know just these little seeds of ideas like what if we try this you know what if we try this maybe this will work and maybe it'll be awful but that's the greatest thing about wrestling is that
The School of Greatness
How To Turn Self-Doubt Into Your Superpower - The Mindset of Champions
you because we do it 52 weeks a year because we're on the road constantly you get to try and fail so often but you get to try and succeed so often too and you never know which way it's going to go but if you keep trying you know sometimes you hit gold Sometimes you don't. Sometimes you think something's gold and other people don't. But that's art, right?
The School of Greatness
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Like you do the art for what you want to do. And then whatever the audience takes out of it is up to them.
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How To Turn Self-Doubt Into Your Superpower - The Mindset of Champions
Yeah.
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How To Turn Self-Doubt Into Your Superpower - The Mindset of Champions
Oh, he's a huge wrestling fan.
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How To Turn Self-Doubt Into Your Superpower - The Mindset of Champions
Yeah, yeah. And his book is... It's amazing.
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How To Turn Self-Doubt Into Your Superpower - The Mindset of Champions
read it, listened to it.
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Yeah. And I love because I just like sometimes I just like, OK, what do I need right now?
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And then, of course, it's exactly what you need in that moment. I love it. And but it is it is that. But the other thing about wrestling, which is so different from any other artistic endeavor, like writing a book, You can take your time. If you're writing a script or whatever, maybe like a movie or a song, if you have an album.
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But say if you're writing a song, you can just take your time to do that. We ain't got time. This show is going to go live on TV at 8 p.m. And if at 7 p.m. you don't have something, you better find something because we're going to go live.
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Yeah, because now it's different. But it used to be back in the day, the show would be getting rewritten while the show was going on live in front of people. So you would have like an idea of what you're going to say. And then somebody comes up. No, no, no, no, no. You have to say this. Find a way to put this in. And so you're OK going out the curtain and changing things.
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And sometimes, and that's happened like several times, but it's really exciting.
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Yeah, because it's chaos.
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How To Turn Self-Doubt Into Your Superpower - The Mindset of Champions
And it's chaos. And so whatever comes out is great.
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How To Turn Self-Doubt Into Your Superpower - The Mindset of Champions
Because you can't, it's just organic.
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How To Turn Self-Doubt Into Your Superpower - The Mindset of Champions
Yes. I love it. It's so exciting. Because you don't know what's going to happen. But something's going to happen. There's been so many times when I've had like...
The School of Greatness
How To Turn Self-Doubt Into Your Superpower - The Mindset of Champions
we're putting together a match but we haven't had the time and so like you're going out and you think that you have something but you're not sure and you're not sure if everybody else is on the same page but you go out there and something happens like something's gonna happen because something has to happen based on what happens they might rewrite the next thing and the next thing and it just keeps evolving huh yeah
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Because you never go out there and nothing happens. Right. Because that can't happen. Because that would be weird. People aren't just going to stand in the rain and wait to be told what to do.
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How To Turn Self-Doubt Into Your Superpower - The Mindset of Champions
And we're just going to go because that's what has to happen. So it's such a...
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How To Turn Self-Doubt Into Your Superpower - The Mindset of Champions
It's such an exciting, addictive business.
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It's the best.
The School of Greatness
How To Turn Self-Doubt Into Your Superpower - The Mindset of Champions
Gosh, I suppose there's several. Recently, I had a match with Trish Stratus. It was a cage match. And it just felt like, yeah, I'm so present. Everything that needs to happen is happening. And that was back in September. So that's like there's like these big matches that stand out because, you know, it'll often happen on live events and different things.
The School of Greatness
How To Turn Self-Doubt Into Your Superpower - The Mindset of Champions
But there's big moments, these big events built around it. And then a match that I had with Bianca Belair, WrestleMania 38, one of my favorite matches was. One of my favorite stories leading up to it. And I was the bad guy and I loved it. I loved it. I was having so much fun. And she was she's a great athlete and this great baby face and she can do everything.
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And I was getting to because I'd robbed the title from her, essentially, like I'd underhandedly beat her. Yeah. And I was going to be able to give her back. her championship, she would beat me for it. I wasn't handing it over, she would beat me for it. But it was that, you know, her redemption story. And that was, that was so fun to be part of.
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And then there was another match that I had in 2018 with Charlotte Flair as the last woman standing. And that one stands out because I remember it being the first match where I felt confident in it, in the moment. I can do no wrong.
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How To Turn Self-Doubt Into Your Superpower - The Mindset of Champions
To believe in yourself. My dad said something and it's from the Bible, but he misquoted it. And it's a quote that I use in this book too. And he misquoted it, but I like his version better. And it's, if you bring forth what is within you, what you bring forth will complete you. If you do not bring forth what is within you, what you bring forth will destroy you. Wow. And I love that. I love that.
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How To Turn Self-Doubt Into Your Superpower - The Mindset of Champions
It's essentially being authentic to whatever it is inside. And the other one, the third one, I will use the most polite language that I can. Just be nice to people. Be good to one another, you know? I think that's what we need in this world more than anything. And if you want an outlet for people not being good to each other, watch wrestling.
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How To Turn Self-Doubt Into Your Superpower - The Mindset of Champions
Watch wrestling where they're not being nice to each other. But it's agreed upon.
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How To Turn Self-Doubt Into Your Superpower - The Mindset of Champions
It's contained and it's controlled. Because I think more than ever... Especially in a world where negativity is a hot commodity, where the algorithm loves it. It is more important where we thought that we left the bullies in the schoolyard, but we don't. They're online every day. They're constantly telling you. They're constantly chirping in their opinions.
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I think we need more than ever just to be good to one another.